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Romance › Re: My Ex Gf Store My Name In Her Phone As Customer Care. by izeek(m): 8:32am On Jul 06, 2009

@op,
u just realised say u be service provider? grin

mumu boy like u , having stupid gf's.
no be one sneeze for ur mouth!

Romance › Re: She Sneezed As I Was Kissing Her. by izeek(m): 8:25am On Jul 06, 2009

show.s the kinda low ass girls u roll with.
she has no sense of decency or composure.
what wud make a girl sneeze when she is being kissed.
and u had to come out here to show ur animal nature, by telling us u even continued the act after that show of indecency.

Romance › Re: Should Married Men Have Single Female Friends by izeek(m): 3:02pm On Jul 03, 2009

@romeo,
am sure u wud know dat right?

Romance › Re: My Ex, Is Treatening Me by izeek(m): 2:55pm On Jul 03, 2009

u again?
your English horrible.

Romance › Re: Should Married Men Have Single Female Friends by izeek(m): 2:26pm On Jul 03, 2009

i wu love nothing more to answer this postbut my attention is far more divided as it si, and i know i wont be giving my all.

not to go without a say,
i dont believe the girlfriend is diff from a wife.
this is the same l;ady u dated for years exclusively.
what difference does that now have against a wife.
is she now a mrs cos she has to change her whole view from when she was a miss.

now the reason why ur marriage will not go the way its supposed to, is csos
they lady u took some many years to court andunderstand, now meets a brand new man in the house with brand new set of rules,
cos she is married.
i tot the only way to make ur marriage last, is to be the same dude/lady u were when dating.
marriage only becomes burdensome cos we allow it.
am not saying there are no challenges in marriage,
there are also challenges in r/s too, but how u manage or handlethem matters.

yes about ur friendship with the opposite sex coursing some kindarift bwt u nand ur spouse,
u def have to reconsider.
but we all know no body goes jealousing if they dont have good reason too.
u must have had a past to trace such issues with, or some kinda closeness or bond is beggining to form btw u and ur friend.

if ther was need for extra experience before u went into marriaqge, am sure we wud have seen it written somewhere.

so ur being married dear dont mean u have soo much authoority on how to handle things.
a much younger boy would handle his home better than u do.

they key is understanding.

Romance › Re: Should Married Men Have Single Female Friends by izeek(m): 2:15pm On Jul 03, 2009

Romeo4real:
@Izeek - I think u need to be. Otherwise u would know that in a marriage, you dont always get what u want, and if you get it, it will not necessarily be the way you want it. This is where the work is in the marriage.
A Girlfriend is not a Wife, and as such the responsibilities and expectations are totally different. The realities of what u "want", solely based on YOU, and what u "get", based on YOU and ur WIFE, are totally different.
These are a different set of circumstances,with different responsibilities and expectations. Only a foolish man will not have different policies. Even girlfriends who are not yet ready for marriage will reject the responsibilities expected of a Wifey if imposed upon them.
If you read my post properly, it says - If your friendship with the opposite sex causing an issue in ur marriage, you need to re-asses those friendships and implement some changes.
Surely this must be reasonable advice for anyone.
Yes, for men like u who let their wives have male friends without any boundaries - all b'cos of "trust". Trust has very little to do with this, as part of it is an illusion we create to feel better; Yes, u can partially trust someone based on their actions - the rest, u have to manufacture urself. This is the illusion.

Romance › Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!? by izeek(m): 1:39pm On Jul 03, 2009

@iice,
well how many of this girls think in this line?
i wish all guys run outa patience like me.

Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because We Dont Listen To The Same Music by izeek(m): 1:32pm On Jul 03, 2009

jay bee:
What music are we talking abt?
u = fuji music?
her = gospel music?

no him-fela
her - jahrule.

Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because We Dont Listen To The Same Music by izeek(m): 1:25pm On Jul 03, 2009

@op,
if u guys had nothing in common, then how did r/s get along?
i just feel she never was into the r/s, but madeout to look like she was.
her heart was somewhere else, hence her pleading to leave.
wise thing u did tho.

Romance › Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by izeek(m): 1:20pm On Jul 03, 2009

@lux,
my point exactly, i dont know if its ideal, but am sure its no big deal if both consent to it.

Romance › Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!? by izeek(m): 1:18pm On Jul 03, 2009

atleast i no get micheal nose or face. lol

Romance › Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by izeek(m): 1:14pm On Jul 03, 2009

Ujujoan:
Because they are assholes. It's not even ideal to have sex before marriage!!

and the oneswho allow themselves get pregnant are what holes?

Romance › Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!? by izeek(m): 1:10pm On Jul 03, 2009

luxoire:
tahnk you mai dear -no forming - you have interesting and funy views too - me likes

me no likey. cool

Romance › Re: Should Married Men Have Single Female Friends by izeek(m): 1:05pm On Jul 03, 2009

@romeo,
u dont have to be married to know how u want ur family to be.
thats the problem with guys,
we have a different policy for girlfriends and a new set of policies for wifes.
u get married and let the pressure from marriage incite u into taking decisions u wudn't have taken normally.
i dont see why i cant allow my wife have a male friend.
its totally absurd to think that as a guy u have freedon and ur wife has to be friendless to prove loyalty.
am sorry to tell u bro, but if ur woman decides to mess around, its always the most unlikely of people she does it with.

let her have friends. thats y she is ur wife, u trust her.

