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Please don't crucify her obviously she's new, here & she wouldn't come here if she knew what to do, except its framed.

@ poster, they are both not worth it, screw them.

Its not wrong for a man 2 cry after break up, they should cry cry cry cry cry cry for as long as they want

who ever said they should not cry, did God attached a particular sex to crying, abeg they should even suck their mother's breast after crying & cry again.

There are still good guys, open ur big brown eyes girl.

May be u've been checking all d right places, its d wanna bes that are there, even in churches they pretend.

Check d odd places. U find hidden treasures in odd places. i could have ignored my sweet heart, 'cos i met him in some odd place but thank God i look'd deeper.

This topic could really be a cool one, but the word in bracket just tripped me off. Ok so what if she's a virgin, & so what if she's not. A lady is hot tempered, then she is, being a virgin or putting it in quote does make her well packaged.

Seems u people don't understand something here, a virgin would end up losing it one day, & d fact is that the hot temper is still remains Or ths bad character. Don't see this Virgin thing like a road to an "ideal girl" or an ideal future, i just wonder why its included in the topic.

Some people have left their their so called wild girlfriends who has realised her ways & changed, to marry a virgin who is well packaged wit evil characters & end up regretting.

Wit the streams of virgins topics flooding this land, u guys make it sound like its the road to success. Yes i'm in full support of Ladies keeping themselves, but guys beware don't jeopardize ur future. Its no key to a successful marriage.

Sorrry , o, i just checked d site, d guy is not even fine self. Abeg d girl should bone jare.

Ride on, I'm enjoying this

Ride on, I'm enjoying this

Both way round

u are right, very right, but dat doesn't mean u shld keep doing wrong & lie to protect ur

relationship, becos there is something called nemesis. it does catch up.

@iice i stil gbadun u, jare, correct gal

U guys are a crazy bunch.

@Rhino u were beginning to think normal until, u went gaga again. is it a touch, some partial contact.

Abeg u guys are giving this fool so much attention. PLEASE DON'T REPLY HIM AGAIN. He's obviously enjoying this.

@ Poster.

It shows u are a guy full of lusts not love. U see d young & juicy lady, calved out in a subtle prettier physic, properly shaped & naive compared to what u see in d elder sister. so u want u dig ur evil claws on her abi, and u say u love the younger one now shebi?

U know what poster, i won't see u as evil, i'll see d younger sister as evil if she complies to ur skims. U are not the only guy in d world so why should it be u

its people like u dat get married & draw their wife's younger sister's pants around d house. Kilode gan self.

@Ibdat u are my person jare

@ rhino, i'm waiting to see u one day in dat ur trailer sound of a car u've got. Just don't run o, cos i know ur face. Please just drop dat talk of car na car. I repeat there are cars and there are CARS.

I know someone that her boyfriend had a car that always had problems, not only dat it was old had some extra ------lets save it. She eventually had to tell her boyfriend she preferred that they walked or cabbed. Meanwhile d poor guy was trying to impress. So u see

Women, women, women, are we d only ones on this earth?, why shld we be d ones u men shld know stuffs about (pasts, virginity, bla bla) oya all of u i give u d assignment to go & start tellin your partners about not what u did in d past alone, but what u just did, even recently, while dating.

Please give us a clean break, i think its just advisable to move on, what ever could have happened to a guy or lady is in d past. If u want to know what her/his life really was, u make ur enquiry be4 u start dating, not while dating & used as a bait 4 a break up later.

Na wa o

eeya for u o, so what if something happens dat, u can't manage to maintain dat car u seem to have, or u dont have the car anymore, may be stolen & u can't replace so fast (abi is it beans to snap ur fingers & buy a good car), that stops u from having a girlfriend abi or u tell stories to some girl u meet that bla bla bla becos u want to keep a car owner record.

