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joseo:
come to think of it.......what makes them attracted to each other?

Love... Real love as True as can be... The kind that is devoid of the distraction of make-up on fleek, big boobs, thick ass and bank statement of account.

Can you see the excitement on the man's face? Now that's love in its pure form

ksstroud:
Buzz me...
I need to talk to you...
Urgent and important...

Hey I hope all is well, sent you a mail though.

Okedikejnr1:
somebody shd inform me on any job recruitment skill going on now..with specific links...call 08103059555 thanks

The "somebody" that you employed to serve as informant on ur payroll abi?

Next time you want to post something like this, try not to make the mistake of quoting me.

Nobody owes you any information, if you have to ask, make sure your post doesn't reek of entitlement syndrome.

And if you have to exhibit your entitlement syndrome, make sure not to quote me

Thanks

ksstroud:
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Sapiosexuality:
What do you need?

I needed company at the time
Sorry I didn't get your mention.

Hey who is here?

ksstroud:
How's this shining morning for your side?

Very well.... But this afternoon hopes to be brighter

ksstroud:
Shuuuu.....you too much...
But wait let Jazmiynne becomes a lead auditor or QHSSE Manager for her to have an ample time for your schedule...
Now she can only take either akamu and milk or gala and pepsi

Oh kss! Blessed you are amongst men and women!

Udochee:
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oya Jaz over to you. this therapy must work by force. I feel you also need a lot of rest.hours spent in traffic alone is enough to disrupt the brain.
morning guys. splendid day ahead

Thanks jaare Nwanne mmadu. I would do just as you have suggested

amicable09:
Trust me, I can't even maintain that schedule faithfully at this time of my life. But I can recommend it

Just negodu

amicable09:
Lol. I don't work at Magrellos na
I am just a humble nutritionist

... Doing my job

you need flog o

amicable09:
Lol. You see what I just said!?

You comfortably omitted the most important meal of the day which is breakfast. Only to mention lunch and dinner. Can you see where the problem lies?

For this morning, here's your breakfast schedule;
7:30am - A glass of milk
8:30am - A bowl of cereal
9:30am - One large size Apple.
10:30am - Two slices of bread/toast with a cup of tea.
11:30am - Rest.

Do this this morning and give me the feedback I'm sure you'll be fine after breakfast.

Wait o!
I didn't add almonds.
Please snack on that. It works faster than Panadol extra.

Have a good morning!
Stay happy always

Your office de beside my office na so jus send them come at once... Biko ayam waiting.... No jus arouse my belly only to disappoint this early mormor o

amicable09:
Go and eat food joor
Lack of proper meal causes constant headache.

I be the doctor here.

Pls I've sent you a PM containing my full house address and office address..... Lunch and dinner is all I ask for dearie

amicable09:
Babe, are you feeding well at all?
Hope you are not skipping meals?

Nwanyi wetin concern food and wetin I say de pepper me kwanu?

amicable09: She has been surprising me of late. Hitting me hard with her left hand in private and praising me to the high heavens with her right hand in public! She's becoming, no, has become the best boss grin. May this be permanent. Amen! Lol

Congratulations dearie!

Dammyllionaire:
Pls house, I need your advice on this.

Is it advisable to leave a teaching job of #30000 very close to my house at Abule egba for a job of #60000 at Bariga where I will work for 2 shifts and the 2nd shift my last till 9pm?

What kind of job is the shift job? Does it allign with the career path you want for yourself?

The house where you stay at abule egba, is it yours? If it's not, do you think it's feasible to make relocation plans? Or find someone to squat with?

Which of the 2 jobs would benefit you in the long term?

And when you mean a 2 shift job..... Is that like, you work morning today and afternoon/night tomorrow?


Personally, I've never liked the idea of teaching for anyone who did not go to school to study education. I sincerely believe it short-changes the students giving them "wetin-else-I-go-do" teachers.... And at same time limits or slows the career progression of the individual doing the teaching.

soberdrunk:
This is why "divorce" is so high nowadays, people have turned "relationships" to 'social project' where you scrutinize, analyze, strategize, some even have "requirements" and "qualifications' as if you are applying for a job. I am not saying there is anything wrong in looking out for certain traits in your partner but when you put 'requirements' before love it wont end well, a lot of ladies have pushed aside the guys they truly love for the guy the fits the profile of the 'ideal guy' and they finally end up in unhappy homes. To answer your question, no matter how much or how long you discuss issues during courtship, new issues and new challenges will always come up, the major issue you should be worried about is whether you are at least "95%" certain deep down that you are 'absolutely' in love with your partner not just 'physically' but spiritually, psychologically, emotionally, intellectually and any other 'ly' that will last 'forever'(or at least the next 30-50 years because the life expectancy in Nigeria is now50-60 ish), if you are certain about this then any other issue or challenge, no matter how big will be a 'piece of cake'.........

Love isn't everything. If a couple doesn't ask each other the right questions and allow themselves to be blindfolded into believing that love alone will see them through hell and high water, I'd say they are setting themselves up for a lifetime of regrets.

