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Celebrities / Re: Zlatan Ibile To Release A Song Trolling Tacha With Her "Body Odor" (Video) by Jloveme(m): 7:32am On Sep 28, 2019
chocolateme:
This musician is a fool for making mockery of someone else in such manner..
No one knows the inner battles that young lady is passing through, she may be depressed and covering her limitations by her physical behavior.
Its who his or her own is open to the world that becomes the victim. Some of us has more limitations than her.
Instead of people to look beyond bbnaija game to judge her, they now choose to be body shaming her.
I am sure that if you go closer to this musician, he will be oozing of permanent weed and alcohol stench but here he is using another person to shine.

The question is does she no herself know she has inner battle. Stop coming out here preaching insane minds, rather go to tacha's handle and advice her to get rid of bad manner because that alone can destroy any man.

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Celebrities / Re: I Belive She Will Grow To Be A Better Woman - Mr 2kay Supports Tacha by Jloveme(m): 7:26am On Sep 28, 2019
Praizenewsgist:
Despite being denied and rejected by so many celebrities supporting Tacha before, Me 2kay insist and still stand to support Tacha after being disqualified for dighting with Merxy in Bbn house. In his lates post he said he belived Tacha will grow to be a bbetter woman.
He wrote


Just continue to believe. Dreamer! You no believe in Mike, you no believe in Elo, you no believe in omatshola but na olosho you believe in. Who is Mr 2kay bu the way. Abegi
Celebrities / Re: BBNaija: Why All The Hate On Tacha? by Jloveme(m): 10:09pm On Sep 27, 2019
Akanapiaigwe1:
I'm not a fan of this show Infact i don't follow it except the one lalasticlala used to update on fp

but i just watched the quarrel between Tacha and mercy and i must say those wanting Tacha disqualified are just doing so out of hate and envy

no wonder big brother no put mouth

if you're honest with yourself you'll see that Mercy is the one at fault here both of them where exchanging quarrel and suddenly she started throwing her hair to the face of Tacha which made her drag it she did it twice and she has motives of provoking Tacha to fight
after Tacha drag her hair she pretended not to fight her and did the same thing again.

Let's be truthful forget sentiments
this is the hight of every braw and provocation and no human being can take that i mean what mercy did nobody will control his or herself to the provocation Infact some will even do worse than that.
so makes me wonder why all these against Tacha
obviously mercy sees her as threat hence she did that to provoke her to fight and get her disqualified.


I guess the action of big brother is the best since the show is just few weeks to end

but mercy fans make una fear God a little
you guys are just making that girl Tacha more popular just like CeeC haters taught they where pulling her down only for her to be on top more those loved housemates.

What's this one saying....I will forgive your ignorance because you said you don't watch the show. But next time be sure of you are saying before you come on this platform to hear your clownish view. We are not all illiterate out here
Romance / Re: Catch my fiancee exposing our stuff to her ex by Jloveme(m): 11:44am On Sep 27, 2019
areee:
Dear op, I think the girl is right about you. You are not man enough certainly.

Stop sounding like this..he needs constructive advice, that's why he came here...you don't know what he's going through.
Sports / Re: "Alex Iwobi Is Not Yet Ready For His First Start" - Everton Manager, Marco Silva by Jloveme(m): 12:33pm On Aug 23, 2019
marvin906:
truth be told this Everton squad is too big who iwobi one bench

Honestly when he starts playing regularly this your mouth go dey bench. Nonsense

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Sports / Re: "Alex Iwobi Is Not Yet Ready For His First Start" - Everton Manager, Marco Silva by Jloveme(m): 12:31pm On Aug 23, 2019
Minjim:
So what has he been doing at Arsenal? Didn't he have a preseason with them?

You no watch AFCON? Abi dem blind your eye.

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Sports / Re: "Alex Iwobi Is Not Yet Ready For His First Start" - Everton Manager, Marco Silva by Jloveme(m): 12:30pm On Aug 23, 2019
Rilwayne001:
He's obviously not happy moving to Everton, but then he was totally useless in Arsenal.

