sosexy111: I will go straight to the point and make it as short as possible. I have a direct cousin who lives abroad. I also have a friend and colleague (female) who also is serving currently. A year plus now, my brother having seen her in one of my dps and likes her, in fact loves her and I connected them to be friends to at least start from somewhere.
I had a consumer goods product marketing to supervise for two weeks on a sales activation, so I invited my friend to join and work so as to have some cash to spare as per a corper. So on the course of the sales activation, I came across a good old friend of mine (male) currently in the country over 5 months now starting up his business stuff( saw him last two years back)
Ok after work that day, he took me out alongside my friend and later told me he likes her but its not for me to speak for her or start blabbing that she is dating my bros but I expected her to handle it maturely even after they exchanged numbers that's if truly she likes my bros. Its true my bros is not engaged to her but I specifically told her that if she doesn't genuinely love my bros that she should back out not just about the stuffs he sends to her from time to time. I told her that it will hurt me to see someone playing with my brother but I know she is a good girl.
Ok that was it after the evening outing that day, I left with her. A week later she traveled to her state of service. Now fast forwarded to 2months later which was 11 days ago, my bros came into the country wow! I was so happy, saw him face to face 9 years ago, after all said and done, he won't let me rest about seeing my friend, told me he would want to oil the wheels of custom if God grants them the compatibility. He called her to come to Lagos, but since she was coming for Easter, everything balanced. He traveled to east to see family and loved ones.
The girl has been around since easter but though she didn't tell me she was around but I ain't bothered because I mustn't know whatever that goes on between them even if I am the one that introduced them to each other and I love minding my business and giving people their privacy.
But what I don't understand now is that I rushed to the house of that my friend that once took us out to collect an appliance I want to use for live demo examination with a company I want to get a mini contract with ( he has the appliance and I called him to allow me use it and he said I should come pick it up) And on getting there that afternoon, knocked but no answer, after sometime, I wanted to dial his number before he answered the door asking who and I told him is me, he opened and here is my friend seated on the cushion. If I say I wasn't surprised, then I am a liar.. I said hi to her like a stranger because I was still trying to wrap my head around the possibility of them still being in contact but I maintained my cool. She came and hugged me and I asked her when she came into town.. Well I carried the stuff that took me there, thanked my friend and left. she called me countlessly later that day but I didn't know what to say when I pick up so I didn't pick up though I know its immature. Bros is entering Lagos tomorrow to come see her and travel back to base and is looking so anxiously to meeting her. She has called me plenty times again today but I still don't know why I can't answer. Don't even know what to male out of the whole thing. I ain't concluding that something is up between her and my friend but she didn't mention if she likes him or not, again I may be taking it too personal and I am NEVER gonna do or say anything about this to my bros as its none of my business. But I don't understand shaa. If I ask that friend of mine whatssup with him and my friend, he will open up but may be I am scared of what I may discover so I better let it go. I just felt like voicing it out though. Human being shaa.
Lalasticlala..
If you find out she's dirty for sure and you care about your brother, then you need to get her out of his life ASAP. Ladies like this give bad return on investment [ROI] in the long run and they're not worth it.
calmeGOBE: Sometimes I sit and get perplexed over this issue, I need serious answers please.
I'm jxt 20yrs old(admire gals a lot shaa) Bt dats nt d main issue, anytime I try to approach any of them my first step always give them a message ,they automatically turn out to fall in love with me and then they now turn out to b the ones doing d 'toasting' while I do d blushing...at first I thought it only happened to the ones with low-self esteem but later found out it happens even to the gals with the so called high-esteem(presently dating one now).
Is there any explanation to this please?
N.B I'm talking about all the gals I've dated nt some....all!!!
You sound like a natural alpha male to me, your self confidence must be doing wonders. I'd call it talent and luck, luck because a lot of guys out there have to go through rigorous self improvement programs before they get to the level of approaching girls and making them go crazy.
