Business › Re: Naira Drops To 251/dollar, External Reserves Now $29.7bn by jayAjoku(m): 7:36am On Dec 07, 2015 |
jesus this news almost gave me a heart attack oh my God this is the worst yet ........ |
Celebrities › Re: How Ini Edo Spends Her Money(photos) by jayAjoku(m): 9:52pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
snr runz girls dem |
Education › Re: After Finishing Further Maths Exam(photo) by jayAjoku(m): 10:16pm On Dec 02, 2015 |
didnt happen to me though but i know my further maths grades for a session in sec school fell harder than the nigerian stock market am talking from B to E to f ..... gave up on the shit the next year |
Business › Re: How Foreign Bankers Lure Nigerian Elite To Early Graves by jayAjoku(m): 10:31am On Dec 01, 2015 |
oh well its their pot of soup since them say others no go enjoy wealth , well karma will strike them in the nuts .... #ThisLifeIsJustAPotOfBeans |
Politics › Re: Massive Procession Of APC Faithfuls In Portharcourt (Photos) by jayAjoku(m): 11:42pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
story for the oracles |
Romance › Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by jayAjoku(m): 8:17pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
holyFRED: Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them
We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life. She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.
All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.
We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.
She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me. She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.
Fast forward to why am writing this; Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood. She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.
I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.
My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision? Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?
Did I in anyway take advantage of her? And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?
Romancelanders,please help me Thanks for reading  you just dodged a bullet from a crazy bbbbbttch wow *singing in big seans voice* Thanks for reading  |
Sports › Re: Who Do You Think Will Win 2015 Ballon D’or Award? by jayAjoku(m): 7:37pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
with all due respect to #CR7 this years award should go to neymar he really deserves it ........... madrid was shit last season and neymar and barca were all tops so neymar should get it |
Romance › Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by jayAjoku(m): 7:29pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
crayguy: Hi nairalanders.... I'll try to break short my context of my story. I am a young guy of 22 years old, I am actually dating a girl of 18 years old, I love her real deep and I believe she do loves me too, she's has a bright future and a very nice home manner(beautiful as well),I eventually got her pregnant and she's planning to do abortion which I am not in deep support, considering we both have seek some spiritual findings which makes it clear that the child(male or female) is a great and powerful child, aborting could lead to my girlfriend not able to conceive again otherwise loose her life, she's hell bent on abortion because of her school and shame from meighbours... I was actually thinking of settling her down with business (don't know the best for her)..... please help on idea of a good business I can setup for her in this states, what am I to do ? , I am really frustrated as am still hustling as well. please help.. I am open for "criticise" my nigga real quick ama break this down for you..... you ARE STUPID ... AINT YOU HEARD OF CONDOMS BEFORE .... COMMON MEN THAT WAS BAD ON YOUR PATH |
Christianity Etc › Re: Wives Of 9 Powerful Nigerian Pastors (photos) by jayAjoku(m): 7:21pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
mrs adefarasin tho ....... |
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Tells Ladies -never Marry Yoruba Boys,they Are Cheaters,abusive... by jayAjoku(m): 10:59pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
madam oooooo we hear you other men from other tribes no dey ?......... hmmmm have seen some very neat yoruba boys sha and some rich non golddiggerish ones dis lady got ANCESTRAL PROBLEMS |
Celebrities › Re: Angry Woman Made D'banj Prostrate Before Her At Enugu Airport by jayAjoku(m): 7:49pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
she is a local rapper , no class |
Politics › Re: Is Senator Bala Ibn'Nallah's Dress Code To An Event Right? (pics) by jayAjoku(m): 7:35pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
goosssh that nigga got terrible taste , no swag nothing who is his wardrobe advisor and how much does he pay him |
Politics › Re: Pirates Attack Polish Ship In Niger Delta, Kidnap 5 by jayAjoku(m): 2:41pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
i thought the piracy issue was handled when the militants were given amnesty?......... ooooh i guess not ... boys are not smiling ember month flexing money needs to be paid |
Forum Games › Re: Test Your Self 'quantitative ' by jayAjoku(m): 11:54am On Nov 28, 2015 |
