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Men must create, men must produce, men must have a craft, men must have a trade, men must have a skill, men must be useful, men must take calculated risk, men are be strong, men must maintain frame, men must be assertive, men must be disciplined, men must be actionable, men must be bold, men must be wise,men are success objects, men must understand their value, men must respect themselves, men must respect and treasure their commitment, men must understand female nature, men must be rational.

Assume that the women you are dealing with are sexually active, so that you won't worship them, I'm a king i won't simp for any woman virgin or not, cold approach to get random girls contacts, spin plates since you don't have the SMV and status to get women, remember that redpill knowledge develops frame

Redpill knowledge reduces the stronghold nature has on you due to your natural sexual desire to reproduce, that's why many men simp, because they are sexually thirsty and admire anything in skirt, stress again they want to release, that is why redpill gives you the leverage so that you control the dynamics, it's not everything's in skirt you must want to Bleep, sexual discipline, control your sexual thoughts

No matter how attractive or sexually appealing a woman is, remember that she's not a virgin essentially someone has or is still seeing her unclothedness and enjoying her pussy whether it's genuine desire or he's using money that is not the point, she's being ravished by another man and you want to form emotional bond with such worse still she is not giving you greenlight, attention and genuine desire just because she's fyn, just because she's a spec you are moved to simp

It's well

Sure they are many sexually appealing and beautiful ladies all around in your work place, in your neighborhood but you want to form an addiction of randomly chasing them and building rapport, not bad especially since you don't have the Sexual Market Value to attract women, but if you go to clubs and see how worthless sexually attractive women can be when cash is on the table, you would understand that women aren't worth the stress, those same girls you are dying and simping for are yahoo boys sexual objects

I would keep on releasing anti-simping pills, men must wake, we are not dealing with traditional women but mordern women who are mostly damaged and entitled, we can't be responsible for poor quality materials when we are endeavouring to build ourselves in every area, remember your weakness against women are lust, loneliness, seeing them as vulnerable, admiring their beauty.

Self discipline
Control your urges
Avoid simping

Women are after value, they weigh their options and go for quality, they are pragmatic and understand their worth but you would see men because of sexual scarcity and loneliness, because they are emotional and weak would commit to the worst of the worst, simp for the worst of the worst, men lack sense even as we are rational in our dealings with other activities we become emotional and vulnerable in dealing with women.

Majority of women are average or unappealing facially that's why they use makeup, when women UnCloth for you, and you see their full beauty 7 out of 10 are at best average, and this is what you are simping for, insecure creatures that use filter, wear padded bras, wear tight and skimpy clothes, open cleavage, your imagination have been destroyed by excessive pornography, you have unrealistic and delusional fantasies, unrealistic expectations from women


Please let's be guided

Always have royalty mindset even as a broke youth, don't tolerate nonsense all in the name of I want to chase a girl that has options and is not showing genuine desire for me, even if sexless and invincible to women maintain that dignity, statistically a significant amount of women would not find a husband, women are desperate for commitment, approach women deal with women, understand women, but never worship women

Women greatest agency is their sexuality, they think their beauty and pussy is golden, some don't bother to develop themselves in other areas necessary for the long term functionality of a committed relationship but rather enjoy their agency in their prime and want to retire in their decline, entitled, narcissistic, mannerless, promiscuous, damaged, can't pair bond, that's the reality of most mordern women

Treat your commitment, attention and resources like gold, protect them by protecting your heart, don't fall in love easily it makes simping easy, control your libido, don't be desperate for sex, don't feel bad because you don't have the harem and sexual abundance you crave for, besides you don't have status, you are not well to do, so what's do you expect, but know this women are desperate for all the above long term because they expire, their beauty is perishable

Balance grinding with female interaction, always deal with multiple women, understand their nature, focus on your work, don't be a simp, if she is not understandable of your financial predicament and wants you to worship her, get rid of her, materialistic and promiscuous women are damaged and not worth long term commitment

Control your sexual urges, control your heart ( that's where your resources flow to) , be self disciplined, have self respect and dignity, always aim for being chosen, always aim for respect, always aim for value in a woman, don't settle down for less, get the best, rather die single than commit to aged worthless hoes

Give not your strength unto women and your ways to those that destroy kings, a whorish woman( online or offline prostitute), women who dress skimpishly married or single will reduce a man to poverty, they are hunting for sexually starved, sexually frustrated, lonely men to prey upon so that you feed them with value while you get transactional sex in return, a wise man cherishes wisdom while a fool spends away his life chasing women and sleeping with prostitutes, whores are snares, whores are traps, whores are pits, they wait to take advantage of your weakness uncontrolled libido

Don't because of woman ignore your valuable allies, loyal friends, family and loved ones, don't worship any woman, how many modern women are worth committed relationship whether they are beautiful or not, don't put any woman on a pedestal, she must enter your frame, she must be in your control, and it must be willing, she must show genuine desire in you by wanting to please you.

ENDS IN REGRETS MOST OF THE TIME.

A WOMAN IS NOT A TROPHY THAT MUST BE WON.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU GET HER. SEX? EXPENSES? INFIDELITY? UNENDING DRAMA?
ARE THESE THE THINGS YOU SPEND DAYS/WEEKS FIGHTING OVER WINNING A LADY FOR?

TRUE ATTRACTION MAY NOT BE PERFECT BUT IT COSTS LESS WHEN SHE'S ACTUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU. WHEN YOU FIGHT TO WIN/CONVINCE HER YOU'VE ALREADY LOST OUT BEFORE THE START OF THE RELATIONSHIP.

ANYTHING SHE SERVES YOU, SHE BACKS IT UP WITH "SHEBI I INITIALLY TOLD YOU I WASN'T INTERESTED, YOU COERCED ME".

