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blacksta:
How naive can one get - so you expect mago mago to be done in the open. After your man Annieh promised to fish out delegates who do not vote for GEJ.

One of the reasons why votes were collated states by states - to allow easy fishing out of those who did not vote for GEJ.

How is he going to be able to fish 'em out?
Are delegate names included on the ballot paper?

You wanna find out Q?

Common bro, the eligible bachelor list thingy was a sorry humour

Then don't stress yourself with long distance shitzo.
It involves a whole lotta trust.

I ceeee
I understand your cagyness but get to know  him more. I only recently advised a female colleague of mine about this same fb palava. The ex lives in scotland and she stays with the dude in london.
Told her to control what she can control which is establishing a solid base for the relationship. You can't worry about what's outside of your control.

OreOfe2010:
@Jaybee
I am not in a hurry at all and I'm taking my time and I would take my time well well. I just dont want to make mistakes others have made thats y I'm being skeptical.

You are going about it the wrong way cos frankly your actions are grossly childish.
What if the dude deletes her from fb but they talk 24/7 via email or phone? Please learn to control what you are supposed to control which is you relationship with him not his relationship with his EX.
You guys are only b/f and G/f.

How old r you? answer now. . . .haba

OreOfe2010:
@Jaybe
U got me laughing monitor ke not my kind of thing thats y my ex got away with so many things if its white and he says no its black I just take it since relationship was about trust.

It appears it is though cos if you ain't monitoring 24/7 then surely you won't be paying much attention to a mere facebook.
Facebook of all things to worry about. This was me thinking the dude and the girl work in the same office and they see each other daily.
Na real wa

OreOfe2010:
@ Mrs Chima
U r right I taught I was sure but I wanted to be more sure as I've seen, heared and read about gd relationships(so we think) turn sour after the spouse gets his/her residence permit. I got curious as I am settled in the UK and so is his ex I juat started thinking if it was coincidence or he wants out of naija. U cant blame coz of what has happened to others.

You are barely 6 months into the relationship and you are already overly sceptical. Have you even taken proper time to know this dude? Are you compatible?

Communication via technology is way different from face to face communication.
You gotta slow down a bit sista

Na real wa oh.
How old are you sef? So you going to break up with him cos he didn't delete an ex (who lives thousands of miles away) from his fb.
This fb sef. Anyhoo, relationships should be based on trust and since you have trust issues then no point being in a long distance relationship.
Save yourself the stress and find someone you can MONITOR 24/7 in the UK.


PS: we have some eligible candidates that lives close by on NL (errm errm errmm. . . 190, mobo, corky)

My eyes are permanently set on Queen Evieee Eeeeeee

What's good Q
Do you want me instead suga?

Did he fire the Gun?
Any sane society will make him go through a trial and if guilty jailed for his sins.
Haba

@Jenny
If and when i get married, the roles will be defined so we won't have a cause to be asking each other to bring money for this that. Mind you, i pay for all dates (cos i think it's the right thing to do if i am taking you out), wouldn't expect her to buy me things apart from my b'day or xmas.

To answer your second question, We cheat not because our nagging wife is driving us away but the simple fact that we think we can always get away with it as it's the norm which worryingly is widely accepted/expected.

After you define the role of a wife Mrs CeeCee
Scratch that An independent woman is one who doesn't depend on me for her livelihood.

PS: I don't have a problem being the lead but i frown at the suggestion that it's my responsibility when y'all campaign for equal partnership (Making joint decisions et al). God knows the African man in me will turn me into a dictator if any woman expects me to do everything

What's the role of a wife?
To look pretty and attend functions with me?
All these you took me from my father's house just don't cut it with me. The girls I've always dated are the independent type so maybe i just got used to the European way of life.
I just think it's much easier if roles are properly defined

I'm with you on this poster. It was impressive and surely no one can claim foul.

GEJ should get about 30+ and the overall margin should continue getting wider

Sokoto is projected to go for Atiku

It does. I guess the current traffic is too much

Thanks for looking out D

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we wanna join the laughing bender

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Y'all can watch it live on sky channel 204

Mrs.Chima:
Do I know you?

It's Jay Bee silly

Mrs.Chima:
What is "groosly"?

yipeee yipeee
welcome back Q
missed ya  

Yo blacksta, where r u getting all these Info from?

Same old recycled shyte Mobo  
You honestly need to start coming up with better poo
I'm sure you are educated enough to understand/appreciate the significance of categorising all African women as cheap.

jennykadry:
Why should she pay for all of these?I mean why are alot of men giving out their responsibilities to women? if a woman has to pay for all of these then it is a 50-50 relationship jaybee, is it compulsory for a woman to take up the responsibilities of her husband?

A man has to work his butt off to pay for all of these even if he has to go for two jobs, now it is then it is left for the wife to tell him to do one job and they pay the bill together. A man IMO should never expect a woman to help him out to pay for what he's got in his home especially if he is the one taking her out of her parents house, and bringing her into your house.

So what will be her contribution to the household if those things are too much to be asking for?
Mind you, i am going to be a husband that will not be demanding to have food on the table, clothes washed or whatever else most typical African men demands.

In my own self written books, for a woman to gain my full respect then she has to be ready to contribute towards the family.
I don't need a woman to give me emotional support and neither do i need to get married all because i expect the other half to satisfy my sexual needs whenever needed.
Marriage is a partnership whereby both parties should be able to have equal claim in it so that no one feels cheated.

Yes if i'm the only one with compatible blood type to her.
No if my main reason for doing it is cos i feel indebted to her.
Things are meant to be done for the right reasons

Like seriously, why do some Nigerians always flock around the only person that's rich in their respective family. I get really pissed hearing about people that struggle but yet still have the audacity to have more than 2 kids.

Anyhoo, you've been a gentle man with incredible patience. Going forward, you have to warn your mum about taking such decisions in your absence. It's always good to help but not to the extent that you going to allow it affect you.

Food should be less than 300 quid a month based on a family of 4

If the combine monthly bills => £3K, I would expect her to cough out £1.1K monthly.

You have to agree with me that 'em figures are fair.

I CANNOT and WOULDN'T marry a woman that will be totally dependant on me as i simply won't respect her.
For her to have a say then she gotta contribute