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XhosaNostra:
Jace, trust me, some guys will be making snide remarks. Read comments anytime there's a relationship between a South African woman & a foreigner. The guys will be calling her all sort of nasty names eg.S'febe etc. Some even say it 9/9.

Yabo? I'm sharing & you're making jokes

@bolded...

They are just being childish and they need to get over it,but I guess it's just men in general.Have you seen how protective Mexican men get when a black guy gets close to a Latinas beauty?

XhosaNostra:
Tell me when you're ready. I'll have it on my profile. I feel uncomfortable here

I'm ready

XhosaNostra:
Ok, let me search for a pic.
Feeling a little self-conscious though because apparently we have cankles (thick ankles) here in SA (as opposed to having toothpick legs I suppose), according to some people

Hope it uploads. Behold the cankles

where is it?

XhosaNostra:
Hmmm well... it seems it's the South African men that are not adventurous enough. Because when we start dating outside of the country, you call us names

Lol, sexy time never happened not because they were foreigners, I just have slow burning passions A lot can happen while you're still deciding whether it's the right time or not & a moment gets lost just like that. There's no rule that says you should bang everyone that tickles your fancy anyway. At least that's not my MO

I actually still care a lot about what my father thinks. I do know he'd accept anything & anyone if it makes me happy. I'm his "Baba" after all
Do you have a nickname that your parents still call you by? Mine is Baba, as in Baby, not the Zulu meaning for baba. LMAO.

No,that's not it.The fact of it all is that most foreign women are ugly and look manly and that is a turnoff to a whole lot of us (myself included) .Actually,most of us don't care who dates who,I know I don't

alright.

I don't remember what they called me tbh.I think should call them and ask them what nickname they gave me when I was a baby .
No wonder you still act like a baby with your tantrums,it's because of this "Baba" nickname.

XhosaNostra:
I happen to be very open-minded. The only "new ideas" someone would have to take & shove up where the sun don't shine would be, a party, a polygamous relationship or any weirdness involving a 3rd party. Other than that, I can compromise on a lot of things.

Yeah, I have very floppy ankle that can easily sprain. They look strong but they're shitty

Fair enough.I'm 100% with you on the polygamous relationship,never understood it,never will.

Let me see them,maybe Dr Jace can make some prescriptions

Kazikazi:
Dude,
If these kwerekweres forms an joint army,don't you think they can overpower and rule mzansi? And they know all corners of mzansi while most of mzansis don't have a clue about where is kwerekweres nations

Kazi! I admire your optimism regarding foreigners having a chance of winning a war against South Africans...but in reality?? nah dude,that's a stretch.

First:As much as there has been a huge influx of foreigners into South Africa their population still don't make even a quarter of SA population.Secondly:South Africans are not checken-hearted,we don't bow to any man.We didn't bow during the darkest times in this country.What makes you think that the South Africans who fought the most advanced military in Africa at the time will checken out on foreigners who couldn't even throw a brick at their dictators back home? ...In your heart of hearts do you really believe that kwerekweres stand a chance?

sufferNsmiling:
This is so funny please which type of foreigner do you want to date in the townships the ones from abroad or the ones from other african countries. If you want the ones from other african countries I know where to look especially for the zimbabwe and botswana type at one point you can get around cape flats also there are some hot sports in soweto. But with the africa type you have to be careful because some of them a desperate for south africa man

I want the ones from other African countries,but not Botswana and Zimbabwe cos those ones are like our close cousins.Tell me about about up there,deep into east and western parts of the continent.I just wanna be entertained with foreign humour while eating joloff rice .I don't think they are desperate for a South African man,I think it's more about permanent residence in SA...in fact most of them don't trust us,they think we're serial cheaters.

XhosaNostra:
What's the specific reason you wanna date one?

I've not had sex with one, but I've "dated" an Ethiopian & went on 2 dates with a Kenyan guy. The Kenyan was a good guy, but at the time I still had a few drawbacks about dating a foreigner. One being that my sister is very xenophobic lol. Not 100% sure about my stepfather. But basically my fears revolved around what they were going to say or think

I don't know....just to expand my horizon I guess .I'm not eager tho but it doesn't hurt to try new things,does it? .They seem to be scared of SA guys tho .


And the reason you didn't go to bed with them was?.....

