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Sure sometimes you are too horrny, your mind is idle, you are relaxed, you are lonely, you decide to masturbate and watch porn, it happens after all sex is an hardwired biological drive, it is like hunger or thirst, but don't let this natural urge make you to start simping, don't let it make you chase women and waste attention and resources on them

Remember be chosen
Aim for genuine desire

Studying about the redpill has not only taught me about the female nature but also taught me how to make women chase me instead of doing the chasing. It’s unfortunate that an average African man was taught in his childhood that men are hunters and hunters chase while women are the prize. If you still carry this mentality you will discover after so many years that you’ve spent your time, resources and energy chasing something that can’t pay your bills.

Have you noticed that when a girl chose you she does the spending? But if par adventure you start simping for this same girl that can’t stay a day without seeing you or hearing your voice she will start doing the running so that you will be the one doing the chasing and spending.

Most guys still think it’s their job to ask a girl out and if a girl asks them out they see it as odd and see her as a loosed girl but it isn’t. It simply proved that you’re the prize and important things are chased after. You can’t claim to be the prize and you’re walking up to every girl that catches your fancy. Mind you, if guys don’t approach a girl in a week or two I bet you the third week she will sleep in a church cos she will start thinking she has spiritual problems.

Why do girls think they’re beautiful, sexy, wife material, materialistic etc? Because guys have told them so. An average girl believes what guys tell them more than what their girlfriends tell them. I have seen girls that brag that they’ve sweet puss*ies simply because their exes told them so. Women feed on attention and when you deprive them of attention you deflate their pride and shakara.

Women and moved by feelings and they are fleeting and unpredictable, women can change anytime so you must do well to remember this in your association with them always improve your value and put yourself and your heart in an advantageous position

Sex is not the only way a woman shows love, women fucck for several reasons lust, security, prostitution, genuine desire can turn to hatred overnight, in your dealings with women always have rational routes that would leave you in a position of advantage regardless of the outcome like for example understand gynocentrism of western societies and put yourself in a position so you won't be burnt

Treat relationship and commitment as business, be very pragmatic, be very rational, fine you are not a machine, you are not a stone, you have to open up to women and get intimate but never compromise frame to supplicate to any woman, be very prudent in your dealings with them

Women have two deadline clocks their beauty clock and biological(fertility)clock and the wise ones among them capitalize on it and get into a committed relationship early, the foolish ones want to use nice ignorant men as retirement plans especially gullible Christians who don't have redpill awareness

DEEP

I'm not saying a woman cannot be a helper to a man or create a chance for him to excel, but we know that this is rare, and most women are around to leech on and gravitates towards available better options.

IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.

They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife.

A young Nigerian man narrates the tough decision of calling off his relationship with his fiancee after she made a hurtful statement to him about his inability to buy her a wig.

A social media user identified as I am Ekene took to social media to narrate the tale of his past relationship with an ex-fiancee.
According to the young man, his fiancee had pleaded with him to buy a particular wig for her but due to financial constraints, he couldn’t afford it.

His fiancee, however, made a statement in an attempt to guilt trip him into buying the wig, he immediately severed their relationship.

His post;
A woman I was dating and engaged asked me to purchase a wig for her.
I told her I didn’t have the resources for it at the moment.

She looked me in the eye with bitterness and told me as long as I kept “maltreating” her by denying her wants, God will keep doing same to me.

I stood up from the bed at that moment, had my bath and went to work.

I spent the whole day in introspection.
I projected 10 years into the future and I didn’t see any scenario I was going to have a supportive human as a wife or be really happy if I didn’t constantly renew my subscription with her.

I had to let her go for good. It was an extremely though decision as we had gone really far with preps to spending together for a lifetime but I knew that lifetime will be hell if I eventually sealed it.

2023 taught me a-lot and I will rather stay single or a baby daddy than settle for nonsense.”

