xavuv: Please help diagnose this thing on my daughter's head. That thing looks like small small boils all over her head. It pains her alot and she doesnt want anyone to touch her head especially when bathing. She 3yrs old, eats well and very active.
It started 4 days ago and progressed to this stage.
Other Sypmtoms include:
She doesnt sleep well at night becauese of pains on her head.
High temp especially around 1am-5am ( we have been using paracetamol to calm bown the temp)
Little rashes on her neck and lower back.
Her hair doesnt grow evenly (though we have noticed this for a while)
This is common with babies. She will outgrow it very soon. Bath her clean always making sure her nails are cut. Antibiotics and analgelsics like the paracetamol you've being giving will do. No course for alarm.
diasporaman: Pressure Mounts On Apostle (Prof) Johnson Suleman To Run For Presidency In 2023 With Shekh (Dr.) Ahmad Abubakar Gumi As His Running Mate
Written by Obiwest Utchaychukwu OFM Media Europe
Nigerians reacts as the news broke over intense pressure mounting on Apostle (Professor) Johnson Suleman with Sheikh (Dr.) Gumi to enlist as Presidential and Vice Presidential candidates towards 2023 general elections.
While some factions of the country are in support of the idea as a noble one; with the impression that the duo are young, vibrant, Godfearing, well educated, very close to the Nigerian masses, and above all, have become strong voices on behalf of the voiceless majorities over the years. Some others are of the opinion that clerics are only called to religious (faith based) and moral propagation; and already have their roles spelt out in nation building.
Some other reactions states that both Apostle Johnson Suleman and Sheikh (Dr.) A.A. Gumi are more relevant in building a morally sound society for Nigeria (just as they have hitherto been doing over the years); than joining the Nigerian type of politics that is now abused and have become void of good conscience towards humanity.
Apostle Suleman's magnanimity in respect of his humanitarian gestures, plus the Auchi/Abuja road repair work he commenced recently promoted the imagination in the hearts of northern elites. They are of the opinion that it won't be a bad idea if we have clerics to run our nation; given the fact that we are religiously sentimental.
geraldinai: Nairalanders, this is a long post but please read till the end.
My bf just broke up with me over what he termed incompatibility. This guy and I have been together for two years and we both loved each other. It was a long-distance relationship, he stays in Lagos while I schooled in another town in the west. I had no problem with the distance because I'm not the attention-craving type and I like my space.
He's a complete extrovert, while I'm an introvert(not to the extreme though) and this has been an issue most of the time. He complains that I'm too quiet and not on the same social level as him. I don't do social media like that while he's uploading new pictures every minute. I also didn't like the fact that he relates too well with girls; he had a lot of female friends and easily socializes with new ones. Well, I blended with that so well as I didn't see any trace of unfaithfulness in him.
Fast forward to late last year, there was a breakdown in our communication, he stopped calling and chatting as he used to, I asked him what the matter was but he said there's nothing. I was a bit scared if something went wrong with him and I asked again after some days, that was when he said he would tell me when the time comes, so I stopped asking. With all the signs he showed me, my mind was telling me he wanted a breakup but I didn't ask him further as I was preparing for my final exam and him breaking up with me that period would leave me devastated so I focused on my exam with the hope that after then, we would talk about it.
After my exam, I sent him a text apologizing and asked us to continue as we were but he didn't reply. He invited me over to his place and that was when he told me he's no longer interested in the relationship, that he has no feelings for me again. He gave one thousand and one reasons for us not to be together anymore. He said I'm less expressive, I agree with anything he says and does and that during the break in our communication, I didn't make efforts to find out why he did so and challenge him. Funnily enough, I didn't react when he told me, I just said it's all right as I envisaged it earlier. With the reasons he gave me, my heart was broken and felt there was no need to push further. He was surprised with how calm I was when he told me, personally, I don't believe in forcing someone to love me.
I moved on well but after a week when I was alone and reflecting, the feeling of guilt overwhelmed me that I probably pushed him away with my seemingly “not too caring” attitude. I see myself with him and I never thought we could separate. I showed love and care in my how way and in the best way, I know-how. I did love him wholeheartedly and he knew it but he seemed unable to cope with my private/ less emotional lifestyle. Nairalanders, did I actually push him away?
Advise no. 1.Follow and stay with who loves you and not the one you love. 2.Don't make sex the object of your relationship. Men are easily fed up. Only the marriage covenant instituted by God almighty helps men to stay even at that it is not easy. He has sexed you enough. Go back to that guy whom you have being snubbing.
danny56: Report them to police Twitter handle and tag relevant people for prompt action.
Internet has become our best bet for justice in Nigeria.
