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CaveAdullam:
Nice one from pansophist.

A little add: women by default are machiavellians, they know when, where, and how to mimic to any situation regardless of whether it's good or bad. Women, especially those who are approaching the wall, hit the wall or past the wall will play the chameleon game effectively, pretending to pass your vetting scrutinization. Many of them at their epiphany phase or wall phase, will then discover a need for a religious salvation, and begin to act as wise sages. And any man that approaches them in their religious salvation phase will definitely fall for their whims, with little or no cognizance of their past.

We all have a moment of change, but women change not for the sake of change itself, it is a subtle act of game and manipulation; an attempt to eat their cake during the h0e/party phase, and desire it back during the epiphany/salvation phase. What propel this change is because of a decline in beauty, attention, age, fertility and to quickly latch onto a man for marriage.

Therefore, as a man, entering into a long term relationship or marriage, the vetting process for women should be between the ages of 18-25, using the "virgin/hymen" requirement as a prerequisite. If a woman is a virgin, there is a very high probability of passing other tests. In addition to the vetting process: stir all forms of emotions in her; anger, pain, joy, gladness, anxiety etc. This is to determine her balance and extremes, and how to counter it when you eventually commit to her.

You don't need to like this, a man that has upheave himself to a king standard will never find problem searching and finally engaged himself to a virgin with a high dose of femininity. Other lower men can settle for repentant wh0res who wear a facade of intellect, logic, good behaviour, good character etc.

So, as a man, become high quality in every areas of your life, and only commit to a high quality woman. Settling for less is an unbalanced equation and a waste of your resources. Take a detailed analysis of her past, her sexual escapades, her social behaviour, ideologies and belief system.

Do not commit to a woman in her epiphany phase, because it is foolish to buy the cow when the milk is free. If she freely gave the milk in the past, there's no need paying for it in the present. Do not be deceived by the appearance of the cow, it is a facade.

Thanks.

God bless.

Martinez39s:
All I can say is konji is a bastàrd. One thing most people don't know is that being ignorant of the red pill is not the only thing that can make a man simp. You can be very vast in red pill knowledge and alpha mindset, but if your sexual urges are always getting the better of you, you will find yourself simping big time, and you will become an easy prey to women who can manipulate your sexual incontinence. Control your sex urges, you won't die if you do so; the ability to be above your sexual urges is a super power that many people underestimate. If you can achieve this, you will be able to "see" more clearly and it will automatically occur to you when someone is trying to exploit your sexual desires for their benefit. It won't work on you, and you will never act needy or desperate for sex because you are above your sexual urges and you will not die if you abstain.

That's why I always encourage everyone to go monk mode for at least one or two years; practice saying "no" to sex even from very enticing and hot ladies and let it master you, and at the same time channel ALL your time, energy, and money on improving yourself or learning something. After that, if you want relationships, no problem; if you still want to remain a monk, no problem.

Edit: growing up, men are never taught or encouraged to learn the useful skill of mastering and taming their sexual urges. Instead, men are praised for having many body counts, and they see such as a glorious pursuit. It is not necessarily bad, but neglecting the useful skill of sexual self-control, which is very important for men to learn, is what is bad. Not only will it prevent simping big time, it will also avoid terrible and embarrassing situations for men.

CaveAdullam:
Same here, chief.

Well done.

How's life and doings?

Martinez39s:
Immediately you posted this, I knew very soon that at least one clown will misconstrue or twist this to say whatever he/she wants, even if it is a point that isn't contested or proposed. It came much sooner than I had expected.

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Where in this post does it say you should never have a plan (to avoid being useless) or fear marriage because of female nature? Did anyone bother to know the origin of that post as one with good critical thinking skills does? Did anyone not see "just be prepared and be realistic"? What about "... as I adviced"? What’s that particular advice I gave? Besides, who is fearing what? SMH.

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Anyway @JESHAL, I think it best not post excerpts of my discussion from the WhatsApp group. Seems for many who jump into conclusions, you will have to post the preceding posts and subsequent posts (all of which are responses to different people as they are part of a group discussion), and I don't want that. Other posts are okay.

N.B: For those who've read this post so far and are curious as to what was being discussed in the WhatsApp group, here it is:

(1) we were discussing about men being financially stable before going into marriage; understanding the need to set up yourself very well before going into marriage; and looking at economic realities.

(2) Pragmatic procreation. (Any redpiller interested can ask what this is all about, and I will discuss).

(3) being realistic with female nature and having realistic expectations. Knowing what to expect, and discussing different possible marital scenarios. One of the many scenarios happened to be a case of when men lose their income, can't meet up, or fall from great heights...

Of course, all these are done through the red pill lens. I hope one day the group comes alive as it was during it peak and redpillers can ponder on these things.