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lasstropinky:
I will do that Bro....thanks for the advice

So you're the lover boy abi....

lasstropinky:
Your Advice will be appreciated..

As a guy who's fairly sincere, I understand his sentiment towards not meeting her now, as someone suggested he wants to "arrange" himself first, there's nothing wrong with this honestly, but this is April 2015, and he wants to wait all the way till next year?....How many arrange hin wan arrange . Something doesn't just add up, is it that it will take him a year to save enough transport fare to go see the woman he supposedly wants to spend the rest of his life with?...I would have said the woman should make arrangements to see him too but really as the man in the relationship, the onus is on him to make that arrangement, not the woman....After all, in the most basic traditional sense, he is the one marrying her.

I have very little confidence in OTA relationships but I won't deny that i've heard or maybe seen some cases where it has turned out just fine. In summary, she should date other men and let him know that though she loves him or thinks she loves him, this is life here and we are all tempered and confined by time, she doesn't have all the time on her hands and if he's truly serious about his intentions..he has to come down to where she is to see her, anything short of that would prove that he is nothing more than an online emotional predator.

All these girls here saying if she feels he is worth it

initialize:
Yes I do



#33,000

Alright.... I would place an order for it at the end of the month, when my oga at the top pays

One final question please, how long does it take to get delivered after payment confirmation.

It's a good thing to know that my eyes were not faulty...I really don't see anything encouraging from your samples of 3D models. Among other things media related, I'm also a motion graphics designer and a budding graphics designer and quite frankly if I were to take an interest in 3D modeling, the pictures/images/models you have here doesn't cut it for me at all.





















AT All!

initialize:
Not in Stock

Alright, but do you have any idea of how much it is to order to lagos.

Thank you.

initialize:
G7

Please how much is this Elephone G7

Thank you.

I was even holding my "package" as I was watching it



That thing has got to hurt like crazy


I figure if it was a typical Nigerian girl she would have been like "atoin atoin you wee die dia today"

Elijahdre

Weldone man.

Please how much is the Elephone G7, if you have it in stock or on order and how much would it be to get to Lagos.

Thank you.

tyconcepts:
Coming from a Gionee era myself so i can relate.

The mentioned phone is available in stock and its ready for dispatch once payment is confirmed....24hours delivery.


Am loling at the bolded....."!" decreased to one.


Cheers!

OK then...I would buzz you on what's app when I'm ready. Thank you for the audience so far.

tyconcepts:
Your specs don't come with the large battery capacity you want.

You can probably up your budget and settle for Jiayu S3 either the 2gb or 3gb version.

In any case your wish is my command.


NB : Power banks has been known to aid "Heavy users".


Cheers!!!

Truth is I've never been one used to toting a power bank, particularly because I've been using Gionee M2( 4000mah) for a while, so you would understandably relate with my scepticism for anything less than 3000mah. That said, I've being going through several reviews online and so far I can say it's a pretty good phone....If I choose to get the phone from you, how long will it take from payment on my end till delivery.

By the way, you no need put "!!!" after your cheers, like say you dey shout for my head

tyconcepts:
More than glad to answer your questions coz reading all 122 pages is a herculean task n I hate to stress my clients

Ulefone Be Pro meets your requirements (Its 5.5inch as your desire), the battery capacity is 2600mAh, you can be rest assured its juice measures up to 3000mAh, and at 35k you get to save a few naira.


What say you?

Thank you for replying.

To be honest, I'm a heavy phone user (especially with the Internet) and even that 3000mah I gave was me just being modest, so that 2600mah would not cut it for me at all.

If that's the only option you have, I would have to pass, but I would check for reviews on YouTube, if I like what I see by popular opinion I will give you a mention.

Cheers.

Tyconcepts


Hi, nice work you're doing here, I couldn't go through all the pages to see if any of the pages spots the question I'm about to ask , going through all 122 pages is quite painstaking you would agree, so pardon me if you've already answered a similar question in previous pages.