When the authorities will not do anything, the evil of the police will proliferate. Let's the public keep doing their bit to correct these anomalies using available tool eg;
1.Charge your phones to the fullest before leaving home daily. 2.Try get a smart phone that has enough memory or buy memory card. 3. If java phone, support with memory card and make sure the camera and all recording features are functional. 4. Address police officers by their name as seen on their chest, with that you are not likely to forget. 5. Put your phone on video as you approach a check point or better still before you leave your house. 6. Leave home prepared for police harassment irrespective of who you are and what you do. 7. Be calm whether you are involved or just an observer. 8. Don't ever show apathy-report online and to the nearest police station even if you are not directly involved. 9. Have police and security agents contact list all over the country in your phone contact and in a piece of paper you carry about.
There are more you could do but let's start from somewhere. Together we shall pull the mountain.
Orofun1: Try and drive from Ibadan to Adoekiti via Efon Alaye and you will wonder whether we are at war considering the sheer no of police checkpoints on that route....my own advice...find your way out of this country if you want to live long
Let's try reporting to the nearest police station.
Euegene100001: Same almost happened to me and my brother yesterday in owerri we are kopa’s from Edo State serving in owerri imo state yesterday we had our clearance as we do finish we enta taxi leading home near Imsu sars stopped our taxi looked into the car and asked my brother to come down I simple came down with him .I quickly collected my phone and deleted my nysc alert cos those men are mad plus I’m a betking agent I deleted all my alerts the guy police guy became mad and started to bark that he will slap me why I’m pressing my phone nae I sufri leave am b4 I collect sliding tackle Na so e collect the phone com smile as he see say na iPhone he quick start to dey search am.The first place he went to was my WhatsApp he scrolled thru looking for a foreign number all he kept seeing were betking ,betking and more betking and my workers number he search till my phone went off he gave me back and he asked us to go. I just laugh commot. I saw shame all over his face he was disappointed. Even with nysc uniform and I’d card the slowpoke still dey search us. Most police men should just go back to sch this primary 6 qualification is really doing more harm than good
I thought the director of NYSC is an army general.
When u know the kind of country u live in, if they shoot u, nothing will happen. They can still easily frame u up and u go to jail, no one will prove ur innocence.
Don't u think it will be smart to avoid things that make them put eyes on u?
Take the crazy hair out , stop carrying ur laptop about.
This is Nigeria not America..... Things can move from 0 to 100 real fast
Exactly what I told my son to avoid embarrassment when he started wearing coiled hair. Thank God he immediately complied.
Na by force? Or what will you say about people who found their soulmate in the first try. Abi u expect me to go find person wey go break my heart deliberately date? Or heartbreaks after 30 won't count?
LOL.. Life begins the day you were born.
Na all of us go be writer or wetin
You think say na everybody get money to travel and live abroad? Abi wetin u dey talk?
There's no rule to life..Live your life at your own pace abeg. Don't let any write up online (or offline) make you feel you aren't doing anything with your life.
I was wondering if this is Biblical or Quranic. Good write-up though.
Surprised no tangible advise with all the diverse tribes, traditions and culture in Nigeria. NL needs to repost this regularly so that people can make meaning contributions because I've also forgotten all I've heard about natural remedies for snake bite.
Krester24: Police dey look free show... I tire for dis country
I thought the job of the police is to maintain law and order. Years gone by, two fighting as we call it then is an offence because you are disturbing public peace....See armed Nigeria police men watching as youths disobey the law of the land right under their nose. It is a pity.
HopeAtHand: What Wike is saying is logical, Dickson shouldn't plan to annex oil wells found in Kalabariland while claiming to love Kalabari people. Dickson is even a member of the highest Kalabari social club, yet is in court to challenge oil wells in Kalabariland. just imagine.
You claim to be Pro-Ijaw and want to undo fellow Ijaws.
If Kalabari wants to join Bayelsa state, better sef, make them carry Okrika join.
Kindheartedd: I opened a thread sometime ago about my husband's attitude.
I won't just go into details but all I need now is leave, leave him for good.
My plan is to totally leave the state we live now to a different state to start life all over with my kids. I work, I will make sure they have the best. I won't let my family know my whereabouts. Change my phone number and live a new life.
I do not want any one to link me up with him again. I hate him now. I have heard enough, enough of abuse. He's done more damage to me than good. His is proud and ungrateful.
He is owing me a lot of money but I can let go.
I want to teach him a hard lesson by leaving with my kids before he return from work on Monday.
My advice to young ones especially God fearing ones, don't marry a man who is just a casual Christian, who answers on paper 'Christianity' when asked which religion.
