₦airaland Forum

Nowenuse:
A british jamaican has now become a real african man?

nelsont1:
Is Jamaica in Africa?

No, North America I think.
Thought the girl is the Jamaican.
Thanks.

adadike281:
Married women, abeg, stop starving your men of sex o unecessarily coz if they ever lay their hands on dis intimacy gadgets, my sister ,' sorry' is your new name

Lots of married women have already laid their hands on intimacy gadgets.

Does it change the fact that there are ashawo there, operating under another name? Or is your problem just the slay queen?

Would you feel better if they change name?

Saintsammurai:
Guys in naira land don't attack for no reason.

Very true. The ladies attack for no reason.

Crises?
Or Crisis?

Mid life crisis in women happens often between ages 20-30?
That's a new discovery.

Saintsammurai:
Hmm these are the real Nigeria ladies, so fresh and frosh and not the ones insulting guys on nairaland

Exactly.
She won't be attracted to the guys on Nairaland attacking women everyday. That's why she went for a real man.

Real recognises real.

Saintsammurai:
99% of them are hard workers..

Very true again.
Your Maths teacher did a good job.

futurism:
I asked you again, why did she refused to provide the guy's number when someone volunteered to help her get him off her doors but warned that she may never get access to him again if she ever changed her mind in the future? I need answers...

You should ask her.

NaeChris:
Thats the reality with a realistic example. Broke girls attracts broke guys and vice versa. From observation and survey, more than 80% of Nigerian ladies in particular depend on their guys for almost everything (whether na cause i noo know), this implies that such percentage of ladies are indeed broke. How would you know them? They avoid guys who are working towards financial buoyancy and stability, from their statement you know them. Eg, ''say no to broke guys'' etc.

Very true, because more than 80% of Nigerian guys are rich.

futurism:
Why are you so fixated in washing pants? I don't understand.

Why are you finding it so difficult to understand that the issue is she doesn't love him? Has nothing to do with him being nice!

Eveezy:
It doesnt mean u will end up wit a man who will treat u worse nd neither does it mean u will end up wit a man who will treat u better. There are limits to which a man should do in his attempt to woo a woman, washing panties is a limit for me. I personally love cooking, so if i cook for a lady nd she assumes am so much in love nd doing everything to please her, shez on a long thing, some other men could see washing panties as ntin, bt d lady could capitalize on dt. Do not ever mistake a nice guy attitude for being a fool, he may love u today, nd tomaro he doesnt, nd d gal may continue living in d fake reality dt she is d most special person in his life, let dem believe d lies dey tell demselves.

Nice point there.
The issue here is the girl doesn't love him. It has nothing to do with him being nice, she just doesn't love him. It happens everyday, and some people are forced into dating or marrying someone all because he or she is nice! Dating and marrying out of pity

You're trying too hard @futurism.
The partners of the married section people may have started off washing pant. We have more tales of people who went from good to bad after marriage...nobody said anybody is weak either.

futurism:
When you marry a man that doesn't give hoot about you, you will give any thing in the world just have a guy like this... we don't appreciate things we get with ease.

Story story ...
Like there are no guys that are in between.
Some examples you guys come up with,
Drains the IQ.

Respect people's choices and quit issuing threats.
I don't need a man to wash my pant and cook for me to show he loves me! That doesn't mean I will end up with a man who doesn't give a hoot about me. Think!!!

She doesn't love him not because he is good, but because the love isn't just there, some other girl might love him.

Jman06:
The truth is that many of you think that when a guy is in love with you and doing everything to prove his love that he is doing that because he has been rejected by other girls and so he is trying so hard to get you. This thought triggers the feeling that you are settling for a reject, hence the negative feeling towards the guy starts. This is so even when the guy might have rejected other girls for you.
Guys who understand this psychology hardly show it when they're inlove.

Oga, nobody likes an overly servile human being.
Male or
Female!
EOD

Jman06:
But you can wash for your husband atleast

Seems the only thing you read from the whole write up was the pant aspect Didn't you read where the girl said the guy is so nice to her in all aspects?

The guy is nice to her, she doesn't love him.
That someone is nice to you, doesn't mean you must stay with him.
That's pity, and love isn't pity!

It doesn't mean her next guy would be abusive.
Neither does it mean she can't love another good guy.

She just doesn't love this particular good guy.

tunde82seidat:
And what if they were the wrong choices

English is broad.
Wrong choice doesn't necessarily mean the man.

Wrong choice could be decisions she made in the marriage.
How they handled issues...etc.

Wrong choice could even be, going into the marriage without being prepared for it. It doesn't mean the man is the bad, they were just not the right choice for each other.

Overflogged topic.
Who is a good girl and who is a bad boy?

Jman06:
So you won't wash your guy's pants?

I don't see anything wrong in washing ordinary fabrics.

How many guy's pant will I wash in the name of dating?

Feel free to wash, that doesn't make you a good guy either.

Where do you people generate these weird facts from?
Ladies don't like nice guys?
A nice guy is someone that washes his gf's pants?

