₦airaland Forum

honniemail:
You guys did not even give women space on the first page to answer your question.

For me, my husband works 9 - 4 and I wake up as early as 4am, cook, clean the house, prepare my daughter for school and resume work by 7am that is after I dropped my girl in school. All these time daddy will still be in bed cos he resumes by 9am, though he helps alot with cores.

So I called him, and explained that for us to enjoy sex together and it won't be a one sided thing, he should pls come back at most 7pm since he is closing by 4pm, so that we can eat, shower and go to bed by latest 10pm and have a good time, then by 11pm max I can sleep and rest against the next day. He won't listen, the least time he will return is 9pm, then by 2am he will start to touch and my alarm will sound by 4am, and he wants it everyday, the whole thing might even last till my alarm will sound making me not get enough rest and sleep.

The truth is its not possible, person go just die untimely and he won't even wait up to 2 months before getting a replacement.

It's not the men's fault taking the first page , it's the the women that refuse to comment.

And judging by your story, I will not classify you among such women, maybe that's why u comment, but the ones really hoarding the sex will not come here, probably to actually guard their secret.

In your case despite how tight your time is, you still gave your man a window period and he can have it almost everyday as far as he abides by the time. You are definitely not at fault here on this issue.

Recently, there's been a number of threads by men who come here to pour out their minds as to the situation in their homes of their wives hoarding sex from them.

As a matter of fact, there's one of such thread on FP as I write this.

I dont think Nairalanders have heard the chance to hear from the horse's (wives) mouth their own side side of the story.

So the question is simple, as a wife why have you been denying your husband sex?

This is strictly for education/information purpose, let married men and bachelors hoping to marry soon come and learn.

folake4u:
Whether weak or delicate, spoil me silly and treat me with respect.

Persephone1:
Anything you call me, I am. As long as the benefits follow.

Weaker vessel - Don't ask me to bring anything to any table.

Delicate - Spoil me, don't upset me

The choice is yours 🤣

Lol 🤣, funny set of people. So if all you want is to pampered and spoilt silly, then where exactly is your strength and how will you be of help to your partner?

baralatie:
How is it an attack against men.
Does it mean that women who have weaker body frame are weak or does it mean that the man who has a stronger body frame is strong

Withiut the man the woman is weak
Without the woman the man is also weak


But the man and the woman do not share the same body frame.then does it not require both the man and the woman to develop capacities to properly manage their combined strengths to achieve durable and effective performance


For this I used lions and lionesses as example.
I can even use empire penguins as example
Or antelopes or dogs

The male are physically built but the the females are more successful hunters despite the difference in physical attributes but one cannot do without the other I order to survive

I understand your point, but as for the statement "a man has a stronger body frame but is not strong" you have to give me the context to which you mean a man is not strong, if not it does sound like a subtle attack.

Quite an interesting read... I think it's safe to assume the OP is not female, cuz I see lots of the best kept secrets in the feminine arsenal being exposed here

baralatie:
A woman has a weaker body frame but is not weak
A man has a stronger body frame but is not strong

Very funny... This is one of those subtle attack statements by women against men

frozen70:
They are both weaker and delicate Gender

But if you ever hear what a woman did, you will understand that they are actually the strongest

I love your point of view. The problem with so called feminism movement is the direct comparison to men approach.

So women can be both weak and delicate but at the same time carry out the strongest of tasks in terms of what women by nature are designed to carryout.

The only problem with their strength comes when they try directly compare themselves to men, don't u think?

IyaebeTheGreat:
Abegi

Have you not heard? A bad tree doesn't produce good fruits...

IyaebeTheGreat:
So sad, obviously he has a good heart as that of his mother. May God console them. Very sad

And father too

virginprincess:
I will prefer to be referred to as delicate,that means you have to handle me with enough care but that weaker vessel is an insult to me.

Thanks for your input. But let me ask you this, don't you think that outside the individual meaning of the words 'weak' which sounds a bit condescending and 'delicate' which sounds more unique, isn't both just a way of saying the the same thing, when u look at in the broader perspective?

Hey guys, this is a little social experiment I want to carry out.

I believe terms like 'weaker vessel' is what has birthed the rise of feminism, where women try step out of the socially constructed boundaries they feel society place on them and try to prove that they can do just about anything a man can do. Now whether that 'presumption' is true or not is a matter for another day

But we all know that whether a woman describes herself as feminist or not, they always want to feel special, and so a term such as 'delicate gender' seems to put some uniqueness in the description of a woman

So this question is going to the females: as a woman, are you comfortable with being described as
1. Weaker Vessel
2. Delicate Gender
3. Both
4. None

You are welcome to give your reasons for your answers.

Las las after all the insults you throw at Nigerian men, you go still bow down at the feet of one and worship him. I just dey look your life since, mtcheeew.

siofra:
😭


I just saw this photo some minutes ago.

Please someone assure me he's not married because my chest is already paining me😩😩

The only man I can tolerate right now. God abeg😭

He's Johnny Drille, the first celebrity I had a crush on. The only person whose voice I fell in love with. I'm already crying. How will I attend his concert next week Friday My heart is heavy.

😭😭😭

This one dey find customer

siofra:
When I read this, my heart was filled with joy.

I have faith that Nigerian gen z women will make this a reality. At least it will start with them. I can already picture it happening.

Keep dreaming oo, just keep dreaming... Your heart will only be filled with joy with this kind of news coming from somewhere else, but trust me it's never gonna happen in Nigeria.

