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@oba234, am from the village, a village where everything works fine. Where I feel safe and secure. I don't know what bit you but I sure know you will regain your senses when you submit to your mans authority. Cool down and let nature take its course.

@wahala, thanks for minding me, women wear trousers because they love to rub shoulders with men. Women love to open their hair because they will want to question why men can't cover their hair as well. One babe even joked to me that it is men that wrote the bible, and that's why they made those rules, amazing!

@Oba, the rich also cry. Some of those rich countries are living in the glory of overbloated debt burdens. Don't assume they are happier than me cause you never know. Women groups cause so much problems that alcoholism is on the increase in those developed countries, drugs, etc. Let's not talk of men choosing to go gay because they don't like women to mess their lives up. The problems of the world can be linked to feminism.

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In those countrries you mentioned, what's the divorce rate like? What's the % of divorce in married couples. It doesn't suffice to provide some data, watch the whole picture.

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You are not married and you know the going rates for divorce? You are a disaster waiting to happen. Who knows the poor man that will walk into the trap. Poor man!

Report him to Efcc sharp-sharp.

Record the noise and post it please.

My guess is the a person like Theblessed is so ugly in real life that she found no man to taste her 'kini' for free! But that's no reason to hate men, afterall no be we create you. Don't feel frustrated baby, maybe you will make enough money one day to buy male companionships, then you will tremble and respect men after a super tingling experience with a real stud. Roll of the vibrator for once!

^^^lwkmd

Where will an uneducated woman go in the first place, she will be there with the kids. An uneducated woman does not have an office.

@sissy,
Not nearly as sick as watching toddlers crying their eyez out because of lack of motherly love. Or arrogant bookheads shouting their husbands down, not because they are right but because they think "you cannot talk to me that way, do you know who I am?" "In my office, men like you bow down to worship me!"

Very very sick!

And when I look around, the successful families are those the wife are less visible, but more in control of all domestic operations, while the men launch out the attack and conquer, bring it back and support all domestic expenses with the fruits of his labour. The men from supportive homes sleep better, laugh more and have a sharper positive attitude. They will have strenght in their field and will always remember their peaceful homes before thinking of evil. This is how its supposed to be.

But what do we have now? Bored women who jump out of their house, leaving the kids to the whims of the domestic servants at a higher moral cost, to engage in activities that will enrich their own pockets. And they say they are more fulfilled, when their kids drink cow milk (sometimes goat sef) as the woman is sweating in one office. For what? What type of money can replace a mother's love?

Wise women stoop to conquer, they cede the lead roles to the man and stay back and control the home, and control it 'WELL'. The kids will be better for it.

For all the people that thinks you must work just because you want to make enough money to rub shoulders with your husbands, good luck. For all the men that will submit to their wife, good luck. And for all those who cannot come down from the fence, good luck. I will be in control of my family, and my wife/kids will enjoy my leadership, they will be wishing to have me as a father/husband in their next life.

@ndipe, go back and read the post I was replying before you fly out on a limb, women getting high education is a blessing to the family/kids, but if it will mean getting swollen headed and insisting on being equals or the head (to match her educational qualifications) that is rubbish. In a marriage, peace is more important than degrees, money, titles.

Endure, forgive and be watchful, find out why he does it and see if you could stop it happeneing again. Go for tests with him and continue, if it happens again, let your heart lead you.

Sorry to say this, its the rude women who always talk about equality that end up having broken homes. The idea is strange (especially in this part of the world) the society will frown at it and the man will feel the pressure to move on. Now who feels the heat, not the woman but the helpless kids caught in the crossfire! Wondering why they got here. Such women always end up well, but the kids will have a skewed view about what life and marriage is all about.

If I happen to marry a woman who believes (later on) that I have no business being the leader, I will tactfully submit, and allow her lead. One thing though, I must sit at home and watch home movies while she sweats it out. Who no like better thing? I will love my woman to shower me with goodies while I laze about the house, drinking hennessy.

No, never.

@chy-baby, herein lies the contradiction, how can a woman with very high degrees and too much knowledge respect anyone, talk less of his husband that she sees his 'kini' every night? The high pursuit of knowledge by women is a problem on its own, in the end the kids suffer, the society gets more misfits growing up and yet things are not better than they were when our grannies lived.

No gender is inherently superior to the other when we are in any other field, but when marriage is the question, men should not be seen to be superior, but should get all neccesary support from the woman in his effort to lead his family. Any other arrangement will produce friction which can derail the union.

So listen youngster, always allow the men to rule and God will be happy with you.

Grrreat! So ill make $5 million this month!

^^^wear an ear muff to bed.

105 yrs actually.

Are you shying away from responsibilities?

@Oyinkansow, good points, good quotes but is it possible that women can perform the rigours of childbearing and still have enough energy left to till the soil, where do the men come in then? Equality in marrieges is a dream that will never work, the men should lead, and lead well. Be strong for the family and sustain them with all he has. For me, I cannot bear to see a woman I love to the extent of calling her my wife to soil her pretty hands working. What kind of money can she bring for me, who will stay around and galvanize the home front while I bring in the goodies?

Nature made it so, the book of Genesis repeated the same points, women should just submit to men for peace to reign, any other thing is against the whole laws. Women now work, not because some men cannot provide for their families but because they are now insatiable. Some will even want the men to sit at home and babysit! There will be peace in this world when women revert to their nature ascribed roles.

Try ethanol spirit (concentrated)

How did Zik fumble on your mum's

^^^ you are getting more confused, why not visit Benin city and see things for yourself.

@chelseabmw, tell your friend to drink malareich, it cures acute malaria. And to think you believe it because your friend saw it is, laughable.