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That's how one babe I wanted to marry is regretting right now. I loved this girl with every life in me. I kept begging her to accept to marry me but she remained indecisive. Because she's a nurse her shakara was just too much! Then I met the lovely angel I'm about getting married to. Immediately I got committed to my fiancee and stopped calling the other lady, that was when she now started her own chase but it was already too late.

This is how most unmarried women today lost their potential husbands and are now forever single and bitter! Nature does not forgive such women who dumped or turned down their God-ordained husbands for mundane reasons.

This is going to be deadly, especially for a country like Nigeria where healthcare is at its poorest state! A country that would build hospitals without employing enough qualified health workers to run the hospital!

A country that plays politics with virtually every aspects of healthcare! Go to some of our public hospitals and you'll discover that they lack adequate healthcare professionals even though we continually churn out these professionals every year!

Another major disease outbreaks in this country would be very disastrous!

Lovit:
Las las na the woman go lose

The politician will now avoid her to protect his political image; he can't even wife her. The husband will definitely divorce her

That's why wise ladies don't cheat on their husbands! It's not worth it. They are usually the biggest losers eventually.

Any wise married woman would never cheat on her husband because the consequences are always too much on the woman when caught. She's the one who gets disgraced out of her matrimonial home and in most cases, even the man they cheated with would dump them immediately they get chased away from their marriages. Every other man would see them as not being capable of loyalty..

Such women would carry the stigma wherever they go. In many cases sef, they end up dying due to abandonment. Now, ask yourself as a married lady, is it worth it? Just a few minutes of pleasure that you could get from your husband.

JOAofAfrica:
Blame your wife not the man.

Both the shameless man and the love peddler of a wife are to blame!

And the mumu man is still being addressed as "Rt Honourable"? For going out with another man's wife, the randy man has lost every shred of honour attached to the office he's occupying!

You dey mind the yeye man? This is someone looking for talents o. ₦1.9M per annum is not even up to 200k per month! Imagine paying such peanut to the so called talent occupying a strategic role like a quality assurance manager? With all the inflation and high cost of everything in Nigeria today?

What kind of stvpid thinking is this? Because some of you choose to marry debauched men you now go about insulting all men for your poor choices in men?

I see this as an insult to the noblemen of our society!

Many of the high flying workers in various sectors of the Nigerian economy today did not possess all skills in the world before they got their jobs! In fact, post colonial era, people got into jobs with the lowest credentials but have succeeded in building themselves and getting established in various industries in the country today.

Employ the best brains we have and let them improve their skills on the jobs! Stop giving us excuses!

Those other police men are either accomplices or they're very daft! If I were in that team as a police officer, I would have fired that murderfackker if he failed to listen to me not to shoot the guy.

These ones would be fast to tell us what roles men should play in marriage but once anyone talks about women's roles they'll start trying to shift the goal post.

SeaTrade:
Preventable, not treatable.
Lenacapavir is simply a 6 month lasting PrEP.

Aside being used as PrEP, it is also used in combination with other HIV drugs for treatment purposes. That's why you have it both in the oral form and as injection. It does damages to the viral structures and is capable of significantly reducing viral load.

Samantha125:
These are just mores that can be found across all cultures in the world... Anyways, I'm done here.

Bye bye.

Bye, my Samacious Sama!

emperor4love:
bro don't wait for that shit, pls remain negative and save ursef from stigma and constant dosage, play safe much important

I don't even play away match. I'm hooked for life

Meanwhile, with the introduction of LENACAPAVIR into the market, HIV will soon become easily treatable like malaria.

If the reverse was the case, that's where you'll see our pseudo feminists calling for the man's head. Now that one of their own was the culprit, you won't hear their voices.

Samantha125:
What do you have in your culture apart from paying bride price and hosting classy weddings?🤔🤔🤔

We take very good care of our women. Our mothers-in-law come for omugwo visitation each time our wives give birth to a child.

Samantha125:
But you must first pay for damages before concluding with the wedding preparations since you've already impregnated her out of wedlock and disrespected her family, or you don't have such a practice in your culture?

We don't have such practises in my place

Samantha125:
Okay, if you say so...😏😏😏... But you must go and pay her family for damages since you impregnated her out of wedlock.

And thanks for the clarity regarding tramadol pills.

I have already started the marriage rites and in a few weeks time, I'll conclude the wedding.

Keep deceiving yourselves! Attend your ex's wedding to go and pepper yourself the more and to see if you can successfully tear his young family apart. If I see any of my exes in my wedding, I'll place them on security watch throughout the occasion and they can never come an inch closer to me and my wife.

Samantha125:
Pharmacist? Having been taught about women's reproductive system has never stopped women from fooling men about their virginity... ... There are literally pills and creams for tightening the vagina and as a pharmacist, I expect you to be aware of this...🤭🤭🤭

But let me digress a bit, can one purchase tramadol pills at any pharmacy without a doctor's prescription in Nigeria?

