Family › Re: Should She Ask For Flight Ticket? by jaybee3(m): 3:44pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
bayooz: @jay bee. The duo knew each other in Nigeria years ago. She can afford paying for the journey. But is it reasonable to expect the UK guy to pay? There is no right or wrong answer simply because circumstances are/can be different. For all we know, the dude might be struggling in the UK whereas money ain't necessarily an issue for your sister. As a couple, they ought to be able to decide these things without outside interference. Heck, people in relationships should always have frank/open/honest conversations with one another. If she wants him to pay then she should ask him. I just don't like the idea of having expectations or making assumptions/conclusions based on what society perceives as "the so called right thing to do" chaircover: just saw your response.
Personally I think they he should pay at least 50% and bearing in mind that he is the one inviting her over, he should even pay more than 50%. She of course needs to respect herself and put something tangible down too. Would you also advocate that the woman contribute 50% if she was the one doing the inviting? |
Islam › Re: Can A Muslim Work In An Interest-seeking Bank by jaybee3(m): 3:34pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
If your faith and values are going to be compromised then why bother?
You can always work for Islamic banks if readily available |
Business › Re: Things You Should Never Say To Your Boss by jaybee3(m): 3:20pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
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Family › Re: Should She Ask For Flight Ticket? by jaybee3(m): 3:18pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
Is your sister a regular UK visitor?
Can she afford it?
Is SHE comfortable with the idea?
Have they met before or just e-romance play play? |
Business › Re: Things You Should Never Say To Your Boss by jaybee3(m): 2:57pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
Tinkybabe: Interviewer: So why do you want to work with us?
Me: In all sincerity,it's because of the money But I understand that nothing good comes easy hence I decided to gain knowledge and skills that would help me achieve this. Your company happens to provide the right platform for me to exhibit these skills and put my knowledge into use thereby making money .
I was only being sincere,would it be fair if I'm turned away? A smart interviewer will then do a follow-up question along the line of: How would you stay motivated if we fail to match your expectation monetarily since money is the key determinant factor in your chosen career |
Romance › Re: Who Is Your Nairaland E-crush? by jaybee3(m): 2:44pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
back to topic guys
party over
I'm currently crushing on NL's sleek chameleon "oliviatwist" |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Want To Marry A Nairalander!!! by jaybee3(m): 1:32pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
I recommend Tpia... she appears tough on the outside but a real softie on the inside |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Want To Marry A Nairalander!!! by jaybee3(m): 1:26pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Want To Marry A Nairalander!!! by jaybee3(m): 1:24pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
I recommend mamagee |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Want To Marry A Nairalander!!! by jaybee3(m): 1:08pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
abeg make una free my guy biko
@all make una begin recommend na
@OP I recommend Idowuogbo. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Want To Marry A Nairalander!!! by jaybee3(m): 12:14pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
Lady Chima comes highly recommended. |
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Romance › Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by jaybee3(m): 11:45am On Oct 10, 2013 |
@Mz mariah
Going by your number of posts on this thread and the speed at which they get posted, are you sure staying on nl and getting sympathy comments will help heal the obvious wound?
I'm not suggesting you should suffer in silence but if you've truly moved on shouldn't letting go of the past be the single most important thing?
Just my own lil observation |
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Romance › Re: What Does It Mean When A Man Stares At You From A Balcony by jaybee3(m): 11:19am On Oct 10, 2013 |
una go fear questions for this Nl i swear |
Romance › Re: See What I Saw On Her Facebook by jaybee3(m): 10:53am On Oct 10, 2013 |
Mr olodo is a certified clown |
Romance › Re: Do You Belief What This Pic Says? by jaybee3(m): 10:39am On Oct 10, 2013 |
blahhhhh |
Romance › Re: I Have A Fear Of Dating Nigerian Men, Help! Please? by jaybee3(m): 9:03am On Oct 10, 2013 |
It's a free world and you are entitled to your own choice so no biggie |
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Romance › Re: She Calls Him 'Broda' Even In Bed! by jaybee3(m): 9:03pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Na ori roof he like.  How you take know? You wan ja ishey mi ba? |
Romance › Re: She Calls Him 'Broda' Even In Bed! by jaybee3(m): 8:50pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Dyt: Lol I know I won't do dat again
 
*singing* Fine fine lady Eleyinju ege Ohun ti mo fe je Ni ko jen gbon Pemi loruko Ko famini irungbo Oya gbe sunmo mi gbe sun mo mi Na song wey i been hear 2day oh |
Romance › Re: Things Girls Want But Won’t Ask For It by jaybee3(m): 8:46pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Dyt: Yes ke Who get time for robo rebe Omo ita |
Romance › Re: She Calls Him 'Broda' Even In Bed! by jaybee3(m): 8:45pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Dyt: Not all yoruba gals o U hit on me, automatically u are my mate Broda ko, sissi ni Rude gyal |
Romance › Re: Physical features You Want In Your Spouse ? by jaybee3(m): 8:37pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Omolola1: I've been to London to see the queen  Really? |
Romance › Re: Physical features You Want In Your Spouse ? by jaybee3(m): 8:37pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
[quote author=uj_sizzle]I'll be damned  That's awesooome! I have purrfect cheek for a dimple  When you getting one?  [/quote]When you say the magic word |
Romance › Re: Things Girls Want But Won’t Ask For It by jaybee3(m): 8:34pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Dyt: Me I ask for everything o Sex Money Gifts If u don't know ur rights, I will simply put dem straight to u Why wld I be shy to ask Bt he can't be shy to touch my bum bum abi From a husband or bf? |
Romance › Re: Physical features You Want In Your Spouse ? by jaybee3(m): 8:20pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
[quote author=uj_sizzle]I've heard mothers poke their baby's cheeks with their fingers to give them dimples  Then i've read it's an anomaly..er like a malformation  How something can be a malformation and yet sooooo cute and sexy is beyond me  How do you plan on getting one? Don't drill your cheeks oo  [/quote]Here you go http://www.dimplecreations.co.uk/surgery |
Romance › Re: Things Girls Want But Won’t Ask For It by jaybee3(m): 8:15pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Omolola1: Money Good girl Well trained  |
Romance › Re: Physical features You Want In Your Spouse ? by jaybee3(m): 7:55pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
[quote author=uj_sizzle]You have dimples?  [/quote]Nope but i could have it done if that's what it takes  |
Romance › Re: Things Girls Want But Won’t Ask For It by jaybee3(m): 7:32pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
What wouldn't you ask for? |
Romance › Re: Physical features You Want In Your Spouse ? by jaybee3(m): 7:25pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
[quote author=uj_sizzle]dimples  [/quote]Just that? Tick |