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Kriximpecable:
It's not stupid for a young man to fall in love. Once you see love you'll know and let me ask you,have you ever been in love with a girl before?

Why are you asking for our guidance when you have already made up your mind? People who have experienced same in one way or the other are talking you are here trying to waste their precious time and efforts.
Continue chasing shadow, it will surely end in premium larger tear.

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Bluezy13:
Responsibilities ke.

If you try it with me,
I will start cooking my food myself.
And pray you don't extend it for too long cos I may never eat your food again and take it as a way of life but we will still be husband and wife.
Once I take it as a new way of life, I'll be happy, but will you
I know how heartless I can get.
After all I grew up alone.

You sound like me sir. I had like to know more about growing up alone. You mean you raised yourself?

In a nutshell you are saying that those of us that can not afford schooling abroad should forget about education. Thunder fire you guy.

The OP is a simp, but the girl is acting under the influence of depression caused by her troubled background. When you are depressed, it is either you become too quiet or too arrogant. The problem is that it takes you to get yourself out of depression. To the OP, you are helpless unless your girl is ready to letgo of the sad memories from her background.

DNSPro:
Oh, I see where the confusion is coming from and why u guys are fixated on the money.

Bros na the WhatsApp blocking be my concern not money.
I didn't give money to her as far as I am concerned... I gave to the mother. How that affects and you choose to react to it is none of my business.

Na WhatsApp matter make create thread, not money.

If I was pained by the money, you would have seen that.

But I learned something from you all... Which is we humans read meanings base on our biases not true or intended meaning.

That is why I am more concerned about the WhatsApp ish, but majority of you are fixated on money and are angry.

Sad...

Guy, I don save person wey mock and ridicule me when we dey school. I saved his ass financially at die minutes so he can secure a job. This is making it 2 shared stories of helping friends on this thread. But I know your mind is fixated on the girl and money even when I have mentioned I did not attach anything to the money.

The weirdest thing is I have have made over 300k since I gave that money for inside this Corona, Believe it or not...

Oga good night you dey yarn offpoint.

DNSPro:
Ode, where did I say I spent on her to love me? U think u are talking to baby who just started having girls just recently?

What if I tell u this is the only money she has gotten from me this year?


What I tell u there was a whole year she didn't get 1 naira from me?

Dude most of you are bitter and angry but always hiding under a threads like this.

If u talk about helping friends, dude I do that a lot when it is convenient.

If you didn't spend on her thinking money can buy you love then what is intention of opening this thread, to praise her or shame her? And while doing that you generalized that all Nigerian girls are cheaters. Who is a pained ass motherfucker between you and I for God sake? Go through my postings on this forum and show me where I bashed or encouraged bashing of the female folks.

DNSPro:
lol family and friends like u abi? Beast walking as humans. So much bitterness but hide under threads like this as if they are humans.

Who is the olosho here? Come and answer.

Oga you are the one shaming Nigerian girls here. You spent on her thinking she must love you in return. Bro wake up money can't buy you love.

DNSPro:
I am not your God to make you happy. Go meet ur God for that.

Weakling go and do giveaway for family and friends before shouldering olosho's responsibility. Shalom

DNSPro:
I do not attach anything to it. I didn't do it because we were "dating". I did it for a mother. I am an orphan and if there is anything I can't withstand, since I lost mine, is to see a mother in pain and not be able to help.

If i see you insulting your own mother in my presence, dude, I will fight you to the ground.

It had nothing to do with her but for the sake of "a mother"

I hate this line.

Like someone said up me, there are a lot of chest beaters who haven't had the practical experience of the subject of discussion.
From my own personal experience, any lady who cheats with the intention to hit hard her cheating boyfriend is not well informed on how God has perfected man to be at advantage over the female folks regardless of what you feminists may think.
There was this lady that we dated for good three years, love in the air, so much into each other. We are planning to settle down as soon as I'm done with my degree. The family is so nice and kind to me I must confess.
The problem started when her immediate sister informed me of her sister's suspicious dealings with a guy in our area. As a guy with a good heart I sat my girlfriend down told her what I heard about her, advising her why it is bad for the relationship, and what will happen if it happens to be true and what my decision will be. Unlucky for her, I caught(eye witness thing) her hugging thesame guy in a shop adjacent to my business premises. She was so shocked, ran after me to my game shop, called the hair stylist next to my shop to help her in begging me. I told her it is over and I repeated my stand when her mumcy summoned me. For me, the trauma of a cheating partner is bad, the public embarrassment is even worse.
After several pleadings I took her back, but not with good intention to be sincere. This second half of the relationship was mar with cheatings, lies, neglect, by me. I even went as far as dating two bestfriends of that her immediate sister I mentioned earlier.
She heard of everything and still forgive me so that our relationship will work. But unfortunately for her I am only in the relationship for sex which she later realized after a year or so.