Oya which winger better pass am for the yeye arsenal team?? Respond now oo before Ogun keee you their. Nonsense

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Politics / Re: Meet Sunday Dare, Buhari’s 53-Year-Old Minister For Youth & Sports (Photos) by Jloveme(m): 10:13pm On Aug 21, 2019
helinues:
And nothing like sports in his profile

Ministers wey no sabi there portfolio until today!! Yeye country
Politics / Re: Meet Sunday Dare, Buhari’s 53-Year-Old Minister For Youth & Sports (Photos) by Jloveme(m): 10:12pm On Aug 21, 2019
helinues:
And nothing like sports in his profile
Celebrities / Re: Dwayne Johnson 'The Rock' Weds Lauren Hashian His Girlfriend Of 12 Years (Photos by Jloveme(m): 5:56pm On Aug 19, 2019
nairafamedotcom:
American actor, Dwayne Douglas Johnson, also known by his ring name The Rock, ties the knot with his girlfriend of 12 years, Lauren Hashian.

See more Photos Below


SOURCE https://www.nairafame.com/2019/08/dwayne-rock-johnson-ties-knot-with-his.html


See how modest a wedding is! Chai...with all the millions of dollars the Rock has in his bank account! Even sure is richer than our mr president.. we need to learn as a country from all this developed countries that wedding is not about going into debt or impressing that you are exhibiting the nation's wealth.. Its about happiness, fulfillment. God help Nigeria

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Celebrities / Re: 'Nigerian Naomi Campbell' - Yemi Alade Dazzles In Long Pleated Skirt by Jloveme(m): 8:44am On Aug 17, 2019
Zeelov:
Singer Yemi Alade stuns in this beautiful appealing outfit as she rocks a pleated skirt with black camisole couple with blue chic jacket. She paired with a pair of yellow stilletos. She shares the photos with the caption:

'Nigerian Naomi Campbell'

See more: http://www.balfashion.com/2019/08/yemi-alade-dazzles-in-long-pleated-skirt.html

See photos:


Very rigid a lady.
Celebrities / Re: Pregnancy Photos Of Maria Okan, Olamide's Baby Mama To Be by Jloveme(m): 8:42am On Aug 17, 2019
247Trend:


OAP Maria Okan took to Instagram today to share her pregnancy journey photos ahead of her speculated childbirth.


Starting off from her 6th month baby bump, the former Beats FM media personality ended her series of posts by jokingly saying "she's tired". Here are some of the photos she shared below;









This is coming amid unconfirmed claim of YBNL Boss Olamide being the father of her baby. Recall it was alleged that the MTV Shuga actress had entered into a romantic relationship with Olamide with the belief that he was single and separated from his baby mama, Bukunmi. Pulse reported that the romantic affair between the couple wasn’t planned to be short-lived, but it began to fade away when Maria found out that the YBNL boss was still with his baby mama and long-time partner.

More Photos ==>> https://www.042hits.com/olamide-baby-mama-to-be-oap-maria-okan-shares-her-pregnancy-journey-photos/


All this dirty girls...be sleeping with yeyebrities just to get pregnant for them! Sanity now in the gutters
Celebrities / Re: Wizkid Deletes All His Posts On Instagram, Fans React by Jloveme(m): 8:23am On Aug 16, 2019
24hourNigeriane:
Nigerian superstar, Wizkid, is no doubt ruling in the entertainment industry as he can boast of a large fan base


- The singer whose lifestyle has become the concern of many fans recently deleted all the posts from his Instagram page

- This has led to fans asking questions on social media as they wonder why he made such a move

One of Nigeria’s top artistes, Wizkid, is one celeb who can start a mini war on social media if another artiste dares to run him down. The singer’s fans have shown with time that they can go above and beyond for the star boy.

For this reason, it is not surprising that Wizkid’s lifestyle has become the concern for many die-hard fans as they continually follow up on his life as displayed on social media.


