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Chelsea is better than Man U, you cant push the Chelses players around like these guys did to Man u. We stand tall always. Against Chelsea, Barca couldnt find their rythm.

MOTM - Puyol, any arguments? He is the captain fantastic.

Man U were shit tonight, next world best player is Messi, CR 7 got a yellow and committed bad tempered fouls.

Brash, if Chelsea doesnt have future, football doesnt have future either, go blues!

How did Arsene buy Silvesre? Maybe e dey shag im sister. The player na dropout from the Manchester United school of rejects!

Nigerian graduates are graduates of economic ruin, internal turmoil, unplanned environment and insecurity. They always come out very hardened and ready to adapt to the toughest challenges in life. I salute their courage.

How can it be the law, sometimes illegal acts works, like her refusing to allow the man see his son.

You have the right to feel that way, as long as you dont hurt anybody.

How do you feel if you are with the opposite sex?

If you are strong enough to carry her weight if she leaves the guy, then pull her out and if you are not ready to hold her, then run as you will just make two new enemies-she and her boyfriend, and he knows you.

Playing pranks

From the south eastern part of the north western part of the country!

Some could do it but not me, I need the quietness to make my home worth living in. Her mum will have other arrangements and if she dont like that, let her file for divorce.

The girl seems to be the problem since she moved without the guys consent and never reported to the police of any violence on her before moving. The guy kept his cool in all these as he left the girl to stay even after the dissolution of the trad marriage.

Now the movement to the white guy shows that the babe is gone for good, she should be good enough to end the marriage and pursue her live ambition, let the guy remarry and import another immigrant.

What does the fifth say, non disclosure?

Because men are ready for bold babes now.

Emotional case, very problematic situation as guy wants to show the ex that he is loaded enough, beware for she may want to borrow your 'services' one day, and you will still want to show her you are still capable like before.

White people are welcome here, feel free pls.

You will never know the type of choice you made until sh*t happenz.

Thats easy, 4,500 naira can finish the early morning mass wedding anytime.

How can things go as they should when you dey chop from madam sweat? She may be the type that will remind you after every meal of how unfortunate you are.

Arrangee marriage could be sweet, look at it as blind dates, lots of mystery and hidden links attached.

Just go to the airport, ask her, are you my new wife? And she will nod her head with that charming first smile, and you take her home and try to learn so much about her. Your wont expect much from her and your expectation wont be too tall. Thats why is will work, she will always try to measure up to your needs, to please your parents and make it work.

Nothing spoil, men are supposed to relax and enjoy women labour sometimes. Hey! This is scary seriously, the man fit dey wash floor, toilet, run little errands and even become the 'executive' houseboy.

Nothing that good negotiation wont solve.

Crackles, shoemaking is another noble profession and if they come together and find something to talk about, good and fine. Your could work as shoe shine boy, you never know.

Good point, which do you prefare?

Bishop Shanahan hospital, Nsukka, near the great University of Nigeria main campus Nsukka, (Prof Nebo insists thats why am so book-wise?) Lol.

Traditional marriage is the only one we knew and practised over the ages, it is still the most cogent type, most guys will prefare to do both, which is an avenue to waste money. If its down to choice, I will go with trad marriage.

It will be abnormal to do white wedding and leave trad wedding in Nigeria. Your folks will never see you as married, their consent wasnt sought. They cannot go with you to the church until trad side is fulfilled.

Can you pay the bride price of your wife in the church or registry? We just adopted the white mans culture because it seemed 'hip' at the time, and trust Nigerians and our copy copy life, it later became an issue that if you want to skip church marriage, people will think you are poor. So everybody bought the lie, even when it was not written in the bible that white wedding is compulsury. Some girls still insist if you wont do white wedding, then cancel the marriage. We should love our tradition (especially the good aspects of it) if you choose to add white wedding, it should be your choice, not compulsury.

Thanks Joan for your replies and directions. They are so useful, bookshops is an area I have plenty of interest (being an avid reader myself) I believe it will not be difficult for me.

I will check out the software and keep you posted. Thanks once again.

All in all the support continues,

Chelsea! Chelsea!! Chelsea!!!