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I hear say na him gay lover kill am , na wa o so those people sabi jealous liadis

Nobody deserves to die like this

2RUTHHURTS:
Many naija girls go still rush this guy because of this Car, they love anything on 4 tires and front seats

. maybe the ones wey dey your environment, i go use my two eyes enter death , just dey play .

Sexual compatibility is very necessary, so before tieing the knots, you guys should discuss how you want your sexlife to be , some men love washing plates while some don't.

2 times

I'm not yet married but if I were to be in her shoes I will apologize to my husband and make him see reasons why I have to be at that particular event at the very moment. And lastly I go give am him favorite

Make una date una sef abi

You can't have it all , and the ones here are busy calling every girl olosho this and that

Adakintroy:
Finally a civil person to talk to. Bless you!

Yes we do not know his intentions and we will never know now I guess. But most on this forum already tilt towards the negative. And thats where the response is coming from the backdrop of potential abuse. Whereas it should be for or against. Am saying most are not so. Most are just a man attracted to a young girl and they do have their facination to a degree. Dont care what all this pseudo moralist think. Its not always perversion or misfit delusion. Some of the analysis are just scarily one directional with no option for counter opinion.

What if he cares about her truly and she feels the same with no intention of both harming one another. What then? . Thats the angle am trying to open up before mob crowd started chanting pedophile! Thank God am in my huz.

Hahahaha "am in my house got me rolling" you know in this part of the world everyone is a saint online , we do rush to judge and condemn people just because their own dirty linens is spread outside forgetting that we ourselves might even be worse than that individual.. just like the saying " na who dem catch be thief ".

Thanks for your understanding and God bless you too ..

Adakintroy:
And is some northern part a teenager is permitted to have sex of that age so our laws To a degree support
.maybe not the Christian laws..

my point is if the man is willing to take Care of her and love fine. That releive the parents some duty What's there. You are all making everyman who sleep with a teenager mad and delusional hence you slut in molestation and battering. Were as some is but real love and kindness and he is willing to commite not deceive her. Most young girls got pregnant at ss1 with their fellow class mate. Am saying its real. So Between an irresponsible teen and a working adult which will I give her out to. My point this girls will have sex once nature has permite it. If not with overage they will have it with their fellow teen boys. So who is deceiving who.

I got your points but for this particular guy's case , we were not told whether he has true intentions or not to the said girl , you know the kind of society we live in some grown up adults do take advantage of teenagers. Out of 100% of girls in the world, 70% have suffered child molestation and near rape cases .

I have experienced near rape cases twice , I thank God I was able to overcome it , I will never wish for my enemy to experience such a horrible incident.. I do ask myself what if they had their way , what would have become of me , I will definitely hate myself to the core .. let's teach our children and the younger generation about sex education.

With God helping me I will teach my children all what they need to know even down to lesbianism and gay , I will teach them everything.

baralatie:
That I have paedophiles who are exploring 14 year olds for sex is a reality!
That you are in support is also not surprising because paedophiles are hiding in society hiding and doing their stuff.
That is why the.case of arresting men who are in sex trafficking of teenage girls is real
The arrest of paedophillic men is real
And like I said it you happen to have girls who are teens .I hope you support them if they tell you a 37 year wants to buy them the lastest iphone for sex

It's only God that can help us in this society, the society is messed up and damaged , some men can't control their sexual urges..

Adakintroy:
Its not molestation. You all are the problem. All sex with 14 ur old is molestation. What if she had simple sex and she had a good time herself. And can testify she was not molested. Or is sex molestation now? Na wah for Una education sef.

What's your definition of a simple sex ? It seems you don't any thing about sex education.. according to their law she's underaged, I understand that even in Nigeria some parents gives out their daughters at younger age , they did that out of their children will . You guys should allow the girl child to grow and see things for herself..

His social media handle pls but my bro and my guy fine pass am.

meobizy:
It’s a good gesture, I guess. Good news like this no dey sweet. Na why we no dey see am frequently on Nairaland. Now, if details of her escort lifestyle arise, watch how everybody will click to read.

na bad news and sex story dey spread fast ..

Stories like "I am suspecting my wife is ..........

" My girlfriend is dating another guy ..........

" I carried one olosho to my house............

" My wife is denying me ...........Etc...

That's great

Na wa o , there's more to this , it seems they've been having issues before now , the wife seeing that the husband ate all the bread without leaving any for his children, all hell was let loose , the man would have controlled his anger .. the man was just after his own stomach.

