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My guess is that this bad guy may be finding it difficult to impregnate a girl and is trying to load the first out of the four.

1 He takes them to his parents.
2 He gets furious when you take postinor.

A boy is supposed to learn how to cook but should not be mandated to cook especially when girls are around. But keep the boy busy with more tasking work in the house; fetching water if there is no tap in the house, mowing the lawns, washing the car, minor repairs of any equipment and even laundry.

A boy who knows how to cook and cannot make money for his family is a major flop. A girl that makes high grades and cannot cook will make a bad housewife.

What about those women that open a secret bank account and save like 10-15% of all the money you give them. This will be without your knowledge, is it stealing?

Too much egusi soup can make you hate food. A little ewedu, okra, edikakong and ofe owerre is recommended.

They are afraid because the woman will be too big-headed to pound my yam in the backyard.

Soon, you will not be too BUSY in your BODYbag.

What! You said he came too quick? You no dey tire?

I am a lady, my husband must be based where I am. We must live together o.

@ Behind bobo, you get sense sha, wish you a very happy marriage.

@busy-body, me no be Yoruba Yoruba person, just trying to understand why you two woke up without your brains.

The reasons may help to determine if you need it and how/where you get it.

Am a straight guy and don't mince words, will look my mum in the eye and tell her, you're about to get a rival!

@seyibrown, lol at the man who comes back every two years to impregnate her wifey, and his asz is broke at abroad. Can't this man come back here and push wheel barrow to stay near his family. Chei!

But seriously, men should shoulder their manly responsibilities and allow women to play their natural roles.

Why would you need a househelp?

Kilo shele?

@seyibrown, I know the man has a lot of blame in that story (he is a shame to manhood, no woman can ever feed me, NEVER) but the most blame should go to the woman who left her family and relocated to Abuja. As chaicover said, she should have brought them to Abuja when things improved. Plenty can happen when women go looking for contracts in our corrupt Nigeria, if you won't sleep with the big old fool who signs the papers, nothing for you.

She broke that home herself all because of money. Ladies should choose what they want, if you don't like marriage or you have a problem with submission, why not opt for single parenthood. Saves everyone the agony of moving around in circles.

See grammer!
Why can't our young ones write well. This composition will fail any student in an examination, I can't understand the story.

Never allow a yam to be near a goat. Except you bought it for the goat to eat. The girl might be the one coaxing the boy to 'chop'. They feel the itch too.

One woman I know, got tired of following her husband and decided to lead. She packed her load and left Lag to Abj. Got big contracts and was sending huge sums to the husband and her 3 kids. The husband continued to play the role of a housewife for two years, then he discreetly married another girl, brought her into the house. The woman was shocked when she learnt of the developement and came back and took her kids. Left the man and the marriage went kaput. This is a true life story.

Like I said before, a good woman will always command the respect of his husband. She will be remembered at every moment wherever you are. She will be like a perfume, following you wherever you go. You as a man will strive to please her, to reduce her burdens, make her life easier and help her achieve her dreams. She will become a friend, a companion and a trusted confidant. She reminds you of happiness and you just do your stuff, knowing you will come back to an organised home to rest your bones.

The commanding wife will plan evil for the husband, trying to hurt him, weaken him and slow his progress.

And don't even bring Africa into this argument, we are okay the way we were before colonialism. We didn't have gay marriages here, there was no terrorism, no AIDS, no prostitution, no drugs, no porn, no robberies and we lived in our own version of peace and prosperity.

Telling me Africa is backward because we can't allow the women to ride our dicks is simply preposterous. All this madness started with the coming of white invaders, their women asked for equal rights and our own women copied the anomaly. Why am I even wasting my time, the divorce trends here are inching up, and more broken homes will happen. Let's see how you can claim alimonies here with the tortoise paced legal system. Let's see how you can claim half of the mans wealth when the police don't know their left from their right.

You people are derailing, the original poster left the bible out in the original question, the age gap and employment/wealth status was not asked for. The fight for equality is ruining marriages where some unfortunate men fall into the temptation of marrying troublemakers who most of the time have a long history of abusive relationships right from their families. These women then prepare themselves and swear to wreck the life of any poor man that have the misfortune to marry them. They won't try feminism at the courtship days, or for the first few years.

As soon as the man shows any signs of pocket distress, the woman pounces, becoming a tiger overnight. Enrolling in any men hating club around and forming an opposition party to the husband. She will employ the kids to turn the mans life upside down.

Sometimes I wonder why marriage should even continue, why would women allow themselves to be married when they know they have alterior motives, why not consider single motherhood, why not form and live in a female colony, why not save a poor man the misery of breaking his home with some putrid idea about feminism.

My bad habits, yes.

The movie is very interesting, good script.

@Sophy09, Amen.

A home where the woman plays the role of the man, its the society that suffers. The kids will have too much time on their hands to do as they like. Growing into little monsters you can't talk to, else he slash your throat like its done in movies. The women make money and come back to use the money to bribe their ways into university for their kids to enrol and become cultists and rapists. The females sleep more in hotel rooms than school hostels. And yes, we end up with half baked graduates who will come to the forum and insist on equal rights for women.

Why won't they, when their mum didn't respect their dad? By the time we allow our women to turn our lives upside down in the name of working.(A woman I know works long hours almost daily, even sundays, while the kids wander around) all this for money, we don suffer abeg!

@Theblessed, don't worry, just pray to get a man like me. 30 days dry fasting and your prayer will be answered. And you will enjoy being loved like my baby.

@seyibrown, if you see my woman, your 'kini' will never love any other woman. I got it all, brains and beauty. Lolllz, my dad says I inherited the gene from my ancestors, the gift of right selection, lol.

Foolish people, instead of staying on the points he raised you are here casting aspertions to his person. Were you not here when he ruled and you kept mute like donkeys, only to call him names now he is saying the obvious truth. By the time these senators are done looting us, you guys will become annoyed in the next 10 years.

Since you know the problem with Nigerian men, just avoid them in your life, just waka pass. You need hellllllppppp really, to change your thinking.

A good example of leading from the rear happened to me yesterday. I bounced down the stairs ready to go out and my woman took a long look at me and giggled. She told me "you are a clash of colours, why not drop the hat and put on a black shoe" I refused and left the door, outside, I looked at myself again and went back inside and did as she said.

Note that she didn't scold me or block my movement to prove she was right, but I still did exactly what she wanted. Some women here will first fight you and then starve you of food/sex just to prove their point that you should listen to them or else,

"Nwoke obula nwanyi n' afulu oja n' ogbo egwu, ukwu ka oji awula be ndi mmuo"

I wonder how cursed Africa will be when in addition to their bad leaders, women take over families and quarrel over everything with men. The impact will be worse than Hiroshima.