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ennon92:
Most women dont really knw wut they want truly. They would say they want a gentleman when the said gentleman man is cold to every of their action they will term him boring n go for the lively guys n the lively guys will put up their characters. Sooner or later most of them would be crying he beats me, he's a cheat he did this he did dat.....Bingo sef don weak for una matter

Lmao u are just a clown true tho... same thing happens with Men. They'd say they want a Beyoncé buh deep down they know they are falling for Angelina Jolie. Confused ppl everywhere

OLAJADON:
congratulations but I just hope you don't learn the hard way even your forefathers lived a polygamous life and your foremothers didn't complain.
I don't know if you have heard this before, virtually all men cheat some are open about it while others are not, only 2% are faithful, if you say you want the faithful one and other ladies also want the faithful ones I wonder what will happen to all the remaining women.
that is why I told you before to change this your notion of my man will not cheat or else you will injure yourself, am not saying you should support cheating but expect it so you won't be catch unaware.
it is girls like you that are very easy for fvckboiz because they understand that with a little sweet words and sign of committed, you are always theirs. like I said expect cheating from every man but not all cheat so you won't be catch unaware.
no matter how assertive you try to act you are, even from you chatting skills I can conclude you not that difficult to win over, all you need is more lies and few truth.
if you have been heartbroken before or had pass experiences that doesn't deduce for you to jump to this conclusion, attack the situation and not the individual, like I said again expect cheating from all men even the ones that act very decent but not all cheat, I pray you are not caught unaware so you won't remember today 13th of July 2017 and wished you took to my advice.
I wish you well in your adventure

That is why it's called Faith!!! The carnal mind cannot comprehend it, it is foolishness unto him! Faith Conquers All!!! Thank uuuuuu all the same

ennon92:
There's nothing wrong in wut they re saying, the rule is as old as man. I dnt knw ur belief but it is written clearly in the holy books. It takes nothing from u to be submissive.

And if ders nothing wrong that means u are supporting it too... and I'm wondering y u did not answer the question I asked about if ur sister was being maltreated without her having anything to do with it... u are yet to answer... I've seen cases where women are submissive buh even at that they are abused emotionally... U Men just want ppl to be dancing to ur tunes both positive and negative ones but only a slave will watch u doing something negative and keep quiet. God did not give u a woman to beat her or abuse her, he gave u a woman to help you organize yourself as well as she too helping to organize you. It was never one sided, refer to the Holy books!

ennon92:
There's nothing wrong in wut they re saying, the rule is as old as man. I dnt knw ur belief but it is written clearly in the holy books. It takes nothing from u to be submissive.

There is a big difference between submission and disrespect!!! Who says I'm not encouraging submission, I'm not against it. As a matter of fact, I encourage submission

mykelly:
why on earth is he combining Nike (Spurs) shorts with Adidas (ManU) Jersey? Effects of .........

Because that's what he has

Tajbol4splend:
Trash, see the way she is generalising it

Oga I'm not generalizing oo... Re-read my introduction again... I used the word "most" abi most na "all" now Ayam not understanding

Melonny:
I had an interaction with a married man recently and I was shocked that he accused his wife(women) for his unhappiness. He stated his wife was fat. She looks unattractive as hell!
The question is, during your courtship, did you know she's going to get fat sometimes later? did you not know she was very lazy when it comes to exercising? you know but you opted to ignore and expect miracles.
Even when she gets fat after marriage, what have you done to make her healthy and be in good shape? Instead of complaining, why don't you get her some gym & fitness clothing and go to the gym together at least for three weeks.
Be a man, take the lead and don't be too selfish! lol..

My dear, I tire oo and if u look properly, he is not the only one guilty of that crime... so many like him are still out der and it's not encouraging at all

sunshineG:
yes but I am sure a of those guys are just trolling they know the right thing to do

Well i dunno, especially here on NL, most of the guys here are just too brutal when it comes to ladies issues.. it seems they are like lions waiting for a prey (female) to devour. Honestly, I can't stand being maltreated oo, I'm still praying for my husband everyday Cs I can't even say I want divorce at the end of the day Cs I'm against it. It's as if I will gaan marry a foreign man oo but who knows, if he might be worse. I'd just let God help me bcs I might just pick the wrong man if I rely on my own understanding

ennon92:
ur post is a phenomenon that cut across all gender. Some women too do cheat, some women can abuse the living day out of a man emotionally [its even the worst form of abuse] and so on....Btw, u said hw would i feel if my sister/daughter is being treated unjustly: well, i wouldnt feel bad IF she deserves the ill treatment.