Do well to remember that those attractive women you see on the road, that you loose focus and get sexual tension and urges, some are very beautiful but you are not useful to them, even if you approach them and collect their numbers they won't have your time, it's because they are already taken, they have abundance of options, they won't give the sex you want so why are you still lusting, that your heart tame the thoughts, remember they are nonvirgins and you are a king, you deserve better not beautiful women that are cum buckets of other men

Sex and beauty
Be on guard my brethren
Renew your mind with the pills to avoid any relapse to your simping days
These girls are hungry
These girls are transactional
Quality women exist but are rare, most women are entitled narcissistic damaged whorish without character that have passed through ruthlessly, don't let her beauty fool you is she a virgin and you want to tolerate her materialistic egoistic attitude because of sexual deprivation or because you are catching feelings (crush) for her

Women is equal money especially in third world societies where they are hungry, everyone is hungry so women weaponize sex, they want a husband to be responsible and do his patriarchal duties to get steady sex

Just know majority of guys are getting transactional sex whether it's their wives, girlfriends, side chicks, prostitutes

Yahoo boys, working class men, rich men,politicians, celebrities are all receiving transactional sex

Remember sex is fun, pleasurable, interesting, exciting, a basic human drive, a necessity, it's drive is like hunger and thirst but the issue is that it can be controlled, it's all a matter of your heart, what am gaining from seeing whorish dressed women on social media and pornography building up unrealistic fantasies and expectations, knowing that in my lifetime i can't amass that much amount of body count and get those fantasies, just wasting your sperm for nothing, any you understand that most women are transactional with sex since majority of guys beta male


Wake up from fantasy
Stop behaving like a child
Reality of your burden of performance will never live you no matter how much you fap

When you are too sexually thirsty, when you can't control your libido anything in skirt becomes attractive even the ugliest of women will become appealing, no self respect, no discipline, childishness, stupidity, you have not performed you burden of performance for yourself and family, and the women can sense it they know that you are Hot then you do stupid things, embarrass yourself because of how many minutes of orgasm

Guard your heart with all diligence for out of it flow the issues of life, be very careful whom you choose to love

The biggest mistake a guy can make is settling down with a girl that just sees you as a desperate backup plan or option because the guy she wanted to settle down with didn't want her, she doesn't love you, she decieved you to think she's interested in you, she feigned submission and arousal to make you feel like a king

Don't be in this predicament
Know your worth

A man with the resources to fund his temptations, but doesn't yield to them, is a man that has conquered himself — A high-value man

All those worthless sluts on social media using thirst trapping videos are hungry, they don't want to have sex with you, they don't find you attractive and even if they find you attractive how can you want to commit to a hoe, besides the sex you would receive is trash, transactional, they want you to be a trick, a client, an addict to their bodies so that you would slave away your years accumulate resources and spend it to get worthless sex, sex that your mind would not be settled because you are scared she's carrying std

The more you spend in terms of time and money on a woman you like whether she's in a relationship with you or not, whether she's fucking you or not, the more you think about her, the more you love her, the more you become vulnerable and weak, the easier it is to enter her frame, such financial and emotional investments build strong bonding especially if it is sexual like marriage or gf where sex is guaranteed, she becomes the core of your heart

Value your commitment
Don't use money to buy love
Guard your heart

Don't be desperate for relationship, don't be desperate for marriage, don't be desperate for sex, remember it's women that want marriage and commitment, relationship is work, responsibilities, billing, stress, emotional attachment, investments, planning, future mindedness but these majority of mordern sluts are they worth such compromise on your freedom

Aim for quality women
Build sound relationship

When you fight to win a lady you have already lost, you are in her frame, I'm not saying you should not approach women or talk to women besides you don't have wealth or status to attract multiple to smash, let her choose, approach and wait, see signs whether she's interested in you, don't just be giving women your attention and not expect at least one to show greenlight, don't pedestalize, worship, attempt to buy a girls love, it doesn't end well

If the poorest of the poor men can cherish their commitment, if majority of sexually thirsty men can control their urges, if emotional and vulnerable men can control their urges to have a crush or onetitis, I'm telling most ladies will be bankrupt, they would sit up and return to their traditional gender role, entitlement and promiscuity will drop, they would behave and keep themselves on guard

But simps won't let this happen

Women understand that many men are betas, poor low valued sexually starved, invincible individuals who would compromise their dignity and self worth because it's difficult for majority of women to find them attractive since they don't have status and are not dark triad like street boys with game, most guys are gentle, good boys who want to be responsible and court women but the issue is that these girls are having their fun in their peak years and now want to retire, our ancestors did not fight wars so that their sons would be simping for poor quality women, our ancestors were raiding villages and getting virgins as spoils of war, but you are depressed because your crush that someone is smashing for free is not replying you

Men have lost their glory

This is exactly what redpillers have been preaching on nairaland for ages, but SIMPS just like the SIMPLETON above won't listen.

