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XhosaNostra:
She's OK. I don't know how to describe her lol. But she's not the mateki wearing type that loves Vaseline

It's the Ndebele in my experience. One told me that they feel like they're South Africans because Shaka drove them out. How the Xhosa ended up there, IDK, because we were never involved in Mfecane. It's probably people who went to exile there, I suspect.

Lol, what makes you say that?

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I thought the same thing, that it could be him (ubunja) but I dismissed the thought. Who knows? He got time if he's hiding behind different accounts.

No, she's really sweet. I can't do that to her. I only get testy with the ones with empty pride. It's hard to be mean to Zimbabweans though because they're almost always easy-going & all smiles. I've met only a handful that I didn't like for one reason or another. In general, they're OK.
One of my friends is actually cheating with a guy from there lol.

That's what I heard, but she should have been upfront about where she's from. IDK what the Xhosa people in Zimbabwe look or sound like. But to me she's not Xhosa, at least not one from South Africa. I know Xhosa people even before they open their mouth

XhosaNostra:
Abantu bakho The Ndebele people from Zim are always pretending to be South African. I bet the guy KaziKazi is talking about is Ndebele. They've not quite mastered the disguise though, because the way they pronounce certain words blows their cover away.

There's someone here where I live, whom I suspect is from Zim, but claims to be Xhosa & yet doesn't even know where she's from in the Eastern Cape. Who doesn't know where they're from? "By the sea" is not where you're from unless you're a seagull or starfish I just play along with the charade because I don't wanna embarrass her. She's a nice person.

Kazikazi:
I met with one who pretented to be a Zulu,When I told him who he is, a dude got too angry.
And he was dark ngathi imfene ilambileyo.
Hohohohoho..

mtisTheQubit:
@jaceBlaze..
what do you call a southy without a girlfriend ?..

forgiveness:
Nigeria started building escalators long before South Africa ever dreamt of one. Why the fuss?

forgiveness:
*Yawn* boring.

Kazikazi:
Why waiting?

If you wanna know how they look like,just get a glimpse from their leaders.Here are 3 Kenyan former presidents
1st= Kenyatta senior
2nd=Daniel moi
3rd= mwai kibaki

XhosaNostra:
Scatter di place!

LMAO. Truth be that.

XhosaNostra:
Wetin you con do with pinshure for hand? You wanna imagine it around your blokos abi? Leave kpanshing matter for one side. Right now we dey scatter de tin to show hore bosso ke mang

LMAO @ thunder faya any mugu. Bros, your beautifully-shaped head dey dia!

XhosaNostra:
Kwaaaaks. Mnxm. Una no well. Wahala dey

Lol, I wonder if the gatekeepers of NL don't get annoyed when we dey speak de bush English anyhow

sufferNsmiling:
You are incomplete stupid idiot live other african countries flag alone especially southern african countries leave their flags alone and concentrate with your poverty and suffering. You don't know on this trend zimbabweans are our brothers

XhosaNostra:
I saw that. Nice one. Don't remember the last time I had my hands on a bald head You should let me touch your head like a pastor to jog my memory

XhosaNostra:
A brush cut or growing chiskop?
Btw, what is it with you guys & chiskop? Are brush cuts outdated or what? Because personally, I prefer them over a gleaming & sweaty chiskop

XhosaNostra:
LMFAO. I see. But that's chiskop, I can't tell

XhosaNostra:
That's true.

Well, is it peppercorn hair? Because the picture is not clear. It looks like it could be curls or amagqagqa aka "Kaffir hare"

XhosaNostra:
Oh OK. Can you click? Because Southern Sothos can.

Lol, you look good. Is that S-curl I see?

XhosaNostra:
Oh so "Sibeko" is a character he plays on Isidingo? Because that is not a Xhosa surname. Soapies will amaze you. A person's character would be one thing & their name will be another.

XhosaNostra:
The blanket-wearing Sotho? I hardly meet those here. You usually find them around Jo'burg & the EC.

I'm not sure which year it was taken but it was some time in the 90s.

XhosaNostra:
Both are Zulus though right? I know the 1st guy but I don't know the 2nd one. Haven't watched SABC in years lol.

XhosaNostra:
Wow @ the Zim part. So now, what do you identify as? Sorry, I forgot what tribe you said you are

No, I didn't have a wrinkled forehead! LMFAO

XhosaNostra:
LMFAO. I get you.

No, I don't have an Afrikaans or English surname, but we don't need a forensic team to know there's more to it. We're pretty diverse in my family.

When I was much younger, I used to be teased a lot. Apparently, I looked more like a "Bushman" On my father's side of the family, they do belong to the clans with Bushmen blood though, but I learnt about that a couple of years ago. So I guess they were right all along

Do you know your family history?

Below is younger "Bushman-looking" me

XhosaNostra:
Do you know what each colour on our flag symbolizes?

Personally, I think it's simple mindedness to focus just on the "looks", when you don't even know what story it is telling or trying to tell. Perhaps we'd appreciate these things more if we went deeper than the aesthetics.

I wouldn't change anything about the South African flag. It represents exactly who we are, THE RAINBOW NATION. Not only are we diverse in terms of racial makeup as a country, but some of us are the product of a colourful past. That is why in the Xhosa culture you'll find people with English & Afrikaans surnames.

You can read more on that here

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.geni.com/projects/Shipwrecked-Castaways-on-the-SA-Coast/15917&ved=2ahUKEwiWnK_Rse_gAhUjonEKHRVWAGYQFjAAegQIAxAB&usg=AOvVaw1Pl9t-Tyha4rNoaGAIzVoO&cshid=1551939674871

Kazikazi:
But dull means dull! Don't run away.
Anyway, [b]most of African flags don't impress me.[/b]Yes others are far worse.I think Botswana and DRC have the best flags.Tz not bad but they could arrange the colors horizontally. Kenya should take out those primitive weapons.Ghana should remove that black star( there is no black star in the universe) SA flag has too many colors.

XhosaNostra:
LMFAO, no wonder they always have legs like flamingos or the bluecrane

Tsonga dancing is cool to watch though.

XhosaNostra:
I listen to all kinds of music lol. I don't have a favourite. Even reggae & Mbhaqanga sef I play am

XhosaNostra:
1st time I'm hearing about them today. I'm not a huge fan of rock music that's why.

XhosaNostra:
No, not really. Never heard of them before.

XhosaNostra:
Well Jace, the thing with jealousy is, it's not an enjoyable feeling. It may be ego-boosting for a guy, but for me, it signals the end of the relationship because I don't like it. It's sickening. I actually get physically sick lol.

No, I don't fight other women, but I will fight with the person I'm dating, sometimes for hours It makes me so angry.

XhosaNostra:
LMFAO. Understood. How long is the "hit list"?
OK, worst experience?
Did you feel like only with her or that's your thing in general? I find that odd too, btw.

Watching someone brush their teeth is not something I usually have hots for lol. It was just him. Everything he did would have me gasping & panting

XhosaNostra:
What do you feel about a jealous partner?

Yeah, I'm extremely jealous, but I don't like a jealous man. It's annoying. But me, I'll be jumping all over the place in fits of jealousy