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the way u handle this wud go along way to determin how this r/s plays out.
if u turn her proposal down, goes to say u never consiered her for marriage irrespective of the reason u give.
and if u accpet her proposal, then u just either have to stay with her even when she has grey areas u dont really feel comfy with,
or eventually break ur engagement.
i think its wise u tell her that ur the old fashioned kind who believes that the guy proposes and not the lady.
hereby buying time to study and observe her grey areas.

her blackmail is not reason u not leaving.
if you wanted to go, u wud find ways to doing that.
afterall she is not forcing u to do it.

bilqiss:
this's some serious gansta sh*t! well done to the researcher/reviewer for the expose!

shud have been the perfect replacement for ribadu, not this waziri babe.

this is an opportunity to negotiate better pay, improved benefits and most of all well compesated severance package if the need ever arises again,
and make sure u got it all in black and white.

michelin89:
Sorry I won't. The girl deserves it. Next time when she wan choose enemy make she look well.

probably she has not lived long enuf on this site to know that u dont mess with michelin tyres.

biola44:
i think u can live ur fantasies on NL

u mean i can have a go at halle berry, dump her do angelina jollie, and finally marry beyonce knowles archer

u never get the best from any of ur r/s cos u attention is divided.

i dont know why we dont see nairaland for what it is,
a place to show ur creative genius!
soo many stories here mills & boon shud be outa bussiness by now.

frankkky:
okiro owing money is his personal business,haba we should know when to draw the lines,it is not public money here we are talking about so whats our own?let him and the bank sort themselves out,he didnt rob the bank he took a loan for christsake

Ur very wrong in this regard.
when a man owes a bank and fails to meet up to his promise,
who do these banks fall to to rescue the situation?
is it not supposed to be the police that mediates between ruly and unruly citizens?
then how do we justify the concept of the head of the body responsible for this task engulfed in such issues.
wud he not use his office to subvert justice?

maybe is high time we let this individuals know that the law was made for all and not some.

haba!! is it like we dont seem to know a simple joke!
when u look my profile pics i resemble chinko!

i have always believed it wise to wait i you can,
but if you can't then choose a partner and stick with one.

as long as its right by you.

if she bought all her ex bf's e no go reach ur turn.
dont dream bro, go make ur own dough and buy ur own hummer.

da-archer,
ur supposed to pick others not urself.
_{just incase u dont know how to read.}

now the hunt begin!!

there is definately attraction @ first sight,
somethingu feel something stronger than normal,
but am not sure the love sighting thing can be proved.

whatever the feeling, its the innate qualities of these person u fall inlove with.
and these u only findout over time. not @ the sight venue.

@brownjay,
its gonna be diff to keep ur tots in check.
have u bothered seeing what girls wear to work this days all in the name of fashion?
i must have sinned like 60times in a min.

something can include, if he has prospect, a future something of that nature.
everything doesn't have to be money related.

u definately will not date someone who will drag u backwards from where he met u.

ladies,
spike, iice, sistawoman. got maturity in thier post,
guys:
justwise, theseeker, mrbrownjay, whitelexi. some other i prob cant remeber tho.

why dont u google it up.
nah wah oh!

@ifeleke,
hope u dont have a gun!
can imagine real, barca and ur wife wants a back massage.

and what have u been up to all this time she was away,
simply hoping she wud come back, or u had moved on.
if its the former, take her back with a clean slate, later then pls let her be.
no amount of paying back wud erase the fact that she dumped u.

@spike, u sure u wanna do that! most especially when his team his loosing?

@op,
women only come second to football.
they shud know that by now.

i know how u feel, its kinda sad, coming from ur betraying friend, and slot of gf.
just let them be and move on. what ever u do, dont let ur judgement be roused by anger.

well if the dudes does accept her proposal ( cos she is proposing not),
then he never really loved u from the onset, and his the most confused guy i have ever heard of.

IFELEKE:
The height of it was when she switched off the t.v set in the middle of a crucial match,I really don't know what i will do(if it were to be me) because i don't joke with soccer.@Poster,
The only thing she can do is to profusely apologise and hope he forgives totally(which i doubt).

i guess this just runs with barcelona fans.  
imagine messi with the ball and she is asking me for a kiss! she go wait abeg.
even if nah babe wey i still dey runs. lol

@sista in-law saga
the problem with us guys is that from the onset of arelationship, we tend to treat our ladies like eggs.
not like amsaying its wrong, but this ladies get soo used to the idea of being handled as eggs, dey refuse to accept any other form of treatment.
ur sister must have been used to being handled like a queen, and now that he wants to handle her like the the ordinary lady she is,
she is feeling like he wants to maltreat her.

what i just feel is ladies should know that u dont get queely treatment at all times.
and hey when me dey watch footie, i dont like being disturbed.

and hey not every fight with the wife means paving way for another.

well i think ladies should know when to bring up issues like this.
dman! his friends were araound, dont taht count for something?
moreso, footie and girls just dont go along together, unless ur girl loves footie live crazy too.

personally there is nothing wrong with the idea,
although i make it a point of duty not to ask, but the if ever i did, i returned even b4 the said date.

wat! u rather i borrow from a neighbour,
or some frend who would use it someday against me.
why wud i not accpet, i wud rather u said dont make it a habbit.
but if sh knows everything about me, and the purpose for my needing the money, then i wud accept.