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It's only natural to feel some level of panic or anxiety, I consider myself a very confident person but even I would have ruffled feathers if I were in your shoes... It's just one of those things. There is a difference between being anxious and showing that you're anxious..... The more you try to quell your anxiety the more you may end up showing it, so as others have rightly said, just be calm.... Have this mindset of "What's the worst that could happen"....You should also consider the fact that she's also feeling as anxious if not more anxious than you are... So just be calm.... If it would make you feel better after seeing her and exchanging pleasantries, you could go like "You don't know how anxious I feel meeting you". It wouldn't make you any less a man or less attractive to her, instead it would calm both your nerves.

-Dress neatly and modestly, no overkill
-Wear a mild cologne, nothing too strong
-Lick some mints before you get there, the mints shouldn't be in your mouth while you're talking.
-Try not to order any type of food that would involve too much hand or mouth movement
-Do not try to overly impress her, remember she is also trying to be worthy of your attraction,it's not a one way street.
-Come back by 8pm and tell us how it went.

DonaldGenes:
Wouldn't mind buying one bottle of beer for that comment

You just kilt (nailed) it!

I only drink "Zeewish" (Juice)

naijaboiy:
Personal opinion conflicts other personal opinions...

That's what you have

The point being?


My personal opinion conflicts with your own personal opinion... It doesn't still change my own personal opinion, neither do I expect it to change yours

emusmith:
Your opinion is cool. Thanks. We are two different peeps...

Of course we are

naijaboiy:
1. I feel you should chill out.
Because this place is a forum and everyone has the right as a member to create insightful threads.

2. If most of his threads are centred on women,,i see nothing bad in it so long as they are not created to denigrate or bash the female folks. Except of course such threads attack your conscience (if you're a woman)

3. Not everybody is on this forum to attract the opposite sex. Some are just here to be more informed and also educate others and I think that is the op's aim.

4. I'm not attacking you i'm just trying to let you know that there are some of us who really appreciate the threads Mr.Emusmith creates. He's one of the people who brings a difference out of the many stereotyped threads flooding the romance section board.

Cheers!

Like I said it's just my personal opinion.

I don't expect it to resonate with everybody, if it did, then it wouldn't be my personal opinion anymore.

Cheers to you too.

Most of your threads are nice but really I think you should know when to chill.... You know, step it down a notch a little.

It's starting to seem as if everything about you is centred on women and for a man it's not really an attractive trait.

Quite frankly, I'm not hating on you... I respect the time and effort you use to "conjure" all your threads... But if you don't create a thread in a week, I believe your phone would not mysteriously evaporate.

JustMyCandidOpinion

My first kiss was awemazing!!!


I wish I didn't/don't have to wait so long for the next one

elantraceey:
refer me to google?

Would you have wanted me to refer you to another search engine?

Bing?
Ask.com?

elantraceey:
must you do that

Do what

elantraceey:
you don hear am o , veli veli soon

Ka si ma wo

(Go and ask google translate)

elantraceey:
very very soon :,P

Taaaaaar

Iffa hear

tomiobj:
S.e.u.n.o.s.e.w.a- he just came
He offended uus
Hee picked beans
Our soap
............

8yearrs. . U try o

I be Grandpa for Nairaland

I can't remember the moniker right now but there's this guy that formed many varied interpretations of Seun Osewa's name...You may not understand these varied interpretations if you don't understand yoruba. Personally speaking, in all my 8 years on Nairaland, that signature has come to rank as my funniest.

There's always room to be richer

If I have a net-worth of 30billion dollars as a single guy, then she comes into my life and my net-worth becomes 50billion dollars, I believe that's what the statement "Behind every successful man, there's a woman" means.


Let's face it.... Poverty and love don't go together, besides who says you can't find true love if you're wealthy. When you're wealthy, you would naturally mix with wealthy people and in the midst of wealthy people, there would be people like you too who would be seeking for love.

I have never believed that it is only when you're poor that you can find the one that truly loves you... Apart from the fact that being poor is a relative term, so how are you supposed to know just how poor you should be before you qualify for real love

Hmmm.

I pray for the day I will miss another human being like this

haibe:
what's your result?

I will submit it on page 10.

Calculating the half-life of this thread.

Super Story... New Year Episode 1.

Ladies have suffered on Nairaland!!!

E make sense sha.

Yes.

But I have to be sure that she's "The One"... I have to know that she will eventually be the one I would marry and since I don't even plan on having a girlfriend without me knowing that she would be my wife... The answer is still yes... I would very much donate one of my kidneys.

elantraceey:
Alright calm down , don't get yourself worked up for something not worth it ok . You should knoe these mods and their silly attitudes at times.

Yeah I'm cool.

Thanks

ireneony:
I first tell you say your face to strong and you resemble person Wey de smoke weed ....i nor fit date you ....
Bros na joke I de o

I don hear.

ireneony:
just tell her say na she you wan date and stop beating around the bush

What if na you I wan date

elantraceey:
Why were you banned?

I called out the carelessness of one of those Seun's goons, the next thing I'm banned... Who does that... The blind moderator locked this thread and directed us to another one, thinking they were both the same threads.... Instead of him to apologize for the error... He went to ban his senior brother. Rubbish!

elantraceey:
Hehehe because am your sister nau

Since you're my sister then I must have told you already (This is 1one by the way)

I don't blame you....I don't blame you at all....You can ban me till the end of the world.... Useless stttupid airheaded moderator that doesn't know his work.


It's not your fault... It's because we are online.

Smh...Another Disciple from Yesterday's Trending Thread.