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HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 7:36pm On Jun 20, 2013
imurboss: Hello mummies in the house,how's are little angels doing?

Please,i don't know if anyone is experiencing same thing i am going through.My madam is having bow-legs,i don't know if it's because she has been forcing herself to walk(she started walking at 7m)though i've complained to the DR and he said i shouldn't worry that it will straighten up as she grows older.But i'm just worried ooo(both mum and dad has no bow-leg oo,no one in my family or his has o)
One of my brothers had bowleg&I remember my mum used 2giv him codliver oil&when he got to abt 8yrs, it straightened.Thats y I started as early as 5mths 2start giving codliver oil 2my baby.I don't knw if anyone has other ideas on what can help stop d bowing.I wish u d best
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 4:02pm On Jun 20, 2013
omogemi: Thanx Jade for d xplanation on d soya and milk. I prepared it for her an hour ago and added one scoop of soya and one scoop of her formula and water to see how her system will take it. Immediately she tasted it, she took it. Though not much, like half d preparatn coz she's teething but i m happy she took it. Thanks a great deal
Wen my baby starts teething, sh refuses food&take breastmilk alone.Now dat sh has stopped breastmilk, lastwk, d teething was so bad dat sh was takin tea alone but now sh's ok.Thank God he took little.Soon he'l tak much more&sleep afterwards. Goodluck
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 3:55pm On Jun 20, 2013
imurboss: @Jade,thanks alot for taking out time to post all this,i can say i've learnt one or two things from ur post and i'm sure others too must have learnt something. My baby started walking at 7mths and teething at the same time.I introduced milo & golden morn to her at 10+ though i give her in small quantity.Now she's 11mths+ and she understands sit,stand,go & bring that thing,lie down,lol!The only thing that worries me now is that she's having a rough skin,don't really know what to do about that!
Kudos my dear, ur baby is pretty fast.How do u cope with tryin 2restrict d places sh enters.Cos d work there is restricting d baby.My girl goes evrywhere within a twinkle of an eye&keeps us on feet chasing her around.Sh goes 2electric socket, kitchen&evrywhere.Inshort,we had 2b leavin her in d walker&sh'l scream&cry then we'l bring her out&back her then sh'l sleep. But now, sh's calmer as sh's growing.My pediatrician told me 2b using sebamed when my baby started teething&had teething rash.My dear, I bought d soap #700 or so&d cream abt 1200/1500 for a smal lotion container.D soap doesn't foam so u hav 2keep rubbing it on the foam so it ends up finishin within 4/5days. Then d cream?? Inshort, I didn't want to continue wit such expenses cos buying pampaers&al these baby food&so on? Jeez. Anyway, try sebamed.It actually cleared d rash&scales frm d rash
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 11:55am On Jun 20, 2013
naanxie: Am glad i came acroos this! My niece has this boil like stuff on her head and some parts of her body! At first,it doesn't itch,thatz when we took her to d hospital,doctors prescribed some stuffs and calamine lotion but they kept comin! Now they pain her and they are larger in size! Plz what can be d causehuh
My sister's baby had that too wen sh went to serve at Maidugri.Sh just had 2redeploy cos d wheather was harsh so a pharmacist prescribed ampiclox syrup 6hrly for 5days&a cream called visita plus&genticin ointment&it cleared up within 4days. Calamine lotion is for itchin cos I knw its used 4measles&chicken pox&not for boil.At ist they said it was teething but d gum wasn't swollen or anythng&even afta 2mths, there was no teeth so don't buy everything ppl say.Goodluck
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 11:42am On Jun 20, 2013
maran1983: Yea, Jade, I used to watch that programme too when I was on maternity leave but not anymore cos of work. I better stop giving my kids Abidec, I'll introduce honey too. Thanks for the heads up.
Ok.My neighbour has pvr decoder so they record d program 4her then wen we com back, we watch it.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 11:37am On Jun 20, 2013
tjskii: Pls help o,my 16month old piks things up from d floor and swallows it(dis mornin he pikd up smthng metalic from his toycar and befor I cud get it out of his mouth wth all his plenty sharp teeth,he had swalowed it)I'm at my wits end right now and d most annoying thing is he refuses to eat good food,hed rather pik up stuff from d ground
My dear, my baby was so good at picking thngs frm d floor even wen u giv her food 2eat, sh'l pour it on d floor&start pickin frm there so we started sweepin d floor lik 10tyms a day&we' l hit her hand weneva sh picks thngs frm d d floor&-tel her 'dirty'.With tym, sh's stoppin it.We started early 2correct that habit. The ist word sh learnt was dirty.Now sh picks thngs&bring it 2u&say dirty. My anty said its because we didn't use pacifier 4her dats y sh develped that habit. But I used pacifier 4her cos frm 2mths +, sh started suckin hand so we'l wear her socks on d hand but sh'l stil suck d socks.So I got pacifier&it helped 2stop d hand suckin.Sh used that til sh got to 8mths then we stopped&sh started pickin thngs.My frnd still uses pacifier even though her baby is abt 18mths&I noticed d girl doesn't really pick thngs lik that.Motherhood is damn hard.U'l keep wanderin what u ain't doing right
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 10:48am On Jun 20, 2013
labella12: Hi mums in the house
I tried to research on giving chocolate drinks milo or ovaltine to babies and all the info I got says its not good for children under one year. And I am seeing different info here. Pls can you share source of info as I was thinking of ways to make my 8 month old who doesn't want formula to take milk. Thanks
My dear, I'l advice u wait 4ur baby 2b 1yr b4 u introduce beverage.My baby rejected milk at abt 6mths so at 7 mths, I started addin milo.It changed d consistency&colour of her stool&sh started sleepin less&bcame hyperactive.My frnd told me that beverages contain caffeine&is not good for young children&my baby started experiencin al d side effects of caffeine so I stopped&thank God it didn't hav any effect.Thank God 4dis trend.Learn frm others.Now my baby is ova a yr&-takes abt 250mls of tea wit complan beverage&a times milo 2xs a day.Havn't tried ovaltine yet.Although my frnd started giving her baby Holicks frm 6mths til now that sh's 11 mths.Sh adds it to al her food both friso cereal, cerelac&tea 2gether with friso gold milk&d girl is ova sharp.Started walkin at 9mths&can talk lik mama,dada,bye bye, understands sit/lie down&so on.I didn't bother buyin holicks cos its so sweet.I'l leak it al&its quite expensive.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 9:37am On Jun 20, 2013
pinkydaisy: Hello mums,,new in here, had my baby on the 16th of May and to God be the glory. It has been from one problem to the other but all is well now, i can boldly come to this thread to learn more.
My baby didn't poop after the initial 4/5 days of mecomium,,,,,,she finally pooped after almost 11 days, come and see screaming and tears in the little angels eyes ,,,,but God being so merciful, she passed poop and has been calmer since then. People said it had to do with my diet but i have been reading online that it happens most times to most babies.