answer is 14 ....... blue = 4, green =2 red =3 |
Romance › Re: Share Your Friend Zone Story. by jayAjoku(m): 3:20pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
defendedvictim: d amazing thing is dat he is feeling good abt it  i tire for the nigga . |
Celebrities › Re: Terry G Shows Of His Porsche Car by jayAjoku(m): 9:47am On Nov 26, 2015 |
hmmmmmmmmmm looks rented though , how do these niggas make so much money |
Romance › Re: Share Your Friend Zone Story. by jayAjoku(m): 8:18am On Nov 26, 2015 |
Vig86: During my university days but I didn't and still don't see that as friendzone. She was actually spending for me, she hardly leave my house. Everyone in the lounge thought I was flinging her but I never did. She had a boyfriend during that time. When I chyked the girl, she told me about the guy and her principles. That she can never double date. I respected her stand. She is a beautiful girl that added some value to my swag. She really loved me. She spent on me, she called me almost everyday, she would call me every morning to wake me up for morning Mass. On sunday, I didn't get option than to get prepared and wait for her to come so we would go to church. I still miss her shaa. I turned a church boy. She would buy me some prayer books, not that she was into church like that. She found out that I don't go to church and put it upon herself. She stroll with me instead of her boy friend. She would drag me to the market. Her family know me but they didn't know her boyfriend. I didn't lose but konji nearly kill me shaa. I disturbed her till she bought 'WHAT'. We would play What all day. I knew why she bought the What but kept it to myself. She bought the What to take my mind off her 'thing'. One day, after I have served(NYSC), she took the picture of the What and send to me. She said, "I value this What more than any other thing, I don't play this what with anybody". I felt like crying. I also took the pictures of some prayer books she bought me and sent to her, she laughed. I knew she appreciated it. So, I won't call my own friendzone. I didn't lose anything. I respect that girl up to today. She would sleep carelessly with me in my bed, and when I asked her why she wasn't afraid of me forcing her for sex, she said, "because I trust you even more than myself". duuuuuuudeeeeee , mah nigga you were like the bloody gcfr of the friendzone dayum |
Family › Re: 15 Funny Childhood Nostalgic Photos That Will Make You Feel Old. by jayAjoku(m): 9:28pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
wow now i feel really old..... saw speedy biscuits in crossrivers state recently and i was like WTF do these still exist  OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Travel › Re: All About Banana Island Lagos State, History And Exclusive Pictures by jayAjoku(m): 8:55pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Chai God poverty na Bastard....... chooooiiiiiii... Money must be made to come to reality |
Romance › Re: What A Guy Did To His Cheating Girl Friend:right Or Wrong? by jayAjoku(m): 8:52pm On May 13, 2015 |
It would be sweeter if he lashed her mercilessly on the bed first and after that take everything away ................. |
Romance › Re: Reasons Why Women Hate Each Other by jayAjoku(m): 11:13pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
elantraceey: Strictly your opinion, i don't easily make friends with ladies doesn't in any wise mean any of the above you claim, simply individual differences. . Sssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh that's a lie and deep down you know it .. |
Gaming › Re: Dante Vs Kratos Vs Dastan by jayAjoku(m): 7:21pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
KRATOS till nepa keeps light steady for one full month |
Computers › Re: Help Him Choose Between A Macbook Air Or A Lenovo G50_70 Pc by jayAjoku(op): 11:02am On Mar 15, 2015 |
Please don't just view and leave contribute |
Christianity Etc › Re: Which Of The Ten Commandments Do You Find Difficult To Obey?? by jayAjoku(m): 10:55am On Mar 15, 2015 |
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Computers › Help Him Choose Between A Macbook Air Or A Lenovo G50_70 Pc by jayAjoku(op): 11:42pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Hello fellow nairalanders I posted this cause I really need to come to terms with my computing needs I'm in my 200L in school studying geology and I really need candid advice on a laptop to get to suit my Needs and my pocket ....m for the macbook I know stuff from apple are always expensive and what not but I got a great deal from a friend for less than 90k, I have always loved the smooth tech apple dishes out never really had the chance to experience it one on one , but I also love the specs on the lenovo g50_70. So I'm really hanging here I need pro advice please help me out ................... Thank you |
Forum Games › Re: Where Is The Cat In This Picture by jayAjoku(m): 4:16am On Mar 08, 2015 |
In the sink |
Phones › Re: MTN Re-launches TruTalk That Allows you To Call 11 Numbers At Cheaper Price by jayAjoku(m): 1:28pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
N E V E R.