Lol never thought there was a point in Punky's life where she wanted an approval from someone else to do what she wanted to do .So now that you have grown and in charge of your own life,would you now embark on that expedition?

XhosaNostra:
I wonder.

Get this, it was Ghadaffi's loot, which Zuma tried to cash in on after the murder! Now the stolen booty is with King Mswati.

I taya.

yeah,I heard about the loot that was hidden in Swazi.Still wonder how we survived 9 years of incompetence.

XhosaNostra:
Exactly! So kwerekwere for who?

Haha.Have you ever dated a kwerekwere before? I wanna date one some day.

XhosaNostra:
Of course I'm conservative

No, I don't wear high heels, I have very sensitive ankles. I wouldn't last a minute on high heels, I'd be galloping like a horse just to get to my destination fast so I can take them off

I have quite a few pairs of shoes, most are sandals or slip-ons, plus boots.

Nothing fancy, just practical shoes to carry me from my doorstep to wherever I'm going

I see,just don't grow to be grumpy.Most conservatives hate new ideas


ohh I remember you told me about your bad ankles.Very unfortunate cos I imagine you would look attractive in stilettos

XhosaNostra:
JaceBlaze

We had Al Capone for a president .Just how many skeletons are still in Zuma's closet?

XhosaNostra:
No, no, I'm one of those people that can have something for years & still have it looking brand new. I'm very protective of my stuff & I take good care of them. No throwing. Just a lot of screaming & stomping when I get in one of my moods

You see the pair of shoes below? I've had them for almost 10 years (Oopsie. Just did a calculation), but they're still in mint condition

Ahh so you are a conservative type?


nice shoes,I like the striped pair.You don't have high heels? let me see your collection

XhosaNostra:
Lol, you're a kwere alone Say you trace your roots, will you relate to whatever cultural practises in that country today?

If I am I dey just gonna drag you to kwerekwere lands with me when they Deport me .Nope,I still find it hard to understand people from Zimbabwe yet they are just on the other side of the border,it would be VERY difficult Punky.

XhosaNostra:
Hahaha. It's a positive song though, because it says they should be left alone.

Not left alone to do & say as they please though.

Positive yes,but as long as they are not in their jungles they won't be left alone

XhosaNostra:
I'm a little sensitive

Do you sometimes toss cups and other utensils around the kitchen when you're man?

XhosaNostra:
Still remember the makwerekwere song by Boom Shaka?


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Hmmm I don't remember this one.I'm sure their fans in other African countries skipped this one whenever they played this CD

XhosaNostra:
The word is Grigamba, not Grikampa lol. Are you sure you ain't a kwere yourself?

Thanx for the correct spelling...but does it really matter tho? I just love the "grrr" sound of it.won't we all be kweres if we thourouhly trace our DNAs? no,I'm not a kwere

XhosaNostra:
Yeah, getting too close to people is risky lol. Vulnerability is not fun.
With me it's strange, I'm not hurt much by gossip & lies. It's the little things that get to me.
I remember one time knocking at a friend's house & I assumed she was in because I heard the TV blaring. I knocked & knocked, no answer. Finally, I gave up & went home. This is something most people would write off & forget about it in a moment . But not me. At home behind closed doors I was hurt. I thought she ignored me on purpose. While I was still nursing my achy breaky heart, the pain suddenly turned to seething rage. I was pacing up & down trying to find a chill lol. Nothing worked.
After one week she finally came to my house, to ask why I was ignoring her messages & calls. I told her that I didn't appreciate what she did that day. She seemed genuinely shocked. Apparently she had not been at home on the day, a visitor was. An old lady that was still at her house. I felt like such a drama queen lol.

Haha you are such a baby Nostra.So much childish tantrums over unanswered door? .I don't know why but I find sulking women adorable,looking at someone being angry while knowing they also can't do anything can be fun to watch

TayserMahri:
Now he's pro-white?

No,he's not.Actually nobody knows Malema's stance when it comes to many things,not long ago he was telling his followers that Indians are racists but now he wants solidarity with Indians.One day Mandela is a sellout and the next he is an African hero that should be emulated.He flip flops a lot.

TayserMahri:
Use Grikampa. kwerekwere is def Nazi!