However, the star boy recently raised concerns among fans after he deleted all the posts on his Instagram page. See a screenshot below:

https://bigbuzzpanda.com/fans-react-as-wizkid-deletes-all-his-posts-on-instagram/



He don HIGH
Sports / Re: Moses Simon Joins FC Nantes on a season-long loan deal by Jloveme(m): 8:21am On Aug 16, 2019
Mrcomedimatic:
Super Eagles Winger, Moses Simon has joined FC Nantes on a season-long loan deal from Levante UD

The French Ligue 1 side have the option to sign the winger on a permanent deal at the end of the season.


Source: https://ngg.ng/2019/08/15/moses-simon-joins-fc-nantes-on-a-season-long-loan-deal/

This guy! His story just make me laugh. Small time you'll read about him progressing then next he's back where he started. That's the always the story of a player who never improves.

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Sports / Re: Where Frank Lampard Got It All Wrong by Jloveme(m): 10:06am On Aug 15, 2019
Futbolpundit:
Reasons why lampard lost tonight

1: lack of technicality - kloop knew why he didn't start firminho along mane and Salah rather goes with OX, was thinking lampard would have trained to curtailed the trio but noticing lampard brought an open game decided to quickly introduced firminho in the second half the brainbox of Liverpool's attack

2: delay in making changes - This was a game a moment of brilliance would have won, kloop brought all he had on the bench likes of origi, firminho wilnagdum and Arnold if he had anoda changes shaqiri would be introduced as well but Lampard kept the last changes he would have brought Willian or batchuayi a moment of brillainace would have sealed the game before 90mins,instead of playing Pedro 90mins, There's even Caballero self to save penalty
I stand with Chelsea.

Keep the Blue Flag Flying High
KTBFFH


What's this one saying? Klopp that came out publicly to say he made a mistake starting ox! Chelsea had two goals disallowed. Mr man Chelsea was the better team on the night.
Celebrities / Re: Anita Joseph Shows Off Her Boyfriend: "The Man Behind My Smile" by Jloveme(m): 9:25am On Aug 10, 2019
GisterBlogger:
Anita Joseph finally showed off her boyfriend on Instagram months after she was spotted in a bathtub with a mysterious man.

Describing her boyfriend as her 'King man and the man behind her smile', Anita Joseph added that he is the most handsome man in the world. She wrote;

The microphone magician “
My King MAN
The choosen One
The best of the Best
My Brownskin Man
Obim Nwokeoma Nkem Dimkpa
My Love the Most handsome man in the whole world
the man behind my Smile.


She also shared a loved up video which came with the caption;

MY Men
MY Heart
MY Home
@realmcfish you want egg sauce too


See more photos here; http://gistmore.com/the-man-behind-my-smile-anita-joseph-finally-shows-off-her-boyfriend

This is girl & attention be like 5&6..Disgusting thing is she see herself as the most beautiful lady in nollywood! With that her irritating iboishhhh accent!
TV/Movies / Re: Bbnaija: Tacha’s Burnt Knuckles And Knees Sets Internet On Fire by Jloveme(m): 6:15pm On Aug 09, 2019
linx123:
Big Brother Naija housemate, Tacha is causing a stir on the internet after the camera zoomed in on her and images of her black burnt knuckles and knees seemingly from using bleaching products was obvious.


Recall that there have been speculations that the housemates, who gained her fame from posting raunchy photos and videos of herself, whitened her skin as some nosy Nigerians fished out some of her dar photos.

Some fans, however, have risen up to defend the controversial housemates with claims the image was edited and they love her like that.

See the post and reactions......


Source: https://janefblog.com/8027-2bbnaija-tachas-burnt-knuckles-and-knees-sets-internet-on-fire/

I guess that's why she smells. PUKE!!
Sports / Re: Alex Iwobi May Have Joined Everton, But His Last Goal Is Absolute Rocket by Jloveme(m): 11:23pm On Aug 08, 2019
OduntanGabriel:
the only Nigerian player in the premier league top 6 club......when are we going to start seeing our players in real madrid, man city, Barcelona, Liverpool etal







#wolialara

Don't worry, chukwueze & oshimen will make us proud soon. Mis den Manu, okocha, babayaro, yobo, aiyegbeni & later Mike. Those guys gave us so much to look up to in the EPL.

