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spikey why dont u take a vote, and if majority wants it unlocked then do what they asked.
afterall u are here to serve not rule.
this is how our politicians started, taking advantage of the small positions they occupied to intimidate others.
then finally em don reach national assembly come dey form God.
its not ur call, u simply do what people here want.
this is a faceless community, and even though u are hereto " supervise" they way things run,
dont mean u cant listen to the needs of the people here.

@whitey and thonia,
u both either grow up or go look for sites for under 12's.
which kain foolish mama/papa play una dey form up and down!

platinumnk and whitey have unfinished buzz.
u guys settle and lest hear word.

u can dump him and come to me. i dont have interest in your money or family wealth.

abeg carry story waka, for a whole year and he never had the slightest idea ur from money!
what did u guys talk about, or he never got to meet ur family within that yr.

or u no even display wealth in anyways atall.
how una take meet, under bridge?
please take ur story else where.

greed!!!!!!

@ben,
if nah that one,
dem don comot from wickedness. they are now principalities and powers.
thier wickedness don enter high places.

its outright wickedness to hurt ppl deliberately,
but then there are decisions u take sometimes that wud seem hurting at present,
but is for he later good of the parties involved.

@whitelexi,
this kian talk is wat puts u in trouble with them ladies. lol

very confusing post.

@sexyleamon,
see my hands dey outstretched,
although i for preffer unchritian sister hug. lol

emeraldbee:
our own is a very personal issue. He knows what he did to me and i don't care anymore, he has been doing many bad things to women and his time is now officially over.

okay, as much as i like dirty talk and all this gossip flying here and there,
u know this dude personally, why bring this here?
can't u go over to his house and have a talk with him,
nd if he refuses to change then its his personal biz.
we cant all be Paul's u know, some Judas have to make up the number.

@white,

when an issues hovers around a guy continuously, its wise he takes a good look at hiis life and consider areas to make changes.
it doesn't speak well that all they have accused u about here is womanising, lies and deceit.
have a rethink and change.

@whitelexi,
so u sabi am self?
oya wetin transpire btw una two.

did he use and dump u?
i don't understand ur anger, cos u just described a normal lively guy with what u just said he does.

whats ur personal vendetta?

agabaI23:
Quite excused!

NL always seem to have the right answers. lol.

look her age wont make any difference.
maturity is not a function of age
she might be well prepared for marriage, and she might prob not be.

i have heard of a 32yr old lady that got married and 2weeks after sepereated for compatibility issues.
just follow ur heart and try to bring her along.
marriage is just a legalization of ur courtship.

u mean two pirate ships!

am always sceptical about older ladies younger guys.
am not against it, but am always of the opinion that the lady has to take soo much into consideration b4 dating the guy.
one of this major issues to consider is he's maturity level. can he handle ur being older.
can he mix up with the kinda friends u have,
can he relate on the kinda level u operate, or are u willing to come own.
soo much to think about that sometimes its next to impossible to consider.

@post, i just think that he is childish and only dated u for what he cud get from u.
leave him be and move to some1 who likes ur fat size and don't care what he's family think.

@jo-izzy,
well said, am always happy when i hear a girl accept some level of truth no matter how minimal.

at least we know some are born leaders (me) and others are born to learn from leaders how to lead.
there is not a chance u have equality in a r/s, do we start from the decision making to financial matters!
someone ( guy mostly) just assumes this position naturally. its the only way sanity can be achieved.

cutemoses:
HAHA, ISN"T IT OBVIOUS THAT THIS IS NOT REAL, YOU CAN EVEN SEE THE POSTER IS NOT RESPONDING, SHE JUST WANT TO SEE VIEWS OF PEOPLE ON SUCH AN ACT. IT'S A GOOD STORY ANYWAY, ESPECIALLY THE PART ABOUT THE JEEP YOU WON FOR bleeping YOUR BOSS WHICH YOU DONATED TO YOUR HUSBAND,

r she might be for real, and i too ashamed to come and continue her thread.
uselessness runs in ur veins.
i just hope u dont have daughters to continue where u left off.

try keeping a flower for 3 months,
if u succeed, then take a pet.
and ift hat survives 3months, then go ahead and date.
_{small children of this days}.

and u need advise on what to do?
u dont think u need to set this dude straight!
tell it as it is girl, u dont love him.
unless u have a seductive, string me along spirit.

u can't keep changing cars cos its no longer in vogue, or u dont find it fanciful anylonger.
i guess ur age is the determinant like ben said.

dont care if its the lady or the mam,
some1 has just got to takecontrol ofthings.

its a natural thing for one to assume dominance in a relationship,
or have it bestowed upon.
some1 has to lead in a r/s and some1 has to follow, doesn't make u trampled on or something.
its just that when two people try to assume dominance, its most likely that the whole idea hits rock bottom due to clash of ego's.

u dont have to like sliced bread.
u can do ur agege for all we care.

so untrue!!

she is the next best thing to since slice bread.

@whitelexi,
tanx bro, u sure understand that one is not a failure unless he see's himself as 1.
if he is making an effort, then try to be supportive than bringing his bussiness here for NL to decide.

would get tested and whatever the result, i will stay with the person.
likei have been lectured oever and over again, hiv is not a terminal disease,
it just the way the public percieves it.

why bother, hasn't PHCN solved that problem!