Wealthier:
Hi Nairalanders,

Permit me go straight to the point. So I've been praying to God earnestly, with tears since I was 25. Up till now that I'm clocking 30 years this month. It seems God doesn't want to answer my prayers to bless me with my husband.

I have fasted, prayed, cried, sowed seeds, join others to celebrate, sow seed in theirs and yet I'm still not taken seriously.

Honestly, I've begin to lose faith many times and already planning to be a baby mama as soon as I earn more money.

Before the age of 24, I wasn't thinking about marriage. I majorly wanted to be done with school and get a job because I do not want to be a liability to my husband. The whole thing though, there were no serious suitors , but I wasn't worried. I had a boyfriend then of 3 years but I knew we wouldn't end up together because he was too focused on being an Activist, his communication became poor. No matter how I complained about it.

I started to become afraid when I clocked 25 and saw that most of my friends were engaged. It dawned on me that no serious man is seeing me. I believe I am pretty , doesn't dress extravagantly and not materialistic. Infact the other guy I was hoping we would be serious together told me he doesn't have money for marriage, I told him money will come but he insisted he couldn't start a relationship with me. This was when I was 25. At 26 , 27 up till 28, the same reasons I heard.

What exactly is wrong with me?

Finally at 28, I met my current bf. He seemed very serious and into me until I started to dream about marriage and started to talk to him about it. Today we had serious quarrels, he broke up with me just because I wasn't happy with him that he didn't try to greet my mum on her birthday. I thought he was taking things serious after telling me at the beginning of this year that we would have our court wedding this year. He told me he's not ready for any marriage anytime soon, that he can link me with his friend if i still want to marry this year. We have resolved the issue , but I'm not sure I love him anymore. I'm just rolling with it.


I'm clocking 30 years this month and feeling so much like an evening newspaper.

I'm just here feeling bad and dejected. Why does it take so long for God to show me mercy?

I'm somehow regretting not joining my female friends in double dating and then go with who's more serious.

Not one, not two or 3 of my friends did this same thing and they are now all married.

Honestly, I feel so much like a loser. I guess I may eventually just try to get kids of my own once I earn more money.

I feel depressed whenever I see couples together. I've had to rub away from my sanitation group in church because of a particular young couple in my department that I'm beginning to get jealous of. Like , will this ever be me?

I've been attending couples seminar since 2021 and northing yet. Is this how another 5 more years will add to my life and everyone will officially be calling me evening newspaper.

I've told my family to not judge me when I find a way to have my own children cos I'm tired of crying to them and they shouldn't ask me where is my man.

If there's any prophet amongst you. I'd really appreciate a word of prayer. Seems God doesn't care of my feelings.

Please ignore my typo error. I typed from too much pain

lets meet,i stay in port Harcourt. Where do you stay?

Mrnairalandd:
See Igbos roasted… The wicked shall die like this

Seun,mynd44,lalasticlacla.This person is towing the line of bigotry and hatred for a particular tribe.

LeoDeKing:
Enugu again?

Seun Mynd44,Lalasticlacla, this tribalist has brought tribe Into this tragic thread. Does accident not happen anywhere in the world? What a question by saying "Enugu again?

Nonsense!!

Long over due

REDshouse:
Why in a hurry, wait for May 29 where he will appear an be sworn in as President of Federal Republic of Nigeria while another president will also be sworn in as president of social media/Biafra/Obi.diots

Cc Seun

ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?

You are a foolish weak man to even have such a thought of bringing in your mother in-law after what your wife has done to your mum. More so, that your friend who advised you is even more foolish. I don't know why we have so many weak men these days, it's a shame!!

Pojomojo:
Check the first page and see how you can join

The what's app group I saw there is not opening. Do your have another?

Pojomojo:
Anyone can get it. Hope you have joined the WhatsApp group

How do I join it?

Nawaoh for some people oh. Did musa invite himself to the national team?

Rigged Election. From 133k adding 16k gives you 160k? No wonder the collation was delayed. Lp will retrieve the mandate in court.

