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How u been sweet heart? You presence is scarce dis days mehn

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YES we can but for how long is the question

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Okies, u've stated your case
so what do u have to counter that Corky Joe?

@ OP
U've got mail

You two really should get a room
Dude has been chasing you for God knows how long
What his he asking for again

Oya lemme be the mediator
What you want from Chima Corky

Let peace reign ladies
I am begging you 2. Pls pls pls pls pls
On ma knees

I have to get back to you on that Q

A nice insight but i have to do more digging though: http://yourbrainatwork.org/what-time-of-day.html

I don't get involved when weaves or what not are being discussed.
I'm gladly a fully functioning male

What excess?
Only insecure lil fellas have problems dating independent women.
Now can the independent women among us please stand up

Iremi:
@ all
I promise to give u d gists as time goes on. Dont worry cos am very sure he is coming back

And if he does what plans do you have? How are u going to handle it?
Whatever you do just make sure you do it with a "No regrets" mindstate
good luck and stay blessed

@nekai
do u mind whispering where u from in ma ears  

Nekai:
Imagine the insults that I would miss out on learning? I heard a guy on here call someone a moronic bush-piglet once.  
 

u haven't answered the OP's question
Do you?

anything for ma Inky

hmmmmmmmmmmm

Thread better be clean else hell gon break loose

Shar Jackson
sorry cudn't think of any

Mrs.Chima:
You get some?

Always a willing giver

Mrs.Chima:
Depending on the punny huh?

Mrs Einstein da smarty pants

@DK
It doesn't but it def ain't LOVE
We have all this relationship problems cos people don't understand/appreciate what love entails.
The word is overused sef.

Ujujoan:
That's all I'm saying . . .  the guy played her!

So people should stop blaming her for being 'cheap'. Even if she waited 2 months, he still would have played her and that's the truth!

I'm not blaming her at all. I haven't got any qualms with 1 night stand as long as it's a mutual understanding or what not. I am just questioning the love she has managed to develop without having found out anything about the dude.
It's not like the OP is below 16 or something.

Women complain about men being players but isn't it now obvious y'all make it obvious for us?
I just hope the OP doesn't take this dude back no matter what excuse he comes up with.

dayokanu:
[size=18pt]Ok. Let me confess. I am the guy. The reason I havent been picking my calls was because I had "Wicklow" on my 10 fingers   [/size]

Jennykadry, Now let me ask. Who writes the manual for how ppl fall in love? Who says it has to be after 6months or after 6 minutes?

I have seen ppl who met at clubs/bars in 5 mins had quickies and probably thought that was it, At the end they cant let go off themselves and are married, While some who didnt even have sex for yrs ended up falling out.

BTW JK, Can I take you back to Uju's friend case, Why do you blame OP here for not using her sense but absolve Uju's friend. Both cases are very similar

Why r u talking like this DK?
Did they fall in love after the initial 5 minutes? you just don't love someone because of the way they look or the way they dance et al.
It takes more than that and surely it's a process of evolvement that takes time.
I know Time is relative and no one has the ability to define when the time is right but depending on what one is looking for the time can be easily defined.
if you are looking for a quickie then the 5 minutes should be enough as you are probably only attracted to each other
If you are looking to date someone as a gf/bf then you need dates so as to get to know each other properly.

Why am i even saying all these to you when are obviously versed with the players code.

@ uju
looks like you've not met real players.
loooool at your comment on being able to read someone through their eyes.
you never jam oh.

chei c as ma cousin dey kiss old man
Ibidun u go hear wehn

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It's practically impossible to fall in love with someone you've only known for a month

you can have feelings for them but surely not love

Also, why are you advising her to arrange another meet up? It's clearly a bad idea as the OP is obviously attracted to this dude and his lies, i'm sure she probably wouldn't be able to resist the second round/doze of mandigo which obviously will bring her back to square 1,2 or whatever.

meanwhile, where av u been hiding?
been banging at the usual door all day

Ujujoan:
I believe the black guy must have reacted that way because he noticed that the 'snobbing' was only directed to him. In a situation when others greet him (the white man) and he replies cheerfully and the black guy greets him but gets a dismissing grunt, anybody will feel slighted.

However you are right, he should have just ignored him and stayed on his own. You don't force people to like you!

YES!!!

“Is it because I am black that you are ignoring me?” . . . . In other word, "are you such a racist that your just ignore all blacks?"

If I were the white man, I'd be the one suing!

That is the evidence he needs but can he get a white colleague to give statement?

Racism cases are always hard to prove despite the fact that it obviously still exist.



@Chaircover
ehn ehn, I now know the reason why . . . . . . . .

Yes and No

What are u really looking for actually? sympathy perhaps?
You are here claiming you love someone you barely even know and it's obvious he played a fast one on you so count your loss and be wise next time

What other evidence do you need that this man is probably not really into you?
Oya ping me joor. Me i have time