Most of u ladies should thread carefully so as to avoid all the bullsh!t

I didn't say if she deserves it, I sed wat if she is not the cause Would u be okay with it?? It cuts across all gender but more rampant with Men... or do u need to carry out a survey U can already see some Men are supporting it and callin it a norm already... meaning I shld get used to it. Meaning I shldnt do anything about it, meaning I shld accept it. I guess this is Y Nigeria is like this Cs most of us try to celebrate Negativity

OLAJADON:
i have noticed that you and your thinkalikes are usually very pretty,a group of people that think they deserve special treatment just because they are good looking or been pampered before.
what you are complaining about has always been like that since the time of adam it a norm,
you cant say because you went to school you want to change the rules. Even those that claim fenimist cant stay their entire life without a man(ask single mothers how they are feeling), they maybe acting strong but that manly space and pamper will still be needed.
women has always been surbodinate of men, even since the times of our foreparent women has accepted the fact that men would cheat and do some certain things without them complaining.
I won't dispute the fact that although our culture has spoilt we male gender to some extent but you complaining now or comparing that because a man cheats on you, you also have the right to cheat is irrational because with time your body go tell you while a man still remains a stallion(that is work of nature).
no matter how hard, you want to form actor, one day your boss go weak. with this thinking you will only attract a guy that want what is under you, no man want a bossy lady or a ladies that try to rub her right to his face. no matter the way you portray it without submissiveness and this your attitude of I know my rights, I don't think marriage will work for you.
it not a curse.

Oga I do not care what u or anybody thinks.... but My Man will not cheat on me Cs the fear and nature of God will be with him and guide him all the way and mind you, we women don't cheat not bcs we can't handle it, we do it bcs it's not In our nature to. So don't try to cover bad habits by saying that men will still be stallions after cheating bla bla bla... havnt u seen professional prostitutes still looking clean and agile after sleeping with different men I'm not trying to drag body with any man OGA and I'm not sayin Men and Women shld be equal... mayb u shld read again!! For the fact that it has been a norm doesn't make it okay. Nigeria has been suffering corruption since independence doesn't mean we shld continue to sit down and encourage corruption... don't use ur mouth to preach wrong messages for every word u utter, u shall give account finally

ennon92:
make sure u read through everything next time.....modify ur topic n sin no more

If Man na God, ppl for don die... wat sin did I commit by posting something that has become the order of the day I'm not trying to shift blame to men Cs I kno some women can contribute to these factors too but I'm saying that the average Man will say such things that I posted above without even confirming the authenticity of the message... wat was wrong with what I posted Or are u saying these things are not happening? I'm from a part of Nigeria where this issues are like the order of the day. So pls u just might not kno who this will get to. Thus, the reason for posting. How wld u feel if ur sister/daughter is being maltreated unjustly and she has done nothing wrong How wld u feel??

Romerocollins:
This is the reason female education is a total waste of time, energy and resources, because the moment you educate them, the next thing is equalizine them selves with men even when Bible made it clear that men are the head of the family.
This is the reason divorce is on the increase everyday because some women don't want to be submissive, they have gone to sch. And no man can control them.

maybe u shld go and do this one with your wife Thats if anyone will agree to marry you with this ur mindset.

ennon92:
Stfu and stop the genralization.

Stfu and read again... I didn't generalize... I sed I saw the post somewhere meaning I did not type it... it was copy and paste but in my introduction, I wrote Most Men and I did not say all. Mayb u need to re-read the introduction again.... I never sed all men, I sed most or does most mean general too

sunshineG:
Op I totally disagree withyou that Nigerian men are selfish but I agree that some parts of our culture and past believes does not favor ladies just like it doesn't favor men in some aspects

Take for example
In the past it is believed that the man must provide every thing for the family while the wife sits at home and does nothing but thank God we now have ladies with a different mindset

Same as we now have a lot of men and families with different mindset regarding the issues you raised

So are men selfish ? I doubt it
Is some parts of our culture and past messed up? Probably
Are there those with changing mindset? Yes a lot among both sex

I understand that too and dats y I used the word in my introductory sentence "Most" and not "All"... buh majority is the order of the day... if u go through this thread, some posters are already proving it by their remarks... Good Men that appreciate Values are Rare but there are still some Good ones out der

Fadiga24:
Smh, You didn't get what you wanted isn't it?

Facts bite.

It wasn't posted to get anything from anyone talkless of you... Go and work on yourself!!! Ppl like u are one of the reasons y our beloved country is groping in darkness, dirty Mindsets everywhere

Fadiga24:
I modified by the way.

And yes I shift the 'blame' to women.

You would too if you aren't so blind.

I'm blind.... wow!!! I need to check ur profile to know who I'm chatting with Cs u are not matured at all... please this is my post and everyone is entitled to his/her beliefs at the end of the day. Don't come here and display ur level of disrespect to women Cs I won't tolerate it from you...

Jacksparr0w1207:
Sorry, I'm a bit old skool. What is 'Cs'?

Cause or because

Fadiga24:
You are not and will never be the last person to post the victim mentality hullabaloo on nairaland.

What good has it done to you folks, none.

