Stop having sex with him,if you want to move on with your life.

Meeting a good guy is something all girls deserves
but where are all this good guys too ?
it seems all men are married
and going with a married man is a sin.

So where are all the single guys with no kids from past relationship
just pure single guys.

I hate long distance relationship
just too hard.

A true friend is someone who has your back when you down and needy.

I was once messed up by an uncle who said i will help you buy land and build up for you like i helped my children but look what happened the land was bought but she kept the papers of the land to himself (The matter is in the hands of God) not the man refused handling the papers of the land to me , he wants me to come and beg for what i suffered for,people ar sometimes just too selfish and selfish and never have enough even if the have too much of their own.

So now i am planning to buy here in europe,bicos here i am spending most of my life
and when i do have kids one day , their life is going to be here too and that will be their inheritance
in naija i only visit once in a while.

So i would advice you to buy here in europe.

Very hard !

I want to be friends too,
with nice pple,
Can i come and visit you in madrid ? so you can show me around if you want
I am a female 28yrs i just like travelmling en have neva been, to spain.

What you talking about !

Life is hard ,very hard
one thing i have learnt is that having Love all round helps sometimes(most times).

Last month when i came thru with lufthansa airline through frankfurt ,i brought with me egusi,palm oil, native soap (the black one),shea butter, oga for soup,garri,beans , and our native beans.

when i got to lagos airport immgration asked me what was in my bag i told her and she asked me to pay up or get it thrown away,i was like what

she said i should give 2,000 naira ,i then gave her 1,500.and she let me be.and my things were still in my bag when i got my bag.

And benin city how did you find Benin city ? or did u stay in lagos or through ur stay ?

There have been time i gave quys my nr and then they will say i will call but they never .

There have been times guys asked for my nr ibut i will say give me urs i will call you but never did,because most quys just have fun in collecting girls nrs.

You lucky woman !

Stupid song and video ! but that video was shot in the states so those girls are not in naija but in america.

Wants to hear ur voice when u wake up.
When u fight always ready to say "i am sorry"

where u heard this about staying permit ?

tboy1:

Yes i agree, its Kinda True
I met my gfriend through my bestfriend - They stayed in the same apartment building
My sis met her husband through her friend
My other sis met her husband through his friend
My bestfriend's girl is my ex's younger sister - i introduced them - They're now engaged
My uncle married his wife through my mum, i was there when she hooked them up for the first time - they've been married for 9yrs now

Woaoooooooo that is some introductions connections going on !

The best place to meet a life partner is through families and friends , going to church or the club,mall is not so efficient
that is what my best friend is telling me . do you agree with her ?

Me not !

tmoney11:

There's still 2ru lv, all we should pray for is not to fall in the wrong arm. Am in love are you in love? omo u doon make me fall in love. b4 D'banj can sing that song u should no say water do pass gari

Lol hahaaaaaaaaa

Na wa o for this issue ! but i didn't know a court can dissolve a marriage in naija ?
or @poster u really not saying the truth where u re based ?

why the hurry into marriage life ? eh !

just break it off pls ! so that his real wife will have a chance to meet him !

Oh my fellow naija sister ! if u were one of my real life girlfriend (u could be) i will advise you to just please just forget about this guy who by what u wrote in ur post ,he is clearly not into YOU ! periode ,you deserve much more than that,please stop wasting ur precious time with him.
When a guy loves you wheter u are in naija or in europe he will be bent over hills to make sure he hears your voice atleast once a day,this guy is not into you !

Let him be and believe me i am sure he is seeing someone else,that is what i found out most guys do.

You deserve so much better please ! look for a new friend in your school here in the UK saves you lots of headache.

@ OP he ainit worth it move on with your life, you will find the guy who will appreciate who u are when you dispose this one that is hurting you bad now.

Just tell the poor girl the truth please i am begging you ! will you like it if someone leads you on like that ?

You just got DUPE ! brother .

Trust no body to handel ur travelling matters,go straight to the country embassy urself it is allways better.

All dis love story na wao ! so it is true that guys hurt just as much we ladies hun

Anyway such is life,just face fact that she is not really into you anymore,
your real wife to be will come along now she left you,expecially there in lagos your real wife is also there just be patient you will meet her very soon.

Keep looking !

erico2k2:

No we are more civilized than our predecessors

erico2k2 link=topic=229759.msg3436568#msg3436568 date=1233961860:

Thanks loads appreciated,let me just say this though, most people who come from abroad don't pose though, I'm a typical example, there ain't no need to as if it comes to style or money, or even doings, some guys pose pass guys from Yankee self and they never reach Lagos once, the fact is, once you come from abroad and go back to your hood, wether you like it or not people will notice you, thats a fact especially if you come from a close town like mine (Warri), I really don't think its posing, correct me if I'm wrong though and also i think its because of this perceived fronting or assumed posing that makes people especially babes, paranoid to come close , I mean the decent ones as the off cut ones just go with whatever floats their boat, or what do you reckon?

You are indeed very right that pple will notice you whter you pose or not ( i experience it with my sister) she too came to do xmas with us
.
she was even dress down much more than my other sis who lives in lagos but pple still knew she was not living in naija.

There are good ladies who are ready to settle down who have their life together,but you just have to look thru the masses of women who you see.
I know of atleast 5 ladies in naija en abroad with decent jobs,good character,and good heart who are ready to settle but bicos they don't advertise like those other masses like going to Mr biggs and clubs etc etc, then it hard to meet them.

God will send your own real girl to you just pray to God for him to bring you and ur real woman in this world together.

Money talks !

When u pass a group of quys just greet em ! u really make an impression by doing that (at least here in lagos they appriacte it).