Her revenge:
As all the feminists on this thread had like to hear, she dumped my sorry ass when she found out that I am in a serious relationship with a lady she once live with in thesame compund as a little girl back then.
To take her revenge she started dating a friend of mine who has a boutique opposite my shop, he is my coursemate in ABU Zaria, we go to Zaria and come back together, we lived in thesame room for good four years, we do almost everything together.

My revenge:
It was very a very painful experience I must admit.
To take my own revenge I asked her childhood bestfriend out, luckily for me I banged her the first day of the relationship. In a space of a month I already earn several points from the relationship before my disloyal friend broke the news to my cheating girlfriend.
On receiving the news she called me and asked how true the what she heard was. I cleared her doubt by telling her that it was true but I lied to her that it wasn't intended to hurt her feelings that I genuinely love her friend ni that she should help me talk to her too. I was more than happy to see her shedding tears infront of me that moment. Shebi una talk say olosho no dey get feelings, big lie.
To cut the story short, my coursemate is married now battling for economic survival of his family, my relationship of three years is still waxing stronger hoping to tie the knot before next year December with the girl I left my cheating girlfriend for. My cheating girlfriend is 29yrs already with no substantial relationship. Though a very small fraction of my heart still care for her most especially whenever I come across some of our pictures in my PC backup folder. What a sweet girl she was back then, she has developed a fatty body now with stretch marks everywhere. May God almighty provides for her the man her heart is longing for. Amen

Wahala dey this country! God abeg two seconds make everything burst make I get out of this shithole.

sammybay2000:
I dont know why we are always negative minded. You cant begin to compare other African countries with Nigeria on what basis. The challenges of each country differs. USA is one of the most powerful country in the world but has the highest casualties. At the initial stage, it could not do massive testing. Lets appreciate the effort of our leaders. This is a problem facing the entire world at the same time, we need to encourage our leaders by been positive minded. Can anybody explain why we have very low casualty. A lot of effort has gone into what you are seeing now. The whole world is surprised at the rate at which Nigerian Govt has been able to control the situation. United Nation came out openly to appreciate the effort of our govt why cant we Nigerians do the same

Oga which of their efforts are you referring to here? The one they use to loot our common wealth or the one they use to politicized everything? That of the audio money? Or the one they used in distributing relief materials infront of the camera?

It sucks being a Nigerian these days. Nigerians love awoof even to the detriment of their own lives.

mickeyenglish:
[OP, i understand you perfectly more than you think.. Trust me, I do.. I was in your position in January,when i started dating this my fellow Corp member and we were both in the same school/PPA.

Again, she also possess all these "sweet qualities" that's akin to "wife material" and, it really hurts to know that you've fallen in love with such a person..

Like yours,mine is also not of same religion with me.. While being a Christian(but really a Skeptic/Agnostic), she on the other hand is a Moslem. Mine doesn't even know how to prepare the Yorùbá traditional meals like our ever famous Àmàlà, semo, etc.. Eba is the only solid food she knows how to eat and prepare and you wonder what her Mother being an housewife to an Imam, has been upto in terms of kitchen tutorials.. Guess what? She's not even ready to learn how to even when i volunteered to teach her myself and get all necessary items with my own money.

Again, mine is very mentally lazy that sometimes, i wonder how she graduated from Yabatech with her HND.. I became scared when she was even unable to give me a brief synopsis about her course of study in school which was Microbiology. I even got enraged when she told me that she gave her project to a mercenary to write for her. Is that the kind of mother you want for you offsprings?

Furthermore, mine doesn't want to learn anything. Several a time, i had tried to spark an entrepreneurial plug in her heart and mind but, it always ended in tears.. I personally volunteered to foot the bills for any profession she'd really want to learn.. I even went to some of my female friends who were fashion designers, fashion and beauty bloggers, buying and selling, forex, farming, etc, and they all agreed to take her free of charge but, she turned the whole idea down.. Okay ooh, what do you want to learn, she'd say "i don't know" or "I'd think about it"..

Now, yours might still be young but, mine is 26yrs of age and I'm just a year older than her. For a girl of this age, who doesn't want to learn anything or become anything other than a loving wife to a loving husband. Eventually she'd become a leech and liability to the young hustling soul in this very brutal capitalist society.

Here's the trick no one will ever tell you ; nature is a badass! When nature knows you're deficient in most aspect expected of a creature, she(permit to refer to nature as she) quickly arms the weak creature with dummy/smokescreen attributes in other to makeup for all the lost attributes your girlfriend never had and will never have(emphasis on the WILL NEVER).