You know why, because you folks are your greatest problems.

The ones who are always ready to bring you down, castigate you, humilate are your fellow females, mother-in-law, sister-in-laws and all that.

Maybe you should direct the blame where it belongs.

So u are trying to shift the blame to women That's the lowest thing to do sir, it's a very low mindset...

Fadiga24:
I have seeing articles like since 1654.

why don't you stop blaming other people and start blaming yourselves for your own woes.

U are very selfish!!! That's all I can see. So bcs u have been seeing it does that make it right? Which one is blaming other ppl?? U mean men Does it look like I'm blaming anyone.. Oga don't make me question ur level of intelligence, thank u

I'm not surprised at the negative comments Cs that's what u get from most of the guys here on NL especially when it comes to women issues

Fadiga24:
Yet again.

I'm not playing victim sir .... it is wat is happening and if u deny it then u are not being sincere to yourself

wordbank:
Women are naturally confused and it is getting worse by the day

We are not naturally confused Oga .... if you don't have anything to say pls don't say anything at all thank u

I Got this from a post and when I read it, I was troubled in my heart because this seems to be the norm amongst most of our Men even here on NL. I hope this passes a msg to any traditional selfcentered Man out der!!!

When a Man Cheats, they say Cs the woman doesn't satisfy him... When he beats her, they all say she is rude to him, when he likes anal sex they will say Cs she's loose and Marriage is for better for worse. Are Women meant to be Slaves in Nigeria self You Men make us feel like it's our own job alone to make marriage work. When she cannot still bear a child, they will say it's her fault. U forget one single detail... that our Men are selfish... so selfish that they think they are doing women a favour by marrying them. If a woman is more successful than a man... She's a prostitute. If she's not she is a Gold digger. Is it fair Oga If u turn out bad, They say Cs ur mother didn't train you well but if u are good, you are your father's child. Is it fair at all? It's OK for a man to cheat but it's not okay for a woman to cheat. Is it fair to your sisters and daughters If a woman is raped, it's her fault that the man chose to be an animal. It's not Funny!!!! Change begins with You and I!!! Let's promote Change, Fairness and Equity among ourselves so that tomorrow Our Children/loved ones can be saved from this tragic mindset.

Im not trying to support the lady askin for a job for her younger bro for her virginity in return... u don't kno wat they are passing through and besides it's working Cs she has received answers to her plea and at the end she might not even hav to lose hers. Deeperate situations require desperate measures!!! Pls I need a job too,, Shld I forward my CV too, puleazzzzzz

bigtt76:
Pls share the info too. Planning to sit for the exam too. Thanks

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All the best dear!!

bigtt76:
Pls share the info too. Planning to sit for the exam too. Thanks

Ohkay will post the links to my study materials here so that u can visit the sites and practice for the exam

Well, I didn't know how to construct my subject so pardon me if it was a little awkward... I'd Blame it on the excitement I got when I saw my result today.
Firstly, I want to thank the Almighty God and then, the people on Nairaland that helped me with one information or the other on the IELTS thread, God continue to bless u all abundantly. I can remember how I read through all the sections containing IELTS from start to finish bcs I wanted to be sure of wat I was going into. I was expecting a band 5/6 overall Cs I wasn't so sure of my performance after the exam... I browsed through NL and I saw different sites that helped me with my study... I want to say ieltsbuddy.com did most of the trick for me and then for my speaking, I watched one or two YouTube videos (2 days to my speaking test) and I wasn't even expecting a band 7 in my speaking Cs i wasn't so sure of what I was sayin ..

MY result

Listening 7.5
Reading 6.5
Writing 6.5
Speaking 7.0
Overall 7.0

Thank uuuuuu Nairaland, I'm soo excited!!!!!!!!!!!!

Governor that cannot do anything... is that one Governor Congrats to ur daughter Anywayz and not u Cs she's not part of ur failure scheme

NwaAmaikpe:


She is lucky to be alive.
She gained the gift of life....


Outside that I don't know what she could possibly have gained.
I'm sure she not only lost a limb but a relationship.
Boys seldom want liabilities.


In all, I wish her the best.

Liability U don't even know her, so y shld u be so quick to guess that she's a liability Some NL guys sha, Una can amaze me with Una funny thought patterns. God help our generation

Now I want to ask just a simple question, were the other churches taught in their respective churches to criticize/condemn any church? If the answer is No, you are guilty then for judging and if the answer is Yes, you shld leave that church. Jesus sed let him that is without sin be the first person to cast the stone... Hypocrisy Everywhere!!! Who are you to Judge/Criticize And u say u are CHristlike A Christian God help our Generation

lastchild:
well said by you but what do you have to say about the sexual immorality in CE, or is the poster also lying on that aspect?

CE is not the only church with sexual immorality, though I'm not supporting it but ....

openmine:
lol...was only correcting U...advise no b curse...

Ohkay sir