I'm aware of the tightening creams and stuffs but rest assured that my girl never used any of those.

To your question, no. You cannot buy tramadol pills without prescriptions in Nigeria expect in states where there's weak enforcement by the pharmacy Council of Nigeria (eg Enugu). In most other states with tight regulations, you won't be able to buy it unless prescribed and signed by a licenced prescriber.

Samantha125:
Oh! Which field of healthcare are you in? For all we know, you might be an optometrist or a dentist...😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️

I'm a Pharmacist and I was taught Anatomy and Women's reproductive system in school.

Samantha125:
I'm asking because that's how some cultures do it here in SA, if you're gonna say you're a virgin and keeping yourself for marriage, the elderly women from the guy whom has made his intentions known will either conduct a virginity testing on you or take you for virginity testing to confirm the virginity.

There's even an indigenous church whereby all the unmarried female members are made to undergo virginity testing on a yearly basis, even if you're not a member, but your family wants to know your virginity status, they can take you there to get tested... ... So how sure are you that you met your girl a virgin if you didn't ask your mother to confirm for you?😃😃😃

Here's one example of a story based on reality... Watch till the end...🤭🤭🤭

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M1LGzOr32l0?si=k9e5yrVIEmkhDs0C

We don't have such culture and practices here in Nigeria. I am a healthcare professional and I can assure I knew when I tore the hymen

Samantha125:
How certain are you that you met her a virgin? Did you ask your mother to conduct virginity testing on her to confirm that her daughter in-law to be is indeed a virgin?🤭🤭🤭

Lolzzz.... Samacious Sama! See queeeshion! I'll need extra answer sheets to answer all these queeeshions oo

mmsen:
The reason why you fail to understand the issue is because your brain is stuck in the 19th century.

Both parents are responsible for the upkeep of that household. The notion that only one parent carries the burden is nonsensical.

As usual, your ilks would rather resort to wokism in defence of simple stuffs that are parts and parcels of our everyday lives. In this same generation, we're still being taught about the roles of men and women in marriage and these roles have not changed from what it was in the 19th century!

Even the so called feminists still cling to the same idea that men are the providers in marriage and I'm very sure that many of them even on this forum will disagree with your submission. So, who's confusing who now?

mmsen:
That is what it usually entails, that's why the rest of the world spent much of the previous century trying to stamp out teenage pregnancy.

Teen/young mothers are too inexperienced and poorly resourced to be expected to raise stable children. Nigeria is proof of this.

Since when has it become the duty of the woman to provide for the needs of her offsprings in a marriage? Last I checked, it is the man that provides and that makes this your arguement invalid, unless you're talking about girls having children out of wedlock.

mmsen:
It is my headache because those same people will be bothering me to help pay school fees, to help to pay for medical bills for children they cannot take care of.

Eventually those children will resort to crime to poy for the basics of life. It will be they who break into your home to steal from you.

As it lurches from one disgraceful yet avoidable crisis to the next, northern Nigeria is the greatest advert for contraceptions and abortion in the history of mankind.

Having one's children early does not entail having more than one can cater for.

mmsen:
You say it like it's a bad thing. What is this talk of "without delays"? Whose timeline are you worried about? And for whose benefit?

What is happening in the north is pure foolishness. People who cannot manage their exisitng population will double their population in 15 years. Northern Nigeria is already a hotbed of insecurity and poverty, how much worse in the coming decades ?

When you have your own daughters, advise them to delay marriage. You can also advise your sisters to do the same. At least you'll be helping us control our population. However, if others choose to not to delay marriage but to marry and birth their offsprings on time, it should never be your headache!

mmsen:
What is "on time"? What good has marrying off these children done their society? Are they not the hotbed of Islamic insecurity, globally?

Women's fertility decline with age! What's happening down south, especially southeast, is that ladies delay marriage into their 30s and by the time they get married, fertility challenges set in.

I'm not advocating for marrying off children like you're trying to twist my words, but any girl who is up to legal age of sexual consent and who wants to have children without delays should try and marry early

The reason is not far fetched! Most of those northern states have their girls married off on time unlike the southern states.

spiceadole:
We no go wait tire.
There is no good woman in Nigeria.
And make sure you do DNA test .
You fit disvirgin her today, another man climb her tomorrow.
Women are evil .
The pregnancy doesn't belong to you.

Lol....in your wildest dreams!

Tenrack:
we many wey gather dey wait patiently.

Una go wait tire!

Fatneighbor20:
This will lead to late presentation at the hospital..
Leading to more deaths from complications.. cause pharmacists I know will never refer you to a specialist. Cause they don’t want to feel less..

I think this is a mistake by the federal government

How many Pharmacists do you know? You think pharmacists are like you medical doctors that claim monopoly of medical knowledge even with just your MBBS? Pharmacists know their scope and usually don't go beyond that. It is Nigerian medical doctors that are known for usurpation of professional responsibilities of others.