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emmaodet:
Thank God we have a testifier in our mist today.
Well done bro.
Keep playing active roles anywhere you see yourself and you will never be short of ladies.
Believe me.
It works like magic

@ Jeshal .... You are in NYSC camp.
Endeavor to hold a post there, be it group leader or whatever because I don't know how they operate.
Never had the luxury of going to NYSC.
The school I passed through don't use it

Trex4:
You guys don't understand Redpill REDPILL IS THE TRUTH. Or aims to be. Wether you're poor or rich the truth is still the truth.

For example, picture a nice Chicken dish. You're seeing it well garnished and cooked, That's BLUE PILL. Redpill will show the truth about the dish. Like the torture the chickens go through, the artificial additives, the under paid Chefs and other unhygienic processes used in arriving at the final product. Wether it's a Mama put or expensive 5 star restaurant chicken. It's still the same process.

The creator of the thread Glycolysis named this thread REALITY EVERY GUY SHOULD KNOW. Not every rich guy, or every poor guy. He said every guy. Cause I've seen some people here in past claim redpill is only for poor people

This whole, Get money Bla Bla is becoming stale. It's like preaching to the choir. I believe everyone here is hustling for money. I know Mj bolt and Die rich from the crypto thread, I know cave A dullam is coding and some people here like pansophist are based abroad self.

MORAL: Wether you have money or not, Redpill or female nature will still be the same! Try to get money yes, But understand Redpill as a man it'll help you in many spheres of life.

emmaodet:


30k for babalawo to get back a gf that ran back to her ex.
Chaii.
Sometimes, I don't blame men.
Alot of men are sex starved and relationship starved that they will do anything just to have a woman at home or to call a gf/wife even if it will involve regular insults and cursing from their women.
The fear of being alone is real and the only way to solve this issue is to increase your social life.
It helps a lot.
Most simps are introverts because they hardly go out to mingle.
Always indoors, many say being broke is the major factor of being indoor or increasing their introvert life.
There is a level of exposure you have, it reduces your tendency of simping alot.
For starters without money, playing active roles will go along way in solving women issues.
So many men play passive roles thereby being invincible to ladies and society at large.
You all can remember your class rep. Or class captain name in secondary schools either by name or just the face, best students, sug president and some key role members, choir master in school, student pastor etc
These are all active roles that requires no money to do and it markets you without you even altering a single word.
We all know our pastors but can't remember who attended church as members last week because being a member is a passive roles and being the head is an active role.
Just a simple observation -
Do you know by default, a new girl who came to visit her sister for holiday will get known by virtually all the boys within a week in that street?
This is one hedge women have over men. They have this natural follow come sensor that markets them automatically whether they like it or not, knowingly or unknowingly.
They just see men asking them out for no reason, trying to take them for lunch, money, phones for no reason.
It is the same thing that happens to you when you start engaging in active roles, you easily get known and marketed.
Ladies will get to know your name without you even knowing them, they will know about you and some will even initiate Convo with you.
Hello Jide, please can you cover for me in the next class because I won't be around.
Jide is the class leader who doesn't even know Jessica is part of the class of 100 student butdue to your active role, she has initiated Convo with you and from their regular talking happens and from there you build on it.
So many examples

ubunja:
exactly. Go where you're celebrated. It's a simple enough concept, but the way guys struggle with it you would think it's rocket science.

Maybe many guys don't see themselves as loveable that they feel they have to force a girl or buy her love for her to love them. Any man can be an alpha if he seeks a woman who sees him as alpha. Simple ABCs. It's always about how a woman sees you. Plus women are turned on by the strangest things due to their upbringing and histories. So it's not even that you try to impress a woman, but something about you automatically impresses her before you even try. Many men will be surprised if they ask their GF, "what is it about me that you like". Cause the things they think impress are not the things that actually impressed.
I once talked to a girl I found was attracted to me. And I thought it was how I looked. Until she told me that everytime I mentioned the phrase "sex without condoms" her pussy dripped like a tap. She was a huge fan of raw sex. And here I was thinking entirely about the wrong thing. It wasn't about me per se. But About her. What turned her on.

