Close to a battlefield over 200 years ago a rider passes a group of exhausted soldiers who were digging themselves into an important defensive position. Noticing their section leader was mounted as well, and shouting orders at the men to work faster, dig deeper and threatening to whip anyone that didn’t complete their work within the hour.

Asked by the stranger, “If this is so important why are you not helping?” The section leader advised that he is in charge, and the men must do as he says. The section leaders exact comments where, “You should help them yourself if you feel so strongly about it.”

Much to the surprise of the section leader the stranger dismounted, and worked in the trenches, side by side with the men until the job was finished. Once the work was done he congratulated the men, and approached the puzzled section leader.

“Next time your rank prevents you from supporting your men, you are to notify top command and I will provide a more permanent solution,” said the stranger, who was now up close and easily recognizable as General Washington.

This lesson is a fantastic one for supervisors and leaders that you are coaching to help them – help their own teams. The ultimate goal is to realize that you’re only a true leader if you’re willing to do the work of your team without complaint, when they need you most. This is what makes you a truly motivational leader.

CROWNFM

The one that happened in my area led to the death of the woman's lover. My bros non gree, he stabbed the woman's lover to death.

Alot of deaths through robberies in Uniport. Don't ever try to defend urself against the robbers. Give whatever they want and let them go.

Chelsea can misbehave Sha

Can them just release the results

Midastorch:


To buy land is not the question.....mtscheeew

Get a land before a car. Car non be big man, na house. My Ijaw brothers have better experience.

What a way to end the season.

If your job requires a car to improve your productivity then save and get the car. If you don't need the car to enhance your job i.e you want the car for flexing, first buy a land.

What is happening in Uniport. Too many deaths around. Someone is killed last Sunday during a robbery at Daddress lodge in Aluu.

Man who got a "Dear esteemed customer" message from a casket company reacts and its hilarious!

A strong relationship provides a critical sense of belonging and motivation for living—the stronger a relationship, the more of a buffer it affords to prevent suicides.

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There was also a real life Oyenusi

A 26-year-old hairdresser, Kenile Nwabuzor, has reportedly committed suicide after her boyfriend identified as David, called off their two year relationship on April 11th.



Punch reports that David in an inteview, said he met Kenile shortly after her mother's death and that they had a rocky relationship as she felt inferior to him because she was a secondary school leaver.



On April 11th after they called off their relationship, Kenile reportedly sent him a text lamenting he had made life miserable for her and that she would soon kill herself.

“She was my girlfriend and I loved her so much. We started dating each other about two years ago. She was not that literate, but I told her it didn’t matter. When we met, she was in distress. Her mother just died then and she was living alone. She said she could not live without her mother. Her brothers are based in Ghana, but they usually sent her money.

“She told me she finished secondary school, but I don’t think so. I really wanted to help her improve on her education. She easily got angry and if she had a disagreement with someone, she might not talk to that person again for years. As our relationship continued, I tried to correct her. I persuaded her to be going to church and bought a Bible for her. We usually had disagreements over petty issues.

“If we had a misunderstanding, I could be in her house for hours begging her and she would not say anything. If I decided to go, that would be another fight. At times, the misunderstanding would last for days.

Because of the nature of my job, I have girls around me. She would be complaining that I was going out with them. I tried to tell her that she needed to trust me. I also saw boys around her because she was beautiful, yet I trusted her.

Recently, she said I didn’t love her again. She changed her phone’s password to deny me access to her phone. She accused me of sleeping with women. It was true many ladies wanted me to ask them out, but I ignored them” he said

David explained that four days before she killed herslef, she had missed Nwabuzor’s calls while on an assignment at an event. He said he got back home late that day and returned her calls, but she did not pick them. When he eventually got through to her the next day, she started insulting him and he ended the call.

“She sent me text messages, but I didn’t reply. On Tuesday, I went to her house to return the charger she lent me and when I was about to leave, she returned all the things I had bought for her. That night, she sent a text message to me, saying that I had stopped loving her since December 2018 when we had fun at different places. She said she was no longer interested in the relationship. In my reply, I told her she was free to find her peace anywhere else. On Wednesday morning, I thought about everything again. I knew she was depressed and I had been the person encouraging her. I sent her another message, begging her. Most times, she would be the one to say she was not interested in the relationship, yet she would be crying. I was always the one saying sorry.

“That Thursday, she came to our house for the first time and met with my parents. That was the day my father knew her as my girlfriend. She reported me to him and said she was no longer interested in the relationship. My father sought my opinion and I said I didn’t have any comment.

“She started crying. She called one of her brothers and told him she was coming to Ghana. My father is a clergyman. He tried to counsel her. As my father was talking to her, she was crying. At a point, she stood up and left. Afterwards, I left for my workplace.”

