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RomanceRe: UK Based Nigerian Lady Gushes About Her Man After Marriage Proposal. Photos by InvaluableGem: 11:15am On Nov 30, 2017
Toks2008:
Nah their way..but if one party is a citizen and the other party is not,they will say its marriage scam.

I have observed one trend in U.K and that is the single mum trend and i begin to wonder what is responsible for that...my answer...the ladies are very unrealistic because they spend their lives looking for a faithful man upandan even the single ones with children.

Rather than for them to look for a man that will remain with them as their companion,,they start complaining about a man being unfaithful to them and i begin to wonder why ladies refuse to get it...Any woman looking for a faithful man to marry should just forget marriage..YES you just read that. They marry their own,they still break up,they marry foreigners they still beak up..Funny
There are still some morally upright men dear. Not all are as shallow as you. It is shallow mentality like yours that make most marriages crash.

It's a different thing that a man fell into temptation but going about with such entitlement mentality will make you a marital failure. The word is called cheating and you feel proud to be a cheat and still expect your unfortunate wife to be grateful to have a cheat as her husband. Such efontery.
PoliticsRe: Amina Bala Shagari, Bilyamin Mohammed Bello's Divorced Wife Mourns His Death by InvaluableGem: 12:37pm On Nov 24, 2017
OldBeer:
Nonsense talk.
Don't remain faithful to your wife o!
Flirt around and look for a mumu woman to fight for you.g
Shebi you be gold.
My dear the matter just weak me. This type of ideology is the reason men feel entitled to flirt. I should fight for a grown man? Is he a baby? If she had died in the process, if he had infected her while she fought or the other lady stabbed her, she would have been called a fool for love. Some would have called her insecured for fighting.

If the sexes were changed, no one would have blamed the man, rather the woman would have been called a flirt who deserved death.

No morally bankrupt lover, male or female is worth fighting for.
FashionRe: Ladies, Consider Yourself A Fashion Disaster If You Dress Like This To Work by InvaluableGem: 1:12pm On Nov 16, 2017
Gwan2:
As a lady especially in this part of the world, if you can't dress properly, I wonder what you can.. Because that is the only weapon most girls use as bait to get guys here.
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Engage her in an intelligent discussion, ask her something like, Is she aware Robert Mugabe has been ousted?.......You will end up defining Robert Mugabe's gender, country, religion, race and position to her. grin
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Engage her in a romantic discussion.......Na Gbese
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Engage her in a discussion about her own body anatomy.... You will end up convincing her that her ovaries is not located around the neck but rather below her abdominal region. undecided
You only use a bait that will work effectively on your prey. Most guys these days equally have very low value system so they are only getting what they deserve. Engage them in a field they nothing of, the next thing they resort to insults just to hide their ignorance.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by InvaluableGem: 7:04pm On Nov 15, 2017
ConcernedNL:
He is still young.

I had a female bestie till i met my girlfriend, who has become my bestie.

Thats how it should be, if he doesnt change it could be he is just passing time, his eyes are still on "bestie" or he is just a young lad.

Either way, try to be closer to him, dont nag. if its not working out, break up with him, every normal dude who wants to marry you will seek to make your relationship so close you woulf=d easily call each other best friends....

give him maybe 2 months to change, if he doesnt, suddenly break up and move on to better things.
Thumbs up for you sir.

Simple English, the word 'best' describes her position among his friends including you. You are his friend and she's also his friend and he calls her best. Abeg what are you? Better friend or good friend? grin
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by InvaluableGem: 7:01pm On Nov 15, 2017
ibietela2:
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Thumbs up for you sir.

Simple English, the word 'best' describes her position among his friends including you. You are his friend and she's also his friend and he calls her best. Abeg what are you? Better friend or good friend? grin
CrimeRe: Woman Attacks Her 8-Year-Old Maid, Injures Her With Hot Knife (Graphic Photos) by InvaluableGem: 1:25pm On Nov 15, 2017
Offpoint:
may same faith befall your offsprings.
Cursing her offspring isn't necessary. You never can tell if someday your offspring will unite with her offspring in marriage and raise offsprings together. Moreover, they are innocent of her deeds.

