₦airaland Forum

onatisi:
But the nigerian government and the cbn has been telling ppl to do this BVN for almost 8months now!!!!! The problem with nigerians is that they like to take everything for granted and they don't want to do the right thing at the right time. Now I am sure banks will be flooded with ppl wanting to beat the deadline ,but 2months ago I am sure those banks will be begging ppl to do the bvn and customers won't mind them. nigerians should stop blaming others and the system for their own shortcomings or failure and always endeavour to do the right thing at the right time .

Please o pardon my ignorance, Can I get my BVN in a bank I didn't originally open my account? or must it be the branch of the bank I opened. Reason I'm asking is my active bank account was opened in some distant state in the north, but I'm presently in the west. Thank you.

"Master Trekker"


I think I'm going to eat for a cause, hopefully I'd get a title like "Master Eater"

So how about all the sex they had together...If he's so bent on collecting everything, how is he going to collect all the wasted spe:rm?

Interesting read!!!

I can't start quoting every body's story I found interesting.

I think most stressful journeys were due to NYSC....and mine was not different. Lagos to Jigawa!... Smh

Never in my life again, not even by air or even if it's by disappearing and appearing. Nothing will make me step my foot in Jigawa again.

Reading comments.

MizzLoba:
Shouldn't these people be sued for copyright?

You that went to install S6 custom rom on your S4 nko... Abi is it S4 on your S6

You should be sued for copyromingrighting infringement.

younghartz:
until you discover something more than sex in a lady you might never appreciate the gift of having one close to you

Word.

At the very basic level.... It's not. But there's something I've come to believe as the Good will ... Permissive will and Perfect will of God .

I think it's possible to pray your intention towards the first two and make it flexible enough to suit you, but it's impossible to pray your way into effecting a change when God's perfect will is involved - Case in point, praying for the devil to be born again. Nothing can change God's mind about the devil going to perish in the lake of fire.


My personal thoughts.

MizzLoba:
No, I'm not MissTechy...

Her sister?

@OP
Are you the same as MissTechy?

elijahdre:
EXPECTED ARRIVAL TODAY
Elephone G7
We pray no delay in Jesus name

Amen

Abduletudaye:
Yes...

Okay.

Abduletudaye:
Almost did a thread on unemployment..i guess o was reading my mind....

Op has spoken well, hope to get employed soon...the trauma eh, no be here...before my folks always told me to play commot house. Now am tired of doing so.. Bae is acting weird too..

She keeps asking me about job like am not taking the right step...

Na she dey your profile?

Lol

I'm suspecting the mod that put this on front page.

@Op everything you've said is on point and I agree with all your reasons, the only thing is I think your reasons are better suited for a topic like " Dangers of premarital sex".

There are Christian singles who date and yet don't have sex... If I were a 25year old guy in school and I found a 20year old girl whom I totally dig, and vice versa, you don't expect me to let her go because I don't have the means or the time to get married to her.

So I think you should put your post in perspective.

But the essence of your post totally resonates with me.

Just sit her down and be like "Sweet, I really don't like what you did"


It will save you the money and stress of doing all what you wrote@OP

The comments on this thread by those who call themselves men are as funny as they are pathetic. To think that a full grown man would be willing to exchange all his time and effort spent on a girl for sex....To think that he sees himself as duly paid when he has sex with his woman- It's just unfortunate.

I must confess, my way of thinking towards issues like this is rather unconventional.....I can't even begin to crystallize my opinions about this issue because from the trend of comments in this thread-Most of you guys won't even get it, either because y'all too ignorant or unfortunately too stuupid.

A man has nothing to do with a woman's body if he has not taken her as his wife... What's wrong with this generation of men, where did we all pick our stinking thinking from.... What makes you a man. The fact that you have a big sized cork that can breakthrough many walls? Or the fact that you can be responsible enough to be committed to a relationship where both you and your partner bring out the best in each other-This is one of the main reasons for a relationship - to make each other better, to make so much impact in each other's lives that would have never been possible by yourself individually.


The lyrics of a song done by Neo, back in the day goes along the line "I'm a movement by myself, but i'm a force when we're together".

Even the good book says it " One would chase a thousand, two would chase ten thousand"- This is what a relationship is about.


It's unfortunate that men have stooped from Kings that they are meant to be, to animalistic - sex driven morons. This is summarily unfortunate.