Adakintroy:
14 is already ready for sex. Don't take a mans life away because you all are trying to dominate nature with reason.

Just because you're already having at 14 doesn't mean that everyone should emulate that , his type are much in Nigeria, chasing underaged children, some have died in the process, while some have become single mothers.. you give birth to a child, then one idiot will come from nowhere to molest that child , I know you won't be happy for such a person.

baralatie:
There was a 13 year old . notably if the connection was on tiktok
Must have reported it !(base on say she see Nigerian)
Then polo take over

That's good for him , our country still have a long way to go.

mainaugustine:
Underline the key word...Tighter kpekus...

There was no 13yrs old girl anywhere, he was set up and eventually fell for it .

UK no be Nigeria o

Merry Christmas to them .

Yes

Women dey try abeg

Hmmm

Shey you dey whine me ni

Na for women wey olosho dey their body , anything that makes you have an ex it shows both of you were not meant to be together, if you both are that good you guys shouldn't have separated from the one set.

That's why some men do find it difficult to marry single mothers.

Dybala11:
In other words, it's the men alone that are to be blamed right in your opinion?
This is exactly what I talked against in that my comment. It's no rocket science that unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy, sweet talks or not everyone knows this. So if after knowing this, yet you and your supposed lover decided to go ahead with unprotected sex then you shouldn't be surprised when you see the results. But sides have a fair share of the blame, it's only irresponsible individuals that will pass the blames of their misdeeds onto others.

The truth is that some of them were decieved , I ain't trying to put blames on anyone at times love could be stupid , so many people will go extra mile just to prove that the love they've for their partners is genuine.

I have a friend that got separated from her husband, the marriage was not even up to two years before they got separated , I asked her what really went wrong , she said immediately they got married, the guy started misbehaving, carrying different girls here and there, I told her that the guy's character didn't start today , that he has been like that before he got married, she said this was a guy that even her friends were like the guy really loves bla bla bla , at the end of it all , nothing to show for it .. Now she has a child for him and vouched never to go back to her ex husband.

Dybala11:
This is criticism evasion technique. No man like me will give a girl belle outside marriage, don't try to dodge or transfer blames of somebody's wrong doings to others. When she was engaging in premarital sex with using protection, what did she expects to be the outcome before?

You know your gender and sweet talks especially on teenagers. They've turned many ladies to single mothers , for every single mother out there there's a single father somewhere..

Congratulations, pls leave social media and enjoy your marriage.

See wetin porn don cause , as be say many of the videos na pure editing full am

Madam no go kill person pikin , enjoy the best at of it abi you don go taste another one outside

SugarGirl44:
It’s very painful no doubt.
But as women which do we prefer?
Our husband having a second wife or he having side chics?
There’s no third option, cos no man is going to have sex with only one woman for the rest of his life, we need to stop deceiving ourselves.
They’ve not born that man yet.

Having a second wife won't stop him from having multiple side chicks, my dad has never cheated on my mum since they got married.

It takes discipline and self control for a man to abstain from a promiscuous lifestyles.

This said lady has gotten married to two different husbands before Yul got married to her , she wasn't the single pringle type .
In marriages, it's not only men that cheats , we have some married women cheating on their husbands too , cheating is not a gender based thing .

Bossjakande:
Osun is for jagaban.tinubu is d man to change our economy

Same thing you said during Buhari's time .

alsudan:
I see as Incoming President PO Security Detail has been tripled.

The Funsho Williams treatment is still fresh in our memories.

If Thiefnubuu and his Urchins do anyhow, those DSS guys go put am for their body Wotoporiosly.

Funsho Williams was just unfortunate,may his soul rest in peace, he was loved by many but world people cut his life short .

EmiDon11:
Its no longer new that we, especially girls always tag all fair guys as handsome or lightskinned girls as beautiful.

I just dont know the reason why.
Whenever they want to refer to a fair guy, they will use THAT HANDSOME DUDE.

Does it mean that all lightskinned guys are handsome?
One of my guy's girlfriend left him for a fair guy.
That my guy is now using bleaching cream.
Lol.

Pls i need answers.
Why do girls, especially nigerian girls like fair guys too much?

I thought they prefer dark and tall guys , now is fair guys

E be like that your guy girlfriend no no the meaning of handsome or she no like your guy .

I don't even like guys that are bleaching, I saw one guy like that at the market, if you see what bleaching cream did to his skin , you will feel sorry for him , if I were to be him , I will be ashamed to come outside.. come and see hands and legs