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Tshine456:
it depends on what u intend to start with..

Can I start with 20k?

What is the minimum required capital?

AndrewTate:
take her to Whatsapp and make Whatsapp calls.

We were doing that normally until her phone was stolen, now we hardly communicate unless she visits her friend and use the friend's phone and that is like three times in the last about three weeks.

I have tried calling her phone directly but before you know what's happening 200 naira has been wiped from my airtime and the call has not even connected. I just need a cheaper means of making the calls

Ikpunnegi01:
Two days after I met her, she sent me a plate of food garnished well that I should buy it for her through online; 3rd day :she doesn't have airtime, 4th day : Her gas had finished, one week : Her birthday is coming up, Two weeks : her rent expired, 2weeks and 3 days : They stole her phone in a bus meanwhile she is always using abbreviations to reply my messages. Always use your brain, guys no be father Christmas!

If na me I for don leave this kind person from the very first request. When it comes to money matter I no dey mumu myself with girls. I have said with my full chest and I will continue to say it, only my wife fit chop my money, if u be girlfriend nothing for you

AndrewTate:
...talks about how she's different from Nigerian girls then goes on to try to teach her how to think like one😪
Who sent you to "think" of buying her a new phone when she didn't ask?
Then when she learns the pattern and moves like you've trained her to then you wonder why she changed from who she used to be.
Or you think Nigerian girls were like that from the start?
Use your head fella!

I get your point senior man. She has not asked me for anything and I also have never dropped even the slightest clue to her that I feel like to buy her a phone but we have not been communicating frequently this past few weeks. I just need a way to bring back the communication, hence the need to find a way to make cheaper international calls

LaSenior:
Girls don show me shege

E bi like say no only Nigeria girls ogbanje dey disturb

I am not lucky dealing with Nigerian girls I will go international now

Guy if naija girls are not for you find your way enter another country oo, no time

[quote author=TERMlNATOR post=125249412][/quote]Bros be calming down na

22o62021:
Have you done a video call with her?

I had this Kenyan girl that we do video calls always
I left her cos she is ugly.

Bros u no just dey lucky. I don do video call with her and the babe fine. But las las no be by looks, if your Kenyan girl get sense follow her.

Pls if you know how I fit make cheap international calls Abeg show me the way

Gadafii:
Girls everywhere are the same, as long as she has kpekus and menstr8

See as you paint Zambian girl clean like say she no get blemish, I pity you

The earlier you know all girls are the same white black or red the better

Maybe they are all the same, but so far this one has not given me even the slightest clue to show that she is not the kind of girl any sensible guy will like to have

advanceDNA:
The moment u met...phone don loss??
... u sure say no be naija baddie be that?? Na their MO be that ooo...... If u hear say her birthday na few weeks time... no dull ur self... na naija connection

Nah bro, we've been chatting for a while and sometimes we go few days without chatting if she doesn't have data, and you can call literally feel the excitement in her voice whenever she comes back online we're chatting again and despite all this she has never asked for a single naira from. Her phone was really stolen because we only chat now if she visits one of her friends and she uses the friend's phone.

She even said she will get another smart phone, but just that it might take a while before she gather the money. Despite all of these, she has not asked for anything, I believe this girl is different even though am not going to mumu myself because of love but I know this girl is a dream girl.

dawnomike:
download talk360

Thanks alot bro, I'll give it a try

Fidecoo:
,


Hahaha
Zambian love!!.

Bros if u get to see ladies outside this country, you will know Nigerian girls have some kind of attitude that are really repulsive to men

Hi guys, please I need help on how to keep in touch with my Zambian babe.

So I met with this loving girl on a popular chat app, and we hit it off almost instantly like we've known ourselves for a long time. We chatted for weeks and we are always eager to talk to each other.

I like this girl because she is the opposite of the typical naija girl, no asking for money or any such nonsense and although we have not not made our relationship official yet, but we know in our hearts that we have feelings for each other.

Now the problem is that her phone was recently stolen (surpringly, she is not taxing me for a new phone, which would have been the opposite if it was a Nigerian girl, but I still have it in mind to help her get a phone just that am trying to take things one step at a time

For now we only chat using her friends phone, if she visits her friend but I need a way to establish good communication with her as soon as possible. I can't call her with normal call because my airtime just gets sucked for calling international line and the call has not even connected.

So please, how can I make cheap call to Zambia, if you know any means or app I can use it will be very appreciated.