Men must just deal with women who are turned on around them. Saves from so much heartache.

Fisher007:
My fellow redpill brother, they will learn. You see marriage is a scam no matter how you want to see or sell it to any logical and reasonable person.

The lady knows time is clicking . She senses the undefeated wall even if she can't understand what exactly is the wall. Her mum knows too that the attention and charades around her daughter is going down.

In Asia most women over 25 are leftovers women. Men don't care about them. In Pakistan you don't even exist at that age. Even the Muslim men here in Nigeria literally just marry the old one just to have an haram of ladies. In the US guys now pump and dump girls above that age. In Saudi Arabia/ UAE they just use them for fetish potty potty party. The reality is women brought this upon themselves.

Why marry? When you literally take responsibility of an entitled creature without rationale thinking. You pay for everything in most cases, you must provide and protect, you are basically growing a pet ( invincible- Omni man reference lol). All they do is form love to you after all their past years of riding the cock carousel. Then they bring more trauma and emotional baggage to your life.

I am happy for those Marrying Sha. There must be Adam ( the provider/ husband) and there must be the serpent ( the Uncle, ex boyfriend, just a friend, colleague, gym buddy, driver and red pill brothers). No wonder everyone especially the male attendee at the wedding says our wife. Lol

Skepticus:
The "Desperate for your commitment" part reminds me to inform men (who care to read/listen) that men who are on their purpose or indifferent to women and are getting choosing signals (Green Light) from women should be highly observant and try to understand the deep underlying reasons why women are choosing them.

Most men who are on their purpose, bettering themselves (making money, building status etc) give off "provider" vibes which attracts mostly women who are there to enjoy the "provision", not the man or his essence. In fact, most choosing signals (Green Light) from women are manipulative. Only a few, are genuine.

Like I said in some of my past comments on this thread, nothing bad in making your money or improving your status to attract women to you (though, there is a large segment of men who encourage minimalism/less flashiness or show off, when it comes to the red pill and it helps in sieving out manipulative gold diggers from "seriously-interested" women) but it is WISDOM to get what you want from her (especially if she is there to Gold Dig or giving Manipulative Green Lights) spending little or nothing. If you have to spend so much (Expensive Pusssy), you are in a transactional relationship/marriage (Packaged Prostitution) "overpaying" a pusssy that some other guy is getting for less or nothing. You might be better off wanking, going to a brothel or ordering for pusssy on tinder or instamessage in a more "realistic" deal. Not encouraging picking prostitutes or masturbation, though they serve a purpose. Nothing beats sexual control and discipline for a man.

Niggas, make una dey use una head above una dicks. #Focus

Martinez39s:
From the early beginnings of human history to the time things got more comfortable and safe, and as things are getting more comfortable and safe, one of the games of women is clear:

(1) to continuously and increasingly absolve women from any responsibility or obligation to bring anything to the table in relationships while maintaining women's standard for men's performance. (and even increasing it and making it more one-side.) This is even made socially acceptable.

(2) to continuously increase the power of women in relationships/marriage, give them authority in relationships/marriage, and short change men even as the traditional standard for male performance and achievement is maintained,

(3) as it follows from (1), to make it okay and socially acceptable for women not to improve in character, manners and attitude, and not to seek to contribute in a relationship etc. Men are supposed to be satisfied with them just being females and consider themselves lucky to have a female as they (men) fulfill their traditional roles without the authority that comes with it; men are even supposed to provide 100% and even do the chores even if the wife is a stay-at-home wife. Any suggestions that the man must provide and protect is approved; but it considered misogynistic to suggest that stay-at-home wives with providing husbands should do the chores.

(4) While the standards men must meet before they are selected for a long-term relationship are maintained, and are even increasingly increased, that of women are dropping and are intended to be nonexistent eg. unlike before, a woman doesn't have to be a virgin to be considered for LTR; unlike before, many men are dating and marrying single mothers; unlike before, many men don't mind dating a woman older than them; unlike before, many men don't go for young, fresh women, they are having something serious with evening newspapers; unlike before, men are having no problem with a woman with high body counts; unlike before, men are assisting in house chores even as they pay 100%; unlike before, men are okay with a woman who is barren etc. However, broke men stand no chance, as it has been from the beginning.

