₦airaland Forum

chiefqueen:
No I'm not married.

this says it all

chiefqueen:
Spending the remaining part of my life with a totally different person is NOT an achievement.
Why tf would I give up my lifestyle for someone? Wtf has that got to do with marriage?
marrying after twenty years is still marriage. Marrying early doesn't mean you'll live a happy life.
The most important thing is to be happy, married or single. I know your breed. I'm pretty sure your statement doesn't apply to men. Women should grateful if they ever get 'picked'. Alpha male. Pfft.

kindly read my previous post again but this time slowly


both men and women should be grateful


once you marry the wrong person be it male or female such person can never be happy ,wealth or not


madam are you married?

Slow11:
Hi nairaland Family,

kindly help out, i had to create this alternative moniker because I'm widely known here with my other moniker.

I'm a female nairalander, today is really a black Thursday for me. I have lost total Focus and concentration, very depressed at the moment. I'm diagnosed with HIv positive, being crying since morning. the worst part of it is, i'm a virgin, had never sex with any man in my entire life. I was advised to start taking medications immediately...

doctors and well experienced nairalanders in the house, will this medication prolong my life? will it cost me expenses? or the HIV will one day turn to AIDS despite the medication? I'm deeply confused!


kindly help push this to the front page, God bless you all!

go for the test again

GasAndOilTheory:
Each with her sweetness, They all come in various shapes and sizes but you can have them all. King Solomon tried

in his own case"he came ,he saw and he conquered"

chiefqueen:
It's not.

spending the remaining part of your life with a total different person is what?
giving up your lifestyle and body for that person is what?

get married after 20years say it's not

not everyone is destined to be married

village people dey do strong work

no issue next time he gets someone else to do the job


always come to an agreement before executing any contract based on referral

Joromi12:
They have been brought up to see marriage as a life time acheivement na

it is a lifetime achievement

In the days of old people knew their place so as to allow peace and continuity, men and women were forced and arranged to get married and their marriage lasted cos they knew their place

two captains can't be in a ship


parents are to be blamed for poor upbringing of their wards

why this ehn?


this woman ought not to have brought this up if she has respect not for her husband but her family

GOFRONT:
Invest very well in her......we are wiating for her

gofront!

Jaybb:
He has made it clear he wont refund n I won't waste time n resources tracking d mofo.. nemesis will catch up wit him. As I no take my tym test all well so na me Bleep up. I just abandon d game cos e dy annoy me sef as I dy see am lol. It's a new year. . Life goes on. Make others learn from my mistake. Cheers

have you gotten a pad yet?

RealDonaldTrump:
The way we reason here in America......Nigerians will not get to that level in 100 years

kini WE?

see this Nigerian oooooooo claiming another man's country

Empathy

na wa

chai!!!!!

Escape artists

sewa36447:
he has been talking care of some of my bills. The house he want me to visit him is the same house I visited my ex bf in 2017, the place is own by him. I don’t know what to do.
Your good advice will be highly appreciated.

read your statement again


you don't deserve to be treated like a woman


you should be used and set aside if that is your sole reason of considering a partner for a relationship/marriage

QuitNotice:
No be quarrel, but you discrediting npower betrayed your claim of ignorance. Buhari's achievements are there for all to see. I don't need to start listing them for any Nigerian, not even foreign based. I know things should be better than this, but it's not his fault. The decisions of the past shaped today, and today's decisions will shape tomorrow. Let's not be blinded by the politicians' lies, there's what is called common sense

hmmmm

npower chai!!!!

4years

it's well

QuitNotice:
You have chosen to be blind. So Whatever I say, you will remain a wailer, so get off my mention!

I don't even know much about politics


I am my own government ,provide my own electricity,water and security

I only asked for more to clear my ignorance ,I really don't care who wins the upcoming elections cos nothing will change. got no favorite candidate either.

I just asked someone not too long ago (apc member) and he mentioned npower , asked for more and he gave the same response as you just did.

na quarrel to know wetin my president (not yours alone) dey do for we youths?

QuitNotice:
Check the question you asked me again. There are lots of graduates earning less than that out there. It is not okay, but is, for a start. If you are asking for more than one impact on the youths, I can give you 10+
Let's call a spade a spade

kindly furnish me with more please

the 10+

QuitNotice:
Do you know what they call npower?

npower only?


have you checked the calendar complaints from just nairaland alone concerning payments of salaries ?

can you survive on 30k alone in Lagos ? where only tfare consumes the bulk of the pay?

fear God na

informative

tsephanyah:
Dgff hhzrfh jczdcgv nhdsscv

gdhdjqiqudirpdm c vsvdkosbxhdudbxbxnei why?

QuitNotice:
Get prepared, we are coming to your city soon.

#NextLevel

as a youth ,how has the present administration affected the masses at grassroot level


kindly clear my doubts

.

jeff1980:
Still Available

location please


shelf life?

iamloyalty:
Stay away from that leaf it used to be my favorite blood tonic and vegetable till it was discovered that it damages the liver.

can you shed more light on this please

DanDeeBoss:
Lol.... And most of us want to date good ladies... Are you saying good ladies don't exist??

good ladies do exist but searching for them is like searching for a needle in a haystack.

we know who is the man already

samysmoothfresh:
she's was good to me.......really good to me.
But when trust is already broken, it's pretty hard to accept whats left.

and you think girls out there are any better?

do u know if your so called friend told her secret things about you, it's when you understand that women are the embodiment of emotions only then u would understand .

if u were in her shoes you might have been forgiven. Hear her out before you decide, I ain't saying you should take her back but listen to her.

NO GOOD LADIES OUT THERE OOOOO, for a lady to give anything out is rare very rare,

do away with that friend of yours

tossie101:
Congrats to them and happy married life.

I can bet anything the man is not Yoruba man.
Yorubas don't marry for love but for sex or something that will benefit them.
That's why u See their young men marrying white grannies for visa or money

what would you like to place for abet

samysmoothfresh:
i did not put her up for hire purchase nor did i test her!!



If i wanted to test her or "put her up for hire purchase", i would have personally met my friend and told i'll pay him if he tries to get her in bed but NO that wasnt what happened.


My friend dared me, doubting my ex's loyalty and literally insulting her by calling her an untrustworthy cheating wh0re.


I quickly jumped to her defence and gave her a chance to prove my friend wrong but she ended up proving him right, showing me how much of a wh0re she is and yet i'm the bad guy who "put her up for hire purchase"?.

I think your friend wanted her from the get go and probably been doing it or gotten green light from her before, a man who sleeps with his friend's woman ca
n kill betting or not I can never do such cos afterwards it breeds distrust between the two of you.

love is just a word when you have got marriage in mind,we all make must, maybe you haven't shown commitment and she needs to be sure of her position, do you know what your friend told her before she agreed to the act? do u know if he told her about your escapades with other girls or lied about one? think about it .


where you planning to marry her? has she positively affected your life? has she deprived herself things just to make sure you are happy?
if yes , bro go get her back ASAP or your friend will.


we all make mistakes