Lekan239: My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.
It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.
Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.
My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.
So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.
2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.
So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.
After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.
Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.
Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.
1.Request a quiet time with your dad.2. Get all your siblings together.3 You all kneel before your dad in obedience and humility.4. Plead with him to please reconsider his ways. 5.Don't ever be rude, arrogant or in anger while addressing him on your knees. The females among you can sob while talking. You and your siblings may do a rehearsal before meeting your dad.6. Remove any idol(s) you have seen in the house all your growing up time that you count as normal and burn it.7. Be vigilant and alert while talking with your dad perhaps he is violent type. Fast and pray as much as you can before,during and after the meeting. Our father in heaven will see your family through in Jesus name,amen.
Bethrose: The Ex beauty queen and Nigera’s Former Ambassador to Spain who is the wife of late Biafra Leader Dim Chukwuemeka Odumegwu-Ojukwu and mother of 3 grown kids expressed on her FB post how she is trying to stay fit during lockdown...
‘#stayathome means stay and eat, and amass a huge debt in Calories...And so, here is where you start paying..at the home gym, in Sweat! Not great fun, but sometimes you gotta do it!’
“But the reality is that we are going to live with COVID-19 for the next year, at the very least. So, we have to start thinking about how to live safely with COVID-19. Encourage Nigerians to start using AGBO herbal therapy. Drink one cup of hot agbo first thing in the morning, covering with blanket and bath the warm full bucket of it. This is easily sourced; Mango tree back and leaves,Lime orange leaves, pawpaw leaves and ………...etc. This is Nigerian version of Madagascar CVO. Please don't wait for WHO approval.
I wonder why these politicians still move millions in cash despite cashless policy.This pave the way for the deputy governor's covid-19 fund payment to his sidechick's account if the stories align.
gamapoy539: FAKÈ story and a HÒAX! believe this at your peril.
Fake, imagined or real, my advise is that you give her a printed copy of what you have posted on NL and please be open to discussions with her if she cooperates. Nothing spoil.
Thank you. And my O levels is B3 parralel. Throughout . all subjects
Get your daddy or mummy or both of them to walk up to the dean of medicine. Don't stay at home as candidates with lesser score may be admitted leaving you. Follow-up.
Born2conquer: If I don’t act FAST, I might lose my sister
She made a mistake marrying this beast and I can’t keep on looking.
Please, what’s the fastest way to institute a divorce in lagos?
Your sister needs to check herself. When did brothers start spearheading divorce of their sisters? Are you married, how is your home? Let her file for divorce herself while you counsel her against it letting her know it will be better. Pally with your brother in-law for amicable resolution. Beware lest you regret your action. What God has joined together, let no man put asunder.
Lol, better than u that have empty skull with only some parts having saw dust..counter argument na tantrums u de throw...so empty of u
River Niger will never be used as a port, it doesn't qualify
I think those pronouncements above by the Federal govt settles this squabble besides it is not a matter of river Niger qualifying but qualifying river Niger if chosen.
VanGun: Alexx Ekubo Shares Video of LINDA OSIFO OPENING MOUTH AND SLEEPING
Shared with Caption ...
"See your woman Crush @lindaosifo, I can’t believe this, Melanin goddess wey dey snore. After they will start singing “I woke up like this” Smh . I’m sure by now you all know if you snooze around me you loose � #SnoozeAroundAlexx #StayWoke LITERALLY!"
scorpiogal: Good day everyone... I made a post yesterday about my brother that has been missing since on the 7th of March. That’s the link below for the post.
I really wanna appreciate everyone that said a prayer or two for my brother, and those that called to sympathize with me, God bless you all.
My brother made contact with us yesterday night, he’s fine and okay, though he hasn’t given us a story of what happened, all he said was he has been sleeping under the bridge at dopemu, how he got there all the way from ogba, we have no idea.
He’s home with us now, and we thank God that he’s at least fine.
That aside, someone from Nairaland tried to blackmail me... he called my line saying he has my brother and if I don’t do as he says, he’s going to send down his body parts, luckily for me, my brother had already contacted us at that time. So when I got the call from this dude saying he has my brother, I knew it was all a big scam.
I posted for help here, not for someone to come take advantage of the situation for his own greed and wickedness... If you are reading this now, you know yourself, you better change your ways.
Below is the number of the “supposed kidnapper” and the message he sent when I stopped picking his calls.
lalasticlala: RCCG Pastor EA Adeboye has sparked divided reactions on social media over his video on Coronavirus.