A woman's love for you is conditional, she only loves you because of the gifts and money she's getting from you. The moment you stop giving her gifts and money, her love for you reduces and fades away, there she goes looking for another Scape goat to manipulate and cash out from.

Helping a woman, esp a gf is like throwing your money away. Once you stops giving, she forgets everything you have done for her in the time past, she'll even ask you "what exactly did you do for her" 😂 This is exactly why I have no pity for SIMPS who literally jump up at any given opportunity to please and impress a woman into loving them

Note; Above article is copied from redpill memes by Martinez39s

From the early beginnings of human history to the time things got more comfortable and safe, and as things are getting more comfortable and safe, one of the games of women is clear:

(1) to continuously and increasingly absolve women from any responsibility or obligation to bring anything to the table in relationships while maintaining women's standard for men's performance. (and even increasing it and making it more one-side.) This is even made socially acceptable.

(2) to continuously increase the power of women in relationships/marriage, give them authority in relationships/marriage, and short change men even as the traditional standard for male performance and achievement is maintained,

(3) as it follows from (1), to make it okay and socially acceptable for women not to improve in character, manners and attitude, and not to seek to contribute in a relationship etc. Men are supposed to be satisfied with them just being females and consider themselves lucky to have a female as they (men) fulfill their traditional roles without the authority that comes with it; men are even supposed to provide 100% and even do the chores even if the wife is a stay-at-home wife. Any suggestions that the man must provide and protect is approved; but it considered misogynistic to suggest that stay-at-home wives with providing husbands should do the chores.
(4) While the standards men must meet before they are selected for a long-term relationship are maintained, and are even increasingly increased, that of women are dropping and are intended to be nonexistent eg. unlike before, a woman doesn't have to be a virgin to be considered for LTR; unlike before, many men are dating and marrying single mothers; unlike before, many men don't mind dating a woman older than them; unlike before, many men don't go for young, fresh women, they are having something serious with evening newspapers; unlike before, men are having no problem with a woman with high body counts; unlike before, men are assisting in house chores even as they pay 100%; unlike before, men are okay with a woman who is barren etc. However, broke men stand no chance, as it has been from the beginning.

(5) Women are supposed to have standards, but men are not. Men are supposed to accept anything, while women can pick and change their minds as they please.

By nature, the game is rigged to favor women, most men will loose, that's the reality, simping will become the norm, men would loose frame, men will beg women for commitment, many low valued sexually deprived men, hungry for anything in skirt, weak men, lazy men, the standard for purity and feminine traditional role is reducing but standard to perform your masculine responsibility is fixed

The glory of young men is their strength don't waste it chasing women that are worthless especially all those sexually attractive girls that you think their beauty is golden, remember togrind, interact with women, understand them, be rational, value must exchange value, don't settle down for the worst when you are gaining grounds in the works of your hand

Most women aiming to settle down in marriage want to sell purity, humility, submission, diligence, essentially the NAWALT package but when they were in their prime they didn't care about God, they didn't care about you but why is it now that you want to be emotional and vulnerable and choose the worst, my brethens go for quality, rather die single than commit to women who want to use me as a retirement plan

Don't feel bad because you are not getting steady supply of sex everyday, it's childish obsession to want to furck 24/7, fine we have sexual urges and want to enjoy it but don't allow pornography, Instagram reels, TikTok real and telegram tvs prostitutes to obsess you with sex, they are after your money, no genuine desire sex, it's transactional, it's preying on your weakness, it's preying on your stupidity, it's preying on your ignorance, these bitches are hungry, they don't care about you, why are you viewing their bios


Remember scantily dressed women give the worst sex or take your money with no sex at all