Acquiredollars:


B.A. English is recognized as a teaching qualification in the UK. The challenge is that you won't be allowed to write the PQE without a certificate in Education in Nigeria. Invariably, you can't apply!

I have a degree in Engineering bro, can I also apply since I do not have a degree in education. If I can apply, how do I go about it without the TCRN?

IyaTola:
Chap Shap!!! Time no dey again o! With wetin I see for last weekend elections, do everything to leave this country.

Thats my motivation Iyatola, honestly no hope for we Naija.

IyaTola:
=N= 85K

I guess your sister is in lag. I am in port Harcourt, I will visit their office before the month runs out. What course did your sister study in the university?

IyaTola:
=N= 85K

Thanks

IyaTola:
Money speaks a lot in this country, my younger sister has TRCN she just a flight ticket away to UK

How much did she use in acquiring it? You care to send me a mail?

IyaTola:
This is Nigeria, Did you see what happened across the country on Saturday, everything and anything can happen

Lol,you are right though.

Homeboiy:
Nsukka zone vs Nkanu zone

We go show them say na we get Enugu state

Which zone u dey suport

OAOA:


Yes, you can apply. You'd be able to teach primary school science if you don't qualify for Biology

Bro,can someone with just engineering degree apply for TCRN?

Rubyjade:
This is a golden opportunity. Utilize it well

This Tcrn cannot be gotten unless you have studied education right? I have a degree in engineering and I want to apply.

Wainey:
For me, I lost the interest to go out and vote not because Tinubu won.
No, he was the second candidate who I preferred after Atiku and I somehow believed he will win.

The election across the federation was full of tension, the rivalry was interesting and the results shows that oppositions fought well and Tinubu's victory wouldn't have made me lost interest but then it was Rivers state results that demoralized me.
Everyone here in Rivers State knows that the state is a battle ground for PDP and LP but that isn't what happened.
Infact if not for Rivers state results, the presidential election won't look like it was rigged and we would have had hope in our electoral system but Rivers state was just a hope killer.
Wike made it obvious that he rigged it just to pepper Atiku but what he did was to pepper a greater percentage of Nigerians.
I actually voted Sha after much persuasions from people.

You are an idiot . No sane human should ever support a tinubu presidency.

Wike using boys going round town collecting ballot boxes

helinues:
GVR the oni failure of failure land...

lol. Nairaland keypad warrior insulting a Lagos governorship candidate,Son of the soil for that matter. Social media has really emboldened some clowns I swear.

Prof mahmood Yakubu has always been a thief and a corrupt monster. This is the major reason the dullard appointed him as chair of Inec..

Banilla:
I don't want marriage tho.

I'm all you crave for but my issue would be where you are located. I'm no fan of long distance stuffs.

. Wike is a very funny and dull man.. If you want to rig,rig with sense.

. Wike,haba! This one too much now

Dey play. Na money I dey find to use Japa from this country, cos as e b now Tinubu don win and the division and hatred for the country don multiply. In Rivers State here,people are upset and angry. People are frustrated.. Omo e no easy

Wike just gave him the vote to douse tension. It is on record that wike threatened, terrorised ,harassed and forced collating agents to tamper with the results.

Kam2021:
Make una calm down. I'm not pro APC but I think Tinubu will perform better than Buhari in all areas.If he emerges the winner NOTHING will happen to WIKE.All the candidates are good and have done well.My only problem with him and his wife,is the lack of proper way to talk to people and agberoish politics, aside that,he will work.
Make una forgive WIKE,I still believe he weighed the benefits of a Tinubu presidency. Let peace reign.

So you support this rubbish plus a Muslim Muslim ticket.. God go punish you

For Wike mind now he has won.. Time shall tell.

hartson:
Reason why He constituted 200,000 foot soldiers to rig election in all the wards.Wike know that We the Obidients are smarter than him.Many people have the right figures handy.
Unknown Gunmen have seen all this rubbish that's why they were burning down Inec offices.

Wike is a disgrace bro. He is among the most hated humans living in pH right now. He should not celebrate too early