Use what you have wisely, not every guy is so lucky to be talented at game.
classicB: You must have thought it was a guy talking about an ex or smth. I am actually a girl and I am referring to my 'ex best friend' if there's anything like that. I was in jss1when we became friends, this year would have been our 12th year of being friends how time flies, but NO! I can't even remember the last time either of us called each other. I was just scrolling through my contacts this night and I saw her name, "should I call her"? At all, old things have passed away and moreover our birds no get the same feather anymore. She had always wanted to be a big girl, thank God she gained admission into big girl's uni that was how my friend changed We were complete opposite of each other but then we used to complement each other. I am introvert and she is extrovert. We were inseparable, following each other up and down. Some students sometimes mixed up our names... We were that close. I was her one true frnd, I knew her in and out. The potential big girl in her made her lie so much to every other students but I didn't care, I visited her house that no one else knew, not once or twice. Her big girl created a distance BTW us, the choice of clothes, frnds and guys she follows. The last time I commented about her dressing was when she wore a cleavage exposing dress and I commented against it, she clearly asked me to mind my business which I have done since then, I never knew that was a child's play compared to what she wears Now. Where's that old frnd of mine? I missed being frnds with her I don't know if she feels the same anyway. Who else is in my shoes
Such is life sister, she might already be at the point of no return so trying to change her might be a waste of time. When she's nearing 30 or above it she'll come to her senses and try to settle down( if she can).
Her life is in her hands, you tried your best giving her advice. If she decides to run her life down the drain then it's all on her.
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Sounds like fun, but this won't build up your art skills the same way 2 hours of self made art per day will. I'd rather draw, fail and draw again until I get it than have an app do it for me.
zolapower: guy I would rather u stop arguing with this lazy south African guy. The crime we are talking about here was given birth to by the whites ,ask him how many whites have they set there houses ablaze for the crime perpetrated against there people? After all,we saw what Mugabe is doing a true African ,who has taken all the land belonging to the white supremacists. Why can't they replicate such . Check out whom u are arguing with and see how hungry he's . Is anger here is not the crime rate perpetrated by nigerians but how we have also taken up thier beautiful women.
I stopped arguing with him a long time ago, for some reason South African xenophobia doesn't reach the white supremacists who are the true problem for South African blacks. When they're done deluding themselves they can wake up and fix their country.
By volunteering to act crazy and forget family for 72 days to get 25 million naira. Any idiot can do that so I don't really understand how that's creative.
RichlyOBS: I have this calabar girl that I love so much but now am a little bit confused since she started shouting my NAME when ever she is sleeping at night.....( Eddy harder ), ( Eddy don't stop ), ( Eddy you are Finnish ) ( Eddy if you ever live me you die )..... what surprise me most is the one she said last night ( YOURS IS MORE BIGGER THAN EDDY OWN ) I think she's cheating on me in her dream or maybe am not thinking well??
having sex with me in her dream, is this NORMAL??
When a person's mind is filled with sexual thoughts during the day, the subconscious picks up and creates some crazy episodes in dreams. Unless your girl was lucid in a dream and she willingly search for some other guy's D I don't think you can call that cheating.
So, yes its normal to have sex dreams. Even the holy of holies have them every once in a while. Having recurrent sexual dreams night after night might be a sign that one is thinking of sex too much during the day, which is not very productive in my opinion.
If people were having their awareness and intelligence increased fourfold, why would you care?
Unless you were owned NY an Organization that does not want Development on our Country. Like the Roman Catholic Church, like Freemasonry.
The Nigerians who need Scientology the most cannot possibly afford to membership in The CHURCH of Scientology- that costs $300 per year, or $2,000, lifetime membership.
We do not need THE CHURCH OF SCIENTOLOGY- we only need SCIENTOLOGY.
It is the JOB of DISINFORMATION AGENTS to ensure that the public are CONFUSED, and think that there is NO difference between the two.
A REAL CHRISTIAN would recommend a REAL CHURCH for someone to join. A FALSE CHRISTIAN does not have to care about what church someone joins, because they ALL belong to SATAN, and believe in a CORRUPTED GOSPEL that DOES NOT WORK.
SCIENTOLOGY would FIX the Broken Churches.
If people identified the EXACT ENGRAMS that makes them SIN, HOW would they be ABLE to Sin any more? The Engram causes of irrational behaviour look silly when they are dragged out imto the light.
Once we have any number of Christians who are no longer susceptible to Temptations, we can see REAL Development in Christianity.
Real Christians would care about that, and be interested in being a part of that.