True, no matter how hard u try u can't know everything about the individual before marriage... But the issues that are deal breakers for you (that is issues u already know now that u can't imagine living ur life with), please ask o... Let it be that you are even aware and yet still choose to lovingly enter. Mbok ask o to avoid stories that touch.

Marriage would definitely hit you up with some surprises both good and bad even if you like date for 10years. Hence I strongly believe in reducing the bad surprises to the best of one's ability before the marriage

boiz2men:
cluster headache,migraines can lead to suicidal attempt....


continue with ya advice... i just wanted u to know one of the types of headache

You can't teach me the types of headaches there are. I spent about one and a half years of my life convincing medical specialists why my therapy is best for their patients.
But if you have eyes, you can open it and read and then discern that the Op was referring to the regular headache.

u go born too and ya son go marry....

Yes and I most definitely hope he would have a life of his own not one where he has to be calling me every one hour. Calling his mum at one hour intervals daily when she isn't sick is creepy! Accept it or leave it.

sweerychick:
Good evening viewers! i have this issue has been bothering me, and i dont know if i can cope with it anymore particularly now we are making plans to settle down after my NYSC.

My man is too attached to his mum almost like an addiction. at first i was cool with it because his dad is late and i like guys that are close to their mums, but my man own is creepy and freaking me out. he calls his mum almost every hour, morning, afternoon, evening and even midnight calls.

One day his mum complained of headache, he almost left his office just to buy his mum drugs despite his mum telling him it's not serious, when i tried confronting him about this he told me that his mum is his soul and if his mum dies he would die along with her too, with all seriousness he told me this.

I've been very uncomfortable since that statement from him and it's making me have a rethink whether i can cope with him as a spouse.. please advice me..

I've only read the first page and honestly it's very annoying many of the comments I've seen. Especially where one person said a mother can never make decisions in the marriage of her son which would not be for his advantage. Like seriously? Are these people in this world or elsewhere?

Now to the matter... I'm going to tell you exactly how I would react in your shoes. For your good, I think it's a good advice but you do not have to take it though.


If truly you are dating a full grown man who has a full-time job and yet calls his mother every one hour, then I honestly do not think you need anyone to tell you that you are about to sign to become a passenger in your own life.
The Bible does indeed say that a man would leave his father and mother and stick with his wife. I tell you, a man who would leave his job to call a mother who is not sick every one hour, that man is not planning to leave his mother and stick with you.

It even becomes even more alarming when his mother complains of HEADACHE and he is ready to leave his job (in this recession) to buy drugs for headache even when the woman said she had it under control. As in, as he love im mama reach he no get phone number of anybody wey de d compound wey he fit call to buy drugs for am? Lol, That is some obsession there.

It depends on you though... If you don't mind being wife number 2 after his mum, you can go ahead.
While you are considering this, imagine a lifetime where you are constantly playing second fiddle after mumsy and it gets to a point you start being compared to mumsy... Your food, your housekeeping, etc.

If you mind, talk to him about it.... If it doesn't work, then please breakup, cry, and get stronger.

A man who loves his mother is gold as it shows you how well he cares for the first woman he ever had to care for.
However, a man whose mother is his soul is arsenic and can only bring you the poisonous venom of his obsession to his mother.


***If I were you, I would have only one option***
There are already plenty ups and downs that comes with marriage, the ones that you see before you enter, do your best to confirm if u can truly handle them

Abokii8:
They May ask for redeployment after posting at the local Govt level.

Thanks for answering..

So this is the only way? She can't do anything before the posting?

Please I don't know which is the official N-ppwer thread but I'm hoping this one could help.

My aunt has registered for the N-power but the person who registered for her put "Teaching" and she doesn't want Teaching...

Please is it possible for her to edit it? If yes, how?

Or should she just re-register with a different email? If yes, would this need her to cancel this initial application?


Pardon me if it has been answers before, just help out pls. Thanks

izzou:
NTA news.

9pm

Na Cyril Stober read am sef

Hehehehehehehe

Sapiosexuality:
Congrats Jazmiynne! I wish all the best.

Thanks plenty

izzou:
Jazmiynne

UAC has employed you and you refused to tell me baa?

Lolz where you hear this wan from na?

kaboninc:
Hey!!

I read your diary ohh......learnt a couple of things you have always refused to tell me

Lol comman tell me in camera na... Things like what and what

Congratulations on your new job...that was the most beautiful part. I wish you the very best as you embark on this career journey of us.

Thanks very much boss. May God also bless your dreams too

So you're 22 ehhh? And be forming being the boss lady you are for me abi? I don catch you. Big ups to your achievements dear...Masters at 22. Where was I when I was 22? Ehh.. .lol.

Lolz
You know that thing they say about "small girl, big God.... " - It couldn't be said any better

Blesso222:
Please house I need help. Anyone with workforce past questions should please help me with it. I recently went for a bank aptitude test at workforce, and scored 30%. I still have another opportunity. Please my life depends on it I can't afford another 30%. This is my email pleaseeeeeeee; blessinggupar@gmail.com.

Send a PM

ksstroud:
you know I......
Lip sealed

Yes I know you... are probably asleep now.

Sleep tight

ksstroud:
JAZMIYNNE













CONGRATULATIONS!!!







I wish you the very best

Thanks so very much kss