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Ubenedictus:
na wa o...

I wanted to take 27th but this lady just chanced me.

Abeg kamsified just give me any date.

Sorry ooooo

As you and your man begin to know each other,
there are several things you are meant to overlook
and others you are not allowed to let slide which
means sticking to your standards at the start of your
relationship is essential, no matter how excited you
are about your new romance.

Virginia Clark of YourTango lists out 5 things you
never owe a man you are just getting to know. And here goes the lists.....


1. You don’t owe him an explanation about
why you’re not married: Being cross-
examined about why you’re “still” single
puts you on the defensive. It makes you feel
judged and vulnerable. There are damn
good reasons why you’re single. Stop telling
yourself that being married is OK and being
single is not. Whether single by choice or by
chance, there’s nothing wrong with you.
And you don’t need to justify where you are
in life what matters is that you have focus.


2. You definitely don’t owe him sex before
you’re ready: Just because he wants to
have sex with you doesn’t mean you have to
go through with it. If you feel pressure,
either real or imagined, don’t do it just to
make him happy (or to make him like you).
Taking you out and spending his money on
you does not equate to purchasing access
to your body! Remember, once given, it
can’t be taken back.


3. You don’t owe him monogamy (until it’s
mutually agreed upon): If a man wants
exclusivity from you, even if he’s not
exclusive with you, the answer is no! It’s a
simple concept really: don’t commit to him
more than he’s committed to you. When
he’s truly serious about you he’ll agree to
monogamy, and if he doesn’t, well, he’s just
not ready.


4. You don’t have to drink or do drugs with
him: Men who do drugs and drink usually
like company, so he’ll want you to join him.
Know what’s right for you and don’t change
your habits or boundaries to please him. If
he says you’re ruining his fun or being a
prude, it’s OK; you’re not required to prove
your coolness. If his drinking or drugs are
an issue for you, take it seriously, otherwise
you’re playing with fire.


5. You never owe him an apology for being
authentically you: If he judges what you eat,
what you wear, or how you look … beware. If
he labels your beliefs wrong or silly, think
twice. Don’t make excuses or justify your
choices to a man who doesn’t “get you.” Be
who you are and be proud. Knowing what
you don’t owe a man hopefully reminds you
of what you DO owe yourself. Honour your
own boundaries, trust that you know what is
right for you, and most importantly, don’t
change who you are for ANYONE (a man
you’re dating or otherwise).


http://nwdailyblog.com/5-things-you-dont-owe-the-man-you-are-dating/[b][/b]

hurricaneChris:
Let me choose 26th.

Woky has his birthday on 25th, so being behind him this period isn't a bad idea.

Who knows, the birthday cake could still remain till 26th.

26th is d date!!

Right behind you...
Am going with 27th.

Am seated already...

Nice tips...
Mine is talking in the midst of people or rather associating with people...
But then studying communication is really bringing me out from my shell.....

My wonderful people.... Una Good morning.

Good to be here once more.
It has really been a while..
Hope you all are kicking .?

Thanks a lot Deko1. I really appreciate.

Happy belated birthday to my birthday mates.

It's 250 Naira. Very cheap but works wonders.

[quote author=opblow post=32539109][/quote]Thank you.

Babymama1:
Ahihara is what I knew it as

Ok. Thanks.

One thing I can't do and will never do is to buy anything online.... No matter what it is.

I prefer going to the market to look out for that particular stuff and bargain the price as well as the quality of the stuff with the seller. So if eventually the item turns out something other than what I had in mind before buying it.. Then I will return it to the seller.

Hmmmmm!
Ewedu.. please what's the igbo name..

It depends....

If it's exchange of words... I will try to calm him down and see if I can settle the problem.

If it's a fight.. I must make sure I take him away from that scene even if it means running away with him to our house before it results into something I will regret.. sometimes a fight can lead to deadly disaster, so it's better to stop him by all means and thereby avert the unforeseen.

Waooooo!

They look so cute.

I pray I give birth to twins or triplets...
When the time comes.

AMEN.

Well done....

Nice post.

Rich4god:
As the month comes to an end... I want to use this opportunity to thank God for His protection upon my life and that of my family members....
Most esp yesterday, I was almost involved in a head on collision with a speeding trailer... Even after dodging the face of the trailer, I still dont know how I managed to keep myself steady between the side of the trailer and the rough edge of the road... Well, I believe the Hand of God is at work....

The hand of God is really at work in your life..
Thank God for saving your life.... may His name be praised.

jnrbayano:
Exactly.

Something as big as the presidential election she just dismissed with the wave of the hand.

Tomorrow they will be the first to complain of bad governance...

Some girls shaa...

They are too obsessed with their birthday that they hardly take cognisance of any other thing....

Theeldah:
i really learnt from this

Thanks.....

Happy birthday mizmycoli

Many happy returns for you.

Syncan:
May your night be peaceful and your dreams sweet. Good night brethren.

Good night Syncan.

Good night lovely people.

jnrbayano:
Hope you like my new name for you.

Udo malu over

Oh! Yes I do.

Daalu.

Peppyluv:
I need this

Same here

Syncan:
Brother kamsified...noted.

SalC:
My day was stressful but fine though. Good to know yours was fine also
As for the popcorn, trust me, I don't need to rush when Syncan is in -charge, he will always reserve mine so don't worry about me

Hmmmm! Let it be done to you according to your words

jnrbayano:
Jenniest Jenny kedu nke mee last?

Jenniest Jenny..... that's funny.
Udo di na my side. Kedu nke na eme na side gi?

SalC:
I greet you too mi lady


Sweerie how did your day go?


Lol I never knew Syncan makes popcorn, oya bro Syncan hand me over my portion of the popcorn biko

My day went fine.. how was yours?

Pls rush for your own share of the pop corn and coke.. it's very important.