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nwaezeemmanuel:
Everybody knows what?

Stop pushing your personal beliefs on the people here. More men cheat than women, let's stop deceiving ourselves.

Here alone under this thread, i have seen more guys justify cheating than women.

TheUndercover:
LOL! We all know how narrow their thinking can be so I'm not surprised by a ho's comment

Dpsychologist:
NOTICE
I know most of you have missed for some days now.
However, I have been seriously sick since on sunday, that is why i was unable to update this thread. Even as i am typing this now i am finding it very difficult to type. You guys should wish me a quick recovery.

I will encourage you guys to keep the legacy going. No matter the setback we ride till the end. When i am medically fit i will join you guys soon.

Dpsychologist

Karlovich:
All of a sudden Nnamdi Kanu has become irrelevant, they should have gotten approval to protest for the Zoo's fall.

Joskiro50:
Yes it's long, but it's worth the read. I read every jot of what he wrote up there and I learnt a lot. Bro please stop discouraging people from pouring out their heart when giving cousel just because YOU don't read long write ups.

Pstarogood0100:
EASIER SAID THAN DONE

From what you said, she gave you her virginity. It implies that you have both come a long way, sweet memories and you have both shared a lot in common. So, how do you think you can do without such person easily. It won't be easy for you bro . You can't let go of the feelings you have for her easily. Try as you can, you won't be able to suppress the feeling for too long even when you try to forget her completely, its not just possible. Trying to forget her will work for you for sometime but won't last for a long time. And if you are not careful enough, you will be the one to beg her for reconciliation. I have been there before and I know how you feel right now.


But, at this point you need to swallow the redpill and accept the truth.

You have both come a long way, you disvirgin her right? You have both share sweet memories and all the good time.

At this time, you need to sit and analyse the situation. you need to ask yourself this questions and answer it by yourself.

1. Who is misbehaving between the two of you.

2. Are you sure you are not the one overreacting?

3. Are you sure she is not beginning to cheat on you? Because ladies start to misbehave when cheating you with another person.

Now, relax and take a deep breath. Don't take it too far as you are taking it.

Sometimes, in a relationship the partners tend to loose interest in each other because of too much availability. We might want to try something new, that's human nature. The relationship might become boring sometimes, you know...

Now listen. From your write up, she is the one misbehaving. Because, for you to tell her to her face that you can get any lady anytime you like shows that she must have been doing something worth suspicious of cheating. And for she to start avoiding you because of telling her that you have the capable of getting another lady without stress. Its a clear indication that she is up to something nasty before you told her, but she want to use what you told her to her advantage. Don't fall for it.

Even though, you told her you have options, is not enough for her to take it to the level she is taking it to. DON'T FALL FOR SUCH TRICK . she's only doing what she has in mind to do and now you have given her reason to do it. At the end of the day she would want to play the BLAME GAME.

IF YOU ASK ME OF MY OPINION ABOUT THIS.

For me, she is your girlfriend and you truly love her, even if you deny this FACT .I know that you truly love her. So, breaking up with her is not what you should consider.

In as much as redpill doesnt preach manipulating or treating women badly . I won't advice you to hate her for her action rather, you need to take the bold action and command the situation to your favour. She is your woman, so is your duty to take what belongs to you and that's what you truly want. But, because you are clueless of what to do to get her back that's why you are considering breakup.

There is always bitter feelings when we break up with our partner when they are the one that facilitate the breakup. But, we feel fulfilled when we successfully break up with them because we don't want them again. The later is always better.

Now, in your case. She is the one trying to cause the breakup but it would have been better if you break up with her rather than she breaking up with you. It is always good when you are the one breaking up with her than she breaking up with you.

THIS IS WHAT YOU WILL DO IF YOU STILL WANT HER BACK.

Swallow the redpill and accept the truth. You are not married to her and that doesn't make her your property. So, she has the right to explore other things out there. And may be that's what she has been trying to do and now she wants to make you see that you have given her reason to do that.

As for you, you need to have abundant mentality. Not by saying it but by doing it. You need to make yourself scarce at the moment and you must ensure it 100%. This is the only way to get her back. For what she wants to explore out there won't favour her. However , it will favour her if you can't let go of her at the moment. THIS IS NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH swallow the truth has a man. For I know for sure that it won't be easy for you to let go of her. But you need to do it at the moment if you want to get her back. She will definitely come back to you.

While she keep flirting with another guy. Use this opportunity to brush yourself up and soak yourself up into the ocean of redpill and upgrade your game to the highest level. Life is too short to worry about those who don't want us.

Understand those things that must have make her to consider cheating and make yourself better in those things. Lean to improve yourself, focus more on yourself than focusing on her. You must not always assume she will be with you because of the love she has for you, instead always make yourself better and work on yourself to suit what your partner desires. Try to become who your partner want instead of building your relationship on love. Even though this is not a sure guaranteed to keep her forever but it will enable you to move on faster after break up and life in general.

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO FROM HERE.

Always go close to her and pretend as if you have nothing against her. Don't ever you quarrel with her over anything until you see any tangible something to accuse her with. Accuse her if you find any evidence and prove and if you don't see anything it will worsen the case if you accuse her, by then it will all become your fault.

Any which way, if she keeps annoying you and avoiding you, quarrel her over it and just ignore her by all means. Keep distance with her. By all means avoid her call. Delete her number from your phone for this will help you avoid any temptation of calling her. PLEASE, make sure you keep to this attitude until she comes back to you. And if she didn't come back, move on with your life. There are many fishes in the river. You are a man and you must learn to move on in life.

For , I know for sure that she will come back. SHE WILL DEFINITELY COME BACK. You don't have anything to fear about loosing her, she is still yours if you play the game right. She will come back. But make yourself unavailable for her for she to miss you and regret her action.

Qwubone:
Dog eat Dog? Pc term right ?

Qwubone:
No. I even got a message from the Elder council of birds going around saying if you know of any bird that killed another bird either you fall him or take him to police station.

BKB is brother kill brother but since Eiye is bird theme we changed it to Bird Kill Bird.

Zzor:
from this comment,you are really representing your name,almost all Jasper's are drunkards

TheUndercover:
Let's have a WhatsApp group for TRP members. Admin can create it and paste the group link here.

kingthreat:
More like vigilante training or IPOB. Location: Eastern Nigeria

daddytime:
This thread strong sha

No be small nightmare for me last night oh.