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Crime / Re: Why We Killed Three Policemen On Covert Duty "Nigerians Army Revealed" (photos) by Jloveme(m): 9:19am On Aug 08, 2019
Maniagist1:
The Nigerian Army on Wednesday offered explanation for the killing of three policemen on covert duties in Taraba State by its personnel.

The explanation was offered in a statement by the spokesman of the Nigerian Army, Colonel Sagir Musa.

The Force Public Relations Officer, Deputy Commissioner of Police Frank Mba, had earlier in the day said three operatives in the Inspector General of Police Intelligence Response Team, headed by DCP Abba Kyari, were killed by the soldiers in Taraba State despite identifying themselves as being on covert operation to arrest one Alhaji Hamisu, a suspected kidnapper.
Hamisu was said to have been involved in several crimes, collecting N100 million as ransom during one of such operations.

However, Mba said as Hamisu was being driven to the Police Command Headquarters in Jalingo, they were engaged in fierce shooting by soldiers, resulting in the death of three policemen, a civilian and the escape of the suspect.

But Musa countered Mba, saying the IRT operatives refused to stop at three military checkpoints and then engaged the soldiers in a shootout.

He said some villagers had raised the alarm that the operatives were in an unmarked bus and refused to stop at the checkpoints, which resulted in the soldiers giving them a hot chase.

On the unfortunate incident that occurred on the 6th of August 2019 in which troops of 93 Battalion Nigerian Army Takum pursued and exchanged fire with some suspected Kidnappers who indeed turned out to be an Intelligence Response Team from the Police Force Headquarters Abuja on a covert assignment from Abuja resulting in the death and injury of some members of the Team.

On the 6th of August 2019, the said Nigerian Army troops, while responding to a distress call to rescue a kidnapped victim exchanged fire with the suspected kidnappers along Ibi-Wukari Road in Taraba State.

The suspected kidnappers numbering about ten (10) and driving in a white bus with Reg No LAGOS MUS 564 EU refused to stop when they were halted by troops at three consecutive check points.

The flagrant refusal of the suspected kidnappers to stop at the three checkpoints prompted a hot pursuit of the fleeing suspects by the troops.

It was in this process that the suspected kidnappers who were obviously armed opened fire at the troops sporadically thus prompting them to return fire.

In the resultant fire fight, four (4) suspects were shot and died on the spot while four (4) others sustained various degrees of gunshot wounds and 2 others reportedly missing.

It was only after this avoidable outcome that one of the wounded suspects disclosed the fact that they were indeed Policemen dispatched from Nigerian Police, Force Headquarters, Abuja for a covert assignment.



Source; https://maniagist.com/2019/08/08/why-we-killed-three-policemen-on-covert-duty-nigerians-army-revealed-photos/

And no statement about the kidnap kingpin that escaped? We go all carry gun lass lass I swear! Unable still think say omoyele sowore dey craze abi? You better all be ready & prepared. Zoo of a country

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Celebrities / Re: Toyin Lawani And Teddy A In Native Attires, Spotted On A Movie Set by Jloveme(m): 5:05pm On Aug 06, 2019
Mrop:
Controversial stylist Toyin Lawani and Bbn star Teddy Aall dressed in a native attire while Teddy A was dressed as a king and Toyin Lawani as the queen. They were both pictured on a movie set that was sponsored oby their brand.

See more below

Gist From Praizenews ; http://www.praizenews.com/toyin-lawani-and-teddy-a-in-native-culture-attire-spotted-on-a-movie-set/



You and this old grandma, after you don propose! I pity bambam
Celebrities / Re: Anita Joseph Slams Friends: I Won't Apologize For Having A Great Body by Jloveme(m): 4:57pm On Aug 06, 2019
hitng1:
Anita Joseph took a dig at an unmentioned friend for gossiping behind her over videos she shares on Instagram "in which she shows off her body".

