Richy4:


Just the way a ten year old lied to her mother that she was drugged and raped while going to get her charger ... And the mother believed her and made a video..

If not for that sex tape, who would have known that she was the one on top... Some kids are very good in terms of telling lies

Same way so.e men are very good in molesting children. Tell me do you still jèrk off to that 'sex tape' on your phone?

JoyousFurnitire:


Bros shot the f* up.

I had a similar experience.

Paedophile. Get some help nigger

LtChisom:


Na why God strike the idiot dead, who knows she fit use lies and manipulations cause world war 3.

Thank you God for delivering us from another feminist. If to say you did this very early to eve before she contaminated the planet we for no dey this wahala now.

Dont get ahead of yourself. Practice self control

Aboguede:



You are already in a pathetic situation

But

Continue

Not as pathetic as the man who gets it off by molesting children.
If you are not a paedophile yourself my words shouldnt cause you any grief

oseahumenb:


I understand your pain and disappointment. I have told you the truth. How can I be a wife beater and still lovingly gave her 5m Naira for biz?
I will inform you guys how this matter will be concluded. I shall visit his command post next week. I have gotten the services of a lawyer to do all these.

What truth?
Nothing will happen to that man. You can tag me on any recent developments

Slynation:
You must'nt be a paedophile to experience this...!! Just like the OP stated, some lil kids are wicked and talks carelessly...

Yes, why won't people asked for the video when the mom came out to say it's a rape case, that alone triggered everyone's curiousity to ascertain what really transpired including myself...So stop using that as a yardstick

S
Make I hear word. You didnt need the sex tape to ascertain anything. People already told you the contents which should be enough unless of course you also enjoy watching little girls. You are lucky you are not in one western country. Material like that on your device can get you a very lengthy jail sentence and your na.e on the registered sex offenders list. That's child pronography. You can explain to the judge that you are the lead investigator and wanted to know if the girl's mother was lying

Visasolution048:


As I said, were you also there to know all these ?? The reason why the OP wants her back is because he isn't a real Man...Na pussy he be... Most likely a woman wrapper...If not woman nor go dey your house dey knack elsewhere. You know..and you kept mute.....No reasonable man acts that way...

Exaclty. Only a guilty man acts that way. He beat his wife and she has found better

Visasolution048:


The Customer officer has no version for snatching another man's wife. Like this, he suppose to collect bitterly because na oppression be that.

secondly, We've seen too many situations of women going back to their ex because they feel he is better than their hubby. And marrying their hubby was a mistake... Then come out with blackmails that paint their hubby black to justify their inhumane action.

Lastly, some men are inferior. This OP happens to be one of them. Some men don't have control over their families...this OP happens to be one of them...

This OP feels marrying his wife was a favor from her. He has given her that impression, that's why she mend am publicly.

A real man would never say he wants a woman gave him a embarrassment back...The last man wey accept rhat kind woman for our barracks, died miserably...

Like I said you are not there. We have also seen lots of situations where men abused their women forcing them to run.
All this your talk na mouth. The reason the man wa ts her back is because he knows he is wrong. Most likely a violent man. The customs officer is probably just getting them a place to stay temporarily so he doesnt kill them

Slynation:
You people are funny aswear...!! Just hope you never find yourself in such scenario where no one will belief you...

I have my story as well, but I don't have strength for typing now

I will never find myself in such a situation. I am not a paedophile. Lear to control yoursves or get some professional help.

See how many guys on this forim were salivating over the the sex tape of a 10 y/o,so.e were even asking for the link yet you want to tell me many are sane.

GloriousGbola:
How soon before the red pillers start telling stories about fetuses that accused them?

Wait for it. Its coming

Akanoaaa:
She won't rest in peace. No peace for the wicked, either young or old, male or female, child or adult.

She wo t rest for exposing a pedo abi

With the comments I read here its hard to doubt that little girl. Most Niggerian men are pervs.

A little girl cannot just wake up and accuse you falsley. Are you the only one who plays with children?

pocohantas:


Thank you! I am sure he has frustrated the poor woman.

I like this woman o. While some women are crying that they can’t find men, this one after four kids has hooked a custom officer. Eweyyy!

Exactly. I am very sure he was abusive towards her.
We always preach that if a man 8s abusive the woman should walk. She just did.

