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honestly, that's the perfect gift you could give her right now. you know your girl better than all these people giving you suggestions. I would prefer my boyfriend getting me grape juice and a drama flick ( little things I love) than the traditional chocolate and teddy bear every girl gets at least once in her dating stage.I'm impressed |
You can't always live your life pleasing other people. You love him very much, that's good. but does he love you? out of love, he should respect your decision and even encourage you to keep yourself for him on your wedding day. Its funny when I see situations like this because it never ends like he says. if you follow your heart, you'll have no regrets. there's much more you can get from sex. a lifetime disease, pregnancy, and this be your cross to bear alone. My current boyfriend encourages me to stay pure because he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. he should support you, not make you feel guilty or pressured. |
I'm not sure about hairs on the back but I personally like hair on the legs, a little on the chest and a happy trail ( hair going from chest to lower stomach). everything has to be medium to little though |
You're the cause of your problems. I'm a girl and even though my boyfriend is amazing like you, I love and cherish every single thing he does for me and make sure I acknowledge it. but usually, girls don't like when a guy is at their disposal. I don't like it either but my boyfriend doesn't even go that far. you do everything possible to keep the relationship going & that's a pathetic guy mentality. be good to your girl but have some type of backbone. don't provide everything she asks for, don't open up until you are 1000% sure of her feelings. don't be so available, don't be at her doorstop everytime. restrict yourself thoroughly. females want batman, not robin meaning an alphamale, not his sidekick. |
I'm planning to marry young. I've luckily already met the guy so when we are both fresh graduates with promising careers, why not? So yes, I do believe in it. |
this is her husband we are talking about here. if she's really a deeper life sister, she should submit to her husband and do what he requests. it's not a sin to wear bum shorts for your husband. they own each other's bodies. |
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I will remember him as being the most logical, hard-working man ever. I hope I marry someone with those traits |
You are the one that will be living till death do u part with this woman. If u want to live your life to please your parents because of their shallowness and greed, go ahead. Keep in mind that your fiance will move on and marry a guy that has some guts to say no. |
Closing my mouth when i smell something bad. I feel like I'm eating the smell if I open my mouth..if that makes sense. Complaining of stomach pains most times after eating. I never liked eating as a child and always complained to get out of it. I guess it stayed with me. Avoiding touching door handles Breaking chicken bone to eat the marrow..mommy did it when I was 5..and that was all it took |
I'll make sure we both watch marathons of lifetime movies based on boy meets girl, boy tells girl he loves her, girl swears boy loves her, girl opens legs, gets pregnant, contacts HIV, then dies. I'll show her real live video of all sorts of STD. Then il make sure I know the boy, they are stalked and monitored. And a tracking device will be placed in her butt when shes a baby..incase of imcasity..until I trust my daughter |
Why would you want to change her faith? Doesn't she believe in the same God you do? Other people fall for muslims and ask if that will work but you're here asking if it'll work out because she's not in the same christain denomination as you. As long as she loves God, that is what you should be looking for. Religion and relationship with God are as different as night and day. Stop being shallow and look at the love she has for God. |
Not open to it at all. I'll hang out with them and stuff but not marriage. I love my culture too much and I want it passed on to my children fully. |
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2 to 6. Still doing 2 |
Some truly think that thats the way they show their love for them. Others are scared to leave because they know what the guy is capable of doing. Some are getting some type of advantage from the guy and the rest think that's the best out there. I personally will not think twice to charge with assault and end relationship sharp sharp |
This will probably be the worst decision u make if u go ahead with the arrangement. Some people are lucky and see signs of a jealous, controlling, manipulative partner and run and some are un lucky because of pretending. you have seen, and if u can't tolerate this during your courtship, what makes you think you will tolerate it for the rest if your life ? Now it will really be your fault because u knew this before saying I do. P.S there are alot of caring loving guys in the world |
From reading 1/4 of the story, I can already tell the guy is going to use you. I thought older people are the wiser ones.. |
About 3. In the case of guys I've "talked" to thats another case. But finally got it, or him either way |
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I dont think theres anything wrong with giving my bf a rose. As a matter of fact, I think its an added gift idea. Just as how girls do not usually propose to their partners, girls do not give flowers to men. Its not a taboo or anything, its just not usually done |
If you really love her and don't mind marrying a divorcee, then go ahead. If I was you, I honestly wouldn't because I'll always feel like second best. She knew I loved her with all I had but still went on to marry some one else. divorcees ar not the latest thing. Most people would not prefer them. She knows her worth now ghats why she wants to"settle" for you. thats what.I'm thinking though. on the other hand, you guys could be made for each other and she just made a horrible mistake. What ever decision you choose, you will have to live with it for the rest of your life. No pressure, choose wisely |
We ARE special beings ![]() |
Lol this was me a week ago. the reason I kept telling my best friend I didn't want to be in a relationship was cause I thought I was going to feel trapped. He stopped being as friendly as he was and said he was going to give me some space. I didn't want any space ad that was it |
If you dont want wahala just leave this mans wife alone. What else? Ignore her calls and advances and appreciate the fact that she named her child after you that's it. you don't owe her anything |
Taking his time in everything he does |
They might feel intimidated my the"fine" girls so unsubconsciously they tend to gravitate where they "belong"? I personally dont believe ugly girls exists |
I disagree. Courtship based on God's will is the best. God said do not be un equally yoked so how else are you going to know if someone is an authentic christian except through courtship. At least thats my view on it. I |
Love, youth, health |
You yourself know the answer to the question if not you won't be asking |
I would call my sister |
As I read above, I think you should start by taking them the status of your job requirements and youth service are too demanding. Later, tel them your being offered a job at another area and act as you'll miss them and such. Move as soon as possible and still contact the police just incase. I thank God for revealing himself to you. dont worry, ask God for the help and protection. |
