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CaveAdullam:
Let me drop some things as perceived from the tail end.



DAY 145, REDPILL 2021

Life's a game, it consists of sacrifices and compromises and each has its intrinsic pros and cons. Whether the consequences are heavy or light, it doesn't matter, the fact remains that no matter any position one decide to stay, there will be negative challenges he must experience. Light as it maybe, winners experience a high level of aversion by the majority of losers at the bottom, they're not safe around losers and victim signallers. Is it their fault that they are winners? No! Life will give you with the right hand and take with the left. This is a usual phenomenon.

1. Yes a man can decide to wake up at "age 40" or at any particular age and improve his sexual market value, develop his life and spank different butts. But how many men do you think have this kind of advantage? If it was so, how come men are still homeless in their majority even till old age? How come life expectancy for men is still low? Wage is declining as per day, taxation increasing by the day, and high inflation. Crime rate is also on the increase and men bear the greater burdens of all these.

2. If you consider the present day economy, you'll understand that men are really at a great disadvantage, they can only use cunning and leveraging of their time to upheave themselves to a higher level. If they waste their time and think they can hit it big at any particular point in life, definitely, they will end up despondent. Time wait for neither man nor woman.

3. Nobody cares about the male gender. As a man if you're not successful or powerful or have total control of your life, you will be treated as shit by even cats and dogs. Nobody cares about you! No f^cking advantage, if a man fail to use his brain and strength, nobody is coming to help him. Man is not pitied for being man, where he can no longer perform, there he will be abandoned.

4. Still on the economic sector, men will still settle down for h0es because of their low economic and financial status. A broke guy doesn't have an option, he will be happy to have a l00se woman around and will not bother about her infidelity or sexual history because in his mind he's even lucky to have her with little or no money. He thinks the woman is doing him a favour and no wonder many grooms either shed tears of joy every Saturday or dance joyously as if they've just won a golden boot for the first time.

NB: The quality of women a man want is dependent on the circle he always place himself. A governor's daughter will not leave her place of comfort to come searching for a man in the creeks of his jungle. Nollywood is b*st*rd! O yeah, there's place for luck and chance but that's an exception and doesn't displace the rule. To get access to top quality-rich-women, he must elevate his status/game or camouflage himself when around them. And this is the secret of pick up artists, Cassanovas, Players, Male gold diggers etc.

If you see a broke guy f^cking women regardless of their status, do a proper surveillance and you'll see that he's one way or the other connected to a family, friend or anybody that has fame or power or high status around that locality. Or has won a name for himself be it good or bad.

5. Society is already programed to cherish and care for women and children. This is as a result of their intrinsic weakness. Men will help women and children but will leave other men to hunt, fend and care for themselves. Why? Because society will praise you for helping the "weak" and no wonder there are motley of women and children empowerment program, exorbitant amount of money towards women's and children's healthcare, different support group for women and children etc.

6. It's women that has 100% advantage and never men. Whether in patriarchal society or matriarchal society or egalitarian society, women are still the ones that benefits. Men work hard to sustain civilization, innovate, discover, create and even fight wars for the general welfare of everyone. Unlike women, they just stay at the finish line to claim the winners. This is nature's work alongside biology and evolution and there's nothing anyone can do about it. The only thing a man can do is to make himself his mental point of origin.

8. In this sexual game, women will always win. Do you know why? All men can't become and will never become redpilled! Same as all men can't become rich and powerful. Pareto principle holds well in every game. Women are born manipulators, they will f^ck their prime years away and still leverage their wasted years to anchor to a well-to-do man. Men with money and power don't waste time to bring out money to f^ck and marry as many h0es as they want. They simply don't care because f^ck is f^ck whether by arousal or attraction.

9. Remember, majority of men are still at a disadvantage economically, in fact, powerful and rich men will sample different women and choose the most fertile among them e.g Ned Nwoko, Oba of Benin etc. H0es and damaged women will become leftovers for the majority of men at the bottom and they will be happy about it thinking that at last they've won the hearts of their best friends. How many h0es these days even settle down for broke men?
When it comes to the sexual game women have the upperhand because both rich simps, poor simps, rich alphas, broke alphas, the law and society are at their disposal.

10. Many men will still follow your advice and develop themselves but at the end settle down for wh0res because to play the game is not in words but action. The game is tasking, it requires a constant upgrading of oneself, it's not a one time thing, it's continuous, however, fulfilling.

11. Even if men's body are still intact after several sexual experience, what about the cost analysis in time, money, risk, seductive maneuvers they used to achieved each sexual escapade? Haha haha. Women compensate for their weak body and wasted time by anchoring to a rich male that will continually care for their body that was misused.

12. Women can have it any time of the day unlike men that must use various subterfuges to achieve their aim. The only advantage men have is control over what takes place. However, women aren't really interested in control or power per say, all they want is provision and protection and a good f^ck. And these things comes easy for women.

13. 100% advantage is only possible if the man was born and bred in a wealthy family e.g Davido. But how many men can experience what Davido is enjoying at the moment? Even by struggling and hardworking it still is not easy and if you stand up and point out men that made it from the street e.g 50 cent, Olamide you've simply fall for the survivorship bias: you only see the few that progress and never paid attention to the majority that failed. This is also the bias of feminism: they think because minority of men are super rich and occupy the corridor of power, therefore all men are in same position.

Notwithstanding, other points of yours make sense and I concur to them because they're valid.

Nobody have his/her cake and eat it.

Authority: make good use of your time and leverage on every opportunity. You can try and become successful, however, time and chance happen to them all.