I'm looking to buy a phone with the following key features
- 2G RAM/16G ROM
- 5" or 5.5"(preferably the latter)
- Battery capacity of atleast 3000mah
- Dual micro sims
- O.S(Not below Jelly bean)


Please what are your suggestions

My highest budgeted price is 40k

Please you guys should stop quoting the He-goatish idioot that wasted that space in the front page.... The fact that the fooool asked If he was mad is enough reason to know that a thousand things are wrong with him upstairs.

His idiocy is contagious so please don't quote him to avoid being an idiiot too.

Kolade354:
God will punish you for dis space you dey book.

And you that quoted the space nko?

chillingbabe:
@ bolded, Wow..I can't believe a male said this..I'm impressed.Beautiful!! Great!! Awesome!! Nice one

Thank you.

LewisO:
[color=#000033]U can propose with a ring, but that doesn't mean u are both married yet. [/color]

Anyways.... I'm sure you get the idea. I don't do premarital sex.

ronald4lif:
Do I take it that you both are oblivious of the fact at least 60% of nigerian girls have marriage as one of their main priority in life? That to them life is all about getting married. Or the idea that most of them portrays themselves in a mannerism that will appeal to potential suitors? Do I also take it that you're oblivious of the African man mentality of tagging girls cheap at the slightest opportunity. If this is not one of those action that drives the cheap girls mantra then what else.

I have said earlier in some of my previous submission on this platform that I don't consider sex or first date sexual encounters to determine a homely girl, as the hard to get ones might be worse off. But you lot fail to understand that in Nigeria; a religious, judgmental and hypocritical society people will always shrug off at such actions.

This debate has nothing to do with misogynism and if anyone is perceiving it to be so its wrong and it should be dismissed. Let's be pragmatic here and narrow this discuss on the average Nigerian man mentality towards women and relationship. Not what should be right or wrong. For like I said it's wrong to judge a woman based on the fact that she has sex on a first date.

I understand your use of the African man mentality thing, but as much as I may want to accede to your suggestion of not placing wrong or right markers, on this issue of the African man mentality, I just have to pick a side. Yes... The African man mentality has eaten deep into our societal belief system and standards but is it right?... Is this African mentality really right?..I'm sure you agree that the fact that a notion is widespread doesn't necessarily make it right. If it's an African man mentality to think that because 60% of women have marriage as their life goal, he then has the right of way to behave unruly with ceaseless flirting and cheating on his partner - Is this right?.

I think we should shift our gaze from the African mentality thing, because it's an umbrella that has become too small to accommodate objective and reasonable submissions. Instead we should tow along the parts of what's right and wrong according to good conscience.

Ultimately what I want you to take from this, no matter how convoluted I may have sounded in this reply, is - Let's treat women with respect, with as much respect as we also want to be treated, and the suggestion that it's remotely okay for a man to ask the question the OP is asking gives little or no respect to the woman folk.

LewisO:
[color=#000033]U mean after marriage or before marriage? [/color]

Lol

Does a woman wear the ring before or after marriage, ofcourse I mean after marriage.

I enjoyed every bit of it!


I still remember that DBN presenter - Evelyn obaho, let me not lie, one of the things that kept me glued to the station back then was the size of her boobies.... Daaaaayum!


Today is Friday, I'm normally like this on Fridays

LewisO:
[color=#000033]@bolded so when will you have sex with her? [/color]

After the date with the ring.

LewisO:
[color=#000033]The decision is yours between u and her.

If both of u love each other, u are both good to go... [/color]



[color=#000033]I don't deduce to this your post at all, if a lady have sex with u on a first date that doesn't make her cheap and that doesn't make the man cheap as well.