Romance › Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!? by izeek(m): 12:58pm On Jul 03, 2009

we all know some ppl say no to make it look like they dint fall cheaply,
but then we all know that its plain foolish and basically childish to go on saying no when its a yes u want.
just end the whole issue by saying yes and let everyone be gone.

Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Seek Ladies Online ? by izeek(m): 12:51pm On Jul 03, 2009

are we supposed to seek them offline?? huh

Romance › Re: Should Married Men Have Single Female Friends by izeek(m): 11:57am On Jul 03, 2009

nobody is suspecting nobody unless there is good reason to.
how on earth do i tell my wife not to even have a male friend.
what does that solve?
if she will cheat, she dont need no friend to do that,
any dude will willingly assist her friend or no friend.

Romance › Re: Can I Get I Girl To Love Me by izeek(m): 11:54am On Jul 03, 2009

dont see relationships as some official benefit u must have.
are u ready for one?

Romance › Re: Should Married Men Have Single Female Friends by izeek(m): 11:46am On Jul 03, 2009

this question is just downright senseless.
is like asking if married men shoul have a personal life,
or social life, or work related life.
how do u stop a grown ass man from having single female friends .
under what category does his colleagues, fall under.

Romance › Re: Two Girls In My Life. One Is Older, But I've Fallen For Her by izeek(m): 11:39am On Jul 03, 2009

Seun:
Charlisco, married people are not supposed to be taking action agaisnt each other! They are supposed to be loving and enjoying each other, and taking action against their common adversaries and challenges!

when marriage issues come up, i expect to hear from experienced ones.
if u not into the institution, u talk from a naive point of view.

@op,
i have come to realise that older ladies dating younger guys are more respectful.
dont know and cant anaylyse here, but its the truth.
unless the age is liko 10-1, go for her.

Romance › Re: The Result Of Misinterpretation And Not Being Tolerant by izeek(m): 11:22am On Jul 03, 2009

am not sure i know wat this si all about, but i bet i have to add my bit.
@dearstock market,
why did u have to split my heart in 2?
TAKING ALL I HAD AND LEAVING ME NO HOPE OF A RETURN.
I LONGED FOR U AND POURED MY WHOLE BEING ( INVESTMENT) INTO U,
AND ALL U DO TO REPAY ME, IS TO HIT ME BACK WITH A SUDDEN RECESSION.

THOUGH AM STILL INLOVE WITH YOU, I HAVE FINALLY DECIDED TO LOVE WITH BOTH MY HEART AND HEAD.
AND IF AND WHEN U DO COME BACK, I WILL STILL EMBRACE BUT WITH A CHRISTIAN STYLE.

Romance › Re: Is It Really Love? by izeek(m): 7:39am On Jul 03, 2009

we attribute every single feeling to love,
even when its just a plain hug we need.

Romance › Re: Guys Please Advise! by izeek(m): 12:45pm On Jul 02, 2009

i think u r just plain scared that u might eventually let ur Greed fall for her.
and dint go sounding all righteous, am sure u stringed her along too.

Romance › Re: Pls Help, I by izeek(m): 11:42am On Jul 02, 2009

funny how u think no 1 knows about it.
even in ur office u think they dont know?
and ur hubby, what excuse did u give him that bought the jeep?

look just resign from that organisation simple.
and u bera open up and tell ur huby.

Romance › Re: Guys Please Advise! by izeek(m): 11:26am On Jul 02, 2009

what part did u play in all this,
or u trying to say she just saw u and fell in love?

Romance › Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!? by izeek(m): 11:24am On Jul 02, 2009

!@iice,
does society influence/ peers mean one has to act immature.
i see this as just being not suitable for a r/s.
if a lady can't not take a simple decision at the point when its necessary,
she comes across as confused, immature or basically not ready.

Romance › Re: Heart Broken by izeek(m): 11:17am On Jul 02, 2009

just take the steps i listed. am sure it wud be resolved.
and next time dont ever date to change.
its never a workable plan.

Romance › Re: 5 Mnths 2 Our Wedding, My Gf Of 8yrs Absconds! by izeek(m): 11:07am On Jul 02, 2009

@kx.
how do u help some1 u can't locate?
moreso there are certain issues that need personal attention.
its not the op's place to seek solution for her.

he should just pray and move on men.

Romance › Re: When Does A Woman's "no" Mean No!? by izeek(m): 10:52am On Jul 02, 2009

@iice,
i have always wonderd why ppl wud stall on something they also want.
my take aniways.

Romance › Re: Heart Broken by izeek(m): 10:40am On Jul 02, 2009

i suggest u call him and tell him u want ur things back cos u wanna move on.
if he refuses, then go to the family.
if they too are no help, go to hi work place, thats if he works.
embarrass him, whatever will make him give u those stuff back.
and if finally he acts like the prick he sounds like, go to the police.

and moreso i wonder why u stick with some1 whose's habits u find annoying.
where u hoping to change him?
ppl dnt change in r/s, they get worse.

Romance › Re: 5 Mnths 2 Our Wedding, My Gf Of 8yrs Absconds! by izeek(m): 10:34am On Jul 02, 2009

i wud advice u dont dig further and let her be
further investigations wud lead to unpleasant stories.
one that wud leave u scared and resentful.

Romance › Re: Heart Broken by izeek(m): 10:24am On Jul 02, 2009

am at a loss here,
what right does he have to keep this things in his possesion?
did he get thm for you?
if he did then let them be, but i dont understand his actions though.
moreso what did u do for him to take those steps?

i suggest u get his family involved, let them talk to him, and if he refuses, get the law involved.

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