The actress stated that she won't apologize for having a great body and further alleged that this friend does hers hiding and also wants her body so badly . Anita wrote;

Some one that I know somewhere Sat and discussed me with some peopl How I make Videos and show my body. Your lucky I don’t even do it naked
That same body you want so so bad, Am not gona apologise for having a great body at all...

Am actually a better persn than you. You gossip me behind and come to me and blow me cool breeze !! Ndi aruruala !!

Shame on you .. my God found you out .. And again am a better persn than you are. You just prefer to do urs hiding oshi. And you know this so get the Bleep outta here

https://www.hitng.info/2019/08/i-wont-apologize-for-having-great-body.html


But this lady like pork meat can deceive herself sha!
Celebrities / Re: Iyabo Ojo Birthday Message To Kemi Olunloyo On her 55th Birthday by Jloveme(m): 4:56pm On Aug 06, 2019
Nollyzonenews:
Nollywood Actress, Iyabo Ojo took to her Instagram page to celebrate retired journalist, Kemi Olunloyo on her 55th Birthday Today.


She shared a video of Kemi Olunloyo with a caption saying..
I'm glad you Loved it � ..... Happy birthday sis @kemiolunloyo wishing you many more years in gud health, happiness & riches ❤ Enjoy your special day 55 sure looks good on you �



Source: https://gidifeed.com/see-iyabo-ojo-birthday-message-to-kemi-olunloyo-on-her-55th-birthday/

Get well soon sis kemiolunloyo
Celebrities / Re: Patoranking Surprises Lady With Dubai Trip, An All Expense-Paid by Jloveme(m): 4:55pm On Aug 06, 2019
GistCandy:
It seems Nigerian artistes are now in the business of surprising their followers. Davido, Don Jazzy and now Patoranking.

Reggae-dancehall singer and songwriter, Patoranking took to his twitter to gift a random twitter user an all-expense paid trip to Dubai following a tweet she made two days. The user tweeted "I'll travel to Dubai next year. Speaking into existence." on August 4. However, Patoranking responded to the tweet today and assured the lady of an all-expense paid trip to Dubai if she has a visa. He tweeted "You don’t have to wait till next year...if you have a valid passport let me know you can travel anytime...all expenses paid."

As you'd have expected, this display of kind gesture shown by Patoranking cannot just go without attracting mixed reactions from other users who have numerously flooded the tweet with congratulatory messages and prayers towards the singer.

Source - https://gistcandy.com/patoranking-surprises-user-with-an-all-expense-paid-trip-to-dubai/

Him don got free kpekus! Chai..owu na bastard
Romance / Re: After 14 Months Of Refusing Man's Advances, Lady Messaged Him Again (Photo) by Jloveme(m): 4:51pm On Aug 06, 2019
holuwertobex:
A Twitter user has shared a screenshot of a message he received from an old crush months after she refused his advances.

@Segun_Odunayo said he asked the lady out and she refused. He moved on and they lost contact. But months later, she got back in touch with him then sent a message questioning why he didn't try harder after she refused his advances.

Twitter users have slammed the woman and said her action is what causes men not to understand consent and respect women's decision.

https://www.hitng.info/2019/08/man-shares-message-old-crush-sent-to.html


With this your jumper suit?? Wonders shall never end
Religion / Re: Church Banner With Archbishop Benson Idahosa As Guest Speaker Causes Stir by Jloveme(m): 11:55am On Jul 29, 2019
Gistring:
Banner advertising Church's revival program has web users amused because of the guest speaker promised

A banner advertising a Church's revival program has caught the attention of web users because of who the guest speaker is.

According to the banner, Archbishop Benson Idahosa will be a guest speaker at the revival which will begin from August 1st 2019 and end on Dec 31st 2019.

Problem is, Archbishop Idahosa died in March 1998. Lol.

