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Million dollar question
who is the useless one?
The liar or the one that fell for the lie

Homeboi is moving on cos he has been der and done IT
Though his actions are cowardly for leading you on false pretence despite the fact that all he wanted was just the nookie.

He has to pay his debt even if the wife is unappreciative

Hell yeah . . . . . Mrs Chima got everything on lock down

dayokanu:
Could this be Tumfulu?

chaircover:
@poster do you have a boyfriend?

Do you really have to stay with your sister. I know Lasu very well and there are thousands of affordable rooms in the estates behind Lasu.

To break free of this abomination, you have to remove yourself from the situation. Its not going to be easy but right now, this is the only way forward.

Enough is enough

The poster has so many things going against her and change of location ain't going to do poo. It will actually give her more freedom to ruin her life and that of her sis the more cos the two in-laws will just draw out a daily/weekly rota
She has stated categorically that she is in-love with the bro in law and also accustomed to getting freebies in exchange for puzzy from the other one.
She needs Jesus and then some serious dose of counselling by a pastor or whatnot.

I don't have the strength today suga. . . . The more is a quantifier and it's valid in the OP's stance.
An example of a highly independent woman is one who chooses/chase career/money over family
We are not talking about the regular ones that will offer to pay for dates or buy own things

^^^
The more is the key word suga

Independence is good but too much of it is bad.

hmmmmmmmm

Chei that gyal sat behind me in high skool. She is def looking hawt

Mygoldie:
even if you ask in the most politeful way,i still wouldn't give ya.

Chei see levels . . . .
What's a man gotta do to have 'em hawt digits?

Mygoldie:
is that what the guide asked you guys to do?^^
oh well!!
wrong move.

So no number
ggggrrrrrhhhhhhhhh

PS: The guide didn't ask us to throw tantrums if number isn't given

^^^
Just downloaded and read the guide so can i have your number

@Mrs CeeCee
I heard tiffany is a girls best friend so i might just go with that.
I'm liking the rock on a plat as it looks classy . . . She better say yes

I'm going to put a rock on it

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=586446.msg7544591#msg7544591 date=1295207752]Mygoldie,

You can have Jaybee he is starting to irritates me.[/quote]awwwwww suga. . . That time of the month again. Oh well, what can we do to help?

I guess it's a working progress Q. I do acknowledge/appreciate the fact that you've started exercising a lil restraint albeit a very lil one on the richter scale. lol

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=586446.msg7544523#msg7544523 date=1295206945][color=#0055bb]^^but not Jamos [/color][/quote]I love me Jamos as well especially when they cook me some rice peas and jerk chicken. lol

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=586446.msg7544528#msg7544528 date=1295207031]Okay.  You basically saying the same thing I am saying Jaybee.  Men!  Now again, why was you frowning was it something I said?  You did tell me to stop fighting people and I haven't really fought nobody. (Please don't go to the do nigerian men stay faithful to oyindo thread)  [/quote]Yeah right Q  

I'm attracted to strong black sisters regardless of race or ethnicity

lucky bugger u r DK. Why this week mehn. . . . .

Go ahead and be this dude's friend
I'd say life is too short to worry about something that will never materalise. You are under your husband's watch 24/7 and this dude is miles away and no chance of you two ever getting together.
I love this slogan: Make friends not enemies

so why worry if you ain't lusting then. Liking someone is harmless and i fail to see the reason why you have to tell your man u like someone.

how would you feel if your man tells you he likes a girl?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=586219.msg7537099#msg7537099 date=1295081980]Okay, I like this guy and I do not know how to tell my husband. What should I do from a male perspective?[/quote]There are some things in life that are meant to remain closed in our hearts. You don't go telling your man you are lusting over another sexy hunk.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=586219.msg7537048#msg7537048 date=1295081287]Mz. Dark,

I am having this issue with the same man that just won't leave me alone. I have cussed him out, talked about his family, got some men to tough talked him, and even told him if he don't stop I will have to take law in my own hands. NOTHING IS WORKING! I do not want to upset my husband because he (used to be a figher) and he is STROOOOONG.

I guess I need to go suck on a bottle.[/quote]I'm guessing it's the same dude always passing sexual comments to you and if its him then the ONLY solution is you complaining to your man. He knows his friend and he has to do the talking/putting him in line if he loves you. It's really that simple suga

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=586219.msg7537014#msg7537014 date=1295080779]I have something I want to get off my chest. I need a MATURED male opinion.[/quote]You've got one here suga. Bring it on

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=586219.msg7537027#msg7537027 date=1295080946]@Jaybee, that is definitely what I need to do. I just wish it were easy. Sometimes things that happened in the past or even a couple days ago when I think about it, it may cause me to shed a few tears because I am a very emotional/sensitive person which is why to ppl I come off confrontational. That is one thing I'd like to change but it just seems when I am dating a guy they cannot accept that. It's like my feelings are irrelevant. I can't explain it.  [/color][/quote]As much as i appreciate/understand the difficulties that the ability to let things pass brings, i generally believe you always have to look at the bigger pictures of things. As an example, if it's your b/f that did something you are finding it hard to let go then just look at the good things he has done and use that as a parameter to judge if you really ought to be getting mad for things that have past and obviously has no direct bearing on the outcome of your relationship going forward with him.

We human beings constantly always have to look at bigger pictures. Why get mad at something that doesn't define us or better still something that wouldn't shape our future.
It's really not so hard to let things go trust me.

Always ask yourself what do i have to gain if i hold on and if you can't find anything then find reasons within to overlook the things that you are bent on holding on to

I c ya Q
Gud Morning suga

Wow wow wow . . . . What worries me is people actually do see signs but yet they close their eyes to the obvious truth. I do not know your guy but the kind of convenient reasons he has been coming up with disgusts me.

The chances of an average Nigerian man with strong African mentality returning back to naija to get his own black queen is relatively high. You have to weigh what you stand to loose if you do decide to stick around.
just remember things are a lot easier now that kids aren't involved. Whatever you decide just make sure you are properly convinced before having kids with the dude.

Good luck

You either stop being his friend or just continue stressing the fact that you only see him as a friend and nothing will ever happen between you 2.

Makes us 2 then cos i certainly do d same. I get overly worried abt my darl Q