IT IS WELL.
My dear, wen u bcom a mother, u'l b getting advice frm here&there.My baby started constipatin afta 2wks of birth.As in sh started constipatin&holdin back stool.They said it was my diet.I didn't believe that cos sh was takin only breast milk&I was barely eatin back then.I tak tea&pap&lots of vegetables&rice, wheat or semo, beans&lots of fruits.I was vry keen on my diet so 4them 2say it was my diet was lame cos I was goin 2toilet well.They were busy tellin me d probable cause but no one told me d solution.I took her 2d dr&sh didn't knw what 2figure out so sh told me 2giv her orange but I refused because of d exclusive I was doin.Stil 5days later, no poo so I tried d orange.Sh took little lik 30mls or so&refused 2tak more&stil no poo 2days later.I'l press her tummy wit hit, stil nothin&sh started eatin less&was gasing alot.So I decided 2use my initiative.I bought glycerine oil&also olive oil; when I was bathing her, I bought 5mls syringe cos thats what I noticed they used 2giv her drip water in hospital wen my breastmilk was not flowin so I used d 5mls syringe, drew 2mls of glycerine&2mls of olive oil&pushed it slowly in2 her bom bom holdin her 2legs up so dat it can decend.Afta then, I rubbed her 2bom bom 2geda, 2mix d poop wit d oil then I put my finger (d one afta d thumb) in2 her anus&started bringing out hard stool in bits then that stimulation made her poop.Afta then, sh ate well&slept.Al was my initiative&used that method wheneva sh constipated. I even taught my friends who had similar experience.That's JADE's Anatomy.Just thought I shld share it incase there's somone out there it could help
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 10:52pm On Jun 19, 2013
chacha3: @Maran,I neva meant giving him goldenmorn immediately shaa cos there are alot of baby foods so am nt in ahurry to feed him dat,though for my gurl morn morn as she calls it is her favorite it has bn since she was one. I have soaked my guinea corn already,on to pap tins. Just pray it wil suit his body system and friso gold as well. @ Jade, tanx for d clarification hv bought goldenmorn for yrs now and I neva knew abt d 3yrs stuff cos I hv neva checked. I am so so frustrated,today I wil buy dis tomoro I wil keep it aside,hmmmm just SMH. May God help us all,am nt complaining anyway cos I so love my kids.
I read whats written on d tin or sachet of food items al d tym.I learnt it frm a programme called great expectations whch is a south african program, televised on e southafrica, chanel 250 on dstv by 10.30am wk days.U'l learn a lot.They talk abt different topics evryday&its educative.On Wednesdays! They do super nanny by 10.30am.They invited a paediatric dr 2wks ago who mentioned that givin children 2much multivitamins or 4 2long isn't good.It makes their bones tender&overstimulates their liver enzymes too so i'v stopped d ABIDEC&kiddipharmaton i was givin my girl b4 cos sh's not a food persn.I so understand d part of a kid refusin or selectin what 2 eat.My girl can overact drama.If u force her, sh'l throw up evrythng.Jeeez.Motherhood is truly d hardest job on earth.So exhausting&challenging&I am so complaining&I'm so scared of gettin knocked up again.My husbnd has bn makin side comments lik when ar we welcomin another littlevand I'm like wil u do d breastfeeding and latenyt work?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 10:25pm On Jun 19, 2013
omogemi: @Jade pls enlighten us more. do u mix milk and soya with pap for ur baby? cos we were told at the Health center to mix pap with oil and with either soya or milk or grounded groundnut or grounded crayfish. but its like u are mixing two ingridents with pap. could u pls tell us how u do it? ho w can one get soya? can one mix soya and milk together?