YOU ARE IN A CULT- one dedicated to preventing Revival and Enlightenment from breaking out in Nigeria.
That is why you do not tell us whose Doctrine you represent.
That is consistent with JESUIT UNDERCOVER OPS.
These people are TERRIFIED that SCIENTOLOGY will wake Africans up.
By what right do you speak for all Nigerians?
SCIENTOLOGY will solve all of our Intellectual Problems in Nigeria.
Its APPLIED SCHOLASTICS System alone would ELIMINATE Exam Failure completely!
You know that, but WANT the high Exam Fail rates to continue.
Applied to RELIGION, Scientology will eliminate irrationality and waste.
In Christianity, the Doctrine of IMAGINARY RIGHTEOUSNESS will be seen through as the FRAUD it is.
All Churches will be purified to receive the REAL HOLY GHOST.
Other Religions will benefit, too- even ISLAM and Animism.
ECKANKAR will SUFFER- because it was created from WATERED-DOWN SCIENTOLOGY (Paul Twitchell was a co-founder of Scientology.)
Whereas you are gullible to believe that that is a SCIENTOLOGY Belief.
Enemies of SCIENTOLOGY use L. Ron Hubbard's alleged XENU teaching, which was never, ever to be taught to the public, to invalidate all of Scientology, and say that it is NO GOOD AT ALL, and DOES NOT WORK, because you find they have THIS ONE BELIEF you cannot even disprove.
That is like saying all Roman Catholic Orphanages, Schools, and Hospitals are WORTHLESS, because they BELIEVE IN "FATHER CHRISTMAS," and "THE EASTER BUNNY," and that "THE COMMUNION WAFER IS GOD ALMIGHTY!"
Those useless Beliefs do not invalidate their other works.
The belief that a Galactic Empire Dictator brought Human Souls to Earth, and merged them with Hominids to create Human beings is only important in the POST-CLEAR Enlightenment Level "OPERATING THETAN III," in order to pass through a Spiritual Barrier called "THE WALL OF FIRE."
Focussing on that story enabled L. Ron Hubbard to pass through it, whereupon he decided that it was "THE TRUTH," and the ONLY WAY to get through that Barrier, and claim the Powers on the Other Side.
As a CHRISTIAN, I have a DIFFERENT View.
NAGUALISM has a different view.
THE CELESTINE PROPHECY has a different view.
All of these Institutions deal with Powers not taught by SCIENTOLOGY.
Whereas SCIENTOLOGY has important things to teach, that are essential for making CHRISTIANITY, NAGUALISM, and THE CELESTINE PROPHECY workable for EVERYBODY- and not just a FEW who happen to have been born with enough Energy to Understand and Operate Spiritually.
If you have NO SPIRITUAL ABILITY WHATSOEVER- AND LOW MENTAL CAPACITY- SCIENTOLOGY will COMPLETELY fix that.
Your CULT knows that, and does not want that, therefore you are SPREADING LIES AND DISINFORMATION so that our country would not BENEFIT from It.
When you're done deluding yourself you can go to a proper church and get clarity on life. I will say it one final time Scientology is not for Nigeria don't quote me.
Nice list, I agree with a lot up there and disagree with some (injustice wasn't so big to me). But where's grand theft auto?, GTA San Andreas alone can put a lot of games in your list out of play
I'm absolutely excited about One punch man and attack on titan, but I believe the third season of Tokyo ghoul should have made the list. Besides attack on titan no other anime has generated such suspense and disappointment (it got postponed again).
2. "The Kingdom of Heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son, 3. "And sent forth his servants to call them that were bidden to the wedding: and they would not come. 4. "Again, he sent forth other servants, saying,
'Tell them which are bidden,
"Behold, I have prepared my dinner: my oxen and my fatlings are killed, and all things are ready: come unto the marriage." '
5. "But they made light of it, and went their ways, one to his farm, another to his merchandise: 6. "And the remnant took his servants, and entreated them spitefully, and slew them. 7. "But when the king heard thereof, he was wroth: and he sent forth his armies, and destroyed those murderers, and burned up their city. 8. Then saith he to his servants,
'The wedding is ready, but they which were bidden were not worthy. 9. 'Go ye therefore into the highways, and as many as ye shall find, bid to the marriage.'
