₦airaland Forum

olatade:
She's 42

42? And she's still falling for this kind of scam?

At that age shouldn't she have known that any man asking you to send your nudes to him or your bank details is a huge red flag and Up to no good? talkless of living with you?


No Na.this is embarassing for a 42 year old woman.i feel really bad for her.anyway that's the price of being too naieve.as a woman in times like this you just cannot afford to be naieve.the Bible said you have to be wise as a serpent yet gentle as a dove.the dating market is for the survival of the fittest or I will equate it to oja ejigbo if you are an older woman still in the dating market you have to be twice as smart.

Listen women any man,I mean any man asking you for your nudes doesn't love you and doesn't have your interest at heart.any man also asking for your passwords, banking passwords is either a creep or scammer.stop being fooled and men too abegggg.you have sisters,you have mothers,stop increasing the population of bitter, vengeful and angry women

MarketDispatch:
Did you not read where she said the guy promised to marry her.....those were the magic words that unlocked her pants, her doors, and her bank account.

this trick is stale na.even 21 year Olds don't fall for this scam how much more a 30 something year old woman

ipobarecriminals:
how do some people married NUT ? MAD men don't even behave abnormal like this.Why threaten to expose ur partner Nud* haba!

I don't even know why she's coming online to cry.if I was her sibling,I will tell her to dare him to expose it or she exposing it herself, blackmailing, finish

ipobarecriminals:
how do some people married NUT ? MAD men don't even behave abnormal like this.Why threaten to expose ur partner Nud* haba!

I don't even know why she's coming online to cry.if I was her sibling,I will tell her to dare him to expose it or she exposing it herself, blackmailing, finish

Ladies,ladies,ladies how many times did I call you





There is a pervasive increase of narcissistic and sociopathic men out there.if you don't see it, nairaland comments is a perfect example for you.stop catching feelings too quickly,stop sending nude pictures of yourself to whoever you're nacking,stop giving men power to abuse and blackmail you

If you have the nude picture or videos,post it yourself and take out the power he has over you to bully,threaten or blackmail you.

Women. Stop putting yourselves in positions of vulnerability.besides men already know the only way to get into the pants of a 30 year old woman upwards is to promise her marriage.that marriage line usually makes a lot of women so stupid and they end up taking advantage of your desperation and vulnerability

Secondly stop this Victim mentality by always coming online to cry and lastly for the love of God


LADIES RESPECT YOURSELF, RESPECT YOURSELF, RESPECT YOURSELF,STOP COMODIFYING YOURSELF,STOP ALLOWING MEN USE THE MARRIAGE LIE TO ENTER YOU AND DO DUE VERIFICATION AND KNOW HIM 10/10 before agreeing to be with him.psychopatic men are using marriage and relationship to destroy women persecond

Nigeria is a misogynistic country,there are no effective laws against revenge porn and that is enough reason not to have nude pictures.i mean you're not a teenager,you should know better

yemi1504:
I kuku know myself, I will talk and leave in anger, they will have to call me back! I had an incident with a customer service at the same bank and she was misbehaving, I left in anger. As I was about to leave the banking hall, one of the security men saw I was angry and had to promptly assign me to another staff at the same department. Reason I hate having anything to do with being in the bank.

At the same bank at one of the branches, a security man was showing favouritism during the height of COVID then, I promptly reported him to their Facebook page and I never saw him at the branch again.

If we don't report this misbehaviours, the country will get more rotten than it is! Even though, I notice ladies seem to despise men that are outspoken when people misbehave but that is none of my business!

bros I support you jare.make she go eat that cloth for Christmas and resume 2023 without a job

Public service is the worst.you go see people dey come work at after one pm and sit-down to watch African magic or eat groundnut while making you sit for several hours before attending to you.whe. They even attending to you they'll be giving you attitude as if they're doing you a favour.we are a reflection of the impunity in aso rock

ppogba:
If you are still afraid of bank security when your right is being trampled upon then, I will be mild to just tell you to grow up and justify the money spent in sending you to school.

learn to use your brain before typing rubbish.where did I ever tell you I was afraid of the bank security? what I said is that THE BANK SECURITY DON'T SOLVE THE PROBLEM,THEY ONLY PACIFY CUSTOMERS WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING BEYOND THAT

yemi1504:
You can say that again! But if we in our little corners stand up to these misbehaviours right there and then and damn the consequences of people's derisiveness, this country will become better one day!