Visasolution048:



Maybe you don't know women....You don't have to treat a woman badly before she start thinking marrying you was mistake especially when her ex. Is giving back green light and he is far better than you...

Immediately a woman start considering other options , everything that have to do with you becomes useless.

Let me ask you a few questions
Where you there?
Do you know the parties involved?
If the woman is guilty why does he still want her back?

There are 3 sides to every story( i this case 4)
His version, her version , the custom Officer's version and the truth.
Lets hear their sides first

BRATISLAVA:


Preach

LOL.

yuping:
Not every adult is matured enough to get married, some of you should stay off.
Imagine your wife left you for someone who threatened you and you are still saying you need that wife back cus she is charmed, if they is anyone under a spell is you who can't take things as a man. Real Men cut their loses and move on.
Even if you see those kid you should do a DNA before letting them into your house.
You are not in this world to please or fight for women, I'm not sure you are a real Edo man, Edo men are brave, speak their minds, Edo men are ladies men.
Focus on paying your debt which I know you can that's why you receive it in the first place.

The story is not adding up. I believe he is abusive and she called her friend who helped her escape. Why does he wa t her back...... there is more to the story. Lets hear the woman's story

Born2Breed:


You fall Edo hand. Na you dem just use take play bebeye like this.

Are you sure the kids are yours?

If yes, then go there with full force and collect your kids. Them not dey kpai custom officer?

I swear u be ozuor.

Easier said..... You dey talk because no be you.

peepydelano:
Women are so unpredictable, expect the unexpected from them at any point in time.

Maybe you should ask what he did to make her run back to her lover
Women dont just get up and leave like that. Withthe children too.
Some men can make a woman run to the devil sef

Blablamalala:


If you no look for animal trouble e no go attack you. Na d Koko be dat.

See mumu talk. Na everywhere dem vex you you dey fight? Funny enough people like una no dey talk where men dey. The anger a d power na on top woman e dey finish

BuyAndSellStuff:
So 130k is huge money to Bolt drivers but I see Bolt ads saying I can earn N200k weekly

Does it matter? He can be making 500k hourly and still be a thief. Such is the way of greed

HardMirror:
1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved

Another thread to not address the issues but to point fingers and blame women for everything. You forget that the Nigerian society is still a patriachial society where the men actually run things. So where are the men when the society is gking to shít.
You see I say this Niggerian men and black american women are very alike. Bkth live in societies where they are free to do anything they like and that freedom from consequences makes them some of the most toxic narcissistic people on earth. Same way you blame women for everything is yhe same way a black american woman will blame the black men for everything eventhings they are responsible for.

Who is this nameless convener? Let him drop his name and face I know a few vuys in Dublin who would like to make his acquaintance

Valkrie:
The question we should be asking is what did the woman do to the husband to warrant such action?

No husband would just wake up and attack the wife he married for nothing...!!

If one investigate properly it could be the woman have been sleeping around and have even slept with some of the husnands friends....!!

Nothing brings out the beast in a man like such attitude...!!

So going by your logic if you cheat on your woman you should suffer a similar fate

josh123:
you are not ready

Or you have nothing to show

chiboycue:


I don't know much about and eiye in secondary schools but introducing "Satan club" into an elementary school ( an elementary school could be a primary school in Nigeria) in US is not a healthy development.

You wont know nah. In your holy society a boy was murdered by other students and the chief of police was already covering it up. The culprits are walking free. They say faults are like a hill. We stand on ours to look at others' own.

greymiles:
Forget say diz girls be small girl oo... if dem handle u on bed Ehn
Dem dey fvck pass fowl as dem small reach

Tomorrow if you see Hausa man marrying underage you will come out and call them backwards and illiterate. With this write up how are you any differe t from them.


This is why I laugh when I hear southerners talk about how sophisticated and civilized they are . On spite of the education the stench and idiocy is the same

chiboycue:



This is a subtle way of introducing cultism and demonic worship in elementary schools

The and eiye in your secondary schools nko. Those are introducing sainthood abi

josh123:
You won't understand, ur eyes never open

Open my eyes nah. Make me see
Is the the countless cases of rape which you have normalized in that shithole?
Or is it yahoo yahoo that every young man seems to be involved in that you even sing glorifying it?
Or senators with sex tapes who are still serving.
Or policemen that arhave normalized extortion and kidnapping
Make me see please

daywatcher:
Those complaining will not hesitate to book flight when their visa is approved.