10. "So those servants went out into the highways, and gathered together all as many as they found, both bad and good: and the wedding was furnished with guests. 11. "And when the king came in to see the guests, he saw there a man which had not on a wedding garment: 12. "And he saith unto him,
'Friend, how camest thou in hither not having a Wedding Garment?'
And he was speechless. 13. "Then said the king to the servants,
'Bind him hand and foot, and take him away, and cast him into Outer Darkness; there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth. 14. 'For many are Called, but few are Chosen.' "
YAHSHUA WAS REJECTED BY THE PHARISEES, ON THE GROUNDS THAT HE CAME FROM GALILEE.
It didn't matter what he said, nor did, the Pharisees made up a Law, that they could REJECT EVERYTHING, just because he came from Galilee.
Why don't you tell us which cult YOU represent?
I'm not in any cult, my candid advice is keep Scientology away from Nigeria cause we're not so gullible to believe that an alien overlord named Xenu gave birth to life as we know it.
Alero3Arubi: Why settle down to establish roots and then marry? What are you marrying me for again kwa? To become a trophy?
So its a crime for a man to get his feet steady before getting married, no matter how steady a man is he's still not complete without a wife. Whether the man is established or not the wife completes the Yin/Yang combination.
Godlovesme521: Mehn..I tire for this girl yesterday.. I de knack am she de moan..
If you see the assx you go know.. Big booty....I won kill her for doggy..
With the kind of nonsense you just put up there on a Sunday morning, I have to say that God truly loves you. Excessive exploration of big booties is obviously having an adverse effect on your brain and body so I recommend a 90 day sex fast to reset your system.
While you're doing that pick up a new hobby and learn a skill, if you stick at it years from now you'll thank yourself for making that choice. If the sex drive becomes unbearable I suggest you redirect it to other ventures.
Dupalmer: I am earnestly in search of a wife and will be most willing to settle down ASAP.
I am 35, from Enugu State. I am a university graduate, God fearing. I'm a civil servant though I combine legit business activities with my work.
If you are: God fearing, kind hearted, intelligent hardworking and willing to keep a home, kindly pm me lets start something. No games and no time to waste pls. Only serious minded people.
And you think nairaland is a portal for mail order wives, go out there and search brother that's your best play.
Alero3Arubi: I'm a female in her mid twenties. I want to settle down but I can't seem to find someone who meets all my requirements. But I don't want to settle for anything less. My friends say I am asking for too much. Here is my list. 1. He must have God.
This is totally understandable
But that's not the major dilemma. These are: I want to do these with my husband. 1. Rent his first flat with him.
If he has a house of his own he's out of your league
2. Open his first mortgage account with him.
What if he doesn't believe in accounts like these
3. Build his first house with him.
What's wrong with building a second house?
4. Have his first child with him.
This is ideal but sometimes it doesn't work out, doesn't mean you can't have a good marriage with a man who already has a child
5. Buy his first car with him.
Out of the window if he already has a car or cars
6. Start his first marriage with him.
This is also ideal but there's no law saying a 30 year old widower with two kids can't make a good husband
... Just these Am I asking for too much?
Just clarifying why some of your points are too extreme.
Alero3Arubi: I'm a female in her mid twenties. I want to settle down but I can't seem to find someone who meets all my requirements. But I don't want to settle for anything less. My friends say I am asking for too much. Here is my list. 1. He must have God.
But that's not the major dilemma. These are: I want to do these with my husband. 1. Rent his first flat with him. 2. Open his first mortgage account with him. 3. Build his first house with him. 4. Have his first child with him. 5. Buy his first car with him. 6. Start his first marriage with him. ... Just these Am I asking for too much?
Yes you are, your conditions are unachievable for men who have already settled down and established roots.
"Rusticated graduate" isn't that contradiction in terms. I can't understand how universities in Nigeria expect students to keep quiet while everything falls apart around them.
Are you sure the market women knew what they were voting for?, if we used such energy and drive to vote the right people into power this country would turnaround in a decade.
Romance › Re: She Likes My Brother But I Saw Her In Another Guy's House by JacksonD7: 11:22pm On Apr 24, 2017
how time flies, but NO! I can't even remember the last time either of us called each other. 
that was how my friend changed