My dear, I mix both soya&milk&wen sh grew 2d age dat her system can digest,I started addin crayfish&groundnut&honey 2her pap cos I don't use sugar. If u google or look at what is written on d container of d soya, u'l realize it only contains but a few nutrients then look at d constituents of d milk u'r using whch is written on d container then u'l realise u can neva substitute milk.So I'l advice u 2use d 2 dear.Soya is just proteinous, while milk contains a lot both folic acid, iron, zinc, iodine&so many vitamins.I tried palmoil&she didn't tak it
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 9:33pm On Jun 19, 2013
maran1983: Chacha, please do not give your child goldenmorn till s/he is 3 years, its written on the pack.
Somone started a trend here talkin abt golden morn not to b given 2children below 3&lateron, a nestle representative posted a mssg here on NL correctin that notion&-as he/sh said, that what was written on the pack b4 abt golden morn bn given 2children above 3yrs has bn erased&has bn improved&fortified wit vit A. D ones I bought recently, its nolonger written there.Although my baby so hates golden morn for no just reason, I started givin it 2her once sh turned one yr.2improve d taste, i mix it wit cow&gate banana&strawberry flavour or purity cereal, d strawberry flavour too&takes it.Weaning a child is so exhausting&confusin esp if u happen 2hav a picky child.2day sh likes dis, 2moro, sh'l refuse 2eat dat same thng u thoght sh liked.Its crazy
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 8:16pm On Jun 19, 2013
omogemi: @itmelex do u mix d pap with crayfish n milk together before feeding ur baby?
@jade is it that i can mix soya beans flour with pap n then mix it with her formula? Pls enlighten me.
My dear.C what i did.I started givin her pap at 5mths 2wks cos sh got fed up of artificial milk&wud starve til i get back frm work then tak breastmilk so i bought soya plus (at d shop)&made pap myself wit guinea corn&millet.I mak alot&tie in d waterproof,quantity sh'l tak lik 3/4tyms cos her flask is medium size&store in d freezer.Afta makin d pap dat i'l pour in d flask;weneva we want 2giv her (at ist we used feeding bottle but sh stopped likin it so we started usin plate&spoon).I'l dissolve a spoon of soyabean powder (usin d spoon found in NAN)&2spoons of milk in a little warm or cold water dependin on d temperature of d pap then i'l pour in d pap as in d quantity sh'l tak at dat tym,mix&give.Mak d pap 2b thick cos wen u pour it in d dissolved milk&soya,it'l n a little watery.Wen sh got to 8mths& didn't tolerate cerelac&frisocream;i grinded crayfish&oporo,seived 2remove anythng dat'l choke her&stored in a container&also grinded groundnut&poured in a container (d groundnut wil b lik d paste u use in eatin garden egg).U do enuf dat'l last u atleast a mth or 2&keep in d fridge then i add them (crayfish&groundnut:1 teaspoon each&1 full spoon of honey cos i don't use sugar) wen i'm dissolvin d pap in cold water&i don't add 2much cold water wen dissolvin d pap.I added palmoil twice&sh didn't lik it so i let dat one go.Did i mention i was also usin honey wen sh got to 6mths til date.Original honey is good cos my baby has neva suffered frm cough or cattarrh even wen evrybody in d house has it.On d net,they said its not 2b used til d baby is a yr but my mum said sh used it for us frm 6mths&my baby is fyn.Sh has neva purged except wen sh took cerelac&frisocream.D only tym sh has high fever is wen sh's bringin out teeth&my mum said its genetic frm my side.
TV/MoviesRe: Best 2013 Movie(s) You've Watched!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 7:00pm On Jun 19, 2013
joeydozzy: I've not seen impossible.Will add it to my list
side effects? average? huh