I see myself traveling to Zambia soon and getting a wife from there, it will be a wish come true

I installed michat app some weeks ago out of curiosity, after hearing about it from guys on nairaland.

Within this past weeks I have chatted with a good amount of ladies and so far at least 20 of them have directly or indirectly asked for money.

It's so funny because if I have to give all of them what they asking for I'll be homeless before the end of the week 😂.

Funny thing is they don't even try to chat and be friendly to establish some kind of connection first, they just go straight to begging after exchanging just a few chat. Only one that I remember tried to vibe a bit before finally using style to beg for money to go and eat.

Anyways, the rule still remains "we no dey give shishi"

And to the responsible guys out there don't let any unknown girl online try to guilt trip you into sending her money or airtime, she is not your responsibility.

And to the girls begging up and down, my advice to you is go and start doing hookup, sinxe you have decided to live beyond your means, get ready to bear whatever risk your new trade (hookup) brings your way.

saphiere:
Nice ideas. But this is not the solution.
The law of demand and supply will set in thus making auto-gas to go up.
Dumb leaders we have.

Give chance to women to try they refused. They keep taking us in cycles.

What do u mean by give Chance to women, you think anybody have men the chance. If you want to prove you can do better then stand up, work your way up there and then do better than men.

It's so funny looking at women like you shouting "give women a chance". You think anybody will willingly give up his place of authority? If you want power you have to fight for it, it's never given freely or cheaply.

Aunty chop an clean mouth, most of this loan sharks are full of empty threat.
They may disturb you with calls at first just ignore while enduring their disturbance. After a while when they see you are not ready to pay back, they will call and start begging you. At that point it's up to you to decide if you want to pay back or chop and clean mouth

Let me add this: as a young man, let your focus be on building yourself through making financial sacrifice and investment that will secure your future. Forget about all those nairaland girls that call men stingy, broke and all that nonsense because if you spend all you have on a girl just to prove you are not broke, the day the money finish she jumps to the next guy.

So if you are a young guy still struggling to build a future, let all the girls gather to broke-shame you, pay absolutely no attention to them, because by the time you are done building yourself, all those girls will gather and you will bend down select the one you want.

My two Kobo

We rise by giving others belle 🤣😂🤣

Jennyclay:
Too bad

R.I.P to the departed soul.

Biko, Igbo women should be calming down. I don’t know why igbo women are fond of maltreating & torturing toddlers and adults to the point of death . I can never support this act.

The Hotel should be closed till further notice and the owner should be arrested ASAP.

My sister is not just Igbo women, that's the way of all Nigerian women, they are wicked from the heart. Please always avoid them wherever you see them.

Maybe she wouldn't even have been named Yvonne if the father was present
What kind of name is that? If not Africans and our inferiority complex

Why is this thread on FP?

Jennyclay:
These useless men won’t go and fight their mate.

But they are good at punching women at any slightest provocation.

All women beater shall die this year!! Amen!!

Amen
I hope it doesn't come as a shock to u when some of your relatives start dying

BloomingDale:
Angry ke? I’m just disappointed cos you [b]guys are failures out of all the races of me[/b]n.

Accepted... And you guys are the failures out of all the races of women

It's not hard to stop bashing Nigerian women. If you can teach them to have half as much sense as you do, there will be so little bashing from.
But unfortunately, I don't think that is going to happen because some women have intentionally decided to reject sense.

Rokiat:
A broke man for that matter….some women are suffering Sha.

Everyone will not be rich, if he is able to provide basic needs at least he is doing something.

It's about time to stop all this broke men this and broke men that.

If all the women will marry a rich man, how many will be married by now?

My spec is ladies that know how to rock natural hair... Any other thing I can compromise.

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Excuse me ma, but are you sure you are a woman. I have followed your comments here on NL on different threads and each I get surprised at the kind of intelligence involved in your contributions to matters.

If the likes of Jennyclay, Goodlady, etc are what we call female, I think you deserve a special gender classification, am not sure what name that will be but "sensible female" will be a good one to begin with

rickpat:
comedian with very dry jokes

That explains why I can't stop laughing at this post

Foreward:
You mean you gave them anointed bribe. Lmao 🤣

He meant he used anointing oil to "grease their palms"

I hope those who are quick to say "careless parenting" maintain same position as regarding Davido's son's death.

Let's not be quick to dish out judgment. It can happen to you or a loved one and what will you say then?