I also faced this scenario and decided to combat it by all means hence, my resolve to go on an all-out war on my Girlfriend's intellectual deficiencies but guess what? It all ended in tears... The more i tried to emancipate her, the more her ignorance fought back, and it fought hard and why did this happen? Mature knows there's nothing to emancipate.. Out of frustration, i broke up with her and made my reasons known to her but, made-up again later on after 3 weeks, hoping she'd realise here mistakes and heed to my advice..Guess what!! she broke with on Easter Day without excuses as to my crime, and when i inquired to know my crimes, she said i shouldn't play the victim's since i also broke up with her first.. But, before the broke up, i had discovered she was a girl that loves attention and would go toi any means to get it, so, while i was busy with a particular hustle coupled with blogging, i went incommunicado with her and she never for once even deemed it fit to message me or even call. Prior to that, i had been the to always do that.

Then came the day of revelation.. I hit her up on the fone and in my usual way, teased her up with things such her "so, you this wouldn't check up in her hubby àbí", guy ! If you see insult wey i collect eehn, you'd pity for me.. She said i was immature, and not only that, but she's getting several attention from other people and she doesn't need mine anymore.. She broke up with me three days later on Easter.. Did i react to the breakup? Yeah, i did.. I didn't man anything up and i shed tears in my room in Ibàdàn. I lost appetite for food and, became lean and lost weight to the extent that people were complaining when we resumed in our PPA. That's the true rubbish called "love" and its very pathetic to think that a very logical sapient like you can fall for such folly but you have,at least once in a lifetime. It's another intellectual lesson you have to learn on your journey in this very short life.

Go for the intellectual sound ones with lots of logic and reasonings to go round. Trust me, they'd be very arrogant and appear spoilt and on top of their world but, they'd fall in line when they eventually discover that you're in same league with them.. Its not for your sake but for your offsprings sake, for they'd get most of their cognitive abilities and learning from their mom for the first 10yrs of their life.. This is the bedrock.

My advice to you is not to breakup with her rather, let her breakup with you instead.. Trust me,at this moment, she'd be very happy about her decision and would appear to be living fine and even glowing and radiating, while you'd feel miserable,dumped and duped at first for some months (probably 6-8 months) but, you'd learn superbly.. Oh, dear! You'd learn tremendously during this grieving period. Eventually, her time of grieve would come immediately after her time of happiness, when she discovers that you're no longer there to pester her about "this and that", your future together, entrepreneurship, general enlightenment, etc. She'd eventually get get a new source of energy and attention from other sweet talking and Instagra-flashing guys but, the veil would soon falloff her eyes and she'd see demons.. Then she'd start regretting her decisions, then she'd start longing, then she'd start reaching forward to guys with your attributes but, nature has taught guys with your attributes,to steer clear of ladies with her attributes by playing the "breakup lesson" with them through the hands of other intellectually deficient ladies hereby, prompting them to reject laides with cognitive deformities.. At the end, it's an irony that it's a simple win-win situation for you..

Trust the evolutionary cycle of nature..

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I have a thing or two to learn from you. I had like to chat you on watzap please.

freedomest:
I liked my own course, it wasn't the main course I applied for, but it was a nice course, and I never regretted it till today.

Some students don't like the course they are studying or the one they studied..

Tell us.

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Nigeria may forever remain a third world country with respect to the kind of mediocrity we celebrate in this country.

Kingspin:
Is he doing it across Kaduna? Or just one-two local governments.






Separate politics from development.

Good observation. Do you live in kd?

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Tallesty1:
Ladies wear okrika mostly.

Even okrika bra and panties

The second statement weak me bro

unbitchable:
if ibos hadn't collapsed regional government, SW would have been far greater. To hell with biafra.

Meaning the Igbos are the genesis of this unmanageable Nigeria.

But a CAN representative from Kaduna told one of the national dailies that the alleged bomber is Muhammad Sanni by name and not Nathaniel. Both Muslim and Christian leaders of this country are worse than the politicians.

cuteboy2:
And a moderator pushed this trash to front page

The moderator is doing his job which is to make more visitors to click nairaland.

tartar9:
The man is a nightmare to a lot of people,but all lovers of truth and justice loves you our dearest Prof.

Speak for yourself Mr. I am a Muslim right from birth. This man is just a nuisance who see opportunity to profit himself in the name of religion due to the messy situation both faithful found ourselves in this country.

Pojomojo:
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You are thinking what I'm thinking bro.

Very painful

Good job Mr Governor.

God bless America. Thunder fire our politicians

tesayan:
No they don't allow calculators. you have 50 questions in 50 mins, that's an average of one question per min. now in the mathematical section there some questions that are not really hard but involve a lot of arithmetic (adding, multiplying) of large numbers....u sort of instinctively have the feeling how on hell am i supposed to do this[b] ACCURATELY[/b] in a min...don't forget once u attempt it and made a mistake reattempting to me a big thief of time...so when i see such questions am like that is for a calculator...which am certain i am not...so i guess and move on

Thanks