flight was ok. though in my position,I would have just finished the lie during the hearing

silver lining? boring? huh
You sure you watched that film at all?
Bradley Cooper nailed it. One of my favorite parts was when they were scored 5 in the dance and they screamed like they won the award or sth.
please I advise you to watch it again. Maybe you were distracted by your boyfriend or sth.
I can count few movies that were better than it last year
[quote author=joeydozzy]Different strokes for different folks.Side effect was good but d whole lesbian thng was annoyin&they're sayin dat's d reason y sh killed her husbnd within weeks of turnin in2 a lesbian wit her therapist. D script get k leg abeg.
Silver lining play book was in my ok list with al d cursing.I just didn't tak it seriously when Jennifer Lawrence kept telling Bradly Cooper dat sh contacts his wife&d whole tv game bettin thng wit Robert D'niro huh? I liked d way they reacted too wen d result were announced.D 2 behaved lik crackheads wen they'r 2gether.Well, i don't knw d head&tail of d damn movie.I'm wrong cos my husbnd so loved d movie but not my kind of movie.I love hardcore mafia&gangstar movies.I like Godfather,goodfellas,casino&so on&d series Sopranoes.I'm yet 2c d series dat'l replace dat.
Olympus has fallen was deck.OMG.
TV/MoviesRe: Best 2013 Movie(s) You've Watched!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 6:56pm On Jun 19, 2013
[quote author=joeydozzy]I've not seen impossible.Will add it to my list
side effects? average? huh

flight was ok. though in my position,I would have just finished the lie during the hearing