He never believed I can move forward, I struggled to raise my status by hard work n prayer, I went to a private uni, he even insulted my dad to my face that he waisted money on my for sending me to private uni, Haa, my ears twingled when he said it all because I was earning about 100k, he was earning way more than me and he'd never give me peace because he earns more. Named me all sorts of names. I saved little n resigned since there was no hope of earning more money where I worked.
When I asked to open a joint account his response was my income was meant for eating not saving. And ridiculously told me to hide my face for trying to measure him to my standard. That we don't earn the same amount and we can't jointly run an account. For days, he shamed me with that.
I boldly took a decision to resign and I almost end it all but I was putting things in place to get the best in life no matter what. Alas, God helped me and now, I'm doing well and my monthly income is daily getting more than his. I painfully went for a training and have decided to get an office and employ more hands because I can no longer handle tasks alone due to work load and he is killing the dream.
I know him, he wants to frustrate me, he knows the sky is not my limit again even, but I want to teach him a lesson that in his next life he will never talk any human being down.
He is getting worst daily by being abusive, I won't know peace if so stay with him. Now he wants to do what I do, so jealous and unsecured.
I live in a recluse due to my work and I have an abusive man, if not for my belief on God maybe I would have taken my life since.
I was abused as a child, I think the best for me now is live alone. Human beings are not worth it, I hate relationships and marriage now, like it's all a scam. I just want to be alone with my innocent kids.
Am just weak, it's going to be a shame, my friendd n family won't like my decision but I want to send a message to this man. He must learn to respect me, called my brain fish brain,? My own father waisted money on me? I will surely break grounds to send him a message.
Am just in pain, am soo so so sad. Once I leave him I will be a celibate for life. I will never allow any man to make me experience abuse again. Never!!!
Identify areas you have wronged him in the past-list them and plead with him that you are sorry; apology, as to err is human before you move. I write this because the man can't be all wrong.
lalasticlala: Nollywood actor, John Paul Nwadike has acquired US citizenship and he's so happy to announce it.
Sharing photos and video from the occasion, the elated Nwadike wrote:
JohnPaul Nwadike had acted in many Nollywood movies before he relocated to the United States of America. The Nollywood movie that brought him to limelight was 'Blood Of The Orphan'.
He welcomed twin boys with his wife few years ago. They are blessed with 3 sons.
Lonelypacifist6: Lie total lie, My dad is an ogboni member, my Mothers Foster mum is an ogboni, Obasanjo, Deji Doherty's mother, Esther Doherty, And lots of judges in Lagos are members and they don't sacrifice anything please stop misinforming people.
Ok but you have not told us their lossess. Leave with eternity in mind abeg.
I challenge the soldier to take this matter up, report to his regiment and the nearest police station. Evil thrives when good people do nothing. Waiting for update from Nairaland. Good job reporting to the world.
Don’t be ridiculous. Because that up there is not true. Can you mention few you know that scarified their firstborn? Most of these things are hearsay.
A society that exist on the ritual sacrifice of innocent law abiding Nigerians starting with members of their family. But why do they always carry strong pot bellies just below their chest? A servant of God was said every ogboni person has his/her hands under the chin waiting for the next fool that will join them.
delamb01: Nigeria is a banana republic, how can you declare a current legislator wanted when his office and official residence is well known to the federal government.
Don't mind them. Who will call those numbers when you can walk up to the house of reps and pick him up if ICPC means it.
Ogbetaonline: A Nigerian woman identified as Nneka with the Twitter handle, @SheLovesArtemis has cried out after she received a notice from her landlord on the increase of her rent from N550,000 to N1 million in Bariga area of Lagos state.
The letter sent to her by Chukwunonso Ikenna Chambers titled, “NOTICE OF UPWARD REVIEW OF YOUR RENT” states that her landlord to the apartment she lives on Bariga Lagos wishes to notify her that her annual rent has been reviewed upwards to N1,000,000 per annum.
“You are required to notify us in writing not later than 7 days from your receipt of this letter of your willingness to continue with the tenancy at the expiration of your current term of the rate at the new reviewed rent.
Note that we shall regard it as a termination of your tenancy if you do not express your affirmation of willingness to continue at the rate of the reviewed rent when your tenancy expires by first quarter of next year” it read in part.
She took to her social media page to share the notice letter she received.
"This came today
How can my Landlord increase my rent from N550,000 to N1,000,000? In BARIGA �"
Thank God you realized fast not to be Moms boy only because those Mom's...…. ehnn. The Bible describes them as the weaker vessel. May you be a good father in Jesus name, amen.
Health / Re: Please Help Diagnose This Scalp Disease (Disturbing Photos) by Irore: 4:14pm On Jan 14, 2020 
Nobody even the FG can stop we the Omo Oluwabi from achieving this goal 
thieves! Why not wait 