Imagine if your paternal grandfather had cursed your maternal grandfather's offsprings before your parents met?
CrimeRe: Woman Attacks Her 8-Year-Old Maid, Injures Her With Hot Knife (Graphic Photos) by InvaluableGem: 1:16pm On Nov 15, 2017
BumbleBee2ice:
The face of that innocent girl really broke my heart cry

She's just too young to be going tru such inhumane treatment cry
So true dear. I guess her face moved me more than the marks. She looks so sweet and harmless. Doesn't even look stubborn and a human could do this to a relative.
CrimeRe: Woman Attacks Her 8-Year-Old Maid, Injures Her With Hot Knife (Graphic Photos) by InvaluableGem: 11:53am On Nov 15, 2017
Queenlovely:
2002 a boy serving my elder brother started building a house in the village. When my brother Found out, he did exactly what this woman did. He wanted him to confess where he Got the money. There is a reason for this
I SUPPORT THE ACCUSED
You saw the face of that innocent child and you could still type this? Comparing her to an adult thief? Even an adult shouldn't be subjected to this.

Let's just assume you intentionally typed this to cause a distraction and gain attention just like NwaAmaike.
CrimeRe: Woman Attacks Her 8-Year-Old Maid, Injures Her With Hot Knife (Graphic Photos) by InvaluableGem: 11:46am On Nov 15, 2017
DONFASZY:
I repeat again and again
Don't giv ur child dat took 9month to com to earth to any1 as housemaid?no matter ur situation
Some came in less than 7 months. Guess we can send those ones. huh
RomanceRe: “ Limit The Dick Intakes. Pity Your Future Husband. " - Nigerian Lady Writes by InvaluableGem: 8:22pm On Oct 31, 2017
Organs:
Excellent point. This NL is just like a Typical Nigerian Village Square. What amazes me the most is the amount of stupidity and idiocy you see on display and you wonder how these people actually function in real life. This lady "Safiaa" laid out clear arguments that penetration does not necessarily enlarge the size of the vagina. Now, you have idiots all over the place talking based on "what they think" or how they think, with no clear proof, then some other set of idiots just insulting and pointing finger without making any point, then another category attacking her person and making absolutely no sense. Whats shameful is that guys are the main culprit. With the stupidity i saw on display on this thread alone, i guarantee you, idiots like FFK and Fayose can actually win elections in Nigeria, and another round of MMM will most definitely thrive in Nigeria.
Whenever an empty man wants to flaw a lady's points, the only thing he can think and remember is to call her a prostitute. To such, I pay no attention. With the caliber of some men I see here, I only weep for their wives and future wives.
RomanceRe: “ Limit The Dick Intakes. Pity Your Future Husband. " - Nigerian Lady Writes by InvaluableGem: 8:19pm On Oct 31, 2017
[quote author=Organs post=61952437]Excellent point. This NL is just like a Typical Nigerian Village Square. What amazes me the most is the amount of stupidity and idiocy you see on display and you wonder how these people actually function in real life. This lady "Safiaa" laid out clear arguments that penetration does not necessarily enlarge the size of the vagina. Now, you have idiots all over the place talking based on "what they think" or how they think, with no clear proof, then some other set of idiots just insulting and pointing finger without making any point, then another category attacking her person and making absolutely no sense. Whats shameful is that guys are the main culprit. With the stupidity i saw on display on this thread alone, i guarantee you, idiots like FFK and Fayose can actually win elections in Nigeria, and another round of MMM will most definitely thrive in Nigeria.