To make this a reality, you would actually have to start with changing the typical naija girls mentality, yes you heard me right, your number one problem to making such situation a reality in Nigeria is not men but women.

With the high level of dependence on men by women for urgent 2k, girls who think being in a relationship is equal to employment and millions of girls into hookup, how exactly do u think such girls will do without depending on men.

Well, like I said your issue is not men so good luck trying to change the typical girl mentality, but I can assure you this will not be a reality in Nigeria, at least not in your lifetime.

Dayyum, she couldn't even live with herself for a day

What happens to the man that may eventually marry her? I can only imagine

Nothing concern me...

All I will say is let's remember to visit this post when she clocks 42 and still single

Nia69:
😂😂Men are coming.

Which one is men are coming

Is it not your gender that is flaunting her stupidity for the world to see, yet you won't say anything about it rather it's the men that are your problem.

Hanty comot for road joor

Bloomsvilledgit:
My brother I hail you. Volatility index have dealt with me. I made money from boom and crash and I lost all to the same boom and crash.

Hope you are milking the market

Hey OP, it's good to see you are back to trading the financial markets.

As for the money you made but loss to same C&B, I advise people in such situation to do the same thing you did to make the profit but this time around try it with proper risk management.

If you are looking for synthetic index market with less risk try Vix 10 & 25. They are great for small accounts.

It's totally bad.... Can't do anything since yesterday. Noticed it since yesterday night and till now as am typing it's still bad. I have tried a thousand times to make transfer but nothing, the whole thing is just frustrating.

I think I saw the said previous post, and I think the ladies there were beautiful, but in a quest to prove the most unnecessary point of the year, the OP eventually brought ugly women to show us what beautiful women look like.

I thought we had more important things to talk and think about in a time like this in the country, but someone is more concerned how judge the beauty of slay mamas based on pictures.

Keep making your money without stress while it lasts

Posts like this is what makes people especially newbies call forex a scam.

You read something like this that makes trading forex seem like a walk in the park, you end up having very high and unrealistic expectations, then you go ahead and borrow money from everyone you know promising them you will pay back double after two weeks but before you know it all the money is gone and you start thinking of suicide.

Am not trying to say this is fake or scam but for everyone who will care to listen, forex is just like any other business, it takes time and experience to be profitable in the market, so get rid of anyone trying to make you have unrealistic expectations and if you really want to give it a try, then start with only what you can afford lose.

saphiere:
If women are given the chance to head the affairs of this country, believe me Nigeria would be one of the countries people would like to live in.

You better lose this idea you've cooking in your brains, and the earlier you do so the better for you.

If women want to rule the country, they have to stand up and bust their *ss daily to get it, cuz no one is gonna give it to them.

For someone whose siggy says "I DESERVE to be pampered" I am tempted to ask by who? Well by men of course. And now you expect men that you want to pamper you, to also give you the one thing that makes a man feels like a man- the POWER that comes with being in charge, in control and a head. Sorry lady, but you're not gonna get easily. Unless you're ready to lead your clan of women to wrestle this power from men's hands (and good luck with that, cause you're gonna need a lot of it) then just forget about this whole notion all together. Peace ✌️

@OP thanks for bringing this up. I am also surprised at what the business and investment section has turned to.

I remember very interesting topics where people go to learn legit business then but now there is no such thing.

I find it quite shameful because in the past few days I really scroll from page one to around page 5 hoping to see any legit business or investment thread but I have not seen even one .

I hope to see those days again where the investment section is booming with real and informative threads that will help people.

I have just three points to make
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Thank you

Lolachef:
;DCruise nation.

Lolachef:
I don't have son or sons not even a daughter yet but only u can disappear and leave the rest of men as u don't have respect.

You don't have son(s) doesn't mean you will not.

But anyways I can see the gravity of what you're wishing for starting to dawn you, now clear mind and have a rethink so you don't end up making rash wishes.

Well I will gladly disappear if it means the preservation of the male gender on the face of the earth. Yes I am that sacrificial

Lolachef:
My dear nothing like naa we go suffer pass.


Life go dey peaceful without competition.


And check my comment on that same post.


I know not all men are evil and same not all women are good.

If men are to disappear,I no wan make my guy and my ex disappear because I love and like them.

Aunty you cannot eat your cake and have it back, if u wish for men to disappear then all men will disappear, including your man, your father, uncles, brothers and your sons.

Lolachef:
You guys should stop the evil.

Do you know right next to the headline of this thread on FP is the headline "Woman arrested for alleged murder of 9 years old house help"

Don't you think it's totally logical if the men wish for total disappearance of women based on that evil act.

There are good men and women as well as bad ones, that doesn't mean we should wish a certain gender disappears just cuz there a few a bad eggs.

Trust me, if all the men disappear from the face of the earth, na u the women go suffer pass.

Lolachef:
I wish they can remove men from the midst of we women

Careful what u wish for

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]What is psycho about what I posted?

This is a discussion forum…[/color]

Of all the problems in this country, you chose to give attention to some nobody who doesn't like your post on FB. Will her likes make your life any better.

If it's enough reason for you to bring such discussion to this forum, then I really suggest you look deeper into your mental health because you just need the right amount of people to stop liking your post before you start battling depression.

Jennyclay:
I pray God deliver her from entering relationship with you not to talk of marriage.

Someone's daughter is about to settle down with a broke man. Shior!

Meet her in an eatery.. Wahala!
Money for data.. Problem!
Even common Christmas gifts... You can't afford and you say you want to marry her .

You don't even have money to take care of her basic needs and you're thinking about marriage . Nawa oo .

Set awon corporate beggar