A G A I N
Will I fall for Mtn and their criminal gimmicks there is always a hidden charge involved ........ The network is crappy as crap ..... . |
Phones › Re: MTN Re-launches TruTalk That Allows you To Call 11 Numbers At Cheaper Price by jayAjoku(m): 1:27pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
N E V E R.
A G A I N
Will I fall for Mtn and their criminal gimmicks there is always a hidden charge involved ........ The network is crappy as crap ..... |
Travel › Re: Best City In Nigeria To Live In? by jayAjoku(m): 7:29pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
lakesidepapa: OSOGBO. Oroki Asala
Enjoy power for 18hours in a day
Tight security
Good tiled road network
Low cost of housing
Low cost of food
Lovely and friendly residents
Home of hotels, club houses and lots more...
Osogbo is lively...... . Wait oooooo them dey tile Road  ?? |
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Family › Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by jayAjoku(m): 3:45pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bokom: Hello Guys
My name is UD (not real name), a Nigerian and i am married to European who is 10 years older than me. We met in Europe but got married in Lagos.
Well, after our marriage, we always have family issues and fights like every other couple, but the problem i am having with my wife is that any time we are having our small misunderstanding, she always gets physical.. Initially, its just a small slap to my face and some nail scratching on my body here and there. And when this started in Europe, i will always try to walk away or hold her hands to calm her down, but seems the more i take the beatings, the more courage and bold she becomes in always hitting me during an argument or small misunderstanding with her.
Recently, we both came back to Nigeria for a business we brought down from Europe, and since we started living in Nigeria, i couldn't hold myself any longer as i have tried so in so many occasions to avoid hitting her back, but at a point i couldn't take it any more and i had to hit her back! though not so hard, but like oyibos, her skin where i hit her turned purple color and the next day everybody at our office was looking at me like the devil himself and a woman beater... I felt very very bad that i swore never to touch her again!
But last night she came all out for me again, hitting me, throwing lamps and whatever at me, and i lost it again and had to hit her! This time a bit hard! Please what am i supposed to do because i don't feel good after this fights especially when i have to hit her back.
And some of you might ask, why are we always fighting Well, i happens to be the bread winner in my family, but my wife doesn't understand why i should give money to my brother to help him in his business or pay for a new home for my mum. She said my family is too lazy and they should go and fend for themselves. My family is all i had and i feel obliged to help them even as i have a joint business venture with my wife and we run same account, thus finds out anytime i give them money. My brother was the one who helped and paid for my studies in Europe when his business was moving fine...now i feel i have to support him too because he has some problems with his business, but my oyibo wife will not hear of it and thus leads to our fighting and she getting physical with me..
Please guys, advise me what to do if you are in my shoes...only matured advises needed. Thanks when was the last time you guys had really hardcore sex   .... Dude screw the brains outta her for a week then sit her down and talk ... |
Education › Re: How Can I Make First Class? by jayAjoku(m): 1:34pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Ehmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ...... Really ?  ? |