Whenever an empty man wants to flaw a lady's points, the only thing he can think and remember is to call her a prostitute. To such, I pay no attention. With the caliber of some men I see here, I only weep for their wives and future wives.
RomanceRe: “ Limit The Dick Intakes. Pity Your Future Husband. " - Nigerian Lady Writes by InvaluableGem: 7:13pm On Oct 31, 2017
Chukabiz1961:
She is right. It is not the size or number of men but bacterial that makes the vagina watery that makes it so free. Treatment of the infection will dry up the fluid and it becomes normal. Not promoting oloshoism as said by someone.
God bless you. When I first had my first child, I was worried, thinking I'd become so wide, some friends even went for CS to avoid wideness all because of this myth we all grew up with. Today from experience I give my account and some dude is up there claiming it's false. One has even denied me chance of repentance. grin

Some are calling Safiaa unprintable names because she dared to defer. I wonder why people can't state their viws without insults.
RomanceRe: “ Limit The Dick Intakes. Pity Your Future Husband. " - Nigerian Lady Writes by InvaluableGem: 6:27pm On Oct 31, 2017
Student125:
Madam it is simple, your elastic limit is high, even baby get size u know.
Baby get size? Never had small babies. One of them weighed 4.0 at birth. I believe it's individual differences. One lady may be wide or tight irrespective of sexual activities just like some men can be big or small.
RomanceRe: “ Limit The Dick Intakes. Pity Your Future Husband. " - Nigerian Lady Writes by InvaluableGem: 6:15pm On Oct 31, 2017
QueenBeeHive:
taking in different sizes of dicks would expand your vagina.
You are the one that needs to expand your knowledge.
I don't know if taking different sizes of dicks expands it but if after several children I still feel as tight as I felt before the first child then I would disagree with you. You can't compare a baby's head to a dick and even childbirth hadn't left me any wider. Sometimes my husband even has to use lubricants.
Christianity EtcRe: "Pastor Poured Liquid In My Private Part"; Woman Injured After Deliverance. PICS by InvaluableGem: 4:33pm On Oct 07, 2017
mcmurphy132:
Christian of this days is just a joke
Dear, the fact that you see Pastor doesn't mean he's a Christian. You would also call a prophet in Grail message or church of Mormon a Christian?
No Christian uses those items mentioned above both for personal use or on anyone.

Boko Haram infiltrating the Nigerian Army does not mean the Nigerian Army is a joke and not to be trusted.

Likewise a criminal wearing military camouflage is not automatically a soldier.
PoliticsRe: Zahra Buhari Complains About The Clinic In Aso Rock That Is In Bad State by InvaluableGem: 11:28pm On Sep 29, 2017
nairanaira12:
Why did you call her that? Where is the sense and wisdom in that your comment?
When a frustrated man wants to pull down a lady, the only thing that comes to his head is to call her a harlot. Imagine calling a married woman who has never been reported to have misbehaved a harlot.
PoliticsRe: Zahra Buhari Complains About The Clinic In Aso Rock That Is In Bad State by InvaluableGem: 11:22pm On Sep 29, 2017
junketer:
wetin you dey talk sef? If its like that then the president shouldn't be blamed or praised for anything. Who do those directors you mentioned work for? If i hire you to build a stadium for me and pay you but when i come to see how things are going and i find out that you are doing a bad job, i will hold you responsible, not the bricklayer or crane operator. Buhari was voted by nigerians to do a job for us. If the job is not being done by people buhari appointed, nigerians will hold buhari responsible because he appointed those people. Abeggggiii
Imagine the blame game. So we should leave the one that was voted for and blame another man he appointed. Why was GEJ blamed then? When it comes to Buhari this people just shift the goal post. Different interpretation for the same law.
CrimeRe: Ngozi Juliet Olejeme Wanted By EFCC (Photo) by InvaluableGem: 6:44pm On Sep 20, 2017
Zico5:
I remember that woman in 2010. She was a notorious igbo woman that allocated more than 80% Nstif job to her kinsmen igbo. I laughed when I saw some ipods talking about marginalisation. They should ask their kinsmen what happened during Gej era. She recruited anything recruitable just because she was the chair board of directors. God will surely punish her.
Whenever a bad news comes up you lot tag the whole South South as Igbos but if it's a good news, you automatically know the difference.
Christianity EtcRe: Churches With The Highest Number Of Universities In The World by InvaluableGem: 6:55am On Aug 28, 2017
[quote author=zionmade1 post=59889149]shut up ur mouth there!!! An unbeliever will criticize a church and Christianity and u join him simply because u want to advertise OPM or whatever. u re a Christian there and an insult to Christianity should be an insult to u,they must not call ur church. are we in a competition or is the body of Christ divided?
Go and find out how many scholarships Winners chapel dish out every year, how many homeless children BLW take off the streets each year, How many scholarships RCCG award each year, Is it because they don't care to be announcing on Facebook and TV like ur OPM