you go see people dey suffer for que.meanwhile thryre also victims of the same pain O yet they'll be defending the very person who's the source of the pain.this same antithetical behaviour happens in our social space.once you call out wrong behaviour from government or individual, people will give you the Wetin dey worry this one look.same in the Work place, they'll see you as a rabble rouser.na the same behaviour they exhibited when fela was alive and he kept calling out Nigerians bad behaviour and governments irresponsibility and people kept seeing him as a social nuisance till he died now they're now realising too late that he wasn't a nuisance.same with rufai oseni of arise tv

ppogba:
Leave story. Talking about creating scenes, that is one thing no BM wants. Saying I am part of Nigeria' s problem is just being preposterous.
When you are not being well served well in a Bank, you have every right to shout and no security man should threaten you. Perhaps you need to grow up.

abeg receive sense.this guys no dey take corrections and even the security don't solve the problem.all they do is pacify the customer saying no vex without doing anything beyond that.

And yes I said you are part of Nigeria's problem because if you are not part of Nigeria's problem you will not support/enable irresponsible, inconsiderate and disrespectful behaviour.everyone of us wants a better nigeria but we still want to continue with our irresponsible, reckless and unprofessional behaviour.how does nigeria want to get better when we're not ready to accept corporate social responsibility? That is abuse of office and waste of other people's time.do Better please.let us stop all of this foolishness this 2022.we cannot keep doing things that destroy nigeria in our own little corners while Hoping for a better nigeria.it doesn't work that way.if someone f*ked up let him/her realise he was wrony

yemi1504:
She does that and you see most Nigerians waiting there rolling their eyes. She probably decided not to do it not to get noticed. You do that in Nigeria and people display that derision you come from abroad. But if you don't care like me, you ignore their behaviours.

exactly.even thE people on the que will see you as overbearing or an attention seeker.some on the que go even say na only you dey here, abegiiii.

I support every measure to rid nigeria if irresponsibility.we all want a better nigeria but we're not ready to put in the work of corporate social responsibility

ppogba:
Wonderful comment.
She cannot express her opinion there and then because all they know how to do is seek online sympathy when they should fight for their right.

That is why you come across idiotic threads like " my boss has not paid me for 3 months, what should I do" on Nairaland.

you're part of Nigeria's problems.instead of saying wrong behaviour is wrong you'll be using sentiments to sugar coat bad behaviour.what that lady did is sheer irresponsibility and wickedness and when you try and correct that bad behaviour,you will be considered as being disrespectful, creating a scene or constituting a nuisance in the bank.even me myself has experienced such inconsiderate behaviours from bank staff and I totally support her posting it online because many of them are rude and have an annoying attitude towards correction.the next thing you will hear is "are you the only one in the bank,oga do you see me playing,abeg E don do" etc

DontBullshitMe:
Why can't she express her grievances to the woman right on the spot? Challenge her and remind her that it's wrong to keep customers waiting while she attends to something insignificant.

Why the picture?

I still don't get. Open your mouth and speak up right on the spot.

so that she will insult the living day light out of you or tell the security she's constituting a nuisance and walk her out.i love what the lady did.social Media needs to expose all the wrong behaviours of Nigerians so we can learn to respect each other and be considerate to each other

Sundaycomputer:
I get New job for her , who get her phone number hopefully she not married shall

lmao you wan use the old WOMAN do olosho

Fear God o

dalass:
Some idiots will still come and blame the girl for getting raped and killed inside her sister's house.

The deaths of those girls being raped, killed and and their mutilated bodies dumped in the trash won't go unpunished in Jesus name

R. I. P lady

anybody who supports rape,his mother and sisters Will also be victims of what he supports

God1000:
Heartless idiots, what is their gain now


Rest in peace to the young woman

their gain is forced celibacy for life.the rape was the last time they'll see and touch a vagina,their dignity and freedom to eat and move around is taken from them while the animals involved will die

God1000:
Heartless idiots, what is their gain now


Rest in peace to the young woman

their gain is forced celibacy for life.the rape was the last time they'll see and touch a vagina,their dignity and freedom to eat and move around is taken from them while the animals involved will die

Emyzoloye5:
Expect more of such torture houses across the country if Balablu and his terrorist VP mistakenly wins this coming election!

But God pass them

God forbid.they will be using quoranic school as a front for abominable practices like killing and selling human spare parts, raping of little kids and other disgusting activities.

Islam in itself and it's followers have destroyed people's lives enough

Robenna:
I thought it Muslims don't smoke

and na them dey destroy alcoholic drinks worth millions of naira.headslammers and hypocrisy be like Mohammed (SAW) and raping of little children

SIXTEENTH:
W.H.O.R.E

lol una still dey the ERA of slut shaming? Even your mama falls into the category of a LovePeddler and that includes every woman whether married or unmarried because for marriage bride price was paid in the form of money,wines, Yam,fabrics etc in exchange of access to her kitten while the unmarried ones do it directly in exchange of money but this time directly into her account

Even people who don give woman iPhone,wigs, money,food at eatery in exchange for sex go dey call woman LovePeddler

Swear with ya mama pant say you never give woman money in exchange for sex?

