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Gasa84:
Am sorry to bother you guys but I need your advice.
I am from Imo state and I met my man (from Enugu state) in 2013 after my NYSC. He was not quite learned but he is hard working so I suggested he rent a house and buy a land since he can afford it, he did.

But when I started spending weekends in his house I found out that he drinks a lot, beats and insults me, telling me he can never marry someone like me, but he also takes care of me as I was unemployed then, I felt it was ignorant and kept enduring and confide in his elder brother's wife about my dilemma....

To cut long story short, I got a job in 2015 and he got very sick in 2016 so I had to let go of my job to tend to him for 2 months till he traveled for proper treatment.

After 8 months he came back told his brother that he wants to marry me but his brother said no to the extent that the brother pushed me out of his house when I came to visit him as usual...

He got sick again and was diagnosed with brain tumor , I stayed with him in the hospital till he traveled for surgery... While I was with him no one cared to come stay in the hospital as they knew I was there... I stayed in his house more than mine. After a successful surgery, his father died..

I followed him to his village cos I thought it was the right thing to do but his brothers, sisters, mother and uncles told him to send me away, I left there feeling miserable and insulted...

But he kept telling me that he doesn't want to lose me that we will keep on praying that one-day they will accept me so we can then marry.

I know he loves me... Probably because I was there with him when he was sick.... But am no more that young and I don't know what will happen later... Am afraid and frustrated....

I don't know what to do please help me out. I can explain more if u ask I am just confused and depressed. What do I do, how do I cope?

Ozugbo:
log in n it will take u to ur profile. Den replace d login in d address bar with onboard.It will take u to d page where u can upload.

npowerng:
Voter’s card, International passport,
Drivers license, National ID card.

Prettyyemi:
They go help u spoil ur only treasure!!!

RoyalBlak007:
Moms can predict the future.

Sapiosexuality:
Lolol. Not me. I'm more handsome and my forehead is not that big. Lol. I'm not on Instagram to begin with and I don't write to as '2'. I guess the dude lost both jobs. Smh.

Appliedmaths:
I've always had a manual Account where I transfer my huge funds to

sexdoll:
I really enjoyed the whole narrative.

My dear OP when are you writing your next blog post?

'Cause I'm already in love with your writing.

gr8tone:
Your story is very educative but for the sake that NO DINE WAS REMOVED FROM YOUR ACCOUNT makes me think it's a cooked up story. Thanks for sharing. I have learnt a lot

Sorry bro, you got me all wrong. The fact that those desperate robbers couldn't reached another dispensing atm before she could regain her sight and also visited all her banks to get her cards blocked baffles me. I am still surprised at her heroic display as she was able to move from bank to bank to get her cards blocked yet the robbers who were mobile could not get an atm machine to perform their devilish act. What could have happened? A miracle? If yes, no one can tell otherwise the op only wanted to educate people on some security measures. To say I have not learnt anything from the post is an understatement. I will never wish that evil should come upon anybody even my enemy.

RuthDaniels:
No!

Sometimes we leave those we love because letting them go is the only way to prove we love them.


If you have never being in love with someone who finds happiness in another, you may never understand me.

If you haven't been in love with someone whom your presence in their lives will only give them pains, you may find me crazy

There is always someone in a person's life whom they love but can't be with.

RagingWind:
Do I wanna fall in love after seeing this?

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Sapiosexuality:
Lolol. That's because the spell I attached to those mails is taking shape

Sapiosexuality:
Yeah. Here a chatroom is another name for Derailers Paradise. Any problem?

Postulates:
Nothing at all...

Postulates:
Ditto

davide470:
I haven't gotten anything

Ferdyboss:
Get off my post

Ferdyboss:
You should know this was a typo

Ferdyboss:
Special thanks to everyone who nominated/voted for me in this category even when I know I'm far worthy of the award.

Chai

skarlett:
Thanks to the organizers of this ceremony and to the hostess herself, Jazmiynne (I hope I got that right) Your e-emcee skills deserve an award of it's own

This award, I shall not miss.

I have a long speech typed in my mind to say, but I can't type it in words

I am glad we pulled it off. Thank you very much Skarlett

amicable09:
My trademark

Good morning. Na play I dey play type all that too

0wen2017:
You dey called this dogged mechanical engineer ma'am, lol. He is a guy though

debbie:
Thank you...thank you..and thank you to everyone that kept encouraging me to do more. i always feel delighted to put across every important information across to our people looking for job.
I appreciate you all.