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you know me suga. . . . I'm chilling

Snooping ain't good but couples should normally be free to access each other's private shitzo

OreOfe2010:
@Nikkykay
U got me thinking u might be right but I've not said anything to him about thinking he wants me as a way out of naija and never will. I guess i'll just back off this FB case then thanks Nikky

Please do hun.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=585668.msg7532306#msg7532306 date=1295016966]Last time someone told me to explore I ended up married to him. I will just take your word for it and it is illegal for me to have two husbands. I will keep you in mind when I have a space available.

Excuse you? Why would you ASSUMED that I have beef with you (coughing, hacking, beating chest) brothers?[/quote]The dude you met at the family gathering?
Oh well . . . . . I sure tried. Lmao
You aiight though Q?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=585668.msg7532191#msg7532191 date=1295015975]I must be this "Q" person so I will take one for the team. So are you a player and if so what are your methods?[/quote]Game is meant to be shown not to be told.
Come and explore then decide for yaself. lol

I was actually wandering whilst watching it yesterday why they didn't just go via the tick box route instead of allowing the not so clever delegates to write their respective names on the ballot paper. At least I'm sure that would have tackled the void ballots issue.
Well i guess we can only wish

Common blacksta You are realling cracking me up with your humour 2day.

You are basically telling me that the clueless dude is going to be able to detect a delegate that wrote "Turaki Adamawa" on his/her ballot paper? Just laughable.

blacksta:
How naive can one get - so you expect mago mago to be done in the open. After your man Annieh promised to fish out delegates who do not vote for GEJ.

One of the reasons why votes were collated states by states - to allow easy fishing out of those who did not vote for GEJ.

How is he going to be able to fish 'em out?
Are delegate names included on the ballot paper?

You wanna find out Q?

Common bro, the eligible bachelor list thingy was a sorry humour

Then don't stress yourself with long distance shitzo.
It involves a whole lotta trust.

I ceeee
I understand your cagyness but get to know  him more. I only recently advised a female colleague of mine about this same fb palava. The ex lives in scotland and she stays with the dude in london.
Told her to control what she can control which is establishing a solid base for the relationship. You can't worry about what's outside of your control.

OreOfe2010:
@Jaybee
I am not in a hurry at all and I'm taking my time and I would take my time well well. I just dont want to make mistakes others have made thats y I'm being skeptical.

You are going about it the wrong way cos frankly your actions are grossly childish.
What if the dude deletes her from fb but they talk 24/7 via email or phone? Please learn to control what you are supposed to control which is you relationship with him not his relationship with his EX.
You guys are only b/f and G/f.

How old r you? answer now. . . .haba

OreOfe2010:
@Jaybe
U got me laughing monitor ke not my kind of thing thats y my ex got away with so many things if its white and he says no its black I just take it since relationship was about trust.

It appears it is though cos if you ain't monitoring 24/7 then surely you won't be paying much attention to a mere facebook.
Facebook of all things to worry about. This was me thinking the dude and the girl work in the same office and they see each other daily.
Na real wa

OreOfe2010:
@ Mrs Chima
U r right I taught I was sure but I wanted to be more sure as I've seen, heared and read about gd relationships(so we think) turn sour after the spouse gets his/her residence permit. I got curious as I am settled in the UK and so is his ex I juat started thinking if it was coincidence or he wants out of naija. U cant blame coz of what has happened to others.

You are barely 6 months into the relationship and you are already overly sceptical. Have you even taken proper time to know this dude? Are you compatible?

Communication via technology is way different from face to face communication.
You gotta slow down a bit sista

Na real wa oh.
How old are you sef? So you going to break up with him cos he didn't delete an ex (who lives thousands of miles away) from his fb.
This fb sef. Anyhoo, relationships should be based on trust and since you have trust issues then no point being in a long distance relationship.
Save yourself the stress and find someone you can MONITOR 24/7 in the UK.


PS: we have some eligible candidates that lives close by on NL (errm errm errmm. . . 190, mobo, corky)

My eyes are permanently set on Queen Evieee Eeeeeee

What's good Q
Do you want me instead suga?

Did he fire the Gun?
Any sane society will make him go through a trial and if guilty jailed for his sins.
Haba

@Jenny
If and when i get married, the roles will be defined so we won't have a cause to be asking each other to bring money for this that. Mind you, i pay for all dates (cos i think it's the right thing to do if i am taking you out), wouldn't expect her to buy me things apart from my b'day or xmas.

To answer your second question, We cheat not because our nagging wife is driving us away but the simple fact that we think we can always get away with it as it's the norm which worryingly is widely accepted/expected.

After you define the role of a wife Mrs CeeCee
Scratch that An independent woman is one who doesn't depend on me for her livelihood.

PS: I don't have a problem being the lead but i frown at the suggestion that it's my responsibility when y'all campaign for equal partnership (Making joint decisions et al). God knows the African man in me will turn me into a dictator if any woman expects me to do everything

What's the role of a wife?
To look pretty and attend functions with me?
All these you took me from my father's house just don't cut it with me. The girls I've always dated are the independent type so maybe i just got used to the European way of life.
I just think it's much easier if roles are properly defined

I'm with you on this poster. It was impressive and surely no one can claim foul.

GEJ should get about 30+ and the overall margin should continue getting wider

Sokoto is projected to go for Atiku

It does. I guess the current traffic is too much

Thanks for looking out D

Hook us up with a streaming link now debosky
we wanna join the laughing bender

hey eeee vvvv eeeeee

Y'all can watch it live on sky channel 204

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=585108.msg7526133#msg7526133 date=1294948979]Do I know you?[/quote]It's Jay Bee silly