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Dad would stand me up and leave me to gain my balance while am still groggy with sleep. But looking back, I like the experience, any light noise now and am up like bullet.

Your brother should be locked up for betraying the second woman. Abi which style the first wife dey use for bed wey the second one cannot do?

Crackles, really?

Okay, I will sit down, let others contribute.

The proffesion they chose! Just for the money to give to the wifey to cook real dishes at home.

Topsy, please we are not making nasty comments, someone married to sit idle for 13 days without income beats me hollow, where is your manly pride?

Get out there and break firewood, push trucks, ride okada, pound fufu in hotels or just any work to put food on the table, shove you certs into the bottom drawers till you can good vacancies in accountancy. Get down, get dirty but make sure you are not jobless.

Are'nt women better cooks than men? The law of comparative advantage supports my views, men should make money, women should spend it at home.

Must the man mess up? Supposing the man stays loyal and supports her housewife status till the end? Must she work, I mean, some men cant bear the though of knowing his wife is answering 'sir' to another man all in the name of working.

She agreed to be the house wife but stopped doing her duties after some time. Just find out the reason.

Women should do feminine duties and men, masculine duties. The kitchen should be out of bounds to the males, let them fetch water and carry anything heavy, while the girls cook and wash.

When dads get strict the kids complain, when he is carefree and the neighborhood complains for the bad children produced.

Cant your husband 'charter one wheel barrow' and push and practice his accountancy? He must be lazy to sit on his fanny for 13 months.

The woman is tired and the husband should try to find out an alternative. They could get one cook and let the wife rest. The fact that she has been cooking the soups before is commendable.

Its not good to slap the child in the face. Gentle nudge will do fine.

12 yrs gap is not much, marry her if she will agree.

Egenti, why they think you are telling lies is because your short story didnt follow the natural cause of happenings.

Except you are very daft from the beginning, and your babe knows about your level of inteligence, she cant come back begging after having the child for another man.

Switch, pleeeeeese, predict another doom so we can win Barca!

Mothers should have little say in who he marries, except the son asks the mother to choose. At least this will make the guy own up and not throw around blames if anything goes wrong.

Thats incest in my books.

There is nothing wrong with helping out your wife, only that the wife should not nag for it or expect that the man is duty bound to help out in the home. If only they ask nicely, why not?

Its because of the insistence by some women outside that some men will decide even before getting married to avoid the kitchen, in other not to be called woman wrapper. Peace.

@ AGABA, thanks for pointing it out for her. Your points are clear. Everything will be shared one day.

God has created this world and made everything simple, we just like to complicate matters allin the name of developement, we wait and see.

N-gauge, good point. And also to dicriminate against those that have been beaten up, lost in elections, lost their kids, and even lost their virginity.

Most babes I heard were raped dont even look it. They still march around in their work or play. You cant pick out one girl from one group and say, maybe because of her composure, she has been raped? Some things are impossible to detect on the outside. If I want to marry and meet some charming babe that looks too happy with herself, of course my first question to her will not be, have you ever been raped?

I can go ahead and roll with her, and we could end in the altre, her past is her past and that is why I support Debosky's position. But if I am privy to the fact that one girl was raped, and she knows I know, it might put her on the defensive about me. And it will be risky fo me to marry her. I will not marry her because she may even take any slight change in my character to be apathy towards her_ because she was raped.

Jack tweed says he hates victims of rape and will ostacize them, well I dont hate them and dont blame them. They were overpowered by stronger persons. Its the rapist's fault. Girls that find themself in such situation should take heart. March through it and dont blame yourself.

Tweed, you were too blunt and such words were so raw. How can you say that to someone hurting. I will not marry the rape victim if I know about it, for the stigma. If you dont then there isnt any probs. Marry her and there will be peace. I know many big people in the society that were raped, my friend married one and they are living happily. Its not about the rape, its the way you make them look, like criminals. It wont surprise me if you are one serial rapist yourself. You sound like one.

Dont let me start on you this slowpoke tweeter! Calling someone hypocite when you are worse than an animal. You are the lowest of the lows, lacks feeling and should be cast into oblivion. What am against is hating rape victims, its not their fault most times. Your type will marry someone gangraped by forteen men and you wont even know. She will lie and you will accept it.

@jack tweeter, must you be so insane? I am not saying I will marry them, but your tone is so ugly. You were so insensitive and you were blaming them. I will not marry someone confimed to have HIV, but I will still talk, work, and play with them. Rape victims are humans, live with that.

I said if I know about it, if I dont then there isnt any difference between her and all others. Like I said before stats say that one out of three girls has been forcefully had against their will. That is high and most guys will still marry them. When love don scatter your head, you go remember rape or not?

@ 190, if Obama was aborted, would you get to clap for him now. Abortion can destroy her womb or her life.

If I know the girl has been raped, I may not marry her, but I will never make them feel bad. It may not be her fault, and she should not be ostracized just because of that. Another person will find her attractive in another location and marry them, even ashewo dey become new chasis when she change location.