silver lining? boring? huh
You sure you watched that film at all?
Bradley Cooper nailed it. One of my favorite parts was when they were scored 5 in the dance and they screamed like they won the award or sth.
please I advise you to watch it again. Maybe you were distracted by your boyfriend or sth.
I can count few movies that were better than it last year[/quote
Different strokes for different folks.Side effect was good but d whole lesbian thng was annoyin&they're sayin dat's d reason y sh killed her husbnd within weeks of turnin in2 a lesbian wit her therapist. D script get k leg abeg.
Silver lining play book was in my ok list with al d cursing.I just didn't tak it seriously when Jennifer Lawrence kept telling Bradly Cooper dat sh contacts his wife&d whole tv game bettin thng wit Robert D'niro huh? I liked d way they reacted too wen d result were announced.D 2 behaved lik crackheads wen they'r 2gether.Well, i don't knw d head&tail of d damn movie.I'm wrong cos my husbnd so loved d movie but not my kind of movie.I love hardcore mafia&gangstar movies.I like Godfather,goodfellas,casino&so on&d series Sopranoes.I'm yet 2c d series dat'l replace dat.
Olympus has fallen was deck.OMG.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 4:58pm On Jun 18, 2013
casler: pls mothers in the house,my baby has been 5kg since her 9 th week,she is now in Her 17th week,she nurses for@just five mins every hour or two so worried we v been EBF,v tried to get her to drink milk or cereals,she isnt,so confused,pls help
Walai.Its an unusual developmental milestone.My pediatrician said d baby is supposed 2gain atleast 1-1.5kg evry month frm d birth weight.17wks is abt 4mths unless d baby was premature.What did d dr say when u went 4immunization cos where i go to, u hav 2c d dr 2observe yr baby b4 sh prescribes d immunization.C the dr b4 u take any advice frm ppl.If sh prescibes artificial milk, then u'l knw u'v satisfied ur conscience
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 4:46pm On Jun 18, 2013
blank: It is your choice as to where your baby should sleep. I find that having a baby cot is a waste and ends up taking space in your room. However, you have to balance it with the danger of rolling ontop of your baby while sleeping. There are other benefits and disadvantages for both choices. It is your choice. You can do some more research.

Your hospital will give you a list of things to bring to the hospital. You can ask the matron there.
Baby bed is a waste of money.My baby started sleepin wit us frm birth cos I was too tired to b getting up to pick hef frm the cot so sh got used to it&refused to leave our bed til today so if u want to use d bed start frm day 1 b4 d baby wil get used 2ur bed.Now my boo complains a lot&babe refused to stop breastfeeding early enough so learn frm my mistake.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 4:24pm On Jun 18, 2013
pinkydaisy: Hello mums,,new in here, had my baby on the 16th of May and to God be the glory. It has been from one problem to the other but all is well now, i can boldly come to this thread to learn more.
My baby didn't poop after the initial 4/5 days of mecomium,,,,,,she finally pooped after almost 11 days, come and see screaming and tears in the little angels eyes ,,,,but God being so merciful, she passed poop and has been calmer since then. People said it had to do with my diet but i have been reading online that it happens most times to most babies.

After her birth, i noticed her eyes were kind of off coloured from what am used to seeing in most new borns and drew the attention of the doctor to it but he kept on insisting it was normal, not until after about 24 hours when i noticed her pee was so concentrated and practically screamed the doctor into having a look at her,,,my sisters when she was tested for Jaundice, it was so high(the normal level of Billirubim for infants is about 2 but my baby's was 12 ) they began treatment for Jaundice with photo-theraphy for about 3 days and nights, i was just crying like a baby watching her under the heat of that light Unclad and alone. Her skin got so burnt and she lost so much weight very fast,you could just see her disapearing right before your eyes, worst of all, my milk refused to flow.
When we were finally discharged, i took my angel home preparing to start motherhood in peace, when it was noticed that the baby had more than the usual opening on her skull,,the Yorubas call it Oka,,hope i spelt it right? and the igbos call it ngbuwaisi,,,,,my dears, come and see panicking, everybody kept on bringing suggestions on how to help the skull cover up fast and sincerely i was at my wits end. i just turned to God in prayer and reminded him that his gifts added no sorrows so why am i jumping from one problem to the other with my gift that he has given me.I cried and cried unto God and finally somehow, i received his grace on what advice to listen to and what to discard.
Presently, my angel is thriving and she even smiles now, funny. She is eating fine and gaining the weight, slowly but surely.