Pastor Adeboye shared a video on his Twitter page where he spoke about the coronavirus. He prayed and also gave advice. He captioned the video: "I want to assure you that so far you are in the secret place of the most high, no Virus can come near your dwelling. Remember being able to abide under his shadow involves you living a life of cleanliness. The basic things like washing your hands, keeping your environment clean and adhering to basic hygienic measures is close to Godliness. God bless you."
Imagine telling the public that they are after the kidnappers..
I pray the victims are found in good condition
All service providers; Airtel,Glo,Mtn etc,have location/tracking technology to know where callers are at any point in time. I still wonder why NPF and indeed security agencies can't track and arrest kidnappers within 24hrs. I just hope we all mean well in this country.
merit455: They will not do anything for them. Imagine, offering 12 children scholarship,is not possible. Why people dey born anyhow for this kind harsh economy
What is the value of a scholarship that it is not possible for a Nigerian politician of v.p's calibre?
murecool: OFFICE OF THE VICE PRESIDENT PRESS RELEASE
OSINBAJO AT LATE ESCORT RIDER’S VILLAGE, EXPRESSES GRIEF, PRAISES OFFICER’S DILIGENT SERVICE
*Assures family, community of government’s support
“Late Inspector Ali Gomina was an officer that was loved by many, he served very dutifully and diligently. We are all very sad when this happened. It is terrible.”
Those were the words of Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, SAN, earlier today when he paid a condolence visit to the family of late Inspector Ali Gomina and the entire Gui community in the Abuja Municipal Area Council.
Prof. Osinbajo arrived the community at about 3.45 pm accompanied by aides and was received by the Chief of the village, Alhaji Alhassan Yussuf and other leaders of the community.
After prayers by the Imam of Gui community mosque, Abubakar Jibril and the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) pastor in the community, Pastor Adegbe Julius, the Vice President spent time interacting with the family especially the widow of the deceased, Asiya Ali Gomina and his first son, Ali Kabiru Gomina, expressing his condolence and encouraging them.
Addressing the chief of the village and others shortly after interacting with the family, Prof. Osinbajo said “We all loved him. He served very dutifully and diligently. We are all very sad when this happened. It is terrible. We were all there and saw it happen and we are very pained by it. This is the reason we have all come, to commiserate with the family and the community.”
Assuring the family and the community of government’s support to both the immediate family of the late officer and the community in general, the Vice President said “I am here today myself to see his children, and see what we can do to help the family, and in his honour, what we can do to help his community.”
Prof. Osinbajo then prayed “God will help and sustain his family, we pray that all will be well with his family and community.
“We will also see what we can do to assist the community in whatever way. God bless you, well done.”
Late Inspector Ali Gomina, aged 45, one of the police escort riders in the Office of the Vice President, was killed in a road accident while on official duty on Friday 13th March 2020.
Gomina died after a runaway Toyota Camry car ran into him, knocking him and throwing him down against a moving tanker way ahead of the convoy on the expressway to the airport in Abuja.
Laolu Akande
Senior Special Assistant to the President on Media & Publicity Office of the Vice President
14th March 2020
The ban of Okada in most Nigerian cities and towns is still in force. Why use Okada to escort the v.p?
Vyvyanvyvy: I had 2 children. When I got married, my husband had none and accepted them like his own children.
Before marriage, we had discussed about the children living with us after marriage but that couldn’t be possible anymore because we were having financial problem so we couldn’t afford to move to a bigger apartment. We were staying in a room self contain with my daughter while my son was staying with my elder brother and his wife.
Now three years after we had moved to a bigger house still my husband doesn’t want my son to come and live with us. At the moment my son is going through hard times. My sister in law has been maltreating him to an extent that he has been stealing, he was caught and beaten like an animal. My brother said he doesn’t want him in his house again. He wants me to come and collect him.
I pleaded with my husband for me to bring him with us but he said no, he should stay there because he doesn't want him to damage our children. I’m angry at him I stopped talking to him and I don’t know where my son will go because I have no mother no father it’s only my elder brother and kid sister even my sister who is married doesn’t want him. I’m pained and in tears seeing my only son suffering while I’m still alive and I’m helpless to protect him.
Send him to a boarding school provided he won't go and spoil other children there.
Family / Re: Help: My Father Is Killing My Mom Gradually by Irore: 3:25pm On May 05, 2020 