See more here; http://gistmore.com/poster-of-churchs-revival-program-causes-stir-over-guest-speaker-promised

Does this kind of person looks sane to anyone? Or who organizes a 150days revival if not a jobless fellow.

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Sports / Re: John Mikel Obi Returns To Training Ahead Of Clash Against South Africa by Jloveme(m): 12:13pm On Jul 08, 2019
freemanbubble:

I tire o

I dey shame for that boy
Back pass master and also slow like injured snail or injured sloth

Who go believe say na him and them Fernando Llorent, David Silva, Cesc Fàbregas, Roberto Jimenes, Lionel Messi, Sergio Agüero, juanfran, radamel falcao, Felipe Luis were age mate and even played youth ball together

I dey shame for that boy i swear

U dey shame for am based on individual trophy o his overall achievements in world football? because i dont know what u mean exactly with this derogatory statement! A player who has wonAfcon,Epl, CL,Europa,FA cup,Carling cup,olympic medals. Shoukd hold his head up high. He has done well
Celebrities / Re: Simbee Davis Who Accused MC Galaxy Of Raping Her, Says It's A Joke by Jloveme(m): 12:27pm On Jul 03, 2019
naijaloudmouth1:
Actress Simbee Davis, the lady who accused MC Galaxy of raping her in 2010 has shared rejoinder to her claim which she said was a joke. Read  story here.

According to the singer and actress, she has been sharing her songs online but no one cared to re-post until a scandal was involved.

Simbee Davis who shared a video of herself having drinks with her friends, also told everyone affected by the stunt to forgive her. She wrote;

So I’ve been posting my songs online and no one ever bothered to repost it, no blogger reposted my songs or video, but now scandal is involved everybody don carry simbeedavis, abeg ooo, @mcgalaxy is my brother, no be every news dey real, make una help my tag @mcgalaxy and tell am not to vex, tell am sef to add mouth for one of my song make me sef blow, if no be him nobody for hear my name, for all the bloggers eh, make una blog this one ooo, use same energy you used to promote someone’s downfall to promote my songs and God will bless you. Any one affected by this stunt I pulled please make una forgive me, bottom line is, galaxy is my brother oooo.

Peace and love...

https://naijalatestonline.com/actress-simbee-davis-who-accused-mc-galaxy-of-raping-her-says-its-a-joke/

This fool had been threatened!!
Celebrities / Re: COZA Pastor & Busola Dakolo: Licious Rika Speaks On Rape Allegation by Jloveme(m): 8:13pm On Jun 29, 2019
FlirtyKaren:
Controversial Instagram influencer Licious Rika has blasted Busola Dakolo for coming to open up on her alleged rape incident with Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of the COZA church.

Licious Rika in her reaction via a video she posted on Instagram, said Busola ought to have healed and moved on, and she was supposed to consider her children before coming out on social media to expose the pastor

Watch Video:
https://lailasnews.com/busola-rape-as-married-woman-you-shouldnt-have-come-out-licious-rika/


God has given biodun enough long rope to repent but hr didnt..now its checkmate for me! That gift of God on him is about disgracing him. SAD
Family / Re: My Neighbour Punishes His 16-year-old Daughter By Stripping Her Unclad by Jloveme(m): 3:16pm On Jun 25, 2019
sapien:
When you have your own daughters, lock them indoors, strip them naked, flog them mercilessly with horsewhip whenever they err.

Rubbish!

Why are u this disturbed and bothered? How old are u & are u dating her

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Politics / Re: Festus Adedayo : The Festus They Thought They Could Pull Down by Jloveme(m): 9:47am On Jun 21, 2019
seunmsg:
Guy is just a clown. This silly attempt at damage control is dead on arrival. You are down already. APC supporters only dragged you into the mud where you rightly belong. Only men of very low morals who lacks principles and integrity goes about lobbying a government they criticize so much for an appointment.

