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izeek:
very smart, intelligent and likes to poke @post everyonce in a while. lol

seriously,
@sistawoman,
has alot of years on her that one,
speaks with soo much maturity sometimes it pisses me off that someone cud be that matured with no trace of childishness in them.
@iice,
almost in monosyllables. but sure hits the point.
reeks of self confidence and feistiness too.
@luxiore,
no nonsense person. does her thing her own way, and just btw being mature and childish.
@michelin,
well she def is young and shows in all her post. sometimes takes irrational stand but can be handled if the right guy comes along.
@y'me
my yaba left returnee, funny and fun seeking.
says things the way she See's them, which doesn't have to naturally be a popular view.
@spike
would make a good mother, not necessarily a Good wife.
smart, intelligent and got class.

woo her again!

apparently the r/s they had was never serious hence the sisters wud have met him priorto this time.
that said, its a case of a friendship gone sour and both went thier seperate ways.
but in al honesty, her sister shud be told and left alone to make her decision.

we are waiting, whats keeping you from starting with them?

TheSeeker:
When you fill a form online what do they ask about your status? Single, married, divorced or widow? When someone talks to you, like an old friend, what do they ask about your status? They'd say "Are you married?" What will your most direct response be? "No, I'm not," or "Yes, I am,". In view of this, in my own eyes, I'm single because I'm yet to marry. When I have a girlfriend, I'm still single. OK, what do you say when a guy has two girlfriends? He's double?

in this case i think he is trying to single out which one to change status with. lol

dont crucify @post,
ur urge is perfectly understood, and be rest assured they are all lieing about not wanting to cheat @ some point.
what they just find absurd is the fact that u have the urge with all guys.
thats perfectly not normal, and makes u a sexfreak.

what u got through ;ies, wont stay.
i suggest u tell her the whole truth and let it go.

she might hate u for it, or might stick around and see u through it.
onething i know about ladies is that you cant lie to them for long.
they will surely findout.
possible she knows, just decided to ignore the topic until u are sensible enough to bring it up.

platinumnk:
Ok, so there was a thread earlier about a Marketing woman who is constantly hit on by her client. She doesnt want to lose her job, and yet she hasnt told her boss.

Does that mean that she also wants to sleep with the dude?  

Not very much ppl were accusing the poster of trying to sleep with the client.

How is this different?

babe what ur job demands and family issues are two dif things.
we know the co-operat  world actually endorse's prostitution but with style.

i say she let her bf know or do the deed.
she has issues i dont like.

platinumnk:
no she doesnt.

and u know this because?
abeg stop decieving ur age at post,
we all know if nothing was at stake this issue wud be highly irrelevant and annoying in the first place.
sleepwith him or tell u bf.
thats just the two options u have.

i think u are moved by the benefits involved. ]

El Gators:
About the cousin not buying the car is out of the question, because he can afford it, he has an oil servicing company. The guy is really rich and i think that gets into his head, making him think he owns the world.

am sorry to say, but u find this chap appelaing, u just want to be in denial.

u'll check if it is not ur stolen phone.
dumb post.

she gone, and no one dare preach forgiveness,
it's just as lost as the paternity of the child.

am jumping outa this thread to another.

well i think you shud tell cos this might be some trap to see how sincere u are.
your not tellingcud mean u are weighting the chances and ur b.f def wud not like it.

call him and tell him the situation, either he belives u or not, u have done whats right.

Kelvinj:
Let me make sumtin clear here. Wen u look @ ur dic it says single means wen ur unmarried there4 even if u hv a bf/gf it means u hv a r/ship or ur lovers bt d fact remains dat ur still single & nt married. So dnt get it twisted!

Kelvinj:
@izeek
datz nt hw 2 search 4 words in a dic. Wen u talk about side b of any word's meaning dat means ur relating it 2 oda meanings aft all single doesnt only mean unmarried in d dic.

obviously u have confusion running in ur veins.
no insult intended pls.

@nezed,
i wonder why we decieve ourselves.
alot of these stuffs go on in our offices,
and moreso, if she cute, young and loving, wat says no?

well it also means unattached just incase ur dictionary has no side b.

if u have been nuturing the qstn for sometime now,
u shud have a grownup answer by now.
niways, its possible, but depends on the strings attched.

dont be in a hurry to tie the knot,
might prove difficult to loosen later.
wait. if its urs then it wud surely happen.

well its qiute easy for a guy to sleep with a babe with no attachement.
but most cases i have cometo realise that the girls actually have some level of feeling for the guy,
or its monetary concern.
either way, ladies dont gointo something without some level of benefit.
emotional or optherwise.

@mrbrownjay,
well debosky seems confused or better still him don jayup.

@sexybabes,
being in an open relationship still means ur heart has to be involved.
but when u have sex partners, sometimes its directly saying look its just for the fun and dats it.
but the question of a constant sex partner now comes in.
to me its no longer a case of being single, cos the aim of heart involvemnt has been defeated.

those saying not answerable to anyone.
do u have a consistent sexual partner, or u swing?

to diff pips diff meaning.
to me its simply being not in a r/s but yes can have sex partners.

@kokoA,
no ones castigating the kid,
its just that seeing his a med student and all,
he shud focus real hard on his studies.
its not some easy thing to go through pre-med, especially coming from uniben.
although u have a strong point, afterall am sure some of us here started way before 18.
its just like trying to say, hey! dont ake the same mistakes we made at ur age.
we simply looking out for him. only said in a harsh context which i resent.
that said, guy just take it easy ok, u have a long way to go.
love wil defiantely come if its the right time.

have heard alot of digusting, irritating, annoying, repulsive,sordid and repellent things on NL.
_{sorry say they all mean same, but men i dey vex.}

must u state everything that happen btw and ur gf or bf?
what part is left for privacy then.
am totally stunned at the kids allowed on this site.

Recoverd:
Sagging startd from d prison.

u seem informed, which prison where u remanded?

pls let the bitch be.
wats the fucking matter with ladies this days, is there a craze for marriage?
if u dated for 3yrs, doesn't that say the r/s has a future.
always wanting to jump the gun.
abeg go the wedding go lem tight.

Recoverd:
In queue

DONT U KNOW WHERE brt BUSES ARE PACKED!

yes am a doctor atleats thats wat i told xynero.

so what is NL gonna have its first cyber baby!
am sure glad am taking delivery of this one.

@op,
being serious here,
i think its wise u start practising safe sex, cos how long u wanna keep getting scared of preg.
and if u must do skin to skin then babe be on pills.

if it turns out u not right now, u wud take the same risk again, and i can assure u that u might not be lucky next time.

in my years i have cometo realise that secrets dont stay hidden.

@ben,
u can help her nah?
abi u no like egunje?