GoooodHardDick:
I have said this countless times here that the 12million votes Atiku got in 2019 was because of Obi, now that Obi is in the race, Atiku's chances has died!!! Atiku chances of becoming president was in 2019 but he missed.

Now 12m voters will vote for peter Obi come 2023, plus the new voters. APC and PDP stand no chance in this election. Obi is the man to beat, he is a force to reckon with. Underate him at your own peril

no wonder they cannot get Peter's name out of their mouths

Peter is giving them sleepless nights and living rent free in their heads

Besides that who even wants a female agbero as a 1st lady without dignity,class or Aura.always quick to throw insults and fists.bleachy bleachy.no you too look at Margret obi.no scandal,no filth,no drama.just beautiful,classy , educated, refined and simple

jeromestarks:
If you're a woman a d you're unmarried at the age 23 and above, you're frustrated.

Stop deceiving yourself.
Stop testing men.
Stop trying to see if he will chase you for a year.
Stop claiming hard to get.

Stop lying to yourself. Open up or be single forever.



These days, a guy will ignore you if you ignore him. A man will snub you if you snub him.

Gone are they days we worship pvssy. Men have realized that they're the trophy.

Find a man now before your breasts and pvssy rot away.

if you are a man of 25 years upwards without money to your name, you're unhappy and irrelevant.stop deceiving yourself

If you are a 25 year old man without a job or buisness and you're still living with daddy and mummy or you're still squating with friends and relatives,you're a failure and a brokeass who shouldnt be taken seriously or given attention to by any woman or even man
If you are up to 28 as a man and you have not built your own house or bought your first car you're a nonentity who deserves to be disrespected and trampled over by men and women

Since we want to set standards of success and failure for each other,let's give each other the taste of our own medicine

OkoRemi2023:
oloribu kan ti o se pi ni meta, se agidi ni eyan fi ko Yoruba ni, omo ale aje okuta ma mu omi



Luku Luku LA e jenu re ni beni

back to sender in Jesus name.

You see am.you see what APC led Administration of ineptitude has caused.edi ti mu o

OkoRemi2023:
Yorubas, Hausas, Fulani's, Middlebelt, Niger Deltans are behind you Omo olodo ide




go on soun



Sad east can go to hell

Iya n'je o.motiripe tinubu ti Shey Ogun fun o.ogun tinubu timuo.o gbon rara

Antimarraige:
This Christmas I've promised myself a first time foursome with 3 hot lesbians runs girls. We have already scheduled date and it will cost me 60k. The last threesöme I did cost me just 10k tho

ashiere.is that what Jesus died for or is that the reason for Christmas? Obo Loma pa e

[code][/code]

yomi961:
The devilish party strikes again.
It is our patriotic duty as Nigerians to send the APC parking and confined to the dustbin of history, if not APC will kill us all with their demonic Muslim Muslim agenda.

the stripping him naked was well deserved and thank God he's a man if not some fools Will be saying they're perverts,they want to touch her breasts and her buttocks

Which one be incurable stiff whatever again

xtocom:
When you marry, you will know.

abeg shut up.the answer is already clear

Awon oniranu gbo gbo.they want to be married yet they still want to be single.they Want to enjoy the privileges of being married yet act single.

No wonder side chicks are getting richer and Lazer

Cyynthia:
They have exposed their plans behind satanic and demonic Muslim Muslim ticket..


Yoruba wake up...

Christians are not and can never be slaves in this country..

Never!!

Now i understand know why they frustrated our Pastor Yemi Osibanjo from becoming APC flagbearer..

They have satanic agenda

the Lord disappointed the devices of the crafty so that their hands cannot perform their wicked enterprise.


They'll always plan while the Lord Will continue to frustrate their efforts

GeneralPula:
Hoes go too plenty for this year’s Shiloh..

another opportunity to shame women like you sef no get for body.no wonder oloshos don plenty pass decent women

My mind went to zuby micheal because I remember he was just a regular Nollywood average guy all of a sudden from no where, with no significant growth and predictable pattern like funke akindele (jenifa) he just became wealthy and started showing off mansions and spraying money in parties in bundles like a yahoo boy or drug traffickers

I believe many of these guys in Nollywood are in category 2

So criminals and riffraffs who didn't succeed or make headway in their criminal activities are now going to Ibadan to destroy the relative peace, sanity and order Ibadan has?