Grikampa sounds eerie to many too .But I must admit,kwerekwere is just straight guillotine

XhosaNostra:
Hahaha, Jace. They say we're hurt the most by the ones we love, whether intentionally or otherwise & when that happens...oh boy

Can't remember lol.

Truth spoken.What you just said here is one reason why I don't need many friends in my life,it's just too much toil and they come with motives only known to them.


What? and here I was at the edge of my sit...

XhosaNostra:
LMFAO. I'm sure I'm also a villain in someone else's story. But Punky never does anything bad, unprovoked. Only thing I'm guilty of though is being nasty & mean (verbally) when I'm hurt or angry.
Have someone ever spread lies about you?

I can see that. Thug loving

But I'll be a gentleman wouldn't wanna bring Lara Croft out of Punky.Hmmm..can't recall Nostra,but I'm sure it has happened whether I know it or not.You? recall any?


Lol

XhosaNostra:
Lol, it's because of the portrayal of love in their movies. Their 90s movies especially, are GOOD. Devdas! What's not to love? The music is also awesome. I can't stand Indians in a relationship though. They're not as fabulous as the characters in their movies

Hmmm...seems you have quite a refined palate, Ricco Suave

You really love romance,huh.I think if Shakespeare had a female version it would be you .Why can't the godzillas we meet out there be like you? come to my rescue ZarZar


Oh thank you.Even savages can be romantic at times

XhosaNostra:
India. I have a thing for the Taj Mahal. It's a monument created out of (endless) love, so for me it's the most romantic place to be.
I don't wanna be on the beach somewhere, bored out of my skull.

What about you?

You seem to be infatuated with Indian culture,I think I remember we spoke last year and you said you love Bollywood movies and Indian songs?


To many favourites for me but just at the top of my head,It's Venice,all those hotel by the water will do

XhosaNostra:
What's exciting? Well personally, I really like the "honeymoon" stage of relationships. I like being smitten lol. It's a nice feeling...while it lasts I wish relationships could stay like that forever, TBH. I'm a delusional type of romantic that often feels things are "meant to be", at least during the early stages I just love love

Hmmm...I really don't know. I guess it depends. Many people aren't worth the risk though lol.

Just out of curiosity:if you and your man had all the money in the world,where would you guys fly to for a honeymoon well spent? .You not alone,we're are all delusional,sometimes as humans we tend to think that what we desire is what will turn out to be.


Okay

XhosaNostra:
You're sounding like such a guy right now lol.
Well, I think it's kinda exciting I'm not sure if I'd go to such lengths just to find a mate though.

I'd...

Lol what's exciting about it? my spine shivers at the thought of it,I guess I'm not a fan of serious commitments...yet


LOL.for you how long is long enough to get to know somebody before you go into marriage with?

XhosaNostra:
On Lifetime. It just finished.

Lol Jace, live a little Throw caution to the wind & live dangerously
I check up often on past couples. Many have divorced but a few are still together, even have kids.
In the South African one, not even one couple survived Too much drama.

Okay.ring a bell next time.


I hear you,would you go that far? marriage is a BIG step Punky (a life altering step) and you gotta do it right and with the right person.Personally,I don't mind sex with a stranger,but marriage? not by a long shot.

Not surprised that only few survived lol.

XhosaNostra:
Cuddling weather tins

Just in bed watching Married at 1st sight. They picked good couples this time around, I have a good feeling about these unions.

Are you crazy enough to marry a stranger?

I'm a visitor,gotta behave,you know!


What chanel is it on?

Nope,just to soon wake up to a realisation that I'm married to a psycho? it's insane in my eyes to say the least.

tylann:
You guys are lucky @ xhosanostra and jaceblaze

Where iam at the moment it hasn't rained since November last year
The rain clouds gathers giving you false hope then they disappear
The sun is killing us

You done pissed off the Kenyan gods .Swallow your pride and go to the sanctuary and confess all your sins.

XhosaNostra:
You're still in Bloem?

It rained here too last night until 1pm this afternoon. But the weather has been moody the whole day. Tonight it's chilly.

Yebo,gonna be here for two weeks.


Wow.Here it started around 6pm and paused by 9pm,there's rain clouds as I speak but they don't really look promising.We shall see.

XhosaNostra:
I hope so, I'm sick of them!

How's your weekend? Is it raining?

Nothing much,just watching The Matrix lol.It rained last nIght,is it raining in PTA?