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Mubby4luv: THUMBS UP BRO. Yes dey re usin me buh i get the benefit. lyk its a mutual kinda tin

So you are equally cheap. We finally got there in the end

I want to meet damilola_luv

I want to meet idowuogbo
Make it happen gurl

GorgeousReney: :/ur nt serious.....

I'm very serious

GorgeousReney: lol....

Mind rotating your pic?
I wanna visualise 'em WMD's that has been attracting stray elbows

Mubby4luv: U might wanna skip da date part. ol i do is wiggle ma car key after evenin lecture usually and look for a lady who needs a lift to hostel or town. thts ol i can tell u

You confusing me bro, do you also cab on the side?
What if these girls are just using you since it seems you like anything under skirt sorta

Mubby4luv: Haha nooo, just goin/askin straight forward might kill da chance buh after da date and full A.C, bro u dont even need to ask!

What kinda girls are you dating bro?
So date and full AC is the magic to getting laid

tosingcfr: hope you don't mind a date? Just choose a date

Natural born instinct.
Going straight for the kill
Na u oh

djfalone: well if i wanted to apologise .....i"ll probably say....''miss , if your heart is half as soft as your breast , i'm sure you"ll forgive me"........

Na hot slap you go get and it had be well deserved. So you begin dey qualify a stranger's breast chineke me

Mistakenly
I think it's more like the art of tapping current

stewie100: I hereby request that you should create a one on one Debate contest section with no interruptions ,i want to intellectually embarrass and expose people like ROSSIKE and also the file upload is just too small at 200mb ,it should be increased to at least 4mb (size of one audio song) and remember most pics are larger than 200mb

Are you sure you have the mental capacity to debate someone intellectually?
Explain how you increase 200mb to 4mb

What's the problem?

texanomaly: When and where?

Lemme whisper the location/time in your ears. Too many amebos about the place

Idowuogbo:

You wanna cockblock again? wetin i do you ehn. I will report you to whitelexi oh

Mubby4luv: After date na watin? lmao

Say your goodbyes duh

are you advocating boning on the first date by any chance?
If that's the case then absolutely no point wasting your time going on a date. Just make your intention known ad wolla xmas might just come early for you.

Mubby4luv: Nope. a very good spot is inside da car, back seat with tited windows #super dark

Date not bone randy man

texanomaly: Sure we do...

meet me first

You don't wanna know

What sorta question are you asking my friend?
how would you feel if you were the one that engaged her and she is contemplating being serviced by another man?

I’m 100% certain that you don’t love both of them. Heck it’s technically impossible to be in love with two people at the same time.
Having cleared the misconception, we can’t help you decide whom to choose out of the two. You have to do so yourself since you are in know about each of their respective qualities.

I will suggest you decide based on the one with highest degree of compatibility. This is the single most important thing after love of course when deciding a life partner

If restaurants are the only location that tick the following criterion:
Ease of access
Availability
Tranquillity
Affordability
then surely that explain why they are the most sought after location as far as going on a date is concerned.

mechummy: NO. I can't be a side chic

How about being the other/alternate/co chic? Better description perhaps?

Mathicks: LOL. cuz you'll have two girls?

You my guy is the prized asset so let them compete for the biggest prize about the place kinda thing

On the more serious note though, it's only dating so what's the big deal. Not like ya'll are going out there making commitments at that age anyway.
abeg make una enjoy una self jare. You have a whole life to stay with one person if and when you eventually get married

mathematician: [color=#51fd0d] i cannot decipher your post, what exactly do you mean[/color]

Simply put, your use of color is whack.

There is love in sharing

lemme ask google

Please tell me you are clowning

3 issues here really,
He allegedly wronged you and refusing to apologise,

He doesn’t respect you,

He sees you as soft and weak probably because of the love you have for him or simply because as a married woman and according to the obvious religious teachings, you are supposed to stay married even if the man is allegedly having extra marital affairs.



First question is, have you told him how his actions are making you feel?

If you are the type that aren’t necessarily able to speak your mind due to various reasons, have you then showed him how his actions/inactions are making you feel in the relationship?

Do you know/understand that if the other party in a relationship is perceived as being weak then the relationship is most certainly not going to work in the long run and the person concerned will stay unhappy unfulfilled.

Relationship is meant to be fun. You are not meant to be unhappy so my advice for you is to talk to him. I just cannot stress how important COMMUNICATION is in relationships. No point you trying to find solutions without knowing what exactly the problem is. You are there feeling like a love-peddler but yet the obvious problem still persists.
This man once loved you to the extent of marrying you so making him understand how all these is making you feel should be the way forward.



Here are some of the things you can try/ask him:
Try having the conversation when he is relaxed. Maybe middle of the night after one of your sessions or after cooking him his best meal. Try not to argue but make sure you communicate all your concerns to him. You can write the key questions down before having the conversation with him

Ask him how he would feel if you were the one sending suggestive text message to your male friends

How would he feel if saying sorry and feeling remorseful was also a difficult thing for you to do as well

What would have happened if the girl he sent the text messages to was actually up for it as well

What exactly does he want you to improve on if he isn’t currently satisfied.


If he doesn’t improve after having the conversations with him, the next step is to try mediation. You can involve someone like a pastor or family member that you know he respects and would most certainly listen to.

All the best

No biggie really.. I've wowed people doing that sorta things as well
stereotyping is mother of all efups