You dey mind them? Hypocrites.

Johnnycastro18:
is so bad, I wonder how one can raise there kids in this kind of morally bankrupt country

Pretty rich coming from someone in whose country stealing is called being smart.
Rape is rife and even child Indecency is prevalent

josh123:
USA is truly the Babylon of our time. All sort of abomination crimes from them

Really and goodness comes from your country abi

OluwagbemiTola:
5 Important Work-Place Skills You Must Have

In life, there are times when every human being needs to rely on external factors to succeed legally. Though success indeed starts from within every individual, it is also necessary to realise and accept the fact that there is so much self-motivation can do.
The knowledge of being a success will not go out there and apply for a job for you or learn to speak and keep conversations going. These seemingly "minor" skills are one of the propellants to ensure a successful life for an individual, especially for a youth who is just starting. These skills ensure that you maintain good social relationships, build new associations, maintain your self-esteem and give a better first impression about yourself to others.
This article refreshes my memory about a neighbour I once had. A vibrant and enthusiastic young man with very great self-esteem almost tending to narcissism. I loved his outlook on life but this neighbour of mine had a flaw. He had zero skills on how to succeed in society. His inability to keep a conversation made him drag his feet concerning his unemployment. Luckily for him, he got a job miraculously by someone else's recommendation, however, after two weeks, he lost his job!
He was devastated, depressed and inclined to suicide until I talked with him and got to know about his problem. I summarised his problem as one of the problems with adequate workplace skills. I made him realise five points which I believe will change your own life drastically too.


He had very poor interpersonal skills.
Interpersonal skills are the skills used to interact with others effectively. It includes sharing, asking for permission, joining an activity, keeping the flow of a conversation and waiting for one's turn. It entails getting rid of the "me-first" syndrome at work and giving a chance to others, especially in a place where a high emphasis is placed on seniority.
There is a necessity for a person who will do well at work to have a positive atmosphere around him or her that will ensure great relationships and tight bonds between co-workers.

Poor dress sense and disobedience to workplace mode of dressing.
Every workplace has a code of conduct guiding its workers' dressing. However, most people tend to overlook these codes of conduct of dressing as they believe no one should dictate what they wear.
But, most employers prefer workers who would abide by workplace rules as they believe that such a person who is obedient in something as little as dress sense will be ready to accept guides without complaint, thereby, moving such organisation forward easily.

Poor conflict management skills.
This is another skill every worker must strive hard to acquire. It is the ability to manage disagreements between people or a group of people. It actively involves dealing with teasing, losing or accusations without losing oneself. It also requires the ability to refuse to form "little gangs" or groups of resentment-filled people.
As an employee, the ability to engage in discussion rather than conflict is usually valued greatly.

Poor time management and slow delivery of given assignments.
Time management is of utmost importance to any employer and an employee who likes to dawdle and waste time is easily replaced.
As an employee, understanding time management is a great asset because this gives you an upper hand over workplace competitors as learning to work under given time and being able to ensure very fast delivery of assignments is usually appreciated.

Lack of problem-solving skills
"If you were a boss, would you like a puppet employee?", I asked my former neighbour and now, dear reader, I'm asking you the same!
" No", came the swift reply of my former neighbour.
I wonder what your reply is, my reader?
Whatever your reply is, I'll answer on your behalf.
No! No employer wants a liability in place of an asset.
As a worker who doesn't want to be fired, learn to think fast and proffer business-saving and company-developing ideas. The fact is that if you were a constant problem solver, you would not suffer the curse of being retrenched.

Dear reader, these skills have to be honed by constant practice. You might succeed at once or otherwise, you might need to try it all over again several times. Either way, know that you are growing and your future self will thank your present self for making this sacrifice. Hoping to hear from a better version of you soon.

Till then, keep winning!���

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The only thing you said that makes sense is the time management and delivery. The rest are all relative to the job the person is doing. In the modern day workplace, having interpersonal skills is not for every job. There are jobs where you dont need such but I know its naija where you have to beg and roll on the floor to get everything even a promotion.
Poor dress sense.... the modern workplace encourages people to dress, wear what makes them comfortable and be themselves except for certain jobs like lawyers and bankers.
Even the problem solving skills it all depends on your job really. In some jobs you are paid to identify problems, not solve them.