ANYHOW YOU LOOK AT IT. BEGGING OR FIGHTING FOR A WOMAN'S LOVE OR ATTENTION IS A MASSIVE LOSS. IT'S WHAT SMALL TEENAGE BOYS DO BEFORE THEY BECOME ADULT MEN.

No matter how beautiful a lady is, always remember to avoid simping, acting like a fool and pedestalization she's not a virgin, rubbish boys are potentially done with her, they are many attractive women more beautiful than her, I'm a King I won't worship any woman that doesn't show genuine desire in me, that doesn't value me, that doesn't respect me, I would rather die single than spend my whole life trying to appeal to the sensibilities of a woman who sees me as an option and has no feelings or respect for me

Control your sexual thoughts by controlling what you watch, replace addiction with another addiction, fight fire with fire it will aid you in your war against pornography and masturbation, on the road control the way you look at attractive women,tell yourself what am gaining from enjoying nude or semi-nude women I can't furck, replace such thoughts with quality thoughts the same dopamine pleasure you get from it is similar when you attain a set goal, socialize with friends and family, learn a skill or an hubby, don't waste time on lust it's destructive

Don't commit to a woman out of pity, or emotions, be rational, view relationship like a business, yes two of you are having fun and enjoying each other but don't get distracted, remember the burden of performance is on a man, the cost of building family is on the man, other responsibilities are on the man, marriage is work, don't be childlike in your approach about it

Your commitment is precious, broke average or rich don't just give it to any woman, focus on quality, choose the best option

Women are abundant but valuable men are rare, men with frame are rare, traditional men are rare, redpill aware men are rare, too much beautiful women, develop yourself economically and make sure you don't become a fool when success come, don't start simping, control sexual thoughts so that thirstiness won't make you simp, control your eyes it's the gateway to your heart, don't develop an habit of lusting for anything in skirt, it's dangerous besides you can never furck them, everyday on social media, on the streets for the rest of your life you would always see sexually attractive women, but don't worship their beauty in your heart, you must respect yourself that only valuable vetted women or women that choose me worth my commitment

When you are not socializing,grinding or relaxing, build your knowledge base, especially on social media, take in quality materials that would transform your mind improve your vocabulary, don't just waste your time on things that won't profit you, especially when you have spare time asides your relaxation time, for example go through this thread on quality posts from time to time to deepen your understanding on female nature

Happy new year
Self discipline
No simping
Control sexual thoughts
Grind Grind Grind
Be contented with your labor even if it's little
Don't envy criminals and oppressors
Take care of your health
Develop social skills
Be close to family
Reverence God

Remember guys society doesn't forgive you for being broke, women ignore you, and you are not progressing with your life, time is going, you are constantly refreshing social media instead of educating yourself on self improvement and female nature you are looking at breasts and clubbing ( do it once in a while for relaxation but it should not dominate your day), you are simping for a girl that has options instead of you to spin plates and get girls that find you attractive, you think you are lonely because you are not getting steady sex instead of you to realize that body count memory will fade away as you age instead it's your legacy that people will remember you for, please let's not waste our time, learn female nature, focus on the grind

*NEW YEAR STRATEGIES TO AVOID UNNECESSARY PRESSURE IN 2024*

1. Put your kids in
schools you can afford
because expensive
schools don't
guarantee good
results. Just ensure
they attend a good
affordable school💯

2. Rent apartments you
can pay for
conveniently. Don’t live
in a house you struggle
to pay yearly.💯

3. Let’s plan our lives and
live within our means.
Save more and spend
less.🏆

4. Some women buy food
for their children every
morning before going
to school or even for
the whole family, do
you know it’s cheaper
to cook at home?💯

5. Some people don’t
earn much, but have
DSTV at home, go for
GOTV and upgrade
when your income
upgrades. It’s still the
same CNN anyway!💃

6. Eat healthy meals and
protect your family
from mosquitoes to
avoid going to the
hospital always.❤️

7. Take advantage of
food and fruits in
season, its cheaper
and you can be
creative to create
amazing meals.☀️

8.Don’t copy your
neighbor’s lifestyle,
she earns well and her
husband is a ‘big
man’🏆

9. Don’t follow trends,
wear clean well-
ironed clothes and
keep your hair neat.
You would still look
good.💯

10. Keep your circle
small, keep only
friends that have
senses!💃

11. Above all things, have
the fear of God, have
integrity, don’t be lazy
and be prayerful.👑

12. Planning is the key, if
you fail to plan, you
plan to FAIL.💯

13. Don't do more than
your budget this
Time, ther e is no 🥇
award given to best
family that wore an
expensive cloth for
the year💯💃

14.Don't be in
competition with
anyone...
The purpose of shoes
and clothes are to
make us smart and
good. 💯💃

Thanks for reading and have a wonderful and blessed year ahead.
Happy 2024 and remain blessed with your families 🙏🙏🙏🥉💯🏆☀️

This is our year of great fortune

CaveAdullam:
Sent.

Received you are welcome

CaveAdullam:
Thanks, man.

Much appreciation.

You need to send your email. Let me give you a free copy of my ebook.

Well done.

My email;
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CaveAdullam:
Nope.

Did Instafx one time and my money disappeared.

Notwithstanding, I'm open to new ideas and progress.

Thanks.

I have transferred the money
Take care

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If you come here later, I must have removed my details.

You can drop your email or send me mail through this nairaland account. Or (germaneson@gmail.com).

Probably, I can catch your mention in micro-seconds again.

Thanks for the kind gesture.

Pls the account number let me send it directly, I'm not used to email

Good afternoon boss, CaveAdullam
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