CaveAdullam:
1. When you have verified that someone genuinely loves you, don't break that person's heart. Choose death rather. Or, end the relationship early.

Because not all lovers are weak. Betrayal may trigger their vindictive instinct and they'll come for your jugular like a vampire.

2. Don't bank on promises.

See promises as mere talk. Never abandon your path because someone promised you a brighter future.

3. Have a clear map of what you are doing. Have a plan.

What do you want in life?

Once you answer that question, you'll be able to see all the channels that lead to your destination.

4. Don't care what people will say.

They will mock you. They will ridicule you.

Don't pay attention to their statements. Follow your plan to the end.

5. Seek truth.

If your heart is always in the pursuit of truth, you'll gain knowledge and learn wisdom.

You don't need a preacher or counselor to constantly be on your doorposts advising you.

6. Appreciate beauty.

Stay away from ugliness of any form. Ugliness will always make you dwell on the negative side of life.

Appreciate beautiful nature. Stare at beautiful people and architecture.

7. Be kind.

8. Eye for eye. Tooth for tooth.

Don't allow criminals or sociopaths to go scot-free.

Forgiveness should come after punishment.

9. Learn to see the light in people.

No one is utterly useless.

However, don't pay attention to the unrepentant fool.

10. Learn to provide value.

Value will give you what you want or attract you to the people you admire.

11. Don't beg for food.

Don't beg for money.

Better to die poor and broke than to become a beggar.

Refuse to see begging as your last option.

Your ego should block you from begging.

It is better to do the dirtiest and most dangerous work to put food on your table than beg people.

Begging will hinder you from creating value and achieving freedom.

12. Always be optimistic.

No matter how tragic your travails are, be optimistic that one day you'll overcome.

Pessimism is a joy spoiler. You'll end up corrupting your soul and never see good in yourself or others.

13. Don't be an introvert.

Be part of a community.

No man is an island. Among others, you'll find a solution to some of your problems.

14. Learn to give. Be hesitant to receive.

The giver is always higher than the receiver.

Givers are lords over receivers. Just as it is better to be a lender than a borrower.

15. Dress nice. Smell nice.

Luxury isn't only in the cost. How you wear luxury matters.

Hardly anybody will ask you the cost of your shoes and clothes. So, you don't need to break the bank.

16. Life is a marathon. But it's better to run like a cheetah than walk like a snail.

Resources in life are scarce; first come, first serve.

Make smart moves always.

17. Avoid procrastination.

What needs to be done today should not be carried over to tomorrow. Because tomorrow might be too late.

18. Think in years, not days, weeks, or months.

This will help you know how to calibrate your time and work.

If I continue doing this for 5 years where will I be in the next 5 years?

It's important to curtail your foolishness early.

19. Hope is not a strategy.

Good work is.

Make sure you are doing something meaningful instead of wishing for a pool of Bethsaida miracles.

Those who work have no fear of the future.

20. Value people that value you.

Don't waste time on people who see you as trash. Except you are making money from them. However, dignity is better than the price of labor.

21. Don't just learn a skill.

Learn a skill you can easily leverage before the big success.

22. Humans are cunning and manipulative. Even you.

Learn to understand the game. And learn to protect your integrity.

23. People want you to fail. Because your failure will prove their points against you.

It's more reason you must work hard to prove them wrong.

They are your motivating factor for success, albeit from a contradictory angle.

24. Don't be afraid of failure.

You'll fail. So, allow yourself to fail.

Failure is part of progress. Life circumstances are not linear. It's haphazard and random.

Failure will teach you a good lesson.

Thanks.

emmaodet:
You should understand that the life of a man is a Lonely and boring one even though we have over 7 billion humans in the world.
Right from day one, a man will have to prove himself to be a man else will be invincible to the society which means a life of scarcity that leads to simping.
We are humans, we want to be Loved because we are a social animal.
Have you been to motherless baby homes or orphanage homes before? what about prison? These are the set of people in the society that have been really deprived of love.
Any time a person decide to visit these places, there is this happiness, joy in the faces of these forgotten people. They are happy that despite there situation and condition, someone somewhere still remembers them. Those few moments - be it for the children that have never experienced fatherly/motherly love, or the prisoner that has been forgotten by family, spouse or wife in prison, they cherish and appreciates those few moments we spend with them.
That is how the life of the average man is. He is invincible, unnoticed by the society if he doesn't have resources. His family members don't respect him, is younger ones hardly go to his place or call him because they are not going to benefit anything from him and then all of a sudden, a lady he has been chasing decides to date him.
He will be very very happy. He will see the lady as is source of joy and motivation, the person that gives him strength to keep pushing and moving forward in this ever harsh world.
He will simp, simp and simp because he is suffering from scarcity.
A financially stable guy whose phone is always ringing with calls from different ladies will have a low simping threshold.

CaveAdullam:
Intelligence - 500

I want my children to be intelligent as fvck.

Godly - 300

If she's godly, she will be faithful and respectful + other things.

Beauty - 200

Imagine having intelligent and beautiful kids.

And, an intelligent + beautiful + godly woman.

That's man just struck gold.

Hahahahaha

Fortunately, there are many of such women outside.

The problem lies in patience and scouting for them.

CaveAdullam:
Intelligence - 500

I want my children to be intelligent as fvck.

Godly - 300

If she's godly, she will be faithful and respectful + other things.

Beauty - 200

Imagine having intelligent and beautiful kids.

And, an intelligent + beautiful + godly woman.

That's man just struck gold.

Hahahahaha

Fortunately, there are many of such women outside.

The problem lies in patience and scouting for them.