(5) Women are supposed to have standards, but men are not. Men are supposed to accept anything, while women can pick and change their minds as they please.

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Philosopher1979:
A post wall woman
1. Needs to beg her way into relationship.
2. Not complain if she has to share her man with other women.
She is not in the market anymore.
Now you are saying it is the other way round.
The way post wall women have turned the table in modern times is amazing. In traditional african culture that people say is primitive, a woman has to be a virgin before any man can take her serious. Now ex prostitutes and damaged women are been begged. Its phenomenal.
Maybe our forefathers knew something we didn't know.

Philosopher1979:
I don't understand. Time is not on women's side so at 30 they are at a disadvantage. At least with money you don't have to beg your way into a relationship.
Is simping so bad that even with money one us still at a disadvantage with women

Skepticus:
If you are a man of faith, may the deity you believe reward you for your kind gesture (pardon me but I'm not religious, though). Men don't have to be nice. Being kind is okay, though it must be done within limits where you aren't taken advantage of, at the level of mockery.

The man you extended your act of benevolence to, reminds me of how sad it is when I see men being harsh on each other for no reason because some have it "easy" than others (with factors beyond their control like privilege, time and chance contributing to their success), ignorant of the facts of life (shît can go wrong, even if you think you are fully prepared for the better) or stupid dick contests that reeks of psychological insecurity, emotional immaturity and mental inferiority.

When I went fully red-pilled, I started appreciating men striving to make life meaningful for themselves and their families if they had one (from those at the bottom like manual labourers, truck pushers to those at the top like CEOs, MDs top political leaders etc. Whether we like it or not, class and rank (Hierarchies) will always exist among men. Even, the ranking criteria is relative (subjective) and can vary within environments/strata etc.

In Nigeria where it's common to rank men with fiat cash (money) and financial networth, even, the networth of Nigeria's (and Africa's) richest man is some other men's "tax" money and "chicken change". Life happens to all. It's a reason why I have stopped broke-shaming men or mocking them for being in certain low economic class which is typical of Nigerian men. Most of those who broke-shame or mock others for being "low-value" are either ignorant or coping psychologically online. Also, the modern romantic scene is not static universally. A lot of broke, poor men end up having a lot of sex and are even "reproductively successful" than some rich high value men could ever imagine. Men need to start looking deeper and read between the lines. Justformen can relate.

This is not to say that men should not strive to get better or not be "encouraged" to get better. It's not "broke-shaming" in my opinion. For those stuck on the "Burden of Performance" thing, do you think the guy who goes out there to push his wheel barrow to survive and probably feed his family, and the guy who who gets up early, earning millions monthly, working extra hard, as the MD/CEO of a multinational firm, don't understand the burden of performance saddled on a man, and are not working towards lifting the burden that their "muscles" can "afford to lift"? Do you think they are working for the fun of it other than earn money to survive and solve their basic problems like food, shelter and clothing?

You don't have to agree with me. Just understand my point. Life is different for every man. Let's not make it harder for ourselves. We only have a life to live.

emmaodet:
Jeshal007 wetin happen?
Noticed you have been reading many of my past comments, liking and sharing of late.
I just decided to take some time off commenting ni jare to focus on money in another section of the group.
I find it lazy nowadays even typing and commenting.

emmaodet:
bro, it all depends on the angle you look it from.
The ONLY single reason women sleep around, club, bang and chase the top 20% guys is because deep deep deep down, they know the remaining 80% will be stranded and really thirsty. So no matter what, worst case scenario, they will get a beta to settle down with at the end of the day even if they actually don't like him. They will grudgingly settle down with him.