Get some wisdom, I don't criticize any church but find a better to advertise ur church. RUBBISH [/quote

Some times I imagine how some people reason. They leave out the government that owes them everything and attack the church that owes them nothing. You never hold the government to account for the taxes you must pay but you attack the church for your ten naira offering and tithes you never pay.

Obasanjo and Atiku are past political leaders and both have universities, how free are they? Yet people rarely criticise them.
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EducationRe: Knowledge That Might Save Your Life One Day by InvaluableGem: 12:41am On Aug 27, 2017
CosmeticChemist:
Read this last week.. you copied it from Quora.
If he had read and kept it to himself like you did, most of us may never know these things.
EducationRe: Knowledge That Might Save Your Life One Day by InvaluableGem: 12:33am On Aug 27, 2017
julietm123:
So you will deny Christianity and Christ to keep your life. Abeg it's not worth it. May we not see even is my prayer. So it's now to go and cram Koran to keep our life.smh.
My dear, the matter tire me o. Imagine chanting the Akbar finish and unable to chant the next one asked and you're gunned down, what will you tell God? It's not worth it my people. May we not see evil but in that situation, if I perish I perish.
RomanceRe: Man Posing As Female Prostitute In Abuja Taken Home By Married Man With 4 Wives by InvaluableGem: 4:52pm On Jul 25, 2017
Blonchilli:
I smell lies
There can be a million story to that pic. Cross dresser, gay, some guy fooling around. So he found out it was a guy and didn't call his neighbours? The Nigeria I know people would gather and that cross dresser will be sitting on the floor
You are wise sir. Is this young guy the man with four wives? Why would a married man with four wives want to take a snapshot with a prostitute and expose himself?
RomanceRe: Man Posing As Female Prostitute In Abuja Taken Home By Married Man With 4 Wives by InvaluableGem: 4:47pm On Jul 25, 2017
Blonchilli:
I smell lies
There can be a million story to that pic. Cross dresser, gay, some guy fooling around. So he found out it was a guy and didn't call his neighbours? The Nigeria I know people would gather and that cross dresser will be sitting on the floor
PhonesRe: Why Pattern Locks Are Not Secure On Android And The Best Alternatives by InvaluableGem: 3:34pm On Jul 13, 2017
Simplep:
Lol,dis is funny,,Nigeri thieves no get tym for all this one na,,na to grap d phone run,flash am dat same day,,,no time for picture taking...please give us other reasons
I was thinking he would mention something like a hacker viewing one's pattern on one's screen.
To me patterns aren't safe because one can easily view it when the phone is on sleep mode.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Kills Girlfriend's 5-year-old Son, For Misplacing His Trainers by InvaluableGem: 1:47am On Jul 08, 2017
eflintsone:
hw u no go talk say na lie , if to say na yoruba or hausa man do am now una go don full this page will all sorts of yeye talk .... na una sabi spoil dis country name outside ...nonsense
And how you take know sey na true?
To me, it sounds more like a lie.
Anybody can concoct a drug trafficking case and give the fictional accused person an ibo name, a Yoruba name for a ritual murder, hausa name for child sexual abuse etc because that's what people would easily believe and it works a lot of time.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Kills Girlfriend's 5-year-old Son, For Misplacing His Trainers by InvaluableGem: 1:35am On Jul 08, 2017
TheCabal:
This tory na lie.
Very thoughtful of you my dear.
It's amazing how people believe every story they read in this blogging era when bloggers just cook up stories that appeal to people's sentiments to get traffic. They capitalise on people's shallow reasoning to sell false news.
RomanceRe: What If Your Boyfriend Says This To You, What Would You Do? by InvaluableGem: 3:58pm On Apr 07, 2016
MzLarem:
'The only difference btw you nd sum1 sleeping with a prostitute is dat u don't park @ d corner of d street to hire one'..Dat will be my reply nd I'll call it quit with his ass..God 4bid I cry over such guy cos he's nt worth crying over..Life goes on!!!
No dear, the only difference is that he doesn't pay after service because he's broke.
TV/MoviesRe: Zee World Movies And Soaps Official Fan Page by InvaluableGem: 10:28pm On Mar 17, 2016
Forwetinnah:
Haha!! So it is safe to say someone is being "Bani/Pronita" when they're being silly/dumb Or am I just having a "Bani/Pronita" moment? I think I have to take this Indian trip to Krishna very seriously..slyowokoya, where are the flowers and coconuts? Seriously though, I can't wait for the promise to end...i dont care if ZeeWorld uses that 1hour to play "What the fark!! What the..what the fark, what the fark!!" (that's one wack song by the way but I don't mind)
Very safe my dear. What other moment would have been more proper to disgrace her enemy if not then. Several times she misused the opportunity to expose Meera to the family, like when Ganga & Krishna were released from jail but she was just playing hide & seek game with a woman who almost wrecked her life.
Bollywood crew really think we are as Pronita as they are. Bani people they are really.
TV/MoviesRe: Zee World Movies And Soaps Official Fan Page by InvaluableGem: 4:22pm On Mar 16, 2016
carolsbrave:
plz Bani can be so annoying don't even mention her name don't Wnt to get angry /irritated Namaste
There should be a simile known as "as dumb/stupid as Bani/Pronita. You've always longed to win your daughter's love and save her from some one who wants her life destroyed only for you to foolishly shield the person?
I endured all their rubbish suspense last week anticipating a grand disgrace for Meera only for Pronita to make it uneventful.
EducationRe: Ebola: School Owners, FG On Collision Course by InvaluableGem: 11:45am On Aug 30, 2014
[quote author=Theflint1]Jonathan is as clueless a he-goat as usual, If universities where students move from state to state are left open, tell me what stewpid rationale Jonathan has for shutting down secondary schools....GEJ till 2019.
University students sure know how to protect themselves to an extent but imagine a toddler in creech who still uses diapers & a minder is made to clean him up or a pre- nursery pupil who cleans his nose with his hands & goes on playing with other children.
There's no point comparing schools to market & places of worship, because parents have greater control of their children in the later.
Imagine them claiming the directive is senseless & they believe subjecting every parent, student or guest to a test before entering the school premises sound sensible? My dear, one thing you must know is that every pressure group looks out for it's own first. They do not care for these pupils' education as much as they care for their pockets. When my sister's daughter was down with mumbs, she was made to suspend school to avoid infecting others, so why can't they postpone their resumption date?
Btw, a reasonable & rationale person who isn't daft nor clueless would state his argument without throwing jabs at people how much more his president. It is for the want of cogent reasons to tender that some folks resort to insults with the intention of humiliating their opponent.
TV/MoviesRe: Nigerian Commercial Adverts Of 80's And 90's by InvaluableGem: 6:58pm On Aug 11, 2014
jnrbayano: Singing *The best for quality banking*

Who remembers that Ecobank advert?
I do. The circle bank. I just thought of it before seeing your comment.
TravelRe: Nigeria Suspends Gambian National Airline Over Ebola Virus by InvaluableGem: 5:34pm On Aug 11, 2014
jemby: Seriously the government and it's agencies are not doing badly Watching and trying to curb the spread of the virus, I hope the virus can kill all corrupt leaders alone and give the youth a chance.all these old men has failed us.God protect every Nigerian from this deadly virus
Every Nigerian includes the corrupt leaders you just asked the virus to kill.

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