They both have wild fantasy for each other, not everybody. [/color]

Well cool.... Personally speaking, it makes them cheap...Super cheap. This whole box would be too small if I wanted to start giving my submissions about getting laid while dating, so there's really no need I go further... I can't have sex on a first date, I can't even have sex on the 50th date, so that should give you a peek into my perspective about sex and dating.

ronald4lif:
When one considers the fact that women are on mostly on the receiving end in a relationship and are the ones who are more vulnerable to get hurt then her action is a relationship killer.

True, they both had sex, enjoyed it so they are responsible and culpable for whatever the outcome is. And like I said earlier having sex on a first date means nothing but it scares most men away. You can call them irresponsible and immature men that won't be bad. But you see, a man can keep moving from one woman to another without bating an eyelid but same can hardly be said of women. As they age faster it affect their looks too. So they ought to behave in a manner that won't put men off.

Lest we forget, it's a man who proposes to a woman and not the other way round. Should women not act a bit responsibly it affect them more in a relationship, not the man who can pluck his m*nhood to just any bleeding hole

I don't think you're being objective here... Your opinion reeks of thick misogyny. If it's a man that proposes to a woman, doesn't the woman deserve the best possible man? That a man can jump from bed to bed without any real consequences to him, his life or his personality, is an absolutely flawed idea... It's bad for a man to be a bed hopper just as it's bad for a woman to do so.


Please let's stop all these double standards abeg, this is 2015, we ought to be more liberal objectively and less subjectively archaic.

For too long we've preyed on the generic notion that men are moved by what they see..... It's true to an extent, but it's not absolute, even in the same way it's believed that women are moved or attracted by what they hear- it's not absolutely true


We all have different love languages both men and women, and it is the expression of these love languages that basically feeds our attraction for someone, as a guy.... One of my love languages is "words".... If a woman is drop dead gorgeous but has a loose or toxic tongue, my attraction to her would be nothing more than how attracted I am to my least favorite meal on a full stomach.


We need to unlearn a number of things.

This your friend is one stupiid guy sha, because the question really doesn't make sense, is it that it was okay for him to have sex on the first date but somehow because she's a woman, having sex with him on the first date makes her cheap and unworthy?

Cheap goes with cheap, if he's of the opinion that she was being too cheap by opening up the lower gates for him, then he's equally as cheap as a roll of tissue paper too, after all it was a consenting act by two "mature" adults...So why the tinge of double standardness.

So na to make I go marry Canadian woman now

Because Nigerian women una matter don dey too plenty nowadays... Ahh ahhahh

Truth of the matter is, or better put the truth of the matter from my perspective is, There's really no point asking a guy out, it's not right, it's not proper under any heading, whether in Nigeria or abroad, whether your love for him is so intense that your eyes want to pop out of their sockets any time you see him.


The best a girl should do is give him subliminally textured advances or like we would say "greenlight".... Ofcourse many guys are colour blind, but most of us are not, a guy knows when you're interested especially if both of you have been friends for a while, if he's interested in you in the way you're interested in him, he would definitely ask you out.... If he doesn't ask you out just leave him be. There's no forcing of this thing.

The flip side to this again is that some girls can be so stupiiid, or maybe deliberately manipulative, they appear to give brightly toned greens but truly they are just being emotional predators (there are many girls like this). So the onus is on the guy to just be discerning and sensitive.

AlphaDray:
To all my folks pls when a lady shows u a green light, be sure its really a green light cos some girl just enjoy fooling guys alot

Very true.

Funny comments.

standd:


My age got stuck at 21 since 2011 Not my fault though, it is the economic situation of the country. How do you expect me to get jobs at MT coys that ask for 18-25 years old B.Sc olders with 12 years Post NYSC experience

As for boys, I don't lie to them about my age cos I love money more than men, only money can make me change my age

You're funny

cally3D:
Show me a guy hu reads dis post without subsequently viewing her d.p and I 'll show u a prostitute hu iz a virgin!

I couldn't help it my self.
I had to look
And it was not a wasted sight