My brother..shame on u for this ur write up! Way back in history are d few left with morals are been persuaded to join hands in eradicating d rots in d system! Maybe u didnt read d part he was invited for an interview! My brother, they are invited for such jobs because of the morals they stand for! So no damage done to his reputation rather he has just use d pen to once again write himself in history book as one that will stand and be counted when this country will stand and be counted in d future

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Politics / Re: Festus Adedayo : The Festus They Thought They Could Pull Down by Jloveme(m): 9:32am On Jun 21, 2019
respect80:
This piece isn't for lazy readers...

If you read till the end, you will notice what a mockery of competence and intelligence by this APC government...
This man is a talented writer but APC chose to sacrifice competence and intelligence on the sacrilegious alter of ignorance and shamelessness

God bless u. Nice piece....Its not buhari..its those poitical glutons tha surrounds him.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: This Was How I Lost A Bank Job Opportunity Yesterday . I Hope It Helps Someone. by Jloveme(m): 9:29am On Jun 20, 2019
AGManuel:
I write this with tears in my eyes but I won't cry because a man is not supposed to.

If really I was such a bad person , I hope to change and live a better life. But to deserve unemployment because of a past situation I found myself in which I couldn't help, I think it's too much for me to bear, but what do I know? maybe I deserve to be unemployed.

But if I tell you I'm not depressed, I'm lieing .

Last year I got a marketing Job with a bank few months after my NYSC when things were extremely hard . Even transport money to go for the training was hard. On the first day of training, on my way home, I lost my phone which was the only thing of value I had then. Safe to say I began the Job phoneless , cashless and frustrated .

Even money to buy bank wears and appear smart or serious was a case . No transport for work, no phone for my work and marketing, no clothes to wear, I'll leave out feeding coz I could control that with starvation or one square meal. My mom was only able to raise small cash for me which most times didn't last a week, transport to and fro was 400 naira, a plate of food was 300, before I get transport for marketing , airtime and transport to call and bringing customers to open accounts and running around on the job which was money intensive, anybody who worked a as marketer before can relate...all these with a huge target of 30 accounts to open and a target of 3 million to bring to the bank.. At least I'm expected to spend 1k a day on the Job which I have not been paid. Remember it was my first month and most banks don't pay in the first month, it's in the second month they combine your salary and pay. Pay was 35k. I was just frustrated.

All these struggles manifested in my performance coz I couldn't deliver and my first two months was a mess coz some days I just couldn't go to work. Sometimes I came to work late coz I had to look for transport money in the morning. Being able to come to work and survive was my main concern then, I fell sick many times out of starvation and it affected my Job. On one occasion or two the Branch manager assisted with stipends when I complained to her about my struggles. Most times the stipends only lasted a day or two but It was a life saver for me coz there was no other option, at least I was able to come to work and eat the next day. Fellow colleagues couldn't help, nobody could, I dropped shame one day in the board meeting and asked for help for we the new staff and how hard it is for us to keep up with the Job. I got nothing.

Not too long after, I resigned to pursue something else . I traveled.

Only for me to come back after 8 months for another bank Job interview and when my former Branch manager was called as a referral, the one I complained to about my struggles and reasons for my underperformance , the same one who assisted me sometimes and this was her reply "He's unserious, indiscipline and unfit for the Job. I was not supposed to hear that but the interviewer put it on loud by mistake and I heard that part before she quickly put the phone off. Immediately I knew I wasn't gonna get the Job.

It hurts me so much, dad is no more, mom a widow, siblings in school calling me day and night for money being the first son and bread winner. If I'm unserious and irresponsible, I can change & become better. No matter the circumstances I faced, I can't make excuses for that. But if I was such a terrible person to deserve unemployment . I let God be the Judge. The interview happened yesterday.

I'm back to the unemployment table guys. My advice to every young hustler out there is to do their best on any job they find themselves no matter the circumstances. But my prayer is for our pasts not to deny us our future bread. We go make am last last.



Touching...Almost brought me tears..Everyday struggle of an average Nigerian youths. Always pray against destiny destroyers, they are all around us...they are our friends, neighbours, bosses, families. We let our guards down when we are around them. The downfall of a man is not d end of his life, get up very fast qnd get over it.

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