Many of the guys writing on this thread yes of course have cars, yes, even if its d one coughing out d whole carbon monoxide in Africa, with big thick layers of smoke. there are cars & there are CARS.Abbegi lets hear word, If a girl can't be wit u when u don't have a car, she simply can't stand tryn times.

to ladies, hey, If ur Beau has a car good, If he dosn't nt bad, sure its a necessity, but above all make sure he is a guy wit potentials. CIAO

Why can't i date a guy without a car, presently i'm dating a guy witout a car & he sure has 100% prospects of having one real soon. We've been together from school & both graduated last yr. He is Doctor now & i'm working too & I'm so chiling wit him. Or is it becos i want to be associated wit a guy in a car dat i end up getting a no future guy, driving around his father's, cousin, or neighbour's car.

But @ poster are we talking about a guy wit his own ride or his borrowed ride, becos even if its from his father, it is borrowed. I'lld rather prefer a guy dat used his money to buy his car.

U're ok, nothing's wrong, but was it dat u never found any promising young lady thruout the time u were in school, or nevr admired? A school environment is where u could easily, ok, even if u dint ask any girl out, not one of them admired u?

Pls o, If this guy hadn't gone to a university we could say mumsie is still holding him, he has gone to school oo ehen! Lets have another think.

@ebiyehi

I enjoy the maturity u used for this poster. he's just a dumb dumb do do nso

It reveals that ur reply came out from a mind filled wit pains. I really wish i could lend u a shoulder at ur present state of mind, but don't worry God makes everythin beautiful in his time. God will lift u up when u least expect, i believe u deserve something really good. God gave me a wonderful guy when i least expected, he's gonna do d same for u.

I don't know u but my heart feels ur pain.

Na una sabi

Just change ur attitude towards him, to an unpleasant one. Tell him u can't date him & be firm about it. no joke, don't watch out for reactions. Be firm.

A lady can tell if she actually would never need a particular kind of guy, so why not lay him off.

Distance relationship, is a really big issue. It works yeah, but when there is very high percentage of Love, Faithfulness & Trust.

But when the months turn into years, just know dat when u guys eventually meet, u'll be learning how to know the person all over again. Phone calls is not entirely enough. Ciao

Let me start by saying text msgs have ruined so many relationships, good relationships heading for the altar, which could be sent by some riffraffs or some vagabonds meaning absolutely nothing to the owner of the phone. I have learnt not to capitalize fully on what i read in txt mesgs (although it culd be a hint) to start a quarrel, i have learnt to look at the a numbers dat call d person & how many times d calls are retuned, (this is a faster way).

With the way we came about this situation it deeply shows u have strong feelings for this lady. Seeing her faults now shows that she has actually pushed u to d hardest wall. In ur previous misunderstandings u haved often used ur heart, but i'll advise u to be patience & observe more. open ur eyes, then u could see wot may be more convincing or maybe not.

I f u think she's not really up to ur level, as u'v seen so much mistakes n her already, i'll advise u not to marry her becos u'll see more when u get married.

My sweetheart was getting bored of this town he knew nothing about (Ilesha-Osunstate).He was in a clinical assignment with a group of friends from OAU teaching hospital, so he was counting d remaining two weeks to be over so that he could go back to his school. He was in his final year in medical school at that time. I also had something doing at that particular time in Ilesha, & so we met through a friend of his & mine. When we met, he saw me like i'm a queen dat just dropd in his life, we had a perfect flow, he was so natural & down to earth, & i just kept tripping, He said i came at a perfect timing he was so sure i was for real.We were happier to know we were both based in Lagos. He asked me out, but i had to sort my self out, he needed an answer becos we were soon going be out of that town. On my last day in that town, which was also his last he asked again, i was sure this time & gave a 'big nod'

When we got to Lagos he took me straight to his parents, i was the first girl he was ever introducing to his parents(I'm sure going to be d last). He is now a Doctor & i'm loving him evry single day. I'll let u guys know our slated day for our wedding.

@ naija cutee

yeeeee gbeleee, u are too much.

or shld i add my own, abeg u've finished him jare.

@ poster All d female in ur generations r cursed.

u need a girlfriend abi?

so that u can use ur school fees to take care of her abi?

U try.

please lets note this,

A relationship is not only right when it leads to marriage. U could have a very good

relationship, but u need to part ways due to some reasons & u still care for each other.

marriage is just an accomplishment to a good relationship.