David said he later sent a text message to him, saying “You want to kill me; I will help you kill myself. Thank you for making my life a hell.”

He said immediately after he read the message, he took a motorcycle and headed to her house.

“On getting there, I peeped from her window and saw her body dangling on a rope tied to the ceiling. I shouted and barged into her room. Her neighbours helped me loose the rope while I brought her down. She was already heavy, but I was not feeling the weight. I was not in my right senses again. I took her on a motorcycle to a nearby hospital. She was referred to Randle General Hospital. A doctor confirmed her dead on arrival. I called her brother and relations. The police arrested me and detained me for two days. They said I should not have brought her down,” he said

Kenile was buried on Saturday, April 13 which was David’s 26th birthday.

Confirming the incident, the Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Bala Elkana, said the police had received a distress call from the general hospital that one Kenile Nwabuzor was brought in dead by her boyfriend.

“Preliminary investigation revealed that the lady had earlier sent a text message to her boyfriend that she would kill herself. Her corpse was removed and deposited in the Lagos Mainland Hospital morgue.” Bala said.

NIGERIAN GIRLS.

1. At 14, they are the fine sweet teens.

2. At 16, they wanna roll with older ones. It's fun being the new hottie in the group.

3. At 18, they probably have had 1st sex.
They cling to this one guy & talk all about how they won't leave the guy.

4. At 20, they might be at the University. They make new male friends & slowly lose interest in
the former guy.

5. At 22, they make friends with girls who wear more expensive clothes & who also date expensive guys. These set of girls use porsh phones, so they get intimidated & need to join
the elite school girls league.

6. At 24, they are now porsh! They now roll with rich male friends who they scam & take
money from for mere sex. At this point, if a random guy chats her up, she might snub! If you ask her phone no, she makes you feel like a stalker.
They prefer guys who actually want to spend a fortune on them.

7. At 26, the trend continues...fun, porsh &
money remains the keywords because she has changed her mindset & increased the standards she wants in a man, money.

8. Between 26 - 28, she is a maid of honour for her friends.

9. At 29, none of those guys proposed...

10. At 30, night vigils, adoration ground & Shiloh...

11. At 32, the same girl who refused giving phone nos to some serious guys comes to Nairaland & posts " Hi am Stephanie, am 32 & searching for a serious relationship.
Call me on 0810000000800

12. At 35, morning cry...

13. At 40, God why

My dear receive sense now.....and stop slaying.

#copied

High fever.

You dey find ochofree. Na money be fine Bobo, Money Over Bitches. True love still exists.

PDP
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SHARE THE MONEY
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BASHOLOYE
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OLOGBOSERE

ODIDIGBOIGBO is the BOSS.


Not forgetting the legend goes home tomorrow.

SCARFACE
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NGOZI
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LEGEND

Once upon a time in WARRI

At the end of the day, make una do the whyo favour me

Manufacturing hard to reach that position

Do not judge

With all this drama. Any man go gree marry Tonto again. Make una non vex, I forget say her paddy bobrisky get dick.

R.I.P. Beautiful in and out.

Na wa o. God let me never be a scapegoat amen.

The Ransome-Kuti's have many first in Nigeria

Reverend Israel Oludotun Ransome-Kuti, the first president of the Nigeria Union of Teachers.

Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti, first woman to drive a car in Nigeria.

Wole Soyinka nephew of Funmilayo first African to win the Nobel Prize in Literature (1986).

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I will be surprised if I wake one morning and see that Tonto is not mad. One minute man my foot naim him give u Belle.

Look for any construction site around. I'm currently in one. Later I go eat beans and bread for Linus. Life non easy for Aluu.

pearcy:
Please my people, help a starving brother. I have been pleading for help since 2 days now. I'm a student who returned to school last week because of the prospects of exams starting on Tuesday and also because I was opportuned to enter a free ride. my family isn't bouyant enough and my dad has severe high BP that's why I had to find my way so as not to make him to start thinking about where to get money to give me. I haven't eaten a decent food since I got back and am starving.


I am soliciting for help from well meaning people who will be touched enough to hear my plight and have mercy. I am not asking for much, no matter how little, it will go a long way. God bless you all

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Is she going to starboy

Their three non fine. Abeg next

Tonto should go to hell. The thing pain her say the guy leave her.

This is touching. God why allow this? But again, who is this lady? Has her life been straight? Was the guy only putting up with her because of the financial assistance she may have gotten from illicit activities?

These and many more unanswered questions trailing the WhatsApp conversation could well reveal more to why the responses from the man.

Finally, my heart is broken for the lady. I feel her pains!