Bro, the thirst is real, i see it on daily basis. A lot of men invincible to ladies meanwhile crying for ladies attention. IT IS ALL GAME OF NUMBERS.
If most men are seeing women on daily basis for relationship like 1 lady per day, then it is a game over.
These thirsty men EASILY give out their most priced advantage which is COMMITMENT.I was once in that shoe but i thank God am out of it. Let's be frank with each other, MONEY is a big factor that changes the game 180* to most men favour provided you know your worth ofcourse.
I met a lady here on NL, mid 30's desperately looking for a hubby but when we got closer and she told me about her past, wawuuuuuuuuuuuu....
Banging different kind of men, partying, drinking, clubbing thinking the whole earth revolves round her and got carried away, Boooom.....she is in her late 20's/early 30's struggling to hold down a quality man but in all these, she is not short of thirsty low quality men all begging for her to be their wife and throwing the singular advantage they have out to her.......COMMITMENT. Their commitment is soooooo cheap thereby not valuable.
If all poor and struggling guys can take commitment out of the table, a lot of sanity will be restored in relationship.

emmaodet:
Concerning the points you raised about marriage - Bro, you have good points but the truth still remain that Most women choose men due to what they can get and not what God ordained and they will gladly leave the marriage without giving 2 foocks what God says or what the man had done for them before.
Also, from my experience so far, have developed this phobia for women due to what have seen.
Most guys see women on the surface level. Believe me, NO man who has gone into the undergound female world and come back will want to marry or have anything to do with it.
There is one reality have come to know from little experience in the women's world - ALL WOMEN are WHORES - i hope you heard well? including our mothers, wives, sisters, aunties etc simply because there is this LovePeddler atom inside ALL women and will only be triggered when the necessary conditions are met.
For some, it may be hunger that will trigger it, for some heart-break, war/crisis and living in IDP camps and become whores when survival instinct kicks in due to scarce resources, some for fun, some for money, some political factors that has rendered the country poor etc i can go on and on but the truth still remain - all women are whores and some are only responsible because the necessary factors have not been triggered.
Bro, have met ladies that want me to do 3some, many dirty bad shits. Some are married now and i doubt if they will be faithful and these are women you see on street and they look responsible, calm, good looking, religious but underneath, they are are Disasters.

emmaodet:
It is very hard for good men not to marry harlots. The question is why? I will say EXPERIENCES.
Naturally, we humans learn mostly from experience because it improves us the more we try it and thereby makes us better on the long run.
It is safe to say that sex with a virgin will be far more boring than a high exposed lady sexually …….. Experience.
You tend to get accident with a car when you just start learning than when your hand is strong and can drive from Lagos to ibadan … Experience.
Likewise swimming, playing ball, playing video games etc. the examples are many.
What is my point? Where am I driving to?
Ladies with multiple past partners would have garthered the need Experiences to keep a man compared to a boring, shy inexperienced lady thereby easy for them to quickly spot a rookie or novice in the game and tame him down.
Reason while bad guys or womanizes tend to marry good women and loose ladies tend to marry good guys.
Because most guys are hindered to get the necessary experience they need to survive the milky waters of relationship due to one major factor ….. Finance.
In most cases, most men are so broke or struggling that they are been told to go to school, study hard and pray they get a good job before going into a relationship - we do here this a lot on nairaland. Go and hustle before looking for a woman.
While they are busy doing this, their female counterparts are busy garthering Life needed experiences on sex, human relationship, interpersonal relationship, care etc. so that when the men are ready but novice in this area, the experienced harlots can quickly spot them, give them good sex, care like plaiting their hair, cutting their nails and fingers, massaging their body, washing their clothes etc. that we make the simp fall more and thinks he has gotten a good girl, things he has been starved for so long in life that no lady did for him nor even see him when he was broke.

ubunja:
yes boss!

it will always be men's weakness to make their woman their everything.
Women themselves know how to break their needs and spread them over many guys, so when they lose their main guy they only suffer a little. A woman will have one guy for money, another for sex, another for comfort, another for life advice, etc. If she breaks up with her BF she's not losing sex, she's not losing money, she's not losing life advice-- just love. Hence she can bounce back faster and feels less of a heartbreak.

