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I say Amen to ur prayers Twayin.

God i pray that u bless me, make every crooked way straight in my live, make evry imperfections perfect for me, bless my hands, let it yield good fruits. i pray for a very good Job, a good husband, a good home, a bright future. Bless my unborn children &make them convenant children.Let my heart long for U always & please God Jehovah Draw nigh unto me. In Jesus name i pray, Amen.

There's nothing like a perfect Man or Woman or a perfect relationship either, U just fall in love with an imperfect person & try to love perfectly.

But are somethings u get annoyed at, in his/her attitude that u hope/wish to change. Surprisingly this imperfections makes the relationship actually very interesting.

For me, i wish i could change the fact that he procrastinates a lot.

Lets hear what u hope to change

I admire some people here on nairaland wit their strength of character put into mere words. I have preferences though but i'll save d best for d last.

thanks gal, i'm ok with msn

@easybaby
u want to yab me abi, abeg i'm not good at it. Point of correction I'm using d latest Pc version, u could think of, but i don't simply have yahoo messenger.

@topic

God knows i dint know it was u again until i posted a reply, & i thot this guy would really think i'm hell bent on eating him. I don't have yahoo msg. on my Pc

@easybaby
how u dey?

In Africa its different they don't want to know anything called 21st century, they only want to repeat what their fathers did.

Please tell them marriage is for better for worse

U forgot one

Natural happiness----God's love

In Africa, once u get married people start looking at d woman's stomy, ok may be not d same in d western world, but here, they want result & so if u r not forth coming its hell on earth. They don't want want to hear "its a decision made by u & ur hubby, talk more of its not forthcoming". They just want children, even if its ok by u or not. believe me they could end up messing up d marriage. And guess who d "people" are, ur own family members.


Africans always want to see their children, even d widely reads. u'll be surprised dat the professors & d intellectually tight people in ur family, will turn their backs when d time comes.

I'lld love to see my Kids

@ Bolarge

I'm sure majority of women we have out there, while in there relationships know & can tell the capacities of their intended husbands, no matter how short a rel is prior marriage u would have noticed some particular traits in the hubby to be. Now most of these ladies intensionally ignore these things probably for what they stand to gain in a relationship/marriage or they wave it off, taking it as trivial. Now in the long run after marriage these things which she has intentionally waved aside due to selfish reasons or on d note that "he'll change" , Now turns to be d evil in their lives.

Ladies should watch, open their eyes and access d person their going to marry, waving things aside usually end up being detrimental, a woman that has a hubby who flogs her, or sleeps around, or do drugs, has definitely seen little things while courting that gives the guy away, but they stay put, & suffer in silence.

Women should know where to draw d lines

Happy Birthday, I admire people born in this month, wish u d best.

Puh! i don't wanna be a nanny

It is basically understanding, perfect understanding of each other, Even if u decide to seperate account, a marriage that would breakup will break, if 50% of earnings is joint if u guys don't still understand ur selves it won't work out. Joining ur account howbeit is not a measure for true love, though but i'lld want to be entitled to every aspect of my spouse's life (same as mine). If he brings the idea up, its really going to be fine by me, when we r married.

i think this solely depends on two of u, many people don't find it easy. Its definitely not a measure for true love, but based on understanding. I think I'lld love to do that.

@siena that's really good

An avenue to ease stress

@ $$rhino the truth is, a girl be it a virgin or a non virgin would not want a virgin guy when eventually she's gonna do it. guys hide d fact dat they r virgins anyways, especially if there is no valid reason, to have remained one.

Nope sorry, u got it wrong there, dat's why i said its not general, its not d usual d way 2 a man's heart. I'm talking about d way 2 ur woman/man's heart. I'm not talking about d stomach here but little things u do that tickles his fancy, maybe drives him crazy, or maybe makes u receive a faster response, to what u desire Dats all i'm saying here.Lol

i believe u can love two people at a time, d only difference is dat one will definitely be preferable to d other.

@ Seun, wot is it wit u, what is it wit u gan self, bone ur status here or administrator shit. Ur replies are usually off it & very narrow. So if she's circumcised she's not it abi? Do u know if ur sisters are circumcised or have u asked ur girlfriend if she is? Na wa for u o

Can he be digging something else

quite touching!

@yimton

Kids of nowadays don't have d brain u had then, ok maybe d same brain but quite smarter & sharper. They know what they are doing, don't be surprised dat they even know d consequences of what they r doing. The world is polluted. God is just d saving Grace.

interesting but only when u r watching a movie?

Yeah Dat was really funny, i almost fell off my seat in d office.

Lol This isn't the question of love, but lust, lust for ur money.

We are not generalising this one, this is about ur own special man or woman. Just tell us d

way to his/her heart, which makes d other do wot will please u.

As for me, i easily get him by my softness, the softness of my voice & d look in my eyes.

let's hear urs

Its ok to be stubborn as a guy, but be reasonably stubborn

Just wake up to reality

You have only 6 girlfriends, u don't like 400


Good idea though (sex free thing) but maybe u were not using it under d right condition. We don't even know anything thing about this girl, did she really buy your idea? what was her views/response?, if positive did she demand, or showed some negative signs later?, Did she change prior her dating someone else?. She might not even be in d new relationship for sex. May be its just u.