You as a guy, would you like that kind of nice girl?

Pls!
Nobody likes someone that's so servile.
Someone who doesn't have a mind of his...or her own.
Let's be truthful and stop making everything a ladies problem.

emusmithy:
You think I don't know that?
However, when you mature and grow in wisdom you'll understand that life isn't just White and Black. There are Grey areas too. It takes wisdom to identify those paths.

I repeat: he that is without should first cast a stone. When Jesus said that, he considered the man's wife.

Save that thrash.
If in all your wisdom and maturity,
you're sympathetic to a paedophile...
I rather not grow like you.

Perverts everywhere!!

Daboomb:
[s]The man did wrong and to sleep with a 13yr old is really reprehensible, though l find this story to be "Made-Up" by the femminazzi crew. ALWAYS TRYING TO DEMONIZE MEN.

All the long story about "funding his business" is just to extract leverage and sympathy!


Having said that, the woman has the right to opt out of the marriage, that remains her right and choice.

Where l have "issues' are:

1.) Claiming the children as her "exclusive property": The children belong to both parties. That the man misbehaved does not deny him the right to his children

2.) Running away to another place (without the husbands knowlege) with the children: Women need to understand that this is KIDNAP.
You cant run away with the children UNLESS a competent court has granted you EXCLUSIVE CUSTODY of the children.

Maybe this story was written to 'fly a kite', that Women own the children of a marriage. Sorry, dead wrong and Dead on Arrival.

One must also wonder why is it that "THE CHILDREN" are denied any say, in whether they feel more comfortable continuing to stay with their dad or want to run-away with their Mother?

Women just take the children, not because they actually love the children more or can take good care of them (as she will soon run to court now and start shouting "neglect", and that she wants Child Support money! ) ...........but because they see and know it as an EMOTIONAL PUNISHMENT for the man and to use the children as a Weapon and means of extorting money from the estranged husband.

The Man should report her at the nearest Police station and declare his children KIDNAPPED; Then seek a Court order to arrest the "Kidnapper", anywhere she is found. [/s]

It's not by force to comment.

I doubt it was a rape case.
Most likely consensual,
But that's what you get when you roll with teens under their parents roof.

emusmithy:
It's easy to say all sorts of things...
It's very easy to point fingers at other folks doing things less worse than what you're doing, JUST BECAUSE YOURS IS STILL IN "secret".

It doesn't justify the man. He's a paedophile. He is evil. Heartless monkey!

Who are you in the dark? Just because his has come to light doesn't make him an evil beast. He couldn't control his passion. If you are controlling yours, be the first to cast a stone.

I can only pray that God help him and still save the marriage.

Plz, leave God alone.
God did not tell anyone to have sex with kids. Paedophiles are on the lose, kids are not safe and you're saying he isn't an evil beast?

He is a beast, same as other paedophiles.
You won't type this if it were your daughter.

Dicey one, ask lalasticlala.

praxisnetworks:
Remove omawunmi from the list

Lollzz. Why naw? She done change?

Epositive:
we still have the likes of ed sheeran, sia e.t.c but here in naija...

Here in Nigeria, you still have Timi Dakolo, Bez, Omawunmi, Cobhams...Asa, Darey... even Banky get sense small
But do Nigerians patronise them?
Do they even call them for shows and multiple endorsement deals?

Praiz started off 'good', but changed genre along the line.
Harrysong also started off good, now he's singing Samankwe.

One person blew by singing meaningless lyrics, others had to change pattern.

Olawales93:
Can you please help if you have an idea of how I can contact them for a reschedule.
Thanks

012701595

SEEDORF441:
dis girl go like flashy marriage
save ur money for it

Nothing can please you guys.
No need even trying...

Apart from Nigerian girls, what else do you guys talk or write about?

Social media has done more harm than good.

Speak for or against...

These millennials post everything on different social media platforms.
People don't know what's privacy anymore?

Unidentified man?
Could it be a pained ex?
Maybe a doctored chat?

It's a serious issue all the same. Infecting someone with the virus deliberately is a serious offence.

BuddhaPalm:
Confidence is a default state...

We were all born with it.

Yes, ego based confidence comes from "previous success", but it's a weak type of confidence.

And once you're in the presence of those who have achieved more than you - of which there are many - your ego based confidence will evaporate.

You want your confidence to be based on self-esteem. Which is the stable, dependable kind.

For a man, looks don't mean much.

Despite your "looks", if you can walk up to the most beautiful girl you can find, completely relaxed, look her in the eye - without flinching - and embody what you feel. The effect you'll have on her will astound you.

Finally, personality really is everything. I will put my money on a guy who is resourceful, bold, good-natured, focused and driven than on a fool with money.

And trust me, so will many women who are looking for long-term mates.

Women get married every weekend, are they all getting married to billionaires?

Are all the girls with boyfriends also dating billionaires?

Thanks for schooling them.

This one is before and before
...no difference. She looks more beautiful in the before.


No wonder it's 'afted'.
Looks suitable for burials...

Very romantic topic...