I've made a pledge to be a virgin till marriage, is it difficult - Yes, has my sperm turned to thick paint- Yes, Do I see girls that make me want to tear my boxers- Yes... But is it all worth it- Yes and Yes.

As I said before, I don't expect this ideal to resonate with anybody here on the thread but the thing is "Error does not become truth by multiplied propagation, neither does truth become false because nobody sees it."

Deuces.

Freemanan:
It depends on the girl you have. A guy can gain lots apart from sex. For a girl that is jovial and cheerful, she makes a Good friend and she gives you happiness. It might mean little to "sexaholic" but it's a big thing to have. Also some girls are catalyst to their men, they give connections which the guy cannot dream of on his own, they stand as motivation to the guy.
Now, for a guy that knows what he wants in a relationship, he can never miss sex if not given. The urge might come in sometimes due to our nature but it won't be a factor.

#strictly for the matured minds#

Well said.

Velocitron:
I don't think just 'cause you're in a relationship, you're entitled to your partner's body, neither are you entitled to demanding gifts.

Personally, I intend on staying a virgin until marriage. Not for my husband or anyone else, but I believe I'm doing a favour to myself. Sex is a huge deal. It's practically the power of creation right there in your hands [size=4pt]or your genitals [/size] and it's a risk I'd be happy to take in the safety of marriage.

However, it's always important to set boundaries of a relationship early on. It's better to tell your partner early on that you just want a romantic relationship rather than a physical/sexual one or vice-versa. And if it doesn't sit well with your partner, let them find someone who wants the same thing they do, and you do the same.

Brilliantly said. Good word.

elijahdre:
NOT YET SIR.

Alright

elijahdre:
6pcs LENOVO K3 NOTE
2pcs CUBOT S200

My G7 never land?

Please how can I get the number of the girl on yellow top and jeans

I need to go and pick her up, women with such graceful height and shape shouldn't be trekking

tosyne2much:
Oooooooh my God !!!

You are an intelligent young man

The thing enter your body sha


Anyways jokes apart, I really do appreciate it. Thank you.

Nigerians have been so used to irresponsible and lawless leadership, that's why this is such a "Big deal" for most of us.

beckyomas:
so sorry, i get motion sickness too when i travel but i dont throw up and thats because i hate throwing up with a passion.
Someone once told me he eats only garlic when leaving home and then tries to focus on the road instead of looking around, it works for him though.

That's true @bolded...I noticed it got really bad for me when I was always looking back and front, I didn't feel the effect immediately until after I came down from the vehicle that was taking me to the park to enter the vehicle I was travelling in. But that garlic though , dude won't be able to strike up any conversation with anybody

BaebieHot:
inza why did you give space like that na

Did you plan to use the space to do crusade?

If you're working, save up for a while.... then peacefully move out of your parents house. Simple. You won't have anybody waking you up in the morning to talk about marriage.






























A single lady shouldn't stay alone because it suggests she's wayward and irresponsible : [size=14pt]BIG LIE!!!! [/size]

majestique:
wow I'm so relieved to hear this. I once tried taking a drug before travelling but as soon as I got to the park, sighted the bus plus the smell of petrol, I threw up.

Have you seen a doctor about this?

Believe you me OP, you're not alone. As enlightened as I would deem myself to be, I didn't know that what I had been facing was/is called motion sickness.


I've had 3 to 4 terrible experiences, one of such experiences I thought I was going to die to be honest. I started noticing this motion sickness thing two years ago, and up till now, I still cringe at the thought of traveling...and that's even by road, I don't know what it'll be like when I finally get to travel by air.

It's not even the smell of fuel that gets it going, it's just the presence in the vehicle.. after sometime I start feeling nauseous- I feel like throwing up, using the toilet, eyes start turning, my heart starts beating out of my chest.

The closest I've come to softening it, is drinking water every once and again during the trip. It's just terrible

ShirelleBaby:
I watched 'SECRETS OF THE SAND'-still in primary school then but I enjoyed it a lot.

Ruth and Rachel(Raquel)--
Sweet memories.
Mulheres de Areia.

Yeah thanks for the correction.... I was actually trying to remember the Ruth and Rachel flick.... Was it the one were they were twin sisters?. I also remember Maria de'los angeles