But men.... When a man gets a GF he drops everything for her, and makes her his everything: sex? GF.
advice? GF
Comfort? GF
Love? GF
Best friend? GF
Next of Kin? GF

In the event of a breakup,, when the man loses his GF, he loses EVERYTHING. He loses his best friend, his advisor, his sex partner, his comforter--- all in one go. Hence men suffer breakups harder than women. They allow the GF too much monopoly in all parts of their life. And this really needs to change.

Men better learn to spread their needs over many people and stop putting everything on their woman. Many men can't even maintain any relationship with a female once they get a GF,, no matter what role that female played, she's dropped as soon as the man has a GF. Its a loser move.

Don't center everything around your woman for sure.

Hope your weekend is going nicely man.

emmaodet:
Continued ..............
Just by staying at ojodu/berger, she will get a lift from a man from there to ibadan, ibadan to ilorin, ilorin to abuja likewise back.
Ofcourse, these men will sleep with her and give her money on top But a man will have to work and raise money to do the same journey to and fro.
There are expensive clubs, wines/alcohols (so expensive that we may not have heard the names before or see them physically) that your average girl would have entered, sleep in and drink this wines. Places we can only dream or think or fantasize about yet your average girl is going there courtesy of alhajis, senators, politicians and rich guys when are male counterparts are at home reading, struggling to pass their exams so as to graduate and get good grades, go into the labour market for crumbs and keep struggling.
Many guys have never entered a plane before but their sisters, gfs have sneaked to meet a big man in abuja through plane courtesy of the man.
Many guys have never even experienced uber or bolt by themselves yet their girlfriends or younger sis have all used these things courtesy of the few rich guys.
All these things i wrote, for a guy to experience them, he will have to work his ass to save to enjoy those luxuries and even if he does raise such money, he would have suffered for that money that he will even think twice before doing those things because he is not sure of tomorrow. So he will rather go use the money to mould blocks for house or other things.
We have strength but it is not enough in this present generation

emmaodet:
Continued......................

And while the average woman is fast to scream men are enjoying and free, she doesn't even know she is more free and favoured than her counterpart.
We all love enjoyment - sex, partying, drinking, travelling (Both men and women) but women have the luxury to enjoy all these from their teen years to late 20's and from there family, marriage, pregnancy slows them down but for a man, even though he perceived himself free, most won't have the resources needed to enjoy their youths (regular cash) and from their mid 20's, they start battling life unending bills that will keep him busy into his late 40's/50's if not to his grave - He starts worrying about getting an apartment, furnishing it, getting a ride / ride regular maintenance, thinking of buying his own land and starts building something to have a roof on his head, children comes into the picture, school fees, medical, clothing, family members still dragging him in one corner, he is still thinking of investing so that he won't be a liability in his old age) before he finishes all these, he is old and very near to his grave. Meanwhile, his wife had a fair share of enjoyment atleast during her youth days but the average man will struggle all his life with all his strengths and freedom.

emmaodet:
You should understand that the life of a man is a Lonely and boring one even though we have over 7 billion humans in the world.
Right from day one, a man will have to prove himself to be a man else will be invincible to the society which means a life of scarcity that leads to simping.
We are humans, we want to be Loved because we are a social animal.
Have you been to motherless baby homes or orphanage homes before? what about prison? These are the set of people in the society that have been really deprived of love.
Any time a person decide to visit these places, there is this happiness, joy in the faces of these forgotten people. They are happy that despite there situation and condition, someone somewhere still remembers them. Those few moments - be it for the children that have never experienced fatherly/motherly love, or the prisoner that has been forgotten by family, spouse or wife in prison, they cherish and appreciates those few moments we spend with them.
That is how the life of the average man is. He is invincible, unnoticed by the society if he doesn't have resources. His family members don't respect him, is younger ones hardly go to his place or call him because they are not going to benefit anything from him and then all of a sudden, a lady he has been chasing decides to date him.
He will be very very happy. He will see the lady as is source of joy and motivation, the person that gives him strength to keep pushing and moving forward in this ever harsh world.
He will simp, simp and simp because he is suffering from scarcity.
A financially stable guy whose phone is always ringing with calls from different ladies will have a low simping threshold.