Long and short of this is that every mother knows her baby best and should pay close attention to the child, always ask questions and be ready to sieve the responses you receive, discarding the unnecessary advices without being rude. Most of all,,God alone knows these babies best, always ask him for his grace and guidance on how to take care of your baby and please worry less cos God can not bring you this far to leave you.

IT IS WELL.
My dear, what did u name this special baby? Some drs can b dumb. U'r so lucky d jaundice was arrested early cos I knw a neighbour of ours dat my mum keeps sayin that d child is slow because jaundice damaged his brain so I asked my dr&said its true&happens if not discovered early enough.As for d wide opened frontanelle, I remember that one of my brothers had it at infancy or so&I remember these traditional ppl used clay or whateva that was to design his head for a long tym.Well, I hope ur baby gets thru it cos my mum said it makes children not to gain weight eventhough they're feedin well.We mothers, God is our strength
FamilyRe: **ee by JadeWilliam(f): 3:24pm On Jun 18, 2013
hectortex: I have got this little problem. Am a cash person, i carry much cash around more than i might need at a time.
At first i blamed my sister for the shortages i encounter because she used to do that way before i got married until she swore to me she dosent have access to my money with my wife around. my wife has also been privy to my decision to cut her allowances on several occassions cos of this same issue. until this morning, i discovered yet another shortage and due to a mild fever last nite, i was practically in our room the whole nite. so there was no question of anybody else taking anything in my absence. Ok i was very mad so i grilled her and threatened to make things difficult if i didnt get the money all the while hoping i was wrong about her.
this evening she opened up on how she did it and has been doing it for a while.
my problem is not like she hasnt got money, i make sure of that. she got access to about 50grand right inside our room but couldnt take her hands off my wallet.
i dont know how to handle this; am thinking of pulling a plug on all her allowances except the very basic ones and keeping my wallet far above her reach. I just dont know if its a right move.
If you were in my shoes,what would you do??

N.B: mod please i would want this to remain here in the family section
When a woman goes to ur wallet, sh's not only looking for money. Sh's looking for condom, complementary card of an enstranged woman sh doesn't knw or phone no, written&stashed away in d wallet so in d process, sh sees cash&decides 2tak som 2send 2her folks or to do woteva
FamilyRe: **ee by JadeWilliam(f): 3:23pm On Jun 18, 2013
hectortex: I have got this little problem. Am a cash person, i carry much cash around more than i might need at a time.
At first i blamed my sister for the shortages i encounter because she used to do that way before i got married until she swore to me she dosent have access to my money with my wife around. my wife has also been privy to my decision to cut her allowances on several occassions cos of this same issue. until this morning, i discovered yet another shortage and due to a mild fever last nite, i was practically in our room the whole nite. so there was no question of anybody else taking anything in my absence. Ok i was very mad so i grilled her and threatened to make things difficult if i didnt get the money all the while hoping i was wrong about her.
this evening she opened up on how she did it and has been doing it for a while.
my problem is not like she hasnt got money, i make sure of that. she got access to about 50grand right inside our room but couldnt take her hands off my wallet.
i dont know how to handle this; am thinking of pulling a plug on all her allowances except the very basic ones and keeping my wallet far above her reach. I just dont know if its a right move.
If you were in my shoes,what would you do??

N.B: mod please i would want this to remain here in the family section
When a woman goes to ur wallet, sh's not only looking for money. Sh's looking for condom, complementary card ofvan estranged woman or phone no, written&stashed away in d wallet so in d process, sh sees cash&decides 2tak som 2send 2her folks or to do woteva
FamilyRe: **ee by JadeWilliam(f): 3:17pm On Jun 18, 2013
slimyem: What does she use the extra money for?
Maybe you are not giving her enough and she feels she deserves more..undecided
Sh's saving money 2buy pruvian&malasian hair now.If sh ask u for $1500 to buy them, won't u tel her its a waste of ur hardearned money? Abeggi joor.Sit her down&ask her what&what sh wishes 2hav then u'l understand
FamilyRe: **ee by JadeWilliam(f): 3:11pm On Jun 18, 2013
babyosisi: All you stingy men
How dare you call your wife a thief angry angry
U need to ask for forgiveness immediately


My husband was hiding his wallet and sometimes putting it under his pillow just because I was taking little chicken change from it for lunch
Nonsense !! wink
How can a woman steal from her own husband
Are we not joined in holy matrimony again?
In Igboland wives are lovingly called odoziaku which translates to mean " the one who arranges the wealth"
Your own is to bring in the money,allow me to arrange it na ,as expected
I pitied him sha one day long ago when we had no credit cards ,he came home ranting about how he was so embarrassed at the store When it was time to pay and he Opened his wallet and the cash was depleted grin tongue tongue tongue
I said ewoooo, di m oma
I am so sorry tongue tongue tongue
But did it stop me ?
Whosai cool cool
If a man has 5 $20 bills in the wallet I bought him for Christmas why can't a woman who bore him bouncing baby boys take one or two $20 as the spirit leads
I don't do it as much anymore
I now ask him first and if he says no i have no cash on me and I go to the wallet and see cash,he can't come back and claim that he had cash grin
Abi?
Love u boo wink
U are right on point my dear.Stingy African husbands.We suffer 2get pregnant, carry d baby 4 9mths, go thru disastrous labour & then nurse d baby,stayin awake al nyt&they mak a fuss abt chicken change taken frm their wallets.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 2:30pm On Jun 18, 2013
corrall: Hmmm, hi friends, I want to start introducing solids to my 6 month old. All advices are needed. What do I start with? How do I go about it. Thanks
I started wit boiled potato wit oil,crayfish&fish+little salt then riped plantain cooked d same way.Sh also liked it fried too then fish&meat (grated) alone cos its soft.Then amala/semo wit drool soup whch sh hated so much then mashed rice then yam.U keep tryin&observin.Wen d teeth coms out then u stat givin evrythng
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 2:23pm On Jun 18, 2013
lullabi: my 7moth baby has not started crawing, and sheis not big, she sometimes refuses food, cant seem to know the food she ikes best, am so bad a mother and a wife too
Children thrive at their own pace.Try givin her seven seas codliver oil.Was mixin myn in d pap (5mls 2xs a day).Started givin her frm 4mths.Sh crawled at 4mths 2wks&walked at 9mths 2wks.I'm not sayin its because of d codliver oil.My frnd's baby crawled at 8mths&walked at 13mths cos they carry her al d tym whil i started placin myn in d walker frm 4mths.So children thrive differently.Giv her pap made wit dawa,jero&corn.I mix myn wit soya plus&milk.Goodluck.Motherhood is hard but don't b discouraged
HealthRe: Pleas Help!!! They Said My Babies Are Breech by JadeWilliam(f): 1:29pm On Jun 18, 2013
My lecturer in sch,her twins were breech&was booked 4cs.Sh kepy prayer&believin Gof.A wk 2her due date,sh said sh felt a strong rumble in her tommy.So ah rushed 2hospital&they told her d twins ar now cephalic so sh delivered normal.Keep prayin but if nothin happens,go in 4cs.D most important thng is 4u 2hav ur twins healthy&hearty&u too to b in good condition
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 1:14pm On Jun 18, 2013
chacha3: Hai mums in the house, my baby boy of six months is given me great concerns,I introduced cerelac(wheat wit milk) to him and I noticed his poo has changed,its now a bit watery and it usually pass tru his diapers and stain his wears,also d color is now sort of greenish instead of yellowish as it was d case. Don't know if d cerelac is d cause or I shud change frm wheat to rice or somtin else. Am tinking of taking him to d hosp even,I just don't know. Any mum wit dat kind of experience? Tanx
OMG.My baby didn't tolerate cerelac&frisocream.I gav both d rice,wheat,mixes fruit.Made her stool 2b lik porridge&was stoolin immediately afta eatin.Sh so refused nutrend&golden morn.So i stopped& continued wit pap wit soyaplus&milk.D paediatrician told me dat green stool signifies starvation.We started timing her feedin so it went away.Try givin pap made wit millet&guinea corn then mix it wit milk&soya or grounded groundnut&crayfish(seive d crayfish 2giv it a smooth powder afta grinding&add it to d pap afta makin it). Ur baby wil eat, sleep&add weight.Lateron,u try cerelac or frisocream or cow&gate banana&strawberry flavour or Purity cereal (strawberry flavour).
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 12:38pm On Jun 18, 2013
corrall: Please what can be mixed in mashed irish potatoes for my 6 month old. I want to start introducing solids. someone said butter, but is dat not too fattening?
I mix myn wit palm oil wen cookin it whch is a good source of Vit A,crayfish whch is proteinous&a little salt.I also add grinded onions too.Sh doesn't lik eatin egg so i break it in2 d potato or indomie.I cook lots of fish&store in d fridge so we microwave&give her&sh eats atleast 2/3 pieces a day.Sh liks meat too.Just b tryin out things.U can use butter too but not evryday.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JadeWilliam(f): 12:28pm On Jun 18, 2013
adetunrayo: Hi house, Would resume work now that My baby is 3mths.what baby formular would u recomend.tks
I uses NAN 1 wen i resumed work afta 3mths.Although it was constipatin my baby but i was ok wit it coa sh'l rather constipate than purge.My collegue used friso gold&another one used Aptamil (whch is 4500).SMA is good too but d imitation plenty 4markt.I once bought d imitation&it purged my baby so i threw it away
FamilyRe: Is Soya Beans Formular Good For A 6 Months Old Baby? by JadeWilliam(f): 5:49pm On Jun 13, 2013
baba-bosun:
I say NO, soy milk do lack lactose which is very important in the development if the brain .
Am very much aware of this as I worked on it for my Bsc research.
Please endeavor to feed your child the best meal, as what he is fed with today goes a long way to determining what he becomes in future.

Just my 2 cents.
Nobody said u shld giv soyabeans alone.U stil hav 2add milk&milk contains d lactose dat soyabeans lack.I started usin it 4my baby frm 5mths uptil 11mths.The only disadvantage wit it is dat it really darkened her stool&made it alittle strong whch was ok 4me cos my baby never ever stooled or purged til 2day.
FamilyRe: Is Soya Beans Formular Good For A 6 Months Old Baby? by JadeWilliam(f): 5:48pm On Jun 13, 2013
baba-bosun:
I say NO, soy milk do lack lactose which is very important in the development if the brain .
Am very much aware of this as I worked on it for my Bsc research.
Please endeavor to feed your child the best meal, as what he is fed with today goes a long way to determining what he becomes in future.

Just my 2 cents.
TV/MoviesRe: Game Of Thrones : Red Wedding Scene by JadeWilliam(f): 7:20am On Jun 04, 2013
Pls where can I watch it online?
I stil can't figureout how 2download or watch with d torrent software cos I'v downloaded it &tried out al that my brain can give me but stil no way. Can any good fellow help me out or tel me of another free where I can watch movies or series on line
FamilyThings Ur Parents Did To U As A Child That Pained U D Most by JadeWilliam(op): 6:02pm On May 28, 2013
My mum always bought me over sized cloths and shoes sayin i'l keep wearing it till i outgrow them and i always looked ugly&uncivilized in them.And it pained me so badly cos i was knwn 4 wearin maxi-mama dash me cloths.
As 4me dad,he always flogged us wheneven we failed evenif its one question in our homework, class test or exam.I mean real koboko flogging. The no of questions u failed,determined d strokes u got. Damn
TV/MoviesWho Would U Like 2c As A Judge On A Music Show Like Xfactor Or Project Fame by JadeWilliam(op): 9:14pm On May 26, 2013
I'l love to c Frank Edoho (cos he's blunt); Naeto C (cos he was good on Nigerian idol as a guest judge); Genevieve Nnaji (cos I knw sh'l b a fashionista&sh was good as a judge on MDG pagent) &Denrele (cos he'l bring Charlyboy's crazy swagger).So I'l love 2c them as judges.I watched Xfactor last night&really enjoyed d show&must say that Onyeka Onwenu was spectacular&professional while MI was sentimental.I wish he'l b replaced.As 4d upcoming